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apuzzledprince · 1 year

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hello, it is pride month. do not degender multigender people.

#my pronouns personally are he/she #please do not just use one #for the love of everything do not use they/them for me i hate it #ignore me im rambling #multigender #bigender #pride month #isogender

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etirabys · 1 month

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when a post goes viral, at least one rando attributes to me viewpoints or flaws that I don't think I have and criticizes me for them. main thing that calms me down fast is remembering the flaws I do have and how he could have criticized me for those instead if only he'd known. but he didn't. because I hide them

#rambl #chose the pronoun here with some care (so the last sentence could work with an unambiguous referent for 'them')#*in general* I see more off-the-mark norm and tone policing done on twitblr by women so I thought about she #(note: this skew is largely downstream of the topics I choose to see on my dashes)#but *I personally* experience more off-the-mark norm and tone policing done by men (this is downstream of the topics I post about.)#so I went with 'he'. but twas a coinflip

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calware · 1 year

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i love how they're all so mean to each other

#🥣#💾#homestuck #i feel like i need to make a legal disclaimer on this post that i don't think jane is transphobic or a horrible person 😀😀😀😀😀#i think she's great . and also transgender. but also she needs to learn how to be a better friend. and hal does too bc he's also mean #❤️🩵#in my head where all my headcanons are real dirk is a trans man and tells jane first so she is ready to stand up for him and hal #if they were ever to be referred to as women #but also. whoopsies. she doesn't immediately recognize him as a person #legal disclaimer over #also this is based off of the ''his pronouns are they/them'' meme

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electricpurrs · 1 year

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this is how people talk about you online when you dont use they/them pronouns

#getting really soooooo sick of getting they/them'd and so many of my friends who dont use they pronouns also getting they/them'd #paradoxically its like people have been taught that using they/them is best bc its neutral so its better than assuming someones pronouns #and potentially misgendering them #but just forget that youre supposed to use they/them when you DONT know the persons pronouns and once you learn them you change to the #correct pronouns. it really shouldnt be that hard to take a second to check someones bio for their pronouns and use the correct ones #its like people dont take into account that they/them may be ''neutral'' but not everyone identifies with them or likes being called them #or that it might still feel like misgendering even if its not he or she #sigh...

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hajihiko · 11 months

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Are trans women real women?

As opposed to what. Fictional? A mannequin? Unreal in the sense that it's unreal how bomb she is?

(tags V relevant)

#Inventing boxes around people never works. There's no parameter for real or not real that doesn't allow for discrimination #If a woman says she is a woman then she is a woman. It is not my business to comment on how ''''real'''' it is #Based on what?? The hell kind of authority am I??? I'm some fuckin dude.#It does not matter to me what pronouns or what chromosomes or what presentation someone has #If you tell me you're a woman okay you're a woman. You know better than me. What kind of douchebag would I be to contest that #Short answer: trans women are as real women as any women. It doesn't change anything.#Are he/him women women? Are drag queens women? Are femboys women? I don't speak for them why don't you ask them to their face #By which I mean get a scope on their experience and opinion. And don't ask the person who LOUDLY DOESN'T LIKE FIRM LABELS.#Not an art

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decapod-appreciator · 5 days

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joker is transfem + genderfluid to me. bee tee dubs

#there is no consistent way to tell how he’s presenting on any given day.#you ask her what her pronouns are and she just makes unwavering eye contact for six full minutes #the only person able to guess is ryuji and even he only has a 70% success rate #my art #p5r #p5 #joker persona #persona #persona 5 #persona 5 royal #persona joker #persona 5 joker #joker persona 5 #kaede is her name is my playthrough :3

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texanmarcusdavenport · 1 month

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I think Bree loves Mr. Davenport but it's the painful kind of love where she doesn't really like him as a person (except when she does) and she can understand where he's coming from sometimes but still doesn't agree with his actions. But Chase both loves Mr. Davenport and likes him as a person (except when he doesn't) because he's very good at rationalizing his father's bad behavior due to spending the most time with him/being the most similar to him (a fact he agonizes over, especially after meeting Douglas).

