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I want to redo our about page that mentions, among other things, our website, the fact that not all alters necessarily share the same viewpoints on things (so if someone reblogs something, we probably overall mostly agree with it, but if they add commentary, it can't be assumed that all headmates agree with it), and the fact that we have a mutuals server.

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Hi! So I recently got diagnosed with DPD and I was wondering if there's like. Any resources anyone can point me to where it comes to coping with the symptoms. Ideally something free on the internet (i.e. not a book I have to buy).

I especially struggle with separation anxiety, a lack of life direction (made worse by being disabled), and difficulty initiating tasks because I don't think I'll be good at them (but less things like everyday chores and more things that are more complex like doing research or my projects), so if anyone knows how to cope with those, I would appreciate that.

I'm also wondering if there's any community terminology I should know that would make it easier to understand my experience. I know of the term "depended person" to refer to the person you're dependent on, and I've seen the term "depend comfort" to be the DPD equivalent of "narc fuel" as used by people with NPD but not much elaboration so I'm wondering what that is, if it's something I can use to cope.

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fellas is it trauma invalidating to say that the pandemic was extra traumatic for you because you were homeless during it. my mom thinks it's trauma invalidating if i ever bring that up because it's like i'm saying the pandemic wasn't traumatic for everyone else.

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grits my teeth. they dont have to be parent and child they can literally just be friends..... they're literally both full adults. they can literally be friends. please. please stop nuclear family beaming them plea

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Not sure if anyone who needs to hear this will see this but

You are not some kind of hero to disabled people for “weeding out fakers” (fakeclaiming)

You cannot tell someone is faking from their post all you are doing is spreading false information and probably harassing actually disabled people because again you cannot tell

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Hi! Would you mind doing a set thats mint themed? (specifically the color, but also the flavor) c:

Thank you!

Mint is an underrated scent and color🤤

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more people need to give themselves permission to write and draw pornography

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this is about my personal experience in leaving the Mormon church and trying to share my pain with people close to me but realizing they will never be able to understand me the way I need them to

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Are you real?

Real enough?

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Yo moma so stupid she DRACULA'S AMULET ATTACK 🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛📿📿🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛📿📿🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛📿📿📿🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛📿📿📿🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛📿🇧🇷🇧🇷🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛🧛

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My dear friends 🇵🇸

Here we are approaching the start of the ceasefire🚨🇵🇸

and returning to our destroyed homes😭🔥

we need to rebuild them🫶

and my children need intensive education to compensate for what they lost during this war‼️💔🇵🇸

And all of this requires very high expenses🇵🇸💔

Indeed, We need you today more than ever 🇵🇸

I hope you help us and our voice reaches the largest possible number 🙏🇵🇸

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I should also make some genders/terms that have to do with when your experience with Dominance/submission/kink is tied to neurodivergence.

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submissimasculine

A kinkgender that has to do with submission and masculinity. This could include: -expressing submission in a masculine way -experiencing submission as masculine -including other things you find masculine with how you perform submission -having masculine (xeno)genders associated with the subjects of the kinks in which you are submissive However, it can involve anything.

[Please do not use or interact if you are a minor. Otherwise, this post has no DNI, just be civil.]

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submissifeminine

A kinkgender that has to do with submission and femininity. This could include: -expressing submission in a feminine way -experiencing submission as feminine -including other things you find feminine with how you perform submission -having feminine (xeno)genders associated with the subjects of the kinks in which you are submissive However, it can involve anything.

[Please do not use or interact if you are a minor. Otherwise, this post has no DNI, just be civil.]

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dominafeminine

A kinkgender that has to do with Dominance and femininity. This could include: -expressing Dominance in a femininity way -experiencing Dominance as feminine -including other things you find feminine with how you perform Dominance -having feminine (xeno)genders associated with the subjects of the kinks in which you are Dominant However, it can involve anything.

[Please do not use or interact if you are a minor. Otherwise, this post has no DNI, just be civil.]