#npd + dpd culture is

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

Npd and Dpd and dating culture. Is oh okay I guess we are literally the best, me and my partner.

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[hpdcultureis]

HPD + NPD + DPD culture is needing constant attention from one specific person or I’ll just keel over and die 🫠

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[cluster-b-culture-is]

Quick question: does DiD count as cluster b?

Good question. The short answer is no. More details below.

DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder) is a Dissociative Disorder, not a Personality Disorder. Because DID used to be called MPD, many people think it's a Personality Disorder, but it's not. Cluster B specifically refers to Personality Disorders.

Dissociative Disorders (including DPDR, DID, OSDD, and more!) are characterized by dissociation, or a disconnection from either reality or oneself. DID specifically is characterized by the presence of two or more personality states (often called alters in a medical context) that are highly differentiated (at least some alters have very differing personality, mannerisms, gender, sexuality, age, etc.) and with dissociative amnesia at least some of the time (which is the inability to remember things that happened when another alter was controlling the body/fronting). DID is frequently caused by childhood trauma.

People with DID (like Mod Orange, who is writing this) often refer to themselves as systems, but not all systems have DID, and not all systems are formed by trauma. Similarly, not all people with DID use system terminology to refer to themselves. Many systems have OSDD-1, P-DID, UDD, or are not clinically disordered at all.

Personality Disorders (PDs), on the other hand, are set of disorders characterized by rigid, inflexible, and maladaptive patterns of thoughts and behaviors. People with personality disorders often have trouble with self-perception and interpersonal relationships. Many personality disorders are formed through trauma.

Personality disorders are divided into three clusters: Cluster A (PDs with a tendency towards social withdrawal), Cluster B (PDs with a tendency towards overly emotional thinking and behavior), and Cluster C (PDs with a tendency towards anxious and fearful behaviors).

Cluster A includes PPD (Paranoid Personality Disorder), SzPD (Schizoid Personality Disorder), and StPD (Schizotypal Personality Disorder).

Cluster B (which this blog focuses on) includes ASPD (Antisocial Personality Disorder), BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder), HPD (Histrionic Personality Disorder), and NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder).

Cluster C includes AvPD (Avoidant Personality Disorder), DPD (Dependent Personality Disorder), and OCPD (Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder)

This blog focuses on being a safe space for everyone with Cluster B PDs, since these PDs are very frequently demonized. There are other blogs and places across the internet that focus on other PDs, and on DID or systems. Hope this answers your question!

[dpdculture]

Welcome to my "DPD culture is" blog! ฅ^ >ヮ<^₎

This blog is for anyone with DPD or suspected DPD! ฅ/ᐠ. ̫ .ᐟ\ฅ

DNI criteria /ᐠ •̀ ˕ •́ マ

ꕤ Minors DNI

ꕤ Radqueers/TransID go away pls

ꕤ Pro-endo, I wouldn't say I'm anti but it just makes me uncomfortable

ꕤ Pro-contact paras (where the contact would cause harm)

ꕤ Narcissistic/Borderline abuse believers

ꕤ Obv racists, transphobes etc. If ur a bigot then ur stinky eww

Rules ᨐฅ

ꕤ Start your ask with "DPD culture is", stuff like "Having DPD is" etc is also acceptable! You can even talk abt a song/character that you associate with DPD!

ꕤ NSFW submissions are ok, just please give a warning!

ꕤ Self-dx is ok! You can start the ask with "suspected dpd" as well

Brief stuff about me ᓚᘏᗢ

𔓘 They/It 𔓘 I'm 20+ 𔓘 I have DPD, BPD and PDID! 𔓘

ฅ/ᐠ˶> ��<˶ᐟ\ฅ

[dpdcultureis]

Possibly dpd and npd culture is my opinion is better and more valuable but please please tell me what you think. Please give me an opinion please guide me i dont want to do this alone

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[ghxst-system]

Welcome - We're the Forest Collective

This post contains our Do Not Follow , Before You Follow and some extra info about us bellow the cut

Collective Terms + Identities:

Forest , Xi/They/Wolf/Howl , Transmasculine

Therian + Otherkin (Primarily Wolfkin + Wolf theriotype , but we also identify with ragdoll cats, bunnies, and several others)

Punk , Cripplepunk / Cpunk

Collectively we are situational mute (do NOT call us selective mute) and predominantly semiverbal

(we have several masked verbal alters who communicate for us verbally when necessary, but we are considered semiverbal)

We interchangeably use parts , headmates and alter language and mainly use We/Us when talking about us.

