#roles: trauma holder

[headmate-ideas]

Hello!! :] could we please get a headmate that is an emo rabbit anthro with some roles related to music? When talking it’s pretty quiet and tends to mutter and mumble, but when they sing it suddenly is loud and confident! They like platform boots, ornate knives, and BJDs. 🌙☕️🎤📸⛓️‍💥❤️‍🩹🥀🐇 for the emojis!

🎤 HEADMATE TEMPLATE 🥀

✦ Name(s): Onyx, Chains, Wednesday ✦ Pronouns: they/them, it/its, x/xs/xself ✦ Species: anthro rabbit ✦ Age: 22 ✦ Role(s): performer, socializer, trauma holder, musicnaut ✦ Labels: aroace, gendervoid ✦ Xenos: death, roses, music ✦ Interests/likes: platform boots, ornate knives, BJDs ✦ Dislikes: when people assume they're closer to it than they actually are ✦ Music taste: pop punk, nu metal ✦ Aesthetic(s): emo, goth, lovecore ✦ Kins: roses, ghosts, dolls ✦ Emoji proxy: 🎤🥀 ✦ Details:

Onyx is an emo rabbit anthro with black fur and lots of piercings in its lop ears. They love music and singing, and while they are normally quiet and tend to mumble, their voice becomes much more confident when it sings. Emo is its favorite type of music, but it enjoys talking about any kind of music, going to live concerts, and organizing the system's playlists. Onyx holds trust issues as a result of the system's past trauma, and while they enjoy socializing with others, they are very hesitant to become close to them or trust them. This leads to a cooly distant exterior that a lot of people don't see past or even realize represents distance between Onyx's public persona and their more authentic feelings.

[These can be edited and changed as needed, and headmates will almost definitely not turn out EXACTLY as described.]

[mystery-aberration]

System roles do not have to be your entire identity. You do not have to conform to the stereotypes of them, and you do not have to hold your role alone or without help. You do not need to keep them forever, either. They may be what you were placed into the system to help with, and they may be something you are good at--but it does not have to be you forever.

I am a persecutor, and that does not mean I should be treated differently or harmed. Being a persecutor does not mean that everyone should be scared of you by default either.

Protectors should not be expected to be strong and emotionless walls to put in front of everything all the time. They do not need to be tools.

Comforters might need a break to unload their own stress and need comfort in turn. They do not need to give all of themselves to everyone else and never expect help back.

Littles may not be littles forever, and should not be devalued just because they are children. They are just as real and alive as any other system member and should be taken into account.

Trauma/memory holders might need help to cope with the things they hold, and sometimes when the time is right it means sharing that burden. Maybe there is no right time, but they deserve support whether they can share those memories or not.

Gatekeepers may need a break from controlling switches or access to front, and should be allowed one if needed. Gatekeeping can be a lot of work.

Hosts do not need to do everything for the body or system all the time. Sometimes, being the host of a system can be hard, and support and breaks are deserved.

Systems often put a lot of weight on roles, and it can impact the way that those who have them can feel about their role. It is okay to fit into your role, but it is also okay to not fit, or to end up not fitting your role over time. Some headmates can feel like a failure if they do not uphold their role, some can feel like they have no other choice even if they wanted to not perform it. But a role is a description, it is not an essence of who you are and will forever be. This may be non-traditional but we use roles exclusively as self descriptors so that we do not get wrapped up in what we "should be". If the label no longer fits, or if you need help more than you might have in the past, that is okay.

Be kind to yourselves, and be kind to your other headmates.

[boxesforsys]

This x holds relationship trauma userboxes! Click for quality

[coining-system-terms]

Affinitas Vulnustenent : a trauma holder for relationships of any nature (romantic, familial, platonic, sexual +)

Flag Meaning : The dusky rose represents the bad (but not traumatic) parts of the relationship, the sunset pink represents the good parts of the relationship. The periwinkle represents the pain the alter holds, the dull navy represents the trauma they also hold.

[headmate-ideas]

< Mod Venn > oooooh awesome, this one's great too! i love the idea that it still cares about its own system, because that detail seems quite likely for if a being like this split in our system! thanks!

Hello! Thank you for the last request you did for us! We would like to ask for another!

We would like to request a holder for our BPD symptoms, particularly a form of essentially permanent split we experience, where we generalize all of humanity as bad because of our experiences with them. So like a misanthropy/anger/trauma holder? More roles are welcome.

Non-human, please (ideally alien, demon, or void entity or this one). Also preferably a gay and/or aro person who is asexual and genderqueer. Maybe with some sort of goth or weirdcore themes too?

And some emojis if it helps: 🌀🪦🍬🪐🔪🌊🌃👁️

Thank you!

