#rory gilmore mindset

[delubabydoll]

me every year ✧ ˚ ༘ ໒꒱

[partlysunny15]

rory’s downfall truly started before dropping out. you could see her mindset from way before. in the episode with the ballet review her article was rejected twice by doyle and she couldn’t stand the thought that her writing was less than perfect. then she bullied some girl and got it printed and was all happy because her editor said it was good. she lives for the validation. the irony is at friday dinner when she’s feeling guilty about it and richard tells her honesty like her article is important because now the ballerina knows she sucks and can pick a difference career. but when she gets criticized (and not even a fraction as harshly) she falls apart.

[suhries]

studying is key 💆‍♀️ (i don’t study)

[girlbossagenda]

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A girlblogger's guide to fall/autumn

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Ready to be the it girl this fall/autumn? Vanilla and pumpkin spice lattes, orange leaves and the cozy atmosphere at home, fall is one of the most loved seasons by many. You'll miss summer, that's for sure, but what's best than becoming Autumn it girl? Are you ready? Time for a makeover!

୨୧re arrange your room୨୧

Time to say goodbay to the bikini boxes and the summer decorations and to bring in your autumn decorations! such as pumpkings, leafes and fairy lights. your room must be practical for the new semester and yet cozy for wwhen you want to spend time doing your hobbies

୨୧go out with your friends୨୧

Perfect timing for groceries, decor and more shopping with your friends, Sephora and Douglas might look more yummy and that brandy shop more cozy, nothing beats looking at cute coats with your friends!

୨୧Use new fragrances୨୧

Time for a twist of smells, it's vanilla season, which means more warm and cozy smells till winter! Try pumpkin, cinnamon rolls or cookies, don’t be afraid to smell like a snack!

୨୧Update your tbr୨୧

Autumn is also the season of readers, so pick up that book you wanted to read or make a new tbr and add books related to fall, it enhanches the feels!

୨୧Walk୨୧

The perfect season to go to the woods! Plan a walk or a trip with your friends, camping can be another option, but watch out, it's also a rainy season!

୨୧bucket list୨୧

like for summer it's yime to make your autumn/fall bucket list! Don’t let school and other activities getting in between of your adventures!

Ciao bellissime! I’m back after my random mid hiatus, ready to walk on these streets again, it’s fall which means school! I’ve already seen your asks! They might finally get published next week! stay bellissime

xoxo

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[caught-in-the-filter]

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[laneblooms]

rory gilmore mindset

[universalitgirlsblog2]

💖💋🥂IT GIRL ERA 2024💖💋🥂

💋1) Start putting yourself first . Choose yourself Put your own needs and wants first. What do they advice in flight ? First put your oxygen mask and then try to put others oxygen masks. It is not about oxygen masks.

💖2) Get a social media detox. Social media can be very toxic. We often get into fights with strangers or see toxic people in the comment section or compare ourselves with others. Get off Tumblr , Instagram , Facebook etc. It will help you alot.

🥂3)Get rid of victim mentality. Victim mentality can make things worse for you. You aren't a victim of your reality , you are the creator of your reality. Start taking responsibility and control of your life .

💋4) Believe in yourself . Like Elle Woods said , " most importantly you must have faith in yourself." You must have unwavering faith in yourself . It doesn't matter if others perceive you as less , make sure you don't perceive yourself as less. Your opinion of yourself matters the most.

🥂5) Start taking care of yourself. Self care will save you . Always put your self care first. Go to gym or workout at home. Do skincare. Take care of your hair. Get a mini hair spa. Self care will increase your energy and lower your stress levels. It will boost your self-esteem too.

💖6) Create a vision board. You can make vision board on Pinterest or make one in real life. Just make sure it inspires you and reminds you of your goals. Vision boards are very powerful tool.

💋7) Stop focusing on others. Focus on you. Don't think good or bad about anyone . Be focused on how you can make yourself better. If you don't get time to think about others , good ! Focus on yourself. Except the ones who are close to you , you shouldn't think about others or compare yourself . Just focus on how you can get ahead and make yourself better. I hope this made sense.