We are intersex.

Get blocked (DNI):

Antisemitic, homophobic / transphobic, TERFs/SWERFs, racist, ableist, fatphobic, zionists etc

Non-traumagen "systems" + supporters/neutrals (endo, willo, etc) OR culturally appropriate closed practices

Pro/neu contact paras, radqueers and transIDs fuck off

If you reduce introjects to their source / blacklist certain sourced introjects (wtf is wrong with you)

If you don't know how to actually tag and TW things you're getting blocked

If you don't follow your own DNI

Anti contradictory labels - you are literally so intersexist and transphobic.

If you cannot tell the difference between real values and FICTION

Before You Follow:

If you stigmatise cluster B PDs by promoting the myth of "narcissist abuse"

Perisex but use Intergender or think you can transition to be intersex

Do not use complexity labels on us

We are physically disabled and use mobility aids

We often lose the ability to speak or communicate coherently as well as the ability to advocate for ourselves

We will block you if you actively post / reblog about our triggers

We are bodily intersex and will not tolerate intersexism of any kind.

Posts / reblogs tagged with: "dir post 🧂" or "dir reblog 🧂" are directed at our syspartner

Anons and asks will be tagged with:

"🌳 forest.chats"

Random rambles unrelated to our usual posts will be tagged with:

"🌳forest rambles.exe"

We have survived RAMCOA , Programming and TBMC and post about it (tagged with appropriate warnings)

Our Disorders:

AuDHD , Dyslexia , Speech disorders (stutter, situational mute, semiverbal), Tourettes

Agoraphobia, C-PTSD, Polyfrag DID

Cluster B PDs: BPD, HPD, NPD

Cluster C PD: DPD

OCD, DPDR, Pica, ARFID, Anxiety + Depression

We are visually impaired with VSS (currently looking for more Dx that may explain our vision)

POTS, FND, Hypermobile EDS, Fibro

Our Collective Pronouns page:

(this also contains links to other headmates pronouns pages)

[borderline-culture-is]

suspected bpd + dpd traits + npd traits culture is seeing yourself get attached again and just dreading the fact that the cycle will continue and theyll leave you again because youre unlovable and you hurt everyone when you get too close and youre “too much” and that youre “overall draining energy to be around” and you just wish you could stop it from happening but at the same time i’m not too much nothing that happened was my fault and they are the problem because they cant change to accommodate my needs

also if its okay, may i please sign off as 🏥🎀🔪 ? thank you..

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[bpdflag]

a. Moonflower 🌙

@gum1w0rms suggested moonflowers ! Moonflowers, otherwise known as tropical white morning-glories, or Ipomoea alba, are white flowers that only open up typically about once a year during the nighttime. The symbolism they came up with is that moonflowers are a representation of a person with BPD. That they open up under the moon (which the moon, in this, represents attention from your favourite person, love, help, confirmation, good days, etc!) and they close up when that attention, validation, and love, goes away ! Here is the post they made explaining their idea !

Moonflowers are also toxic flowers to the touch, but they do not cause death.

When the flower is closed, they look a bit like a spiral to me, which reminds me of spiralling out of control when you do not have support.

The colour white represents innocence, cleanliness, emptiness, and peace in western culture, while in eastern culture it can represent death, mourning, and the afterlife.

b. Belladonna / Deadly Nightshade 🟣

A friend of mine suggested deadly nightshade. Deadly nightshade, otherwise known as belladonna, or atropa bella-donna, is a poisonous purple flower with black berries with star like leaves. This flower that can kill you at higher doses and cause nervous system failure.