~ @headmate-ideas

Another stargazer! Requested by : headmate-ideas.

Notes : It's no problem, I am glad our work has helped you. I had a pretty clear idea for this pack, so I allowed myself to doodle a possible appearance for it. You're free to use the art as is or modify it to you liking.

⚠️ TRIGGER WARNING : Weirdcore aesthetic, eyes.

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Names : Messier, Absence, The Voidling, The Creature

Pronouns : It/Its, Void/Voids, Null/Nulls, Space/Spaces, 👁️/👁️s

Genders : Bigender (Agender, Genderqueer)

Attractions : Aroacespec gay

Identities : Non-human (Object head > black hole, reptillian > kobold)

Age : Ageless adult

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Likes and interests : Spying on others, self isolation, space, sci-fi media (especially if it involves aliens), strange music, dressing up (possibly likes having a lot of choice in all kinds of black clothing)

Dislikes : Human crowds, betrayal, being referred to as a human being

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System roles : Holder (BPD, anger, trauma), Avenger

Source (if relevant) : ∅

Connection to source (if relevant) : ∅

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Personality : This creature is not the easiest to make friends with. It dislikes having any traits relating to humanhood, instead dehumanising voidself to further detach from it. However, null cares for spaces' system deeply, and might take over in place of others to process issues from the outwerworld. 👁️ might be a rough creature to get along with, but it also is loyal to the very few people it trusts.

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Aesthetics : See moodboard below.

[pantheon-sys]

     Monachopsis  ∶  mon-uh-kop-sis

 The role name is a coined term from The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, a term created of two Ancient Greek words to describe a subtle but persistent feeling of being out of place.

  For us, this term was coined to be a form of holder role, could be an emotion holder, trauma holder, or a mix of both. The headmate embodies the feeling of insecurity and not fitting in, either helping "isolate" the emotion away from the fronters or, in time of anxiety/stress, might amplify it.

  Tag(s): @thenewmogaiarchive-plural , @system-term-archive , @pluralitywords , @plurchive , @radiomogai

         [pt / e2r under the cut]

[pt / e2r] System flag Basic flag Custom flag

Monachopsis [phonetic spelling]

The role flag name is a coined termed from The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows[link], a term created of two Ancient Greek words to describe a subtle but persistent feeling of being out of place.

  For us, this term was coined to be a form of holder role, could be an emotion holder, trauma holder, or a mix of both. The headmate embodies the feeling of insecurity and not fitting in, either helping "isolate" the emotion away from the fronters or, in time of anxiety/stress, might amplify it.

  Tag(s): @/thenewmogaiarchive-plural, @/system-term-archive, @/pluralitywords, @/plurchive, @/radiomogai

DNI [pro] endo, radqueer, transid, discourse. You can still use our terms / flags. [end pt]

[masquerade-flags]

Swankid, Bunnykid, and Doekid flags in the more traditional role flag format

There kind of pixelated because the original flags were quite small

Also made the swankid flags higher contrast than the original, just because low contrast is kind of hard on our eyes sometimes.

[abyss-boxes]

[TEXT ID 1: “This alter is a moodbooster”]

[TEXT ID 2: “This alter is a trauma holder”]

[TEXT ID 3: “This alter is a protector”]

Basic alter roles again :)

REBLOGS OVER LIKES

[headmate-ideas]

< Mod Vyvian > Fantastic, thank you! No wave was a great suggestion! We used to be very into that music and we should get back into it. Thanks for these packs, they helped on everything that wasn't coming naturally for us making private templates for Cumulus and Cirrus!

Waxing Crescent-Sized Pack, Inspired by Cirrus of Ghost BC

★ Genders: Transfemme Genderqueer, Genderfaun, Artemian, Devilgender, Demongender, Demonboything, Airelementic, Anacanic, Princenfernic, Holycarnic, Meatguy, Deathmasc, Demnoufix, Tradgothic, Moriamoric, Ghostbandic, Mascrific, Falseparadic, Liongender,

★ Sexualities: Homoromantic, Homoplatonic, Achillean, Vincian, Vinachillaromantic, Turian, Toric, Floric, Bambi Gay, Devilromantic

★ Aesthetics: Traditional Goth, Whimsigoth, Goth Punk, Gothabilly, Witch House, Strega, Vampire, No Wave, Death Rock, Glam Rock, Post Rock, Hair Metal, Visual Kei, Angura Kei, Cybergoth, Emo, Salvagepunk, Avant Apocalypse, VH1 Sepia Sky, Seiz Breur, Devilcore

