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Okay I'm going to coin a new role soon with a name like "event planner" which is someone who plans for stuff for the system to do, especially but not exclusively fun things outside the house

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Coming up with the most self-indulgent H2G2 AU I have ever come up with. I'm not even going to say the premise on here but it exists in direct response to my recent life change

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i have been kinshifting/pet regressing out of stress lately but it's actually been really nice because i've been being a little rat and whenever i'm stressed i can just go rat mode and hang out in the hammocks in our headspace :)

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Due to personal reasons I will be running away to a small town in the Pacific Northwest with my fictional husband. I know I've made this post already but it's happening tomorrow which is why I'm making it again.

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"Harold, it's Horseman. Patrick Horseman. You're my lawyer so I think you should know- I've killed a lot of people."

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Have some goffs 🦇🦇

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Nobody is going to like me after I move because the things that make me cool where I live now aren't going to make me cool in the place I'm moving to, but it's okay because I'll still have more stuff I can do, and I might be able to go back to college where people MIGHT actually think I'm cool after all

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Either they're going to talk about asexuality and I'm not going to have anything to contribute, or they're going to talk about general topics and I'm not going to have anything to contribute OTHER than "I'm new in town and that's a whole thing"

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I really hope I can find something to say about asexuality that doesn't involve rape and abuse by the time I'm going to the asexual meetups in the town I'm moving to. I joined an asexual server last year and I've barely talked and when I have pretty much all I've talked about is abuse in a super heavy vent channel that I didn't want access to but was told to use when I asked if it was okay to talk about my experiences. And something tells me that the in-person meetup will not be set up in a way where there is an equivalent of a super heavy vent channel.

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I also really hate how people think that sex and rape are completely different things that have no overlap and are never the same thing and that "nonconsensual sex" is always describable as rape. If you think that, then there are certain situations you've never been in and neither has anyone who trusts you enough to talk about serious things, and I do not trust you to believe me that my abuse happened the way I know it did.

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I wonder why "some asexuals have sex" became such a popular thing to repeat but "some trans men use she/her" hasn't, even though both statements are true but both of those are things that those demographics don't normally do and that, unless you know that individual to do those things, an individual in those demographics should be kept away from them because it literally hurts them.

Like imagine if, when I was trying to correct someone who was misgendering me, they said "Well, some trans men use she/her so I had no way of knowing that wasn't okay to call you". That's literally how my rapist talked but with "some asexuals have sex", knowing full well I identified as sex-repulsed.

I think the right thing to do is raise awareness for graysexuality, cupiosexuality, and other forms of ace-spec identity that involve wanting to have sex, and to stop emphasizing that fully asexual people can hypothetically engage in sex (as most of the time fully asexual people are involved in sex, it isn't consensual, just like how most of the time trans men are called "she", it's not correctly gendering).

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anya eats many a burger and everything is ok + anya eats her hair and nothing is ok

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did you know that every time you try to scold a sex-repulsed or sex-averse ace for existing with "aspec people can like sex!" your lifespan shortens by 5 whole months and your demise gets even more fire involved

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fruit trash icons by Mayosoft (2004)

(all transparent pngs)

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Don’t forget to drink water! :]

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i feel like we don't appreciate these days how much the twin towers sucked, like, design-wise

they were contemporarily hated for just being these giant grey monoliths

like there probably could've been an easier way to get rid of them, but they probably needed to go either way

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STIM - eggliencreations

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