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venuslilgirl · 1 year ago
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Social life affirmations 🦋🪩
(part 1 : social butterfly)
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I have a bubbly, fun, outgoing extrovert personality.
I am the embodiment of a social butterfly.
Everyone admires my bubbly energy.
I am so talkative and I love talking.
I always let my personality shine.
I have such a good reputation.
I have great social skills and I can socialize with others easily.
I always have interesting things to say in any conversation.
I always have the right thing to say at the right time.
I'm a great listener.
I radiate positive energy everywhere I go.
People enjoy conversations with me.
I can keep any conversation going for hours.
All my conversations go fully smooth and fun.
I always have the best arguments ever.
Arguing is a child's play for me.
I effortlessly build fulfilling and harmonious friendships.
I always attract true, supportive and kind friends
I always have the time and the opportunity to go out with my friends frequently.
I always get invited to so many interesting social events.
I always go on cool adventures with my friends and create great memories.
Confidence is my middle name.
I am so confident in everything I do.
I am excellent at public speaking.
I have a beautiful clear voice and pronunciation.
People love to hear me speak.
I can be a magnet of fame whenever I desire.
It's so easy for me to become popular if i want to.
I have my desired number of followers on my desired social media account.
I am grateful
@venuslilgirl...🩷🌷
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iscariotapologist · 6 months ago
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today in church one of the priests referred to trans people as "those who are growing into the gender they were called to be" and i'm kind of enjoying the idea of like....divinely ordained top surgery
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shamelesslyimpurrfect · 2 months ago
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neoyorzapoteca · 10 days ago
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playlist or no playlist I am losing my fucking mind, by the time I get my shit together and start feeling a tiny bit alright the sun starts going down and I am plunged into despair (and this is despite living in MEXICO)
#flashbacks to the utter irrational despair of a providence winter#this is nothing in comparison but#at least I had my housemates and campus and an art building or a library to go to and work even in the snowy dead of night#now it is me just me in my apartment with my post-pandemic agoraphobia and ghost of a social life and heartache#vacillating over whether or not to get my ass out of the house and go to a café to sit alone and work as if this were an actual problem#the actual problem is that I have been on the verge of an anxiety attack at all times and that is still not an actual problem#but I am struggling to focus and struggling to get anything done at all and there are so goddamn many things to get done#and I spent yesterday reading a pop neuroscience self-help book and taking notes like a maniac instead of working & now the sunday scaries#absolute dysfunction#nightmares every time I go to sleep#I am back to meditating and exercising and doing fucking affirmations and going to therapy and it helps it does but it's not enough#all of this awful shit from the past 10 years just flooding my subconscious day and night#and even just getting back into this thesis means facing the reasons I put it on hold in the first place and those were fucking dark days#just want to have a properly good day#just want to get this thing done and be able to focus on getting more paid work and get myself out of this hole#just need to get my entire fucking life together it's no big deal#just having a minor meltdown in the tags it's fine#it's just since the breakup & since the girls visited & for two brief moments I didn't feel alone – everything is hitting me inside and out#and it feels like I have no right to be this much of a mess when things could be so much worse on so many levels#when it comes down to it even with everything that's happened I still know I'm lucky – I'm alive I'm here I'm technically okay#and nevertheless
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monamoeighth · 2 months ago
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A list of social/psychological "tricks" I have used to ease myself into new experiences and relationships
A short one!
Compliment people behind their back. It helps to avoid conflict and be well-liked.
Listen to people how they want you to listen. It strengthens the bond and eases people into honesty. If you feel that a person is more comfortable when you don't input advice or opinions into their venting, then simply do not do it unless you are prompted! If it's the complete opposite, then act accordingly! Everyone loves a good listener, and they will be more willing to listen to you too if you are one.
Shove yourself into the mood you want. It is not hard and quite obvious, but most overlook this skill because they forget they are in control of their own brain. We associate emotions and states of mind with what I call mood-prompts, such as certain objects, colors, musics, tastes, textures, etc. --- so simply look out for those mood-prompts! E.g., f you'd love to feel cozy the evening after a tiring and angering day, then walk yourself out of your exhaustion and anger by interacting with everything you associate with coziness: warm baths, cleaned hair, hot drinks, soft blankets... really, stop overlooking the connection between your feelings and your senses!
Compliment others for the traits you want from them and they will exhibit them more. Self-fulfilling prophecies are no joke! Be consistent with it throughout interactions, but never pushy, or the spell might break. And, if you were wondering, yes: this works when you do it on yourself too.
Know that you have an impact bias that leads you to self-handicap, and know how to act against it. You are prone to believe that the impact and duration of your future emotions will be greater than they will actually be, so you keep yourself in dire situations (isolation, procrastination, self-deprecation that leads to poor performances, etc.) that do not benefit your future self whatsoever. Additionally, you know you'll use those dire situations to justify your failure, and so the cycle continues. Just trust yourself, your learning skills, and your coping mechanisms!
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the-healing-mindset · 2 years ago