This flower reminds me of hurting those who hurt you back. It is only deadly if you ingest it. It could represent reacting to abandonment, and the trauma we struggled with to become this way. We were hurt, so we hurt back.

Despite the poison, the belladonna has a lot of medicinal purposes as well. During war time, it was used as a psychedelic and for pain management during surgery. Along with that it was used to create medication for the stomach and cramps.

The star like leaves around the fruit reminds me that people with BPD are still shining despite the struggles and traumas we have faced.

The colour purple represents wealth, prosperity, mental and spiritual awareness in Eastern cultures. In western cultures it represents royalty and creativity. It is considered a mysterious colour as well.

c. Bleeding Heart 💓

The bleeding heart flower, otherwise known as Dicentra, is a pink flower that’s head looks like a heart with a white tear drop. It represents deep pain, unrequited love, and rebirth.

My idea with this flower is that it is representative of the pain and sorrow we go through and how deeply we feel emotions.

The bleeding heart is toxic when digested, causing seizures and liver damage.

The colour pink is representative of celebration, hospitality, and trust in the east. In the west it symbolises calm and tenderness. It also is representative of marriage, femininity and love in both cultures.

d. [Other]

If you have any other ideas please don’t be afraid to add!

I will make another poll if this has enough reach!

Some other flower symbolism:

Tulips: Representative of DPD, besides the Sun Rise/Sun Set symbol.

Orchids: Representative of Intersex People.

Roses: Representative of Hypersexuality / Hyperrose.

Daffodils: Representative of NPD.

It would be nice to make all Personality Disorder flags have specific flowers representative to them, or concepts.

For instance,

Cluster A, B, and C all having flower symbols

Cluster A being shells, stones, or minerals of some kind, Cluster B being plants and flowers, Cluster C being weather related.

What do you think?

[splinters-for-you]

hi you know who we are .... [gay_pleady]

may we request a transfem ashswag (fictive or factive idrm) with level 3 things? with a mischevious, antisocial, apathetic & flirty vibe. thank you !!!

I know what you are. :} I think I'm going to have a bit of fun with this! Thank you for the request.

