#sexuality development

[agentoffangirling]

Just appreciating the fact that the women in Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D. are written by women to be women and not some sexualized skintight super agent there only for eye candy

[sunnycitymac]

“gob is actually bi!” “mac is actually bi!”

🤏 shut

these are two characters that have been explicitly confirmed to be gay. It’s been confirmed by the creators of Arrested Development that Gob is gay. Mac has flat out said “I’m gay” meaning he came out explicitly as gay. “but they’ve shown attraction to women which means they’re-”

🤏 SHUT

Do you not know what compulsory heterosexuality is? Would you go up to a real life gay person who’s dated someone of the opposite gender and tell them they’re actually bi? No, right? Because that would be disrespectful. Hot take? But headcanon is over when that aspect of the character has been explicitly confirmed. ESPECIALLY if you’re going to negate it.

[wu-wakfu-undertale]

he'd have the strangest convos with the trans eliatropes guys (yes based off of that one mp100 post)

bonus of the eliatrope on the left, her name is amura! :]

[marshmellowtea]

honestly at this point i think we need to start calling out people who claim nonsexual kink doesn't exist or deride the idea of it for being acephobic because.......that's literally what they are lol. it's not hard to grasp the concept that people might enjoy the power dynamics or physical sensations associated with certain kinks without ever wanting the sexual component, and just because they don't want the sexual component doesn't mean that they believe their kinks are "sfw" or that they should think minors should be interacting with them in a kinky manner (in fact a lot of people who post nonsexual kink still have 18+ in their bio cuz they do in fact understand that nonsexual does not inherently mean safe for minors. crazy, i know).

[recent-rose]

'man why didn't yoshiki wish for the real hikaru to come back'

yeah so yoshiki is falling in love with 'hikaru'. that's what the whole manga is about fellas

[lobotomy-lady]

I do think being forced to be cognizant of & in many cases personally witness the constant humiliation of other women while growing up a girl permanently fucks up a lot of us in so many different ways . I don't think I'll ever not associate sex with degradation and humiliation which is why I will remain a volcel. I think there's a universe where things are different for me but I'm not living in it

[pre-raphaelite-s]

i very sincerely believe that listening to born this way by lady gaga even one (1) time would’ve fixed spock

[trembling-amber]

the Wistful Fabulist, during the time when they were still somewhat new to the Neath, when they were known as the Saccharine Balladeer, roughly 21 and with eyes like two ambers.

[divorceblogger]

the absolutely horrible thing about lestat asking marius this question is that everything he’s done and everything he’s going to do is always going to be dictated by marius’s lived experiences. the gothic doubling got him. fuck!

[chiropteracupola]

all my homies hate erik larson!!

[mossterunderthebed]

Jujutsu Kaisen Observations #- i lost count im sorry but this is ep. 24

okay two things:

One: I really love that Gege put in a system that made it so that there was a reason for people to stand around gabbing at each other and explaining their powers and having actual conversations in the middle of their beef, because it is just. such an annoyance for a lot of people, i think, (and a pet peeve of mine personally) and that's such a fascinating and neat way to actually incorporate it into a story, and make it not a weakness, but actually a strength for the characters, as well as the plot and story itself.

and Two: Kugisaki Nobara is a fucking badass.

[femmefatalevibe]

Hey love

What things I need to do to radiate sexual energy ?

Hi love! I would say the following attributes:

CONFIDENCE (comfortable in your own skin/body, how you hold yourself, interact with others)

Own your right to having sexual desires and feeling sexy (wearing lingerie and a sensual fragrance you love are helpful for this)

Maintain an air of mystery (listening more than you speak, avoiding oversharing, having a sense of restrained curiosity in your eyes)

Have a playful and witty conversational style/way of interacting with others

Display intelligence, an ability to laugh at yourself at times and with others, self-awareness, and a curiosity about others/to learn more about the world

Wear outfits that flatter your figure and allow your body to show off the clothes (not the other way around where there's little thought to the outfit aside from putting your body on display; Think a form-fitting square neck mini dress or a well-fitting pair of jeans and an undone silk blouse tucked in vs. a bralette and daisy dukes)

Embrace comfortability discussing sex, pleasure, & sexual preferences (this one is contextual, of course, but not shying away from having desires/accepting them as pleasurable and natural vs. shameful is key)

Relish in life's pleasures generally (great food, drinks, sunshine, beautiful art/music/literature/scenery)

Display healthy skin, hair, and generally top-tier hygiene

Smell good/wearing sensual perfumes (I love Tom Ford's Velvet Orchid for this)

Have the ability to let loose and have fun outside of professional/serious settings (dance, sing, laugh with others)

Enjoy flirting just for the fun of it as a way of interacting and getting to know others – whether it's a means to sexual gratification or just a friendly gesture (of course, be honest with the person, though, before your motive gets questionable)

Show genuine interest in others and the world. Displaying a balanced desire for savoir-faire and joie de vivre is incredibly sexy

Hope this helps xx

[girl4music]

Lao Ma.

Borias.

Possibly Akemi… although I hope not because she clearly was a teenager and that would be too much. But then again, she was the worst of the worst back then so it’s likely rape/sexual assault wasn’t off limits to her. I always say she’s a groomer but I never go that far.

[vroomvroomwee]

As an aroace I regularly question whether I'm truly romance/sex repulsed or if I'm just bitter and trying to distance myself from those things because society has taught us they're the only way someone could ever be happy and since I am incapable of feeling them it automatically means I will remain miserable forever and that truth is so much easier to battle if I pretend romance and sex disgust me on a visceral, uncontrolable level. And it's a constant struggle.