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Maybe doing this would help me out a bit with my social anxiety.
Source: Dr. Glenn Doyle
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raemimuse · 14 days ago
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Just an event in my life;
Yesterday was our school's annual sports day. And me and my friends were just kidding with a junior class girl.
And to my surprise, she knew me already! Me and my friend both were like, how do you know our names~
She told us that last year, during the annual sports meet we (me and my friend) scolded her for not doing correct March past (cuz we are seniors and this is our duty). I didn't felt bad abt it but...
Than she told how I made fun of her name... And that hit me like a train! Cuz, her eyes were all watery saying abt how she felt bad abt her name being criticised by us~
And then, I was really really sad cuz, she was so small little babyyy and I made fun of her name as a joke tha lasted 1 minute. (Then I don't even remember the joke) And the girl remembered it all for 1 year, and she will ALWAYS think of me as a Senior who made fun of her..
I was really hurt and sorry for her...
So, the lesson?
Treat strangers as if they are made of Glass. Potentially Fragile and could break at every moment. We don't know how sensitive someone is so, make sure to treat them with highest possible respect~
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dolljennie · 4 months ago
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bestie goals - healthy female friendships + social life
I am an incredibly beautiful person inside and out. My heart is full of love. I love myself so much. I respect myself so much. I deserve only the very best in life. My energy is magnetic. Everyone wants to be friends with me. I love my group of amazing, positive, beautiful inside and out girlfriends. I love my amazing, fun, positive social life. I love having an amazing group
of supportive girlfriends that enrich my life in a positive, fun way. I am a magnet for healthy. female friendships. I am an amazing loyal friend to others. I easily and effortlessly make great female friends that influence and enrich my life in a positive way. I respect myself and have clear boundaries with my friendships. I add an incredible amount of love and value to any friendship. My friends make me feel safe, loved and valued. I am a magnet for attracting positive, lasting friendships. Every day is a new opportunity for me to make new friends. I have what it takes to make long lasting, healthy female friendships. I am surrounded by amazing, supportive friends. My friends always uplift me and inspire me. My wonderful friendships enrich my life. My girlfriends warm my heart and soul. I am a great, supportive friend to others. My. friends respect my time and energy. I love having such wonderful, supportive friends. My friends are always there for me when I need them. I am a such great friend. I am so incredibly grateful for such an amazing social life with such amazing friends.
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polarcoconut · 1 year ago
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School Affirmations
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School comes naturally to me
School is my personal playground
School adds value to my life
School was made for me to succeed
I get along with my teachers
My teachers give me special treatment
Everyone at school respects me
I love doing schoolwork
I succeed on all my schoolwork
School is no pressure for me
I have a zest for school
I am grateful for school
School will lead me where I need to go in life
I see how school benefits me
I'm a natural learner
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inkats · 1 month ago
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having a crush is like poison status effect whenever u have to think.
#my ocs#hello yes see i draw#I hate this so much ???????#what the fuck ??????#do u know how much effort I have to put in to not think about it. Like. Should I just kill myself at this point tbh.#and there’s people around me who are purposely trying to get a crush for like. Fun. Why.#this is psychological warfare.#though I guess their goals w crush is have one and never speak to him huh 💭 they just want a guy to think about when bored.#This happened to me by accident 💭 and I am. speaking to him often. I didn’t today though. hashtag winning 💪 (?)#I will get over it. I will speak to no one over midterms week and I will get so over him.#and then I will be so normal platonic about it.#this was supposed to happen in highschool I think I was supposed to get comfortable w this way earlier in life.#I don’t know I don’t care I just need to survive this at this point Jesus Christ.#and hey guess what I was just about to start gushing in this tag it snuck up on me wtf.#I do not want him. (<- affirmations)#I can never let anyone have my Tumblr or my art socials ever god imagine. Anyone seeing this.#it would suck so bad. Guys. I would have to kms.#why did I meet the most attractive and nicest and coolest guy immediately. why is this my first friend in 5 years.#sorry that is gushing huh. god this sucks so bad. I hate. having emotions.#well it’s not gushing it’s like objective fact people will not stop saying he’s won the genetic lottery to his face.#And I get crazy 2nd hand embarrassment every time but also not wrong.#they’re not wrong. ugh. killing myself.#guys why does every tag ramble end this way. guys. why. why am I becoming a real boy I want to be a puppet again actually.#ok. normal time 4 minutes left in movie clean bathroom then sneepy time and I will do so good not thinking about him and will sleep immedia
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venuslilgirl · 1 year ago
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I always have interesting things to say in any conversation.
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woundjob · 7 months ago
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i will not start a fight with someone wrong on their own art post
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shamelesslyimpurrfect · 1 month ago
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nothing lasts forever :)
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writethestory365 · 2 months ago
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Forever mood ✨
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jenntastic10 · 1 year ago
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:|: Building Your Own "It Girl" Archetype :|:
Building your own "it girl" archetype is about creating an image of a trendy, influential, and admired woman.
Here are some steps to help you develop this archetype:

Define what being an "it girl" means to you: Start by understanding what being an "it girl" signifies in your own mind. It could be associated with being fashionable, influential, and having a charismatic presence. Clarify the specific characteristics and qualities you associate with this term.

Stay informed about the latest trends: Stay up-to-date with the latest fashion, beauty, and lifestyle trends. Follow fashion magazines, blogs, social media influencers, and celebrities known for their trendsetting style. This will help you understand what is currently popular and desirable.

Develop your own unique style: While it's important to stay informed about trends, it's equally crucial to develop your own unique style. Experiment with different fashion choices, accessories, and makeup looks to create a distinctive and personal aesthetic that reflects your personality and preferences.

Build a strong online presence: Establish a strong online presence through social media platforms, such as Instagram or TikTok. Curate your content to showcase your style, interests, and lifestyle. Engage with your followers and create a community around your personal brand.

Cultivate a charismatic presence: Work on developing a charismatic and magnetic presence. Enhance your communication skills, practice active listening, and learn how to engage people in conversations. Being approachable, friendly, and confident will help you stand out and attract attention.

Pursue your passions and interests: Explore and cultivate your passions and interests. Whether it's in fashion, art, music, or any other field, becoming knowledgeable and involved in your areas of interest will contribute to your "it girl" image. Attend events, collaborate with others, and share your experiences.

Network and collaborate with like-minded individuals: Surround yourself with other individuals who are also building their "it girl" image or are influential in their respective fields. Attend networking events, engage with professionals in your industry, and seek out collaboration opportunities. Building a strong network can help amplify your influence and reach.

Embrace self-expression and confidence: Embrace self-expression and showcase your authentic self. Be confident in your choices, opinions, and style. Emphasize your strengths and unique qualities to set yourself apart from others.

Stay grounded and humble: While it's important to cultivate an "it girl" image, it's equally crucial to stay grounded and humble. Treat others with respect, kindness, and empathy. Remember that true influence comes from making a positive impact on others and being a role model.

Remember, building an "it girl" archetype is a personal journey, and it's important to be true to yourself. Focus on personal growth, self-expression, and being a positive influence rather than solely seeking external validation or popularity.

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sholb · 1 year ago
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shout out to the people who DON'T struggle :)
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