#polyamory exists people
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Hey, you there
Yes, you, person who doesn't like canon ships
It's okay
And, you, person who doesn't like the popular ships
It's okay!
Ship those characters with whoever you wanna
or don't ship them at all
Who cares!
#yes this is about the opinions I have about fandom in general#I dislike how people adhear to canon so much#like#uwag#This is mostly about me not liking solangelo#or whatever that ship name is#I just don't see it#I don't see Nico and Will lasting all too long#two months tops#It feels like uncle Rick made Nico gay#and panicked at the end of HoO to like#give representation to the gays#which he does so much better in ToO#solangelo seems rushed is all#and I don't like it#I like percico better#While yes I ship percabeth#I also ship percico#polyamory exists people#I multiship#this post is also about narumitsu and franmaya#I also don't see those relationships working out#I think narumayo is cuter than narumitsu and franmaya will ever be#Edgeworth is aro and you cannot change my mind#if yer upset about that#block me or whatever#I don't care#fandom#shipping discourse
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I saw you running your snout on X~♡
Sure im ugly, im fat, and of course im not all up there sure~♡
But hey atleast i dont like humiliating a non binary trans character, and if im 100 percent honest your little worthless ship of luz and mabel is pasable, maybe even decent.
But doesn't change the fact you promote transphobia supporting this type of rhetoric~♡
Lmao it’s amazing how you think you have the moral highground by being a bully over a canon crossover ship. Stan x Eda is quite literally a canon ex-ship and I don’t think Raine would have an issue with a relationship that happened between their own with Eda considering they were broken up when it happened.
But by all means keep being a dick about it, it’s fuckin’ funny. All this smoke for old people romance.
#Raine isn’t getting humiliated because their partner married someone between their relationship durations#also polyamory exists and we have no evidence Raine would be opposed to it#I actually quite like Raimilla as an idea#I think in all the ways that matter Raine probably reminds her of her dearly departed#not in a replacement sense but a compatibility sense#kindred spirits#so would you have the same issue if I suggested Raine/Camilla#or is it suddenly okay because it’s not Stan?#If the problem is Stan#well#you might have some internal biases against bi people#also Luz x Mabel x Amity is real to me now honestly#at least in the context of Relativity Falls#sometimes you just gotta make a weird little polycule for funsies#Hate Mail Corner
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Polites and Ody are so goddamn gay i cant with those two men
"my best friend" yea sure bro, and they were roommates
Very gay. Very homosexual. Very not demure and very obvious.
#zachytalks#epic: the musical#odysseus x polites#this ship will be the death of me#i love them very much but Y U NO KISS#i know everything about Penelope being Odysseus' “only true love” but YALL KNOW POLYAMORY PEOPLE EXIST-#odyssues and penelope deffo have an open relationship
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I do not know what it is lately with the same people who will agree that stereotyping entire groups of people is bad, especially stereotyping by using things people cannot change about themselves as an insult and/or associating generally harmless things with horrible shit
Turning around and loudly stereotyping the shit out of polyamorous people
"They're all ugly/cheaters/both!" or maybe you're just using personal biases to be an asshole, and are also a hypocrite because I know damn well you would see this as wrong to do if it was said about almost any other identity.
#seriously I've seen so many people being awful about polyam people existing lately#also I can guarantee you neither of those stereotypes are universally true#I've seen some polyam people who are pretty as fuck#and there are a lot of polyam people who definitely are not cheaters#polyam#polyamory#polyamourous#polyam discourse
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jotaro x kakyoin x jotawife in a poly relationship
thats is
that the post
#jotaro kujo#noriaki kakyoin#jotawife#jotakak#noritaro#i literally don't care#i mean why people are so obsessed with cheating when POLYAMORY RELATIONSHIPS exist smh#jjba#I could create a whole new post about their dinamics but it'd cost me much of my time as i have many ideas but anyway#also jouta's canon i like the idea of jolyne having a big bro
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one time in college, i wrote a short story that featured two older men who were very close friends. the feedback i got in workshop, from my professor and most of my classmates, was “so they’re gay and in love, right?” and i was like. wow. that hadn’t occurred to me but you are all so right. so in my rewrite i changed it to them being explicitly together.