🥂8) Love yourself. Self love will save you. Listen , write or speak affirmations. Adopt the IDAF mindset , stop caring about others opinions. Don't compare yourself with others. Let go of toxic cycles and people. Be kind to yourself.

💖9) Remember what Jang Wonyoung said ? I DON'T CARE. YOU ARE YOU , I AM ME . ADOPT THIS MENTALITY. Enter your wonyoungism era !! Wonyoung said that if it's something she didn't do , then she doesn't care. That's where her iconic statement " you are you I am me " came from . Start being okay with people misunderstanding you. Don't try to explain yourself and waste your energy.

💋10) Give importance to your education . Education is the most powerful weapon. Read books. Watch documentaries. Study to learn , not just for good grades.

🥂11) Value your time. Realize how important your present moment is. Don't waste time on unproductive things. Do things that your future self will thank you for . Don't do things that your future self will curse you for.

💖12) Have different role models for different things. Let's say for developing a strong mindset , you can look upto Song Jia , Wonyoung or The wizard liz and for academics , you can look upto Hermione Granger , Elle Woods or Rory Gilmore .

💋13) Stop fighting with stupid people. Even strangers online ! Honestly , strangers online can be very toxic , annoying and stupid. Don't waste your energy arguing with stupid people or people who aren't willing to understand or listen .

💖14) Stop looking yourself through the lens of your past self. It's okay if you made some mistakes . Mistakes are the proof that you are trying. Forgive yourself and learn from them. Stop putting yourself down and keep those mistakes as a lesson. Yes you made some mistakes but after those mistakes , you learnt and made yourself better.

🥂15) No more self- depreciating humor. Your mind doesn't know the difference between reality , fiction or a joke.

💖💋🥂This advice is very basic and simple. But this advice will help you alot. Don't just read this post , make sure you follow this. Happy new year !!! 💖💋🥂

[deepestdelulu]

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♡ Daily life:

Little things I love from daily life

What to do after a long week

30 things to make life unforgettable

Evening routine ideas

Summer movie watch list

Lonely girl boredom cures

Weekly self-care checklist

30 things to fill your life with

Girlhood things that I love

More girlhood things that I love

December and Christmas essentials

My Christmas movie watch list

A cosy guide to a cosy December

Autumn bucket list

Girly comfort movies

The perfect November sunday

Little things to look forward this winter

♡ Mindset:

Be the girl you dreamed of when you were young

Embrace your lonliness

Things to do before doing something stupid

How to brain dump like a pro

Energy givers Vs energy takers

Little things to be more charming

Little things to feel softer

Learning to love yourself

How to be more organised

10 tips for casual elegance

Thewizardliz sayings to remember and repeat

♡ Academics:

Start journaling with this simple questions

Romanticizing school

How to study like Rory Gilmore

How to study like Paris Geller

Essentials for a cosy study day

How to get out of a reading slump

5 classics for my girlies

dreamy quotes to live by

Becoming better student

♡ My girls:

How to compliment and be complimented

♡ Posting:

Girls I have to admit that I am not used to post this much, and I´m afraid of getting "bored" easily and start shitposting too much or stop posting. Sooo I decided I´m going to have a posting routine that I´m going to try to follow.

Monday-Friday: 3:00, 12:00, 21:00 (CET)

Saturday: Free

Sunday: 3:00, 10:00, 17:00, 24:00 (CET)

Love yaa

[manifestingdiana]

romanticizing school

✿ carry a book wherever you go and read when you have proxies or a free lecture

✿ wear clothes that motivate you and make you feel pretty; for schools that have uniforms, you can change ur hairstyle every now n then & wear cute socks <3

✿ make a music playlist that you listen to only when you do schoolwork

✿ attend school events — join clubs, go to games, be part of spirit week, go to dances

✿ explore ur school campus

✿ join or make a study group

✿ make a pinterest board of how u want ur year to go

✿ act as if ur rory gilmore/paris geller/blair waldorf/elle woods

✿ leave school with a positive mindset and remember IT IS A PRIVILEGE TO GO TO SCHOOL ‼️

[kamfor334]

have a role model.

One tip everyone should have, is to have a role model.

A role model is someone you look up to in a certain way for a specific reason, like for their hardworking mindset, grit or skill.

