#social life affirmations

[venuslilgirl]

Social life affirmations 🦋🪩

(part 1 : social butterfly)

I have a bubbly, fun, outgoing extrovert personality.

I am the embodiment of a social butterfly.

Everyone admires my bubbly energy.

I am so talkative and I love talking.

I always let my personality shine.

I have such a good reputation.

I have great social skills and I can socialize with others easily.

I always have interesting things to say in any conversation.

I always have the right thing to say at the right time.

I'm a great listener.

I radiate positive energy everywhere I go.

People enjoy conversations with me.

I can keep any conversation going for hours.

All my conversations go fully smooth and fun.

I always have the best arguments ever.

Arguing is a child's play for me.

I effortlessly build fulfilling and harmonious friendships.

I always attract true, supportive and kind friends

I always have the time and the opportunity to go out with my friends frequently.

I always get invited to so many interesting social events.

I always go on cool adventures with my friends and create great memories.

Confidence is my middle name.

I am so confident in everything I do.

I am excellent at public speaking.

I have a beautiful clear voice and pronunciation.

People love to hear me speak.

I can be a magnet of fame whenever I desire.

It's so easy for me to become popular if i want to.

I have my desired number of followers on my desired social media account.

I am grateful

@venuslilgirl...🩷🌷

[shamelesslyimpurrfect]

slow down :)

[monamoeighth]

A list of social/psychological "tricks" I have used to ease myself into new experiences and relationships

A short one!

Compliment people behind their back. It helps to avoid conflict and be well-liked.

Listen to people how they want you to listen. It strengthens the bond and eases people into honesty. If you feel that a person is more comfortable when you don't input advice or opinions into their venting, then simply do not do it unless you are prompted! If it's the complete opposite, then act accordingly! Everyone loves a good listener, and they will be more willing to listen to you too if you are one.

Shove yourself into the mood you want. It is not hard and quite obvious, but most overlook this skill because they forget they are in control of their own brain. We associate emotions and states of mind with what I call mood-prompts, such as certain objects, colors, musics, tastes, textures, etc. --- so simply look out for those mood-prompts! E.g., f you'd love to feel cozy the evening after a tiring and angering day, then walk yourself out of your exhaustion and anger by interacting with everything you associate with coziness: warm baths, cleaned hair, hot drinks, soft blankets... really, stop overlooking the connection between your feelings and your senses!

Compliment others for the traits you want from them and they will exhibit them more. Self-fulfilling prophecies are no joke! Be consistent with it throughout interactions, but never pushy, or the spell might break. And, if you were wondering, yes: this works when you do it on yourself too.

Know that you have an impact bias that leads you to self-handicap, and know how to act against it. You are prone to believe that the impact and duration of your future emotions will be greater than they will actually be, so you keep yourself in dire situations (isolation, procrastination, self-deprecation that leads to poor performances, etc.) that do not benefit your future self whatsoever. Additionally, you know you'll use those dire situations to justify your failure, and so the cycle continues. Just trust yourself, your learning skills, and your coping mechanisms!

[dolljennie]

bestie goals - healthy female friendships + social life

I am an incredibly beautiful person inside and out. My heart is full of love. I love myself so much. I respect myself so much. I deserve only the very best in life. My energy is magnetic. Everyone wants to be friends with me. I love my group of amazing, positive, beautiful inside and out girlfriends. I love my amazing, fun, positive social life. I love having an amazing group

of supportive girlfriends that enrich my life in a positive, fun way. I am a magnet for healthy. female friendships. I am an amazing loyal friend to others. I easily and effortlessly make great female friends that influence and enrich my life in a positive way. I respect myself and have clear boundaries with my friendships. I add an incredible amount of love and value to any friendship. My friends make me feel safe, loved and valued. I am a magnet for attracting positive, lasting friendships. Every day is a new opportunity for me to make new friends. I have what it takes to make long lasting, healthy female friendships. I am surrounded by amazing, supportive friends. My friends always uplift me and inspire me. My wonderful friendships enrich my life. My girlfriends warm my heart and soul. I am a great, supportive friend to others. My. friends respect my time and energy. I love having such wonderful, supportive friends. My friends are always there for me when I need them. I am a such great friend. I am so incredibly grateful for such an amazing social life with such amazing friends.

[raemimuse]

Just an event in my life;

Yesterday was our school's annual sports day. And me and my friends were just kidding with a junior class girl.

And to my surprise, she knew me already! Me and my friend both were like, how do you know our names~

She told us that last year, during the annual sports meet we (me and my friend) scolded her for not doing correct March past (cuz we are seniors and this is our duty). I didn't felt bad abt it but...

Than she told how I made fun of her name... And that hit me like a train! Cuz, her eyes were all watery saying abt how she felt bad abt her name being criticised by us~

And then, I was really really sad cuz, she was so small little babyyy and I made fun of her name as a joke tha lasted 1 minute. (Then I don't even remember the joke) And the girl remembered it all for 1 year, and she will ALWAYS think of me as a Senior who made fun of her..

I was really hurt and sorry for her...

So, the lesson?

