#pro para anti contact

[shrimpmandan]

On a more positive note, I'd like to just say that all of the paraphiles I know in my personal life-- whether this be the 'big 3' or more generally accepted fetishes-- have been the sweetest people I know. We get characterized by the media as freaks and monsters and ticking time bombs, or simply as having "bad person disorder", but we are people. Living, breathing, functioning people who can laugh, bring joy, and love just as anyone else can.

Whether you're in recovery, coping through fiction, or just don't express it: if you're an anti-contact paraphile, I love you. You're strong as fuck for dealing with all the stigmatization and demonization we have to endure on a regular basis.

[until-my-teeth-fell-out]

Placeholder Intro.

Hi I'm Níkos I'm an adult my pronouns are he/him and I support Palestine. I also support endogenic plurality, use of transandophobia as a label and I'm proship/profic.

If that's oddly specific, that's because I tend to follow or block people depending on this, so it's better you know those about me before starting arguments with me or following me. I also support other causes... my life doesn't revolve around these topics, but things get heated up about them the most.

-> Help Etaf

-> Clicks for Palestine

-> Tags to filter (WIP)

I also block R Q C, T C C, S H blr and E D blr.

Edit: I'm also pro-para but anti-contact strictly for all harmful paraphilias. I'm still not all-knowledgeable on paraphilias but I'm knowledgeable enough to block and flag you if you call it (: whether or not harmful paraphilias should be acted upon) "contact discourse". I support recovery but I'm cautious and won't accept private messages if you're a pedophile or zoophile for my own comfort.

Edit 2: I'm pretty much turning this into a shtick but I block radfems and the anti-kink bunch as well, I thought it was obvious that the Queer Freak Guy would be pro-kink and radinclus out of all things too but either that needs to be said or you need to actually look at people's blogs before following them.

[henryisabigfatbitch]

⚠️IF YOU'RE HERE TO BULLY ME JUST LEAVE I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS, AND SHOO GOFUNDME SCAMMERS⚠️

Hello, you can call me Asher, Moonsy, or Sonar

My lovely partner is @dawntheskywing

My system blog is

@moonsydracoryf

Sea Monsterblogging blog is @the-abyss-star3s-back

Pet regression blog is (sorry sillies, I have to like and follow from here qwq)

@daydreaming-tarantula

I am a physical nonhuman due to delusions

(get prepared for many kintypes, I'm a polymorph)

I am a werewolf, aquatic-kin(koi, Chinook Salmon, Leviathan), werebat, build-a-bear werewolf plush, angelkin, demonkin, fallen angelkin, dragon, Tornado/hurricane, ecosystem, and a Cuban crocodile-esque creature (bigger and longer)

I am a Holothere (werewolf, shapeshifter, vampire)

I am a samgladiator YHS fictionkin

I love GHOST

I am trans masc (typically masc presenting, I'm genderfluid) and homoromantic(?), omnisexual

Sometimes we use We/Us pronouns, this is sometimes an indication that we're stressed out or in a delusion but sometimes it just feels right.

Self diagnosed Autistic (very heavily researched)

My diagnosis':

Schizoaffective Bipolar type (schizophrenia+Bipolar)

Bulimia Nervosa non purging type (Eating disorder)

OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)

SAD (Social Anxiety Disorder)

System blog is @moonsydracoryf

I am an extreme maladaptive daydreamer and sometimes forget that I'm not that paraself, my paraselves include OCs such as Chip Zerthagil, Ruskchre Hirouriski, Kelpoltyosha, Fowl Krasikthia, all bogian species. Non OCs include, Alastor (Hazbin), Severus Snape (HP, I don't support JKR), Wednesday Addams (Wednesday Netflix), normal animals, Tigerstar (WC), Aizawa (BNHA), Izuku Midoriya (BNHA), Shirou Ogami (BNA), and one I will not mention because it is someone I idolize's OC and I don't wish to make them uncomfortable.

A lot of my "OCs" happen to be paraselves so please be polite when talking about them

NOTE: Speculation, but I believe some of my paraselves turn into something similar to an alter when I'm under pressure or extremely stressed, they talk to me and comfort me

Post my shit to r/systemscringe and I will fucking obliterate you, fuck off.