★ Sign-Offs: 👁️🎞️, 🥃☁️, 📖💄, 🤍💥, 🍻📽️, 👁️‍🗨️🥃, 💄🎞️, 🤍👁️, 📽️💥, ☄️📖

★ Roles: Spiritualist, Caretaker, Protector, Aegir, Harboringer, Intimidator, Anger Holder, Avenger, Coltenoir, BPD Holder, Symptom Manager, Trauma Holder, Researcher, Archivist, Babysitter

★ Song Inspo:

Part two of two! Hoping this is everything you needed, thank you for the request, part one was also pretty fun to do -🦋🔮

[milo-by-the-fishtank]

Bisonkid

A little or a middle that holds trauma relating to being separated or disconnected from their indigenous culture(including religious or spiritual beliefs), community, or family. This is a sub-term This is exclusive to indigenous systems, transitioning race people DNI

The colors are supposed to represent a sunrise represent a new day, a new chance 

Made by a mixed(métis, Caddo, lowercase m) Creole 

[headmate-ideas]

we r an adult! a member based on the term "pellic", nonhuman (any species!), and is apart of a cluster who helps with the systems hypersexuality & general sexuality, the cluster worships a goddess of sex (who is also the leader of the cluster). tysm!

[Brought to you by: Mods Venn and Ash!]

🕯️ HEADMATE TEMPLATE ⛓️

✦ Name(s): Zokian, Mel, Oleander ✦ Pronouns: they/them, it/its, xe/xem/xyr/xyrs/xemself ✦ Species: succubus ✦ Age: ageless adult ✦ Role(s): symptom neutralizer, spiritual headmate, love holder (optional), trauma holder (optional), kink headmate ✦ Symptoms neutralized: hypersexuality ✦ Labels: pellic, omni, queerplatonic, oriented aroace, agender, xenogender ✦ Xenos: kink, candles, love ✦ Interests/likes: cuisine, video games, fantasy literature ✦ Dislikes: annoying sounds ✦ Music taste: darksynth, dream pop, industrial metal ✦ Aesthetic(s): devilcore, dreamcore, art deco ✦ Objectum attraction(s): buildings, figurines ✦ Kins: goats, dragons, roses ✦ Emoji proxy: 🕯️⛓️ ✦ Details:

Zokian is a pellic succubus who feeds off of non-sexual kink rather than sex (which are the types of acts that a person who identifies as "pellic" prefers over sex). It is part of a cluster in the system that help to manage hypersexuality. In Zokian's case, they do so by being asexual and thus not experiencing hypersexuality. However, it sees kink as holding the same role for it as sex has for most allosexuals, so it worships the sex goddess of the cluster but with kink instead of sex in its practices. In addition to worship, Zokian also likes doing protective rituals, love spells, and divination. If the system have any partners, Zokian is a holder for their love for them, although they experience that love queerplatonically. If the system have any trauma that affects their engagement with sex or kink, or with which they use kink to cope, Zokian holds that trauma and copes with it using non-sexual kink.

[These can be edited and changed as needed, and headmates will almost definitely not turn out EXACTLY as described.]

[MINORS: you are forbidden from reblogging or liking this post and discouraged from trying to introject this headmate. However, you may use elements from this template that do not relate to adult themes.]

[holder-culture-is]

Trauma Holder Flag!

Flag made by us, partially inspired by the traumagenic flag

ׂ╰┈➤ For alters that hold memories of/reactions to body’s trauma

Please reblog & credit if used !! :]

[ijustwannamakeemojis]

[ID: Nine small pixel hearts of system role flags, in order trauma holder, caretaker, gatekeeper, memory holder, dissociation holder, pseudonaut, symptom holder, architect, and communicator. End ID]

Tumblr makes them bigger than they actually are click to see correct size or check out the rentry in the pinned post

Creators/Flag creators

@xenic-nd (inactive) Trauma Holder, Caretaker, Memory Holder, Symptom Holder

@the-silent-fellowship Gatekeeper, Dissociation Holder

@m-grouped (Inactive) Architect

@polyextranth (Inactive) Communicator

??? Pseudonaut

[dwllie]

🩹 𓂃 TRAUMA HOLDER FLAG 〰️

— TRAUMA HOLDER FLAG : a flag for alters who are trauma holders

created by us ♡ requested by no one

tagging @pluralterms , @pluralitywords , and @discrophy

[PT: trauma holder flag~ trauma holder flag: a flag for alters who are trauma holders. created by us. requested by no one. tagging pluralterms, pluralitywords, and discrophy. /END PT]

[ix-c-999]

system role blinkies, part 2

bonus sentipet flag blinkie but with the word "syspet"

[this post has no DNI other than not to start discourse or mockery]

[blitz0hn0]

No bc t1 Mikoto song is Host Angst t2 is Protector Angst pretty much all we need in t3 is Trauma Holder Angst