Treat strangers as if they are made of Glass. Potentially Fragile and could break at every moment. We don't know how sensitive someone is so, make sure to treat them with highest possible respect~

[uranium]

this show is kind of making me have a bit of a gender crisis. if i may be real

[void-hugs]

Life is hard virtually all of the time. It's okay to struggle.

It's okay to be "behind" those around you. It's okay to wonder how others manage. It's okay to find difficulty where others find ease. It's okay to wish you had better experiences and opportunities.

It isn't always the nicest realisation, but you're doing your best. You're still here - doing the best you can - in an incredibly difficult world to live in. You really owe yourself some acknowledgement for that.

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[polarcoconut]

School Affirmations

School comes naturally to me

School is my personal playground

School adds value to my life

School was made for me to succeed

I get along with my teachers

My teachers give me special treatment

Everyone at school respects me

I love doing schoolwork

I succeed on all my schoolwork

School is no pressure for me

I have a zest for school

I am grateful for school

School will lead me where I need to go in life

I see how school benefits me

I'm a natural learner

[coaping]

(Re) connecting with yourself

Helloo! I realize this post is kind of different from my other ones. Anyway, For a very long time in my life I have felt as if I don’t know myself. I couldn’t tell who I really was. I guess you could say I had identity issues, and they’d often cause me to spiral. Today, I’m offering a guide to somewhat help/cope with this issue.

{Create a “Think about it” space}

this is basically a designated location and/or time for you to think about things. Life, creative concepts, TV shows, music, anything. Get to know yourself there. The only rule is: NO ELECTRONICS! You could put on some music, but that’s the only exception

{Hobbies, outdoors time, and friends}

These three things are very important for finding yourself. Reconnecting with nature, creating art(or other thing hobbies), and spending time with friends that you enjoy being around makes all the difference.

{Create affirmations}

I may create a different post just about this one, but an example of an affirmation might be, “I am capable of learning and growing from my mistakes.” Make them positive, but also realistic.

{Don’t let depressive episodes define who you are} Almost every depressive episode I’ve had was about not knowing who I am. I’d think that maybe that was just who I am. That’s not true! You are not your bad moments unless you let them be. Always remember that growth is possible and this episode will not last forever.

{Ditch the media.}

Gosh, how badly do I wish I could just delete Pinterest. It has ruined my personal sense of style. I believe it can be good, if used right. But not just Pinterest, TikTok, Instagram, Snapchat, I despise all of them!!! Ditch them ASAP!

[inkats]

having a crush is like poison status effect whenever u have to think.

[venuslilgirl]

I always have interesting things to say in any conversation.

[shamelesslyimpurrfect]

nothing lasts forever :)

[woundjob]

i will not start a fight with someone wrong on their own art post

[writethestory365]

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Forever mood ✨

[jenntastic10]

:|: Building Your Own "It Girl" Archetype :|:

Building your own "it girl" archetype is about creating an image of a trendy, influential, and admired woman.

Here are some steps to help you develop this archetype:


Define what being an "it girl" means to you: Start by understanding what being an "it girl" signifies in your own mind. It could be associated with being fashionable, influential, and having a charismatic presence. Clarify the specific characteristics and qualities you associate with this term.


Stay informed about the latest trends: Stay up-to-date with the latest fashion, beauty, and lifestyle trends. Follow fashion magazines, blogs, social media influencers, and celebrities known for their trendsetting style. This will help you understand what is currently popular and desirable.


Develop your own unique style: While it's important to stay informed about trends, it's equally crucial to develop your own unique style. Experiment with different fashion choices, accessories, and makeup looks to create a distinctive and personal aesthetic that reflects your personality and preferences.


Build a strong online presence: Establish a strong online presence through social media platforms, such as Instagram or TikTok. Curate your content to showcase your style, interests, and lifestyle. Engage with your followers and create a community around your personal brand.


Cultivate a charismatic presence: Work on developing a charismatic and magnetic presence. Enhance your communication skills, practice active listening, and learn how to engage people in conversations. Being approachable, friendly, and confident will help you stand out and attract attention.


Pursue your passions and interests: Explore and cultivate your passions and interests. Whether it's in fashion, art, music, or any other field, becoming knowledgeable and involved in your areas of interest will contribute to your "it girl" image. Attend events, collaborate with others, and share your experiences.


Network and collaborate with like-minded individuals: Surround yourself with other individuals who are also building their "it girl" image or are influential in their respective fields. Attend networking events, engage with professionals in your industry, and seek out collaboration opportunities. Building a strong network can help amplify your influence and reach.


Embrace self-expression and confidence: Embrace self-expression and showcase your authentic self. Be confident in your choices, opinions, and style. Emphasize your strengths and unique qualities to set yourself apart from others.


Stay grounded and humble: While it's important to cultivate an "it girl" image, it's equally crucial to stay grounded and humble. Treat others with respect, kindness, and empathy. Remember that true influence comes from making a positive impact on others and being a role model.


Remember, building an "it girl" archetype is a personal journey, and it's important to be true to yourself. Focus on personal growth, self-expression, and being a positive influence rather than solely seeking external validation or popularity.


[sholb]

shout out to the people who DON'T struggle :)