DNI:

Radqueer (I might tolerate you if you don't identify with the transdisabled (includes mental disorders, and I certainly won't tolerate transCZ or transClinicalZoanthrope, you don't want this seriously), and transrace.)

Anti (INFORMED) self diagnosis

Public proshippers (proshipping publicly for non coping reasons or for reasons such as it providing a safe outlet if you have a para)

⬆️Honestly idc anymore about proshippers, just don't groom or harass people and I'm fine with you... I'm also one of you maybe??? I don't really ship that many problematic ships other than yandere ships mainly, but I agree that you aren't really hurting anybody, so be weird be free

Terfs (GTFO IM NOT FUCKING PLAYING)

Anti kink, y'all kinda piss me off, don't want you here.

Anti Reality shifting, I'm not talking about people who don't believe in it, I'm talking about people who go out of their way to harass shifters

Anti-therian

Extreme anti endo (I MIGHT tolerate you ONLY if I really like you and you're a good person in general)

Anti alterhuman

Homophobes

Any people with HARMFUL PARAPHILIAS who think PRO CONTACT is okay, I'm not getting groomed and molested again, fuck off

Anti-furry

Anti-cringe (I AM CRINGE BUT I AM FREE, FUCK OFF HATERS)

Schizoposters (non-schizophrenic people posting things to trigger paranoia and delusions)

Anti-Holothere

Elon musk supporters (he's a dickbag)

Right wingers

Ai bros (not much else to say)

Anti para

Sorry if I offended you but I have a no-hate policy here

Other than that I'm a friendly person who likes making friends (I do have pretty bad anxiety though so it may take a while) :3

If you have any questions, send an ask

Me (might update sometimes)-

[until-my-teeth-fell-out]

My ask!

That anon might be right, maybe we need more positivity in the community. So here is some proshipper positivity and validation because I'm wearing yellow today!~

Minor proshippers are valid! The safety rules of the internet still matter but you're not being "brainwashed" for it.

Adult proshippers are valid! You're not a creep for being so.

Proshippers who have been here since the beginning of fandom are valid! Thank you for your service.

Proshippers who realized just yesterday are valid! Welcome to the community.

Proshippers who are ex antis, whether they used to harass or never harassed in the first place, are valid! Your actions in the past don't have to define who you are now.

Proshippers who are loud and vocal about it and posting about it are valid! Thank you for helping build community, be careful out there.

Proshippers who remain quiet and don't get into fandom drama are valid! Sometimes you just want the peace and quiet.

Proshippers who feel like they can't be themselves in certain spaces are valid! I'm sorry for your circumstances, hoping you'll find more acceptance soon.

Proshippers who are also com/ darkshippers are valid! Keep consuming your "problematic content".

Proshippers who only like peaceful themes in fiction are valid! You're not a "fake proshipper" because of that.

Proshippers who are picky with their "problematic" or non-problematic content and ships are valid! You still have your place here.

Proshippers who are paraphiles are valid! Your existence is not a threat, and you deserve support and outlets for yourself.

Proshippers who are/ were traumatized or mentally ill, whether that affects their stance or not, are valid! You deserve all the support you can get, not to mention com/darkship content *is* a healthy coping mechanism.

Proshippers who are not traumatized, or don't have trauma relating to the specific content they like, are valid! You don't need to be any certain way to be a proshipper.

And many more.

And thank you admin for running the blog, always remember to take care of yourself if it gets too stressful.

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[softiestuffie]

Adoptive siblings in fiction fucking is a special kind of nice to me because you have half the fans arguing that "adoptive siblings are siblings! you shouldn't ship them!" and the other half saying "technically they aren't blood related so it's okay for them to do it" and im over here like "they want to fuck nasty BECAUSE they're siblings <3"

[attack1ngvertic4l]

hi! i am a paraphile. we need to talk about paraphilias.

the big three are the ones most people know. aka, pedophilia, zoophilia, and necrophilia.

some people (if not most) do not want to be attracted to this. it is a result of trauma and a survival mechanism made up by the human mind.

not every paraphile wants to act on their impulses. most dont. but because these disorders are so stigmatized, they often cannot get the help they need or want to get better at managing it.

i do not believe animals, children, or anything dead can consent. this is upheld by the law and the moral code of human nature-- protect kids and animals, respect the dead, dont harm them.