i don’t mean this about everything, but i feel like some writers out there really don’t understand how the characters and relationships they’re writing are coming across and when fans go “they’re queer, right?” the creators’ reaction is like what the Fuck are you talking about? and i think it’s unfortunate
#this is specifically about the ted lasso ot3 bc it’s like people don’t think polyamory exists#and brendan hunt’s AMA got me#anyway#ted lasso finale#roy x jamie x keeley#ted lasso#ted lasso criticism
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just randomly remembered that during my like 10+ attempts at the shadow yukiko fight i more or less consistently ran out of revival beads so yosuke was just dead (well unconscious but whatever) on the ground for like half the fight gfhfjvhfhfhd-
#puppy rambles#persona 4#p4#as much as i love him he's not always the most useful. that fight is one of those times-#still always keep him in the party though. perfect p4 team to me is yosuke teddie and naoto#i haven't gotten to naoto joining the party yet but i love her. trans icon. vibing naoto is the best thing to happen to the persona 4 fandom#and yosuke and teddie are my favorites of the investigation team thus far. the others are all very close but they're above the others#dunno why i like yosuke so much. souyo is def part of it#and teddie is very very silly. idk why people hate him so much like yea he can be kinda annoying but he's only existed for a few months#he doesn't understand social cues yet. he's just autistic leave him alone vhgbhmfhdf- /hj#i feel like a lot of persona characters have autism vibes but that's probably at least partially just me projecting#at the very least i'm sure we can all agree that aigis and marie do. autism arcana#that's. probably why they're my favorite girls ggyfubhngd-#aigis is easily my favorite persona character. she's cute and also silly :3 and bisexual i love the bisexual toaster and her doors <3#(aikoto + hamugis polycule for the win. makoto and kotone aren't dating obv. ryoji's also dating both of them separately#)#and marie is cute and also silly i'm totally dating her. love how persona technically lets you polyamory so long as you don't date everyone#i have to max her social link for the golden-exclusive content anyway so might as well#‚‚‚ this post got derailed. i like the part where i talked about my beloved persona 3 bisexual polycule#p4's def the best persona game i think but i love p3 very much too. makoto kotone aigis and ryoji are unsurprisingly my faves#really love yukari too. i spent several hours trying to figure out how to add mods to p3p so i could date her as kotone#it was not successful. i'll probably get it on steam when i inevitably play it gghdhchvhv-#and i'll get reload at somepoint too. probably on steam at least first so i can use the kotone mod i need my girlie#makoto is also great i love him. emo non-binary icon. but also silly girlboss. they're both so mentally unwell#that reminds me of a drawing i have in my drafts i should post that#oh also it's aikoto week apparently??? which is very poggers. idk the prompts but i need to draw my sillies regardless#i do slightly prefer hamugis but they're both very very cute to me. the toaster has two hands she can kiss both the doors-#idk why that joke's so funny to me. i should stop now-
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10th circle of hell is being in fandoms where the female character gets in the way of the gay ship. the amount of fucking awful takes i've seen, especially when they have a "not bashing, just airing valid grievances" type of disclaimer and you just know they'd never judge one of the guys in their ship as harshly. let women be annoying. let women have lapses in their judgement. let women be imperfect and stop picking them apart for the heinous crime of being there, for fuck's sake
#prattledisaster#also like. polyamory exists#anyway obviously everyone can interact with fiction and fictional characters how they choose#but you know. sometimes the way people interact with fiction is fucking annoying#please i just want to read a fic that isn't just the author not-so-covertly using their art to express their stupid ass opinions#and the author's notes. god. don't even get me started on those#and like sometimes i don't even give a shit about the woman character myself#sometimes i'm just there for the angst#but it still rankles me so much even then#especially when the author's dislike of her becomes so apparent that it results in a 'he would not fucking say that' type situation#stop using my beloved blorbo as a voice for your bullshit takes#uGH
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I don't know why we somehow all came to the conclusion that Rauru was the toxic polyamory sort that can't help but drag you into his mess, but I feel like it's near-universal fanon for some reason 😭
#thoughts#totk#rauru#shitpost#all love and respect to polyamory it's just. it's the Vibes he gives for some reason!!!#I remember the “hey so we saw you across the bar” memes#might be the annexing everything “out of love” + dragging Link into his bullshit by literally superglueing his arm on him#the whole weird mess with ganondorf#rauru has zero concept of respecting people's boundaries#or even acknowledging they exist#I don't even think he does it out of meanness I think he means well but he's just too Like This to realize somehow ;;#he just gives off the vibe of the person you encounter and he's nice and all and suddenly you are caught in 9 separate dramas#that feel like high school even though everybody is an adult#you know the kind
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I fucking hate the internet bro ppl are so willfully ignorant and will fr talk straight out of their asses about shit they know nothing about. I swear to fucking god I’m abt to delete all my socials bc apparently I can’t even escape dumbass people even on tumblr (which was supposed to be my escape) it pisses me off so fucking bad. Like really these ppl just need to shut the hell up and/or leave me the hell alone.