Having a role model is good for multiple reasons, it gives you someone to look up to and admire, which can inspire and motivate you. My role model is Wonyoung!

How do you find a role model?

firstly, find someone who inspires you, it should be someone you find from something your interested in! For me, I found Wonyoung because I liked kpop, and thought the internet movement Wonyoungism. Secondly, find why this person inspires you. For me, I look up to wonyoung because her beauty radiates, confident and elegant presence. Not only that, but she has a kind, hardworking, intelligent and extremely good mindset! Also known as the lucky Vicky mindset. This gave me an outline for who I wanted to be when improving myself!

and lastly, make a manifesto, or a vison board! Yours can b physically or digital. Personally, I used Pinterest, and I also plan on making a notion manifesto. This will motivate and inspire you when looking at it/reading it! Add pictures of your role model, quotes from them, and their aesthetic. “You are you, I am me.” - 🐰

and you don’t just have to have one role model, you can have multiple if you want! Your role model doesn’t have to be a real person either, they can be a fictional character as well.

Here are some ideas for a role model, real and fictional!

Regina George, ell woods, Rory Gilmore, jia song, marilyn monroe, Wonyoung, Maddy Perez or Alexa Demie.

Let me know about a role model you have in to comments!

[raeniskaies]

how to glow up this summer ♡

summer has arrived and school is out , which means you have 1 - 3 months worth of opportunities !! suprise your classmates , friends , families or even yourself as you glow up and enter the new school year absolutely changed !

our plan : :

001 , eat healthier

- try and enjoy the hot , summer day with some mangoes or watermelons as a snack ! make sure to drink lots of water + occasionally treat yourself with some fast food !

002 , stretch // workout

- as soon as you wake up to the beating sun , treat your body with some nice relaxing stretches and pilates ! try and find workout channels

e . g : : hinafit , shirlyn kim etc to change your body ! remember that workouts will be ineffective if you don't eat properly !!

003 , hygiene

- hygiene is a must as most of you will start to sweat due to the sun's heat. remember to apply deodorant & shower properly

004 , mindset // mental health

- you can only truly glow up if you change your mindset, don't pity yourself for your past mistakes and forgive yourself. don't have a victim mindset.

examples of channels to help with this are : :

♡ thewizardliz

♡ freezia

- don't let anything stop you from you being you. you are pretty , gorgeous & unstoppable !!

005 , self care

- try journaling , dancing in the sun , rewatching your favourite movies etc, take care of your body as it takes care of you and you will be amazed with the results !

006 , skincare

- taking care of your skin is an absolute must in this dry , hot weather. apply sunscreen everyday , find out your skin type & shop for whatever benefits your skin the most ! Don't just buy any that is popular on tiktok !!

007 , less screentime

- you can obviously use your phone throughout the day for necessary things but do not waste all of your time on it ! you only have one life ( depending on your belief ) and you can live it in two ways : :

♡ as the earner

or

♡ as the spender

the spender spends all of their time , their money on playing games or buying unnecessary objects etc that will hardly last them. All of this will benefit the earner who has dedicated their time , their money into education , necessary objects etc instead. So who do you want to be ? The earner or the spender ??

008 , study , study , study

- be like Rory Gilmore or Elle woods , someone who spends their time for education. They did not waste their life by doing so , the result of their sacrifice gave them a bright future ! Find out your studying method , find a quiet place , whatever you need to do , just study !!

thank you for reading !

need more tips ?? join my discord server ::

[pr3tty-gal]

🍂 Sk1nnY for fall 🍂

- To look cute, comfy and dainty in layered clothes, sweaters, baggy jeans and big cozy jumpers - and not looking like a marshmallow or like you want to hide yourself.

-¹ For guys to offer you their jackets/sweater's when you say you're cold. Sk1nnier = looking more delicate

-² For their jackets/sweaters to look baggy on you.

- To make your school uniform (if you have one) look cute.🍂

- Skinny jeans + boots combo.

- To being able to romanticize your fall and watch Gilmore girls looking and having the Rory mindset.

-¹ To reach your GW-UGW thanks to school.

