#pro para anti contact

[shrimpmandan]

On a more positive note, I'd like to just say that all of the paraphiles I know in my personal life-- whether this be the 'big 3' or more generally accepted fetishes-- have been the sweetest people I know. We get characterized by the media as freaks and monsters and ticking time bombs, or simply as having "bad person disorder", but we are people. Living, breathing, functioning people who can laugh, bring joy, and love just as anyone else can.

Whether you're in recovery, coping through fiction, or just don't express it: if you're an anti-contact paraphile, I love you. You're strong as fuck for dealing with all the stigmatization and demonization we have to endure on a regular basis.

[henryisabigfatbitch]

⚠️IF YOU'RE HERE TO BULLY ME JUST LEAVE I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS⚠️

Hello, you can call me Asher, Moonsy, or Sonar

My system blog is @moonsydracoryf

Sea Monsterblogging blog is @the-abyss-star3s-back

I am a physical nonhuman due to delusions

I am a werewolf, fish, werebat, and dragon, Tornado/hurricane, ecosystem, and a Cuban crocodile-esque creature (bigger and longer)

I am a Holothere (werewolf, shapeshifter, vampire)

I am a samgladiator YHS fictionkin

I love GHOST

I am trans masc (typically masc presenting, I'm genderfluid) and homoromantic(?), omnisexual

Sometimes we use We/Us pronouns, this is sometimes an indication that we're stressed out or in a delusion but sometimes it just feels right.

My diagnosis':

NOTE, EMOJIS ARE JUST THERE BECAUSE THEY FEEL RIGHT, I DO INFACT HAVE THESE.

Schizoaffective depressive type (schizophrenia+depression) 👁️🫀🌑💊

Bulimia Nervosa non purging type (Eating disorder) 🍖🍲🍜🍗

OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)👉👉👉👉✅ (or else)

SAD (Social Anxiety Disorder) 🥲🫂🔊📸

System blog is @moonsydracoryf

I am an extreme maladaptive daydreamer and sometimes forget that I'm not that paraself, my paraselves include OCs such as Chip Zerthagil, Ruskchre Hirouriski, Kelpoltyosha, Fowl Krasikthia, all bogian species. Non OCs include, Alastor (Hazbin), Severus Snape (HP, I don't support JKR), Wednesday Addams (Wednesday Netflix), normal animals, Tigerstar (WC), Aizawa (BNHA), Izuku Midoriya (BNHA), Shirou Ogami (BNA), and one I will not mention because it is someone I idolize's OC and I don't wish to make them uncomfortable.

There is also Alastor, Fae, Sasha, and Gore who are extremely similar to alters but aren't alters.

A lot of my "OCs" happen to be paraselves so please be polite when talking about them

NOTE: Speculation, but I believe some of my paraselves turn into something similar to an alter when I'm under pressure or extremely stressed, they talk to me and comfort me

Post my shit to r/systemscringe and I will fucking obliterate you, fuck off, I'm not a system. (Not diagnosed with any disorder that might make me plural, minus schizoaffective..... But maybe? Okay yeah I have headmates I think I'm plural)

DNI:

Public proshippers (proshipping publicly for non coping reasons or for reasons such as it providing a safe outlet if you have a para)

⬆️Honestly idc anymore about proshippers, just don't groom or harass people and I'm fine with you

Terfs (GTFO IM NOT FUCKING PLAYING)

Anti kink, y'all kinda piss me off, don't want you here.

Anti Reality shifting, I'm not talking about people who don't believe in it, I'm talking about people who go out of their way to harass shifters

Anti-therian

Extreme anti endo (I MIGHT tolerate you ONLY if I really like you and you're a good person in general)

Anti-otherkin

Anti alterhuman

Homophobes

Any people with HARMFUL PARAPHILIAS who think PRO CONTACT is okay, I'm not getting groomed and molested again, fuck off

Anti-furry

Anti-cringe (I AM CRINGE BUT I AM FREE, FUCK OFF HATERS)

Schizoposters (non-schizophrenic people posting things to trigger paranoia and delusions)

Anti-Holothere

Elon musk supporters (he's a dickbag)

Right wingers

Ai bros (not much else to say)

Anti para

Sorry if I offended you but I have a no-hate policy here

Other than that I'm a friendly person who likes making friends (I do have pretty bad anxiety though so it may take a while) :3

If you have any questions, send an ask

Me (might update sometimes)-

[until-my-teeth-fell-out]

My ask!

That anon might be right, maybe we need more positivity in the community. So here is some proshipper positivity and validation because I'm wearing yellow today!~

Minor proshippers are valid! The safety rules of the internet still matter but you're not being "brainwashed" for it.

Adult proshippers are valid! You're not a creep for being so.

Proshippers who have been here since the beginning of fandom are valid! Thank you for your service.

Proshippers who realized just yesterday are valid! Welcome to the community.

Proshippers who are ex antis, whether they used to harass or never harassed in the first place, are valid! Your actions in the past don't have to define who you are now.

Proshippers who are loud and vocal about it and posting about it are valid! Thank you for helping build community, be careful out there.

Proshippers who remain quiet and don't get into fandom drama are valid! Sometimes you just want the peace and quiet.

Proshippers who feel like they can't be themselves in certain spaces are valid! I'm sorry for your circumstances, hoping you'll find more acceptance soon.

Proshippers who are also com/ darkshippers are valid! Keep consuming your "problematic content".

Proshippers who only like peaceful themes in fiction are valid! You're not a "fake proshipper" because of that.

Proshippers who are picky with their "problematic" or non-problematic content and ships are valid! You still have your place here.

Proshippers who are paraphiles are valid! Your existence is not a threat, and you deserve support and outlets for yourself.