What happened to if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it???
This is more for my nsfw blog but my point still stands
#polyamory#politics#transmasc lesbian#kink talk#not really but really#like do these people just go hunting for people to attack for situations that do not exist nor actually happen?
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today is dedicated to that one ex-friend who sexualized all of my ocs who were projections of me ( and later i realized were. me. ) and barely talked to me unless i was sexual for them and left me out of things on purpose otherwise. Fuck you
#aria talkz#vent#this is about mocha. 'fuckable twink' ill fucking kill you#hate people who reduce characters ( and people ) to sex objects#and then act as if everyone in their life is replaceable and take shit so for granted. explode. I would be lucky if i were you.#said person trying to make me out to be abusive to my literal fucking ex is funny as fuck like youre not gunna win that#and they Didnt win bc theyre the reason we broke up bc they tried to force a narrative that i was abusive bc they projected on me !??#literally didnt do shit i just had a bit of bpd and expressed it privately god fucking forbid#Thanks for kicking me out of the friendgroup and making me insanely suicidal. Thank you for june 6th 2023. Explode#wannabe leftist furry who acts politically correct just for moral highground ( this is self admitted )#among several other atrocious things .#also minor but pissed me off and reinforced i was a sex object for them was like.#Pushing their ocs onto mocha for ships that were explicitly romantic in brainstorming#but when they actually happen mocha is literally always shafted into FWB. What the fuck is your problem.#You know polyamory exists right. You ARE POLYAMOROUS YOU KNOW THIS. ?
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Having some mixed feelings on today. On one hand I had many really lovely moments. My boyfriend and I took one of our cats for a fall walk in the cat stroller and ended up at a park with coffee and a waffle. Then I got some alone time to read when my bf saw a friend. And I went on a dinner date with my crush who was so sweet and funny. But the staff at the restaurant we went to were rude to us, trying to rush us out in a way they didn’t do to anyone else. With them rushing us we were at the restaurant for less than 30 min which just feels weird to me. I was the only Black person in the restaurant and we were the only queer couple. I love my life and how I look but often people treat me worse for being visibly trans / queer and Black.
#like the people who matter to me love me and that’s most important#but stuff like this makes me sad#I just want to exist as me#polyamory#queer community#t4t
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MUSE AESTHETIC - SEX / ROMANCE EDITION. BOLD any that apply to your muse, italicize any of your muse’s turn - ons / likes, strike any of your muse’s turn - offs / dislikes.
heterosexual. homosexual. bisexual. pansexual. asexual. demisexual. graysexual. monogamous. polyamorous. long - term relationships. casual relationships. rough. loud. growling. screaming. crying. sobbing. gentle. tender. whispers. moaning. touching others. touching self. being touched. lingering caresses. kisses. french kisses. licking. nibbling. biting. scratching. hair pulling. dominance. submission. switch. power play. struggles. wrestling. hugs. cuddling. shower / bath sex. up against a wall. being held down. spanking. body worship. breasts. butts. legs. thighs. feet. hands. ears. love bites. innuendo. choking. breath play. bondage. leather. silk. velvet. lace. being watched. watching others. half - clothed. bared skin. teasing. indoors. outdoors. public. private. lingerie. stockings. corsets.
#The muse#Dash games#Under the Dark#// Some of these are... way more complicated then they look here tho#// This depends on his partner as well as his PAST...#// So yeah this is complicated lol#// Especially the one about monogamy and polyamory... because that's REALLY complicated for him#// Relationships didn't exist for him outside of sex and he will have sex with most people but an actual relationship?#// Yeah that's more complicated...#// Some of these also remind him of the matrons that he served under and that's a bit of an iffy place...
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Why are poly relationships sexualiesed so much :( I just want to give my (hypothetical) partners a kiss on their foreheads goodnight and sleep while we keep each other warm as the light snow covers our little world and makes the outside look like a place from a fairytale, is that too much to ask for?
#polyamourous#polyamory#i want to just have a nice day with my hypothetical partners#i should write a poly fan fic#that's gonna be my way of dealing with stuff or fixing problems (idk the right words) im gonna write a fan fic#no water? write about it#homeless again? fucking write about it and post it on this fucking app#i want to cry why do people have to exist and disturb my existence
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Sometimes I'm like 'oh, right, the inside of my head is Not The Standard Model' about the DUMBEST possible shit.
