#roles: holder

[headmate-ideas]

Hi! May we request a Syskid that's a sea bunny? Preferably one that likes being taken care of, and has a vibe of these emojis: 🌟🌊🔮💎🌌

They don't really like to talk, and only communicate through squeaks and other small noises of the likes! They enjoy playing with friends and love just listening!!

🌟 HEADMATE TEMPLATE 🌊

✦ Name(s): Mickey, Rosy, Squeak ✦ Pronouns: they/them, xe/xem/xyr/xyrs/xemself, ey/em/eir/eirs/emself, bun/buns/bunself ✦ Species: sea bunny anthro ✦ Age: 8 ✦ Role(s): syskid, love holder, paichmate, charge, interest holder ✦ Labels: unlabeled orientation, xenogender ✦ Xenos: magic, crystals, stars ✦ Interests/likes: the system's friends, soft things, invertebrates ✦ Dislikes: when they don't get something right immediately ✦ Music taste: vaporwave, classical music, bitpop ✦ Aesthetic(s): seapunk, kidcore, lovecore ✦ Kins: pillbugs, space, diamonds ✦ Emoji proxy: 🌟🌊 ✦ Details:

Mickey is an 8-year old anthropomorphic sea bunny. They are non-verbal, communicating in squeaks out loud and emojis through text. However, they love listening to other people talking, especially the system's friends. Mickey loves the system's friends and loves playing with them. Mickey enjoys being taken care of and is frequently seen in the company of the system's caretaker. Xe loves anything soft and makes nests out of blankets and plushes. Xe is fascinated by nudibranches and invertebrates in general and loves watching educational videos about them for kids.

[These can be edited and changed as needed, and headmates will almost definitely not turn out EXACTLY as described.]

[zoe-oneesama]

For the Kwamis you have figured out, what are their roles in the Angelic Layer au?

Plagg and Tikki - Game MC Nooroo and Duusu - Agreste Manor Butler and Maid Trixx - Rena Rouge fan Wayzz - Fu and Marianne's Son (in his 40s) Pollen - Head of Bourgeois Angelic Layer Maintenance Mullo - Piffle Princess Employee (all of them) Longg - Tsurugi "Chauffeur" (ie Bodyguard) Sass - Backstage Coordinator Kaalki - Layer Hot Girl Orikko - Layer Hot Boy Barkk - Receptionist at the Practice Arena Fluff - Cashier/Waitress at the Tournament Arena Cafeteria Daizzi - Hospital Nurse Roarr - Purple Tigress fan

[mystery-aberration]

System roles do not have to be your entire identity. You do not have to conform to the stereotypes of them, and you do not have to hold your role alone or without help. You do not need to keep them forever, either. They may be what you were placed into the system to help with, and they may be something you are good at--but it does not have to be you forever.

I am a persecutor, and that does not mean I should be treated differently or harmed. Being a persecutor does not mean that everyone should be scared of you by default either.

Protectors should not be expected to be strong and emotionless walls to put in front of everything all the time. They do not need to be tools.

Comforters might need a break to unload their own stress and need comfort in turn. They do not need to give all of themselves to everyone else and never expect help back.

Littles may not be littles forever, and should not be devalued just because they are children. They are just as real and alive as any other system member and should be taken into account.

Trauma/memory holders might need help to cope with the things they hold, and sometimes when the time is right it means sharing that burden. Maybe there is no right time, but they deserve support whether they can share those memories or not.

Gatekeepers may need a break from controlling switches or access to front, and should be allowed one if needed. Gatekeeping can be a lot of work.

Hosts do not need to do everything for the body or system all the time. Sometimes, being the host of a system can be hard, and support and breaks are deserved.

Systems often put a lot of weight on roles, and it can impact the way that those who have them can feel about their role. It is okay to fit into your role, but it is also okay to not fit, or to end up not fitting your role over time. Some headmates can feel like a failure if they do not uphold their role, some can feel like they have no other choice even if they wanted to not perform it. But a role is a description, it is not an essence of who you are and will forever be. This may be non-traditional but we use roles exclusively as self descriptors so that we do not get wrapped up in what we "should be". If the label no longer fits, or if you need help more than you might have in the past, that is okay.