Names + nicknames: Aashi, Indu, Iyla, Yamini, Varali. Age: 19 Gender + presentation: transfem (woah) + hijra, non conforming, likes dressing literally anyway and can be dependent on the weather or who they hang around with. Pronouns: she/her, shey/shem, xie/xer, sh3/h3r, er/ero, ca/cap they/them, it/its, 1t/1ts. Sexuality + orientation: Omnisexual/Omniromantic + Abroromantic/Abrosexual. Roles: Absfamiligenic, Acagenic, Ackili, Addiction Holder, ADHD Holder, Aegir, Amorform, Anchor introject, Anesthetic, Apagenic, Attentionmate, Attraction Holder, Autism Holder, Aviator, BAHtroject, Brother/Sister Figure, Candorian, Codegenic, Compulsion Keeper, Culture Holder (for both body and their own), Deligenic, Delusion Holder, Eepygenic, Emergency Fronter, Enigma, Ethnotraumagenic, Evian, Factive-flux, Fictionkin, Fixagenic, Fixkeeper, Fogtive, Guilt Holder, Hallucination Holder, Handler (only of partners), Heartbeat, Heartmate, Hoarder Holder, Hobbyist, Hyperamorgenic, Hyperérosian, Hyperfixation Keeper, Hyperludusian, Hyperrose Holder, Inconsistigenic, Intragod, Introject, Irascimate, Känsla, Kinsoma, Levian, Love Holder, Lunagenic, Masker (Sweetheart), Medicine Taker, Minecraftgenic, Mixed-Canon, Mushroomgenic, Neuro-encrypted, Nightmare Soother, Obsession Compulsion Holder, Obsessor, OCD Holder, OCPD Holder, Overrider, Paranoia Holder, Paranosysgenic, Pluralkit Misuser, sychosis Holder, Psygenic, Romanticist, Schizogenic, Sensory Soother, Sibling Figure, Sillygenic, Spin Holder, Spoon Generator, Stickergenic, Stimuliorma, Test Dummy, Vampgenic, Veysexual, Virusgenic. Species: Human, Alterhuman, Glitch based being. Source: Lifesteal content creator, Ashswag. Personality: Very. Ashswag, more outwardly kind and queer. Likes + dislikes: + Making little sites on something like neocites or spacehay, roblox, minecraft, coding based things. - schooling, yelling, Front triggers: Anything related to likes&dislikes or hobbies. :} Disorders: ADHD, ASD, Bipolar, BPD, DPD, NPD Traits, OCD, OCPD, OLD, Social Anxiety Disorder, Schizophrenia, Stressed based delusional disorder. Disabilities: Asthma, Chronic pain, EDS, Migraines. Kins: Vampire, all Ashswag variants (possibly even other introjects, up to you.), Paras: 🐝, 🧋, 🔖, 🍉, 🐊, 💐, 🛏️, 📿, 🧵, 🗜️, 🍄, 🗡, 🎭, 💕, 🧂, 🔱, 🧹, 🥄⚙️, 🦷☂️, 💊🌹, ⚙️🐾, 🌈🍬💞, 🥄4️🥄. :} IDs: trans25, Transvampire, TransC!Ashswag (partially delusion based.), transforkedtongue, TransAnarchist, TransLesboy, TransGrass-Toucher, TransAngel, Permavictim, trisholy, PermaInLove, TransPermaDating, Trans(slightly)LighterSkin. Xenos: Sleep, hearts, love, purple, glitches, websites, viruses, mushrooms, vampire. Hobbies: Making little sites on something like neocites or spacehay, roblox, minecraft, coding even if nothing productive or sucessful happens, language learning. Emoji tag: 👾🤖🫶🫀💅🐙🦄🪻🎮🕹️📿💜🖤💞 Any combo of these. :} Aesthetics: Similar to the xenos, but with minecraft in it.

Icon ideas.

https://www.tumblr.com/setacin/770593791325372416/how-was-the-sun-icarus?source=share

https://www.tumblr.com/stupendliam/769992421667946496/redraw-a-pretty-old-drawing-like-2-years-old?source=share

https://www.tumblr.com/tinins-art/768790195839647744/ashton-swaginton-ashswag-perhaps-d?source=share

https://www.tumblr.com/sclythed/765545988397170688/do-you-guys-see-my-vision-curly-long-haired-ash?source=share

https://www.tumblr.com/plan-tq/765443194913751040/uhmmm-doodle-i-did-on-vc-to-show-a-friend-my-old?source=share

https://www.tumblr.com/mapicccc/769444357156880384?source=share This one added mostly for silliness :}

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

(questioning) npd + dpd culture is WHY DO PEOPLE ASK FOR MY ADVICE AND NOT TAKE IT. i’m right though so i’ll keep giving it out i guess

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[hpdcultureis]

Mixed PD (BPD/HPD/NPD/AvPD/DPD) culture is not knowing wtf your deal is today.

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[ndcultureis]

neurodivergent NPD + DPD + HPDt culture is scrolling through the “narc abuse” and “anti npd” tags for a laugh and then through your submissiveness & suggestibility you start convincing yourself you might actually be abusive just like they’re saying you are

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[the-cluster-c-culture]

DPD + NPD culture is getting tired of people telling you that your disorders are contradictory

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[dpdculture]

DPD culture is giving up when you need to put effort into being responsible for yourself, causing a strain in your friendships bc people feel pressured to help you (and you do want them to save you, but you know it's not fair to them)

DPD culture is

[dpdcultureis]

DPD + NPD culture is being in constant hell, I can do this alone but also omg please don’t let me do this by myself please tell me I’m doing it right. Haha I’m doing it right because I’m better. I despise relying on others but if I’m left alone for even a second I cry. And when your mask falls, and you realize you’re pushing the people you rely on away, you’re utterly broken.

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