Proshippers who are/ were traumatized or mentally ill, whether that affects their stance or not, are valid! You deserve all the support you can get, not to mention com/darkship content *is* a healthy coping mechanism.

Proshippers who are not traumatized, or don't have trauma relating to the specific content they like, are valid! You don't need to be any certain way to be a proshipper.

And many more.

And thank you admin for running the blog, always remember to take care of yourself if it gets too stressful.

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[lesboyajaceare]

hi! i am a paraphile. we need to talk about paraphilias.

the big three are the ones most people know. aka, pedophilia, zoophilia, and necrophilia.

some people (if not most) do not want to be attracted to this. it is a result of trauma and a survival mechanism made up by the human mind.

not every paraphile wants to act on their impulses. most dont. but because these disorders are so stigmatized, they often cannot get the help they need or want to get better at managing it.

i do not believe animals, children, or anything dead can consent. this is upheld by the law and the moral code of human nature-- protect kids and animals, respect the dead, dont harm them.

some people act these out via kink. which is okay as long as it is done safely and consentually.

there are certain paraphilias that are completely harmless. some people are attracted to rain, some are attracted to plushies.

i myself am an autoassasinophile. i find being close to death or injured very very attractive. i deal with this via my partners. they both help me out, with consent and safety measures in place. i am allowed to stop anytime i want, and so are they.

paraphiles arent evil. they are people too, and deserve to be treated as such. the more we encourage the destigmatization, the more people can get help and manage these impulses better. its not normal for these thoughts to be ocurring, but they can be managed.

be nice. you dont know what happened or what is happening to someone.

[this post is okay to reblog. thank you ^^]

[numbercestt]

Im sorry but accounts like this one are so stupid

Like, ok, you hate pedophiles. Thanks for letting we know but honestly, you putting a flag behind a random character is not gonna change anything.

Actual pedophiles definitely are not caring about that lol

[dstrider-3]

antis acting like youre going to die or youre a terrible person for things you consume fictionally or thoughts you have remind me of terrible christians/catholics who say youll die and go to hell for xyz

[inuette]

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[rq2bdamned]

Got hate in my askbox so instead of sharing it I'll post some positivity !

I luv you 🗺️s

I luv you 🐾s

I luv any n all paraphiles !!!

I can't remember all of the emojis but I luv every para out there <3 , you deserve to be proud of who you are !

[darlingmirabeau]

Reminder that there is no such thing as a "harmful paraphilia". There is only harmful, or non-consensual, contact. Paraphilias are patterns of attraction. Attraction is not action.

[suresuresureaursure]

New ship Just dropped (transspecies x zoophile ball)

[imfromthedeepblueunderworld]

miku saying fuck pedos

Pro-contact pedos (and other HARMFUL paras) are disgusting, Miku even said it herself!!! Be anti-contact, just like Miku!! :D I kinda made them more general instead of being JUST about pedos, but it's fine :3 if u wanna request a stamp or blinkie then just go to my ask box thingey ☆

[corporatecoinings]

Anti-contact paraphilia/c freak

A flag for anti-contact paraphiles who are freaks / can reclaim the slur freak | for freaks that are anti-contact paraphiles.

This is not for / not intended to be used by transids/transx and radqueers.

Anti-contact paraphile flag by @rwuffles

Freak flag by @enderluna

[caracoldimi]

I hate coming across people posting things like "Reblog/Rt to kill a pedophile!!" or "Pedophiles are not people!!", it's even worse when it's actually reblogged by a mutual 😧

Important edit: I'm NOT talking about predators, I don't fw yall, get the fuck out pls

Important edit2: children can't consent and we KNOW that very well. If you disagree, once again, get the fuck out

[hazard-consent]

hazard consent ⚠️🔐

A flag and emoji code for the hazard consent(link) stance.

Emoji code: ⚠️🔐

Hazard consent is for

Explicit and informed consent

Harm reduction, and understand the difference between hurt and harm

Non-offenders and recovering offenders, paraphilic disorders, moral OCD and intrusive thoughts, and those who want to participate in harmless contact

Acceptance of every paraphilia, kink, fetish etc and creating a safe community

Fighting and dismantling ableism and sanism targeted at paraphilic individuals

Hazard consent is against:

Non-consensual contact including with animals, children and unconsenting individuals

Contact for pedophilia, zoophilia, biasophilia, incestophilia and non-consenting necrophilia, somnophilia, inibriphilia, or anything else that can be pre-consented to. Roleplay doesn't fall under this

Attaching inherent morality to any type of paraphilia, kink or fetish or deeming something as inherently "gross", "wrong" or "weird"

Ableism and sanism

For more information on hazard consent, refer to the original coining post(link) or feel free to ask questions in my inbox.

I was originally hesitant to make a flag or emoji code because it's a stance and not an identity, but I've come to view it as a matter of accessibility and making this stance more well known, as I think it could be valuable for many people.

Cross tagging between communities for exposure

[flag id: a rectangular pride flag with 15 horizontal stripes. the 1st and 15 look like black and yellow caution tape; the 2nd and 14th are wider and dark orange with a dashed line through the center, each dash being white, yellow, red and blue in a pattern; the 3rd-5th and 11th-13th are thin with an orange to pastel yellow gradient; the 6th and 10th stripes are spiked and black; the 7th and 9th are thin and yellow; and the 8th stripe is white with a black outline on either side, and a blue dashed line through the center. in the center is a yellow caution sign with a black exclamation point in the center and black outline /end id]

[foxylalonde]

I luv u minor paras, u have a place in this community and u will never be alone as long as you're here <3 stay safe and stay yourself!!!

[parasol-objectum]

Reminder, no paraphilias are harmful to have! There's only some that would be harmful to act upon but having them does not make you bad :3