Be kind to yourselves, and be kind to your other headmates.

[wardingshout]

Family for day 6 of SpeSilverWeek! Edition uuh found biological and crime I guess...

[boxesforsys]

This x holds relationship trauma userboxes! Click for quality

[the-silent-fellowship]

Symptom Holder Flags

[PT: Symptom Holder Flags]

Flags seen are: Paranoia Holder , Delusions Holder , and Hallucinations Holder

Flags and Symbols Used: Paranoia , Delusions , Hallucinations

[Paranoia ID: none yet]

[Delusion ID: none yet]

[Hallucinations ID: none yet]

[Tagging] @pluralterms , @system-term-archive , @pluralitywords , and @radiomogai

[elpisflags]

♟️ִ — black split holder ; a term for bpd holders that form to hold "black splits" or intense feelings of hatred/disdain for another person. this is heavily influenced by the systems bpd & they seem to have a harder time maintaining a consistent opinion of others/their fps/etc.

occasionally this will mean that the alter cannot handle or deal with anything regarding the person they're splitting on, or any positive mentions of them without getting upset/distressed.

[ pt; "black split holder" end pt ]

free to use by systems with bpd. made mostly to describe my own experiences w/ bpd & black/white splitting, since I made a "white splitting" one for my friend!

[ pt; "free to use by systems with bpd." end pt ]

[image id: a brown banner with text on the left stating "DNI: heavy into syscourse, radqueer/trans-id, proship, anti-good faith labels, zionist, pro/neu/comp-contact harmful paras... standard dni otherwise/see carrd." underneath that is darker brown text that says: "I cannot stop you from using my flags or terms but I WILL block for my own sake." end id]

[pocketramblr]

you know im thinking. im thinking maybe Yoichi wasn't even that into captain hero as an adult, but AfO kept bringing LITERALLY every conversation back to that because he decided to Be The Demon Lord and so Yoichi like, can't get an argument in unless he uses the same material so he's like 'oh my god i haven't even thought about that comic in ten years but even i know the bad guy didn't win. you should not be basing you whole identity, business model, and world destruction plan on your five-second impression of a comic book bad guy who didn't even win! also you shouldn't kill people!'

[holder-culture-is]

Depression Holder Flag!

Flag made by us

ׂ╰┈➤ For alters that hold symptoms of the body’s depression

Please reblog & credit if used !! :]

[system-role-flags]

🌈BPD Symptom Holder Flag🍭

Flag for alters who hold symptoms of BPD

**ENDOS DNI**

[headmate-ideas]

hello! could i please have an anger holder with the names indigo and alex who uses only he/him and is both fixated on guns and objectumly attracted to them? hes 18 years old, doesnt age, is bi (in denial) and is generally off-putting / self-centered. despite this, he makes an effort to listen to others and learn more about things he doesnt understand. thank you!

🔫 HEADMATE TEMPLATE 💥

✦ Name(s): Indigo, Alex, Wes ✦ Pronouns: he/him ✦ Species: human ✦ Age: 18, doesn't age ✦ Role(s): anger holder, interest holder ✦ Labels: bisexual, masculine, xenogender ✦ Xenos: guns, the color red, anger ✦ Interests/likes: skeletons, reptiles, shooting ranges ✦ Dislikes: criticism ✦ Music taste: punk rock, indie rock ✦ Aesthetic(s): voidcore, devilcore ✦ Objectum attraction(s): guns ✦ Kins: guns, panthers, demons ✦ Emoji proxy: 🔫💥 ✦ Details:

Indigo has anger problems that he does not always handle healthily. He is generally self-centered and off-putting, and he also has a tendency to push away people who are trying to help him. He strongly identifies with guns: he is attracted to them, he is kin with them, he has a particular interest in learning about their history and use, and he relates them to his system role as an anger holder. However, Indigo does try to understand things he doesn't understand and to listen to others, even if he's not the best at listening when it comes to criticism of himself. He is bisexual but in denial about it and holds the system's overall internalized queerphobia.

[These can be edited and changed as needed, and headmates will almost definitely not turn out EXACTLY as described.]