some people act these out via kink. which is okay as long as it is done safely and consentually.

there are certain paraphilias that are completely harmless. some people are attracted to rain, some are attracted to plushies.

i myself am an autoassasinophile. i find being close to death or injured very very attractive. i deal with this via my partners. they both help me out, with consent and safety measures in place. i am allowed to stop anytime i want, and so are they.

paraphiles arent evil. they are people too, and deserve to be treated as such. the more we encourage the destigmatization, the more people can get help and manage these impulses better. its not normal for these thoughts to be ocurring, but they can be managed.

be nice. you dont know what happened or what is happening to someone.

[this post is okay to reblog. thank you ^^]

[rq2bdamned]

Got hate in my askbox so instead of sharing it I'll post some positivity !

I luv you 🗺️s

I luv you 🐾s

I luv any n all paraphiles !!!

I can't remember all of the emojis but I luv every para out there <3 , you deserve to be proud of who you are !

[suresuresureaursure]

New ship Just dropped (transspecies x zoophile ball)

[dstrider-3]

antis acting like youre going to die or youre a terrible person for things you consume fictionally or thoughts you have remind me of terrible christians/catholics who say youll die and go to hell for xyz

[mynameisuranus]

CONTACT STANCEBALL

Pro-Contactball, Anti-Contantball, Nuetral-contactball,Pro-consentball, Complex Contactball, Recipro Contactball, and mirror contactball

( I'm fluid between being Completly anti-contact, Nuetral contact(anti leaning), and mirror contact. i did this for fun)

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[darlingmirabeau]

Reminder that there is no such thing as a "harmful paraphilia". There is only harmful, or non-consensual, contact. Paraphilias are patterns of attraction. Attraction is not action.

[sadicubus]

Why should you support, or at least respect, paraphiles?

Stupid little [informational] rant on why there's nothing wrong with paraphilias and paraphilic disorders, yes that includes the bad ones, and why anti-paraphilia is technically ableist. "S-so i'm ableist for not liking pedophilia?!" shut up and listen.

Before I go all out here's some terms you should know ;

anti-contact : someone who doesn't support *practicing paraphilias, more specifically ones that cannot be consented to.

pro-contact : someone who supports *practicing paraphilias

there's also neu-contact, complex-contact, blah blah

*practicing : a paraphile who practices (acts on) their paraphilia

non-practicing : a paraphile who doesn't practice (act on) their paraphilia

okay keep reading for the actual reasons, please repost to spread awareness /nf.

To start, paraphilias are completely uncontrollable just like any other fetish or even mental condition. Their causes are mostly trauma, internet exposure at a young age, and sometimes can be passed down through genetics. Again, they cannot control any of those, so why judge them for it?

Because of the way paraphilias are looked down on, it makes it difficult for them to seek treatment or even supportive communities. Especially younger paraphiles who may not be in a good environment or feel too ashamed to tell anyone about it. Not being able to get help can lead paraphiles to harm others or themselves.

Paraphiles do not choose to be paraphiles, they do choose however, whether they act on their paraphilia or not. If you still don't understand, let me explain it in a different light. Take NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) for example, people view those with that disorder as horrible and abusive (which isn't true mind you.) NPD is also caused by trauma or genetics, and narcissists have the choice of being abusive or not, just like any other person.

So what makes it so different from other mental conditions, especially since paraphilic disorders are also a thing? They're only viewed horribly because of the stereotypes, just like almost every mental condition. Does that make them deserving of being discriminated against, for something they have no control over?

Now take anti-para and replace it with something else, like anti-PTSD or anti-hypersexual, now that doesn't sound like something you'd want to be, does it? Be support of all neurodivergent / mentally disabled people, not just some.

[simplyexistingifear]

Making custom project sekai stickers is quite enjoyable! I made some for myself and others to use (I'll reblog with more)

[foxylalonde]

I luv u minor paras, u have a place in this community and u will never be alone as long as you're here <3 stay safe and stay yourself!!!

[rq2bdamned]

Yes, I think recovering sex offenders / abusers should be able to heal and become better people.

Completely fine if you don't want them around you , but I do think if they're truly willing to put in the effort to get better they should be given that chance.