#there's some polls about non-canon pairings for the main characters of books that center a canonical pairing#and I'm just like '... why are y'all reading books if you don't like the pairing that's on the page????'#and a friend tried to explain that you can like more than one pairing because sometimes it's fun#and I just. it doesn't compute. my brain goes 'sounds fake. hate this.'#I have a tiny tiny handful of pairs where I'll happily read one of the characters with another person because I really like that ship too#but NONE of them are canonical so in that case both of the ships are fanon#and I have a few things where I went 'that's fucking stupid they have two hands and polyamory exists' about a canonical pairing#but for some reason the idea of doing that first thing when I love an official pairing makes me feel like I'm breaking out in hives#like to the point where I have a bunch of things blacklisted here and have just bookmarked my searches with all the exclusions on AO3#anyway in conclusion I'm gonna find a way to block these hopefully without unfollowing anything I wanna be following#but sometimes people just do not tag and if I can't blacklist then it becomes Necessary so I can stop mentally wailing 'WHYYYY' all the tim#this is also me wailing ab having to unsub and never finish a fic#whyyyyy
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Second time in about 48 hours that I have gone into the search mines to bring out a specific pride flag for my blog only to be met with either long or thoughtless posts about how x flag is the most inferior or y flag is the most superior while shitting on other flag designs. Like, I am all for making as many flags as you want — the more the merrier no monopolies here. I would just like for people to keep in mind:
Which communities (including geographical and cultural!!!) specific flags come from and why they were created.
You do not need to be represented by every single stripe for the flag to be applicable to you.
If a flag is featuring a specific identity there's probably a reason for that, I don't care if it's ugly.
Please cite sources and inspiration! Flags represent communities and usually come from community involvement and influence.
Seriously unless a flag was made purposefully to demean or alienate others it's probably fine. You don't have to use it or prefer it and you can be annoyed with it but it doesn't mean it's the end of the world.
#Apparently the polyam flag was '''''''''“officially'''''''''''' redesigned a year ago and I don't even consider polyamory to be#_inherently_ queer but I don't consider leather to be _inherently_ queer either and like the leather pride flag was like the second ever#pride flag and was used in a Pride parade across the country from where it was designed less than a month after it was revealed.#Anyways it's fine if aromantic or other polyamorous people don't feel like they have infinite love but#a) π is not infinite it is _irrational_ and it's decimal _expression_ is infinite and#b) π is literally just the Greek letter p‚ like the Greek rootword poly πολύς.#If you aren't a Black or brown person from Philadelphia then I don't really think it's your place to reject the Philly Pride flag.#Yes there has previous been a black stripe on a rainbow flag to represent AIDS. Colors can mean multiple things. The spectrum for visible#color for humans is only so broad and we are so good at coming up with meaning and nuance.#People talk about ''Queer is a slur.'' being a TERF talking point but I don't see nearly enough people talking about#''Not all intersex people want to be included in LGBTQIA+.'' as one too. I rarely ever see this coming from intersex people and I have#NEVER seen it on a post actually about intersex rights. It's always a throw-away comment when they're criticizing other queer people.#I'm agender and don't consider myself trans. It's fine if specific intersex people don't consider themselves queer. The I still belongs.#And even if it DIDN'T that would mean the Intersex-Inclusive Progress Pride Flag has MORE reason for existing not less.#If intersex people aren't inherently included in the rainbow flag then that means a flag representing the union of queer people and#intersex people has a PURPOSE and isn't redundant.#personal#...I might have used too many tags so that might not show on my blog. I forget if the limit is 14 or 20.#I just wanted to reblog pictures of the πolyamory flag and the 2017 Gilbert Baker nine-stripe rainbow flag and here I am getting annoyed#and irritated.#Ugh this is probably gonna show in search results too because I didn't censor anything.#Well while I'm pissing people off I will give my hot take that the biggest crime of the leather‚ trans‚ and lipstick lesbian pride flags is#all these dang white stripes in the center.#Other hot takes: More people need to take a leaf from the bi flag and vary their stripe widths please.#Also while it can easily be overdone‚ I like the symbols in the corner of the leather ❤‚ bear 🐾‚ and lipstick lesbian 💋 flags.#Also hot take I've posted before: the 8- or 9-stripe rainbow flags and the sunset lesbian flag can be for you even if you're ace and/or#sex repulsed. The flags aren't like... criteria for an identity. Not to bring up something horrible like the US empire but you don't have#to have lived in one of the thirteen colonies for those red and white stripes to still represent you.#I hate that the TERFs use the colors of the suffragette flag in heart emojis 💜🤍💚 and that those colors are so similar to the genderqueer#flag (a coincidence on the part of the creator of the genderqueer flag).
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