[miles-is-so-gay]

ADHD Holder Flags 🦋

hiiiiii i made an alt for the existing adhd holder flag (created by @plural-userboxes) with the regular adhd flag colors, and i also made flags for impulsive / hyperactive type, inattentive / distractible type, and two varients for combined type :DDD I made these for pluralpedia btw bc ive been on a kick of reading like every page on that wiki and making flags so XP

during the process of makin these i also made a psd template for system role flags which you can download from google drive :33

[mantra-repeated]

Grief holder flag

Pt: Grief holder flag :End pt

"A grief holder is a headmate who holds grief relating to death and loss. They can front to take grief from another member who has dissociated to the point of being unable to feel grief, or process it healthily. They may also come co-con with another member to allow them to grieve. This is considered a role." -Pluralpedia

Made this flag since the only other grief holder flags I could find were made by those that would prefer endos not to use their flags or terms. So I made this one for anyone to use.

Flag created for @acronym-chaos's event! Grief was chosen.

Mentions / Tags: @mad-pride, @radiomogai, @system-term-archive, @pluralitywords, @archive-of-woe

Banner transcript: This term was made by an Endogenic. Anyone can use it however (So don't repost or recoin) :End Transcript

[Main grief holder flag id: A flag has a square diamond in the center with thin horizontal stripes extending from the left and right corners to the edges of the flag. the left half and stripe are light grey and the right half and stripe are dark grey. The top left of the flag is desaturated purple and the bottom left of the flag is light brown; these sections extend in the same direction as the sides of the diamond, thus taking up more than half of the flag. the top right of the flag is desaturated tan and the bottom right is dark brown. In the center of the diamond is a headstone. :End Id]

[Plain grief holder flag id: A flag has a square diamond in the center with thin horizontal stripes extending from the left and right corners to the edges of the flag. the left half and stripe are light grey and the right half and stripe are dark grey. The top left of the flag is desaturated purple and the bottom left of the flag is light brown; these sections extend in the same direction as the sides of the diamond, thus taking up more than half of the flag. the top right of the flag is desaturated tan and the bottom right is dark brown. :End Id]

[Plain icon friendly grief holder flag: A flag that has 6 stripes, with the third and fourth being half as large as the rest. in order from top to bottom, the colors are desaturated purple, desaturated tan, light grey, dark grey, dark brown, and light brown. :end Id]

[Icon friendly grief holder flag: A flag that has 6 stripes, with the third and fourth being half as large as the rest. in order from top to bottom, the colors are desaturated purple, desaturated tan, light grey, dark grey, dark brown, and light brown. In the center of the flag is a headstone. :End id]

[masquerade-flags]

Trigger Holder, Trigger Neutralizer, and Trigger Manager flags

Trigger Holder - An alter that holds a specific trigger or a response to a trigger(s). Most other alters in the system are still affected by it, though less so than the trigger holder(s).

Trigger Neutralizer - An alter that is unaffected by a specific trigger or a response to a trigger(s) that affect all/most alters in the system, or the frequent fronters.

Trigger Manager - An alter that manages triggers in some way. This may be keeping track of triggers, figuring out how to avoid triggers, managing memories related to triggers, or similar.

In the context of these roles 'trigger' usually refers to trauma triggers, however it can as refer to symptom and memory triggers.

Simplified

In term of designs, the trigger holder flag is based on the colors of the trauma and symptom holder flags. The trigger neutralizer is just slightly adjust reversed colors of the trigger holder flag. Trigger manager flag is a combination of the two.

[dwllie]

🌧️ 𓂃 DEPRESSiON HOLDER FLAG 〰️

— DEPRESSiON HOLDER FLAG : a flag for alters who are depression holders

created by us ♡ requested by no one

tagging @pluralterms , @pluralitywords , and @discrophy

[depression holder flag~ depression holder flag: a flag for alters who are depression holders. created by us. requested by no one. tagging pluralterms, pluralitywords, and discrophy. /END PT]

[editcollective]

Shielding Gatekeeper

A shielding gatekeeper is a gatekeeper that shields either hosts or other alters from bad memories (either by passing those memories to memory holders or blocking them off entirely).

Please credit if using | Don't reupload to wikis without permission | Endos don't use