-² Studying = distraction and commitment that won't allow you to eat + more credible excuses

[prettyviaa]

A list of things I'm getting when I get into the void state tonight pt.1:

Socials:

- Any account I have blows up immediately.

- people who follow my shifting account on tt, shifts on their next try.

- antis mind their own business/don't interact w/ me.

- my videos never flop (going through that rn and it's so embarrassing and for what?)

- whoever I follow, follows me back.

- all my moots are my friends.

- my vsp never cancels.

+ more!!

School:

- All my math summer work is done (I'm skipping a math year and I missed the deadline ☹️)

- rory gilmore mindset

- The people who I wanna be friends with talk to me and ask me to hangout on the first day back.

- english is my best subject (it originally is but essays keep beating my ass)

- high honors every quarter

- my school gives more opportunities than just one msubject (I hate science with a passion)

- I'm able to balance a social life and school with ease

- once it's college application time, any school I apply to accepts me.

- teachers love me and think I'm a model student

- I'm a "hallway crush"

fangirl:

- cds, records, lightsticks, and any other merch from my favorite artist are cheap in my state and easy to find

- concerts are held in my state and I always get tickets whenever (always front row)

- I've met Taylor Swift and some members of Twice (cuz why not?)

- I have tickets to see both Taylor and Twice later this year (the tours were extended)

[my desired appearance]

shifting/manifesting:

- getting into the void state is so easy for me.

- my results come immediately.

- any shifting method is works for me.

- I get motivation to shift easily.

- I can shift to my drs when and wherever I want to.

wardrobe:

- I have my desired closet.

- all my clothes fit me perfectly

- even when I don't know what to wear, my outfits alway coordinate

- I don't easily get tired of my clothes, but when I do, I can sell them/exchange them for good money.

- I always have money to buy whatever I need.

+ more!!

me after getting all my desires in one night:

[p0shprinc3ss]

All about me!ෆ

Hi! My name is aria I’m a mixed 14 year old teenage girl and I’m starting this blog to become the best version of myself and to help others become the best version of themselves aswell! 💋

My hobbies ෆ

My hobbies are reading,, self care, working out, doing my makeup, and of course shopping!ෆ

My interests ෆ

God,fashion,models,2000s,baking,self love, skincare, makeup, hair care,pink,and Sanrio, and overall just anything cute! My favorite Sanrio characters are hello kitty, mocha, my sweet piano,and my melody!🛍️

My jdols ෆ

are Paris Hilton, wonyoung,thewizardLiz, Elle woods, Regina George , Serena vanderWoodson, Rory Gilmore, Cher, Maddy Perez, Marissa cooper, Adrima Lima, Barbie, song jia, goo hara, miss tada, saweetie, Gabrielle Solis, alison dilaurentis, Barbie, Sabrina liliane, Kali ulics.🧸

About my blog ෆ

I want my blog to be about self love, self care, glowing up, tips on how to more be glamorous, how to be the best version of yourself, romanticizing life, dolly life style, journaling, affirmations, manifestation, cute things, goals, hygiene, baking, hyper feminine, fashion, pampering yourself, the princess treatment, creating a better mindset, being girly, makeup tips, study tips, school tips, digital dairy, beauty tips! 🎀💋

Things j don't support!

Racism, transphobia, homophobia, rudeness, cyberbullying, liars, girls not supporting girls, mean girls, slurs, threats, Abelists, sexism, not respecting other religions, fascism!

[stellaluna33]

How about that time when ASP bragged that Rory only had her first time when she was 19/20 or something, wasn’t it weird that she was so proud of that, especially when she “made” her have such a lousy first time, married man and all?

Why was Rory being a virgin until “late” that groundbreaking for ASP, I wonder?

If I’m not mistaken she was shading other teen shows that had their protagonists/leading ladies having their first times earlier, and idk once again it just looks like she digs shaming girls for having sex.

Personally, I used to love that Rory was still a virgin until college bc I could relate to her even more because of that, haha, I just got kinda disappointed that Amy seemed to see it as some sort of quality?

Sorry, English is not my first language so idk if I’m expressing myself very well, but yeah I’m curious to o know more opinions about this.

The way I understand it, Amy was under a lot of pressure from the network to make Rory "sexier." But why should a teenage girl character HAVE TO have sex to be a worthwhile or relatable character? She shouldn't! But that kind of mindset was what ASP was pushing back against, and maybe it's an unpopular opinion, but I actually really appreciated that. What you have to understand is that when I grew up watching teen media from the 80s and 90s (and going into the early 2000s), there was persistent messaging that still being a "virgin" by the time you graduated from highschool was kind of embarrassing. Losing your virginity was widely viewed as some sort of necessary "milestone" instead of a very personal and optional choice. (Especially for boys, but there was a lot of that for girls in TV and movies also) It wasn't until right around the turn of the millennium that I remember starting to see movies/shows that QUESTIONED that idea, that started asking well, WHY, though? When there started occasionally being characters who expressed that they shouldn't HAVE to have sex just to fit in. That it should be a PERSONAL choice. And like, I'm not a historical scholar- I haven't done a STUDY of whether this is accurate or not, but this is what it FELT LIKE to me as a teenager. And it FELT LIKE Rory was a really refreshing character for nerdy girls like me and my friends- that it was OKAY if you hadn't had sex yet. It was OKAY for a teenage girl to be focused more on academic or career aspirations rather than "losing her V-card," or that maybe she just doesn't feel ready yet, and it doesn't make her a "loser" or a "prude!" Like, that felt like SUCH a rare thing! ASP wanted to write a character like that, partly because it hadn't been done much, and she got a lot of pushback from the Network about it (which is kind of gross?). And I just... don't think that necessarily means that she was "slut shaming" anyone else.

I confess to being surprised when I started seeing people on here saying that Gilmore Girls had a "negative" view of sex. (This got long, sorry!)

Like, Lorelai has an active sex life with a variety of different partners over the course of the series, and that seems to be portrayed as normal and morally neutral. Sookie has an active and healthy sex life. When Rory is sleeping with Logan in college, the narrative seems to paint Richard and Emily (and the unfortunate Reverend they brought in) as ridiculous and controlling for objecting. Paris and Doyle have an active and enthusiastic sex life, and the narrative doesn't seem to judge them for it... I do admit that there does seem to be a pattern of unfortunate "first times" for the younger characters, but I wonder if that's more about Amy's addiction to "drama" than her views on sex. About Paris specifically, I always interpreted her paranoia about being "punished" for having sex as being commentary about how SOCIETY judges girls for having sex (because Reality for girls was a lot different from the pop culture fantasy norms). Gilmore Girls just wasn't interested in portraying some kind of "ideal world." They were just "putting these guys in Situations." And I mean... it's a show largely about generational trauma stemming from a teenage pregnancy! The characters are going to have some complicated and probably even unhealthy feelings about sex! And can I be honest for a minute? Much like attitudes towards our bodies, I'm honestly a proponent of what I'm going to call "sex neutrality." Because, yeah, sex is supposed to be fun and feel good and even be beautiful... And ideally it is! But sometimes it's not. Sometimes it's bad or painful or awkward or emotionally messy or damaging or degrading. Are we supposed to pretend that doesn't happen? Because it does. Are TV characters just not supposed to acknowledge that side of it? I don't know. I don't think Gilmore Girls is a perfect show. I don't agree with everything ASP thinks or everything the characters do. But I do think sometimes viewers want to see some kind of "message" where there just isn't one. Anyway, this is just my opinion, and I may be wrong about one or several things! 😆

[bunni4koo]

Rebrand

Good morning , I’m going talk about me reprogramming my mind. In another post I talked about listening to my sub playlist and getting on Reddit. When I had the best mindset, I watched Gilmore girls. Rory Gilmore is the best for motivation. She is what type of school girl I want to be. She’s productive, makes time to study, gets involved with school, etc. watching this show brings me closer to my desire self. I also started meditating again. I was in a terrible mental state and my advice to people who were like me — terrible self concept and desperate— you should try to find things that make you feel better.

The first, thing I did this morning instead of getting on TikTok like I typically do, I got on YouTube and watched a motivational video. I know not getting on your phone for the first 30 minutes when you wake up is better, but slow change is better than no change. As for today, I plan to listen to my subs, read at least a chapter of my book. Finish my work before I go to bed.