Meanwhile Adam loves Mr. Davenport in an abstract sort of way but doesn't like him at all. Donald isn't good with kids and Adam always preferred his siblings so they never really bonded. He holds no real resentment toward him or anything, they can have fun together sometimes, but in his mind Donald Davenport is just some freak they all tolerate. Like a pet. And Leo feels the same but with an extra dash of pity bc God that man is pathetic.

Marcus & Daniel neither love nor like Donald, due to both inherited hatred from Douglas & also because that man is a Freak. Though Daniel comes around, probably after he gets in a fight with Douglas & Donald helps him get revenge or smth.

#lab rats disney xd #i really believe adam holds no like. real love(?) toward donald if that makes sense #every time theyre on screen tg adam is bullying him #& adam never really takes sides in conflicts he just follows his siblings. bc he really doesnt care either way #dont get me wrong hes a v loving person. he'd die for Donald. but he'd die for pretty much anyone #adam davenport #leo dooley #donald davenport #lab rats elite force #lref #lrefmm #lref headcanon #bree davenport #chase davenport #lab rats #daniel davenport #i kept trying to use she/her pronouns for dani 😭 transfem daniel davenport my beloved...

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shitv2daily · 4 months

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👏pride👏v2👏 👏👏👏👏

Day 74

#rambling about headcanons in the tags time #i hc that they were originally called “it” by the people who made them which they *hated*. something something seen as an object when they #so desperately wanted to be seen as a person (because they were programmed to essentially be human to work with people)#anyway humanity falls and they think about themself and they realize just how much they despise being called it (and also that they vaguely #have gender but theyre neither a man nor a woman). from there they switch to using they/them (and neos). they tolerate she/he only becaus #neither of them are it.#(anyway all that to say please stop she/he-ing them in my inbox. if those pronouns are super important to you and you hate the idea of #calling them anything but she or he then please swap out pronouns for their name.)

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flareboi · 6 months

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what if purple never calls him dad

#what if the word ‘dad’ is something purple doesn’t like.#what if it carries a bad connotation for them and a bitter reminder for mango.#family doesnt always have to look like one thing yknow? i dont think those two would have a traditional dynamic in that way #maybe purple does consider him their parent. they just dont call him ‘dad’ unless its in third person #and theyre fine with that and so is he #king is his father figure yes but he’s also a mom. a big brother. a sister. their dynamic just isnt captured in purple calling him ‘dad’#maybe his name is the best way they can say it. the best way they can appreciate him #because for purple a father is someone who hurts you. someone who leaves you #i think ‘purple calls him dad on accident’ is a cute idea #but honestly it would make more sense if they called him mom on accident instead. or if it happened when they were afraid. not comfortable #(this is presuming orchid is his mother and navy his father based on the pronouns used in the react vids iirc)#because why would purple refer to someone he sees as a parent with the title of the one that presumably did not raise them?#and on mangos end #i think u can kinda tell who in this fandom has never lost a loved one in how they characterize him #guys. grief doesnt leave. it never leaves.#you just learn to live with it!!!#mango is not okay just because he has a new kid to take care of. i would know this my bio mom passed and i have a stepmother!!!#she does not fill that void and i do not expect her to because it cannot be filled. but she brings a lot new to ease the pain and is a #wonderful part of my life #the same thing here #mango will never ever just .. go back to how he was #he will never be the same since gold died. and thats okay #purple will not change that. they will merely add something new #their dynamic can be beautiful and nontraditional and a showing of how grief can change you #it doesnt have to be ‘replacement dad and replacement son’#its so much more #oke. tag rant over #fett rambles #ava #uhh should i tag the chars

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stuck-in-the-ghost-zone · 2 months

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choosing violence 10 + 16 + 22 !!!! >:333

ok u didnt specify a fandom but im just gonna do this for pd because its front and center in my mind !!!!!! oh boy i cant wait to be crucified for my opinions

10. worst part of fanon

this is a problem with every jrwi campaign and also like. most . other fandoms to be real. but it seems like my favorite characters are always the ones that get the worst of the mischaracterization beam -_- i cant tell you HOW MANY fics ive opened bc the premise sounds cool only to IMMEDIATELY close it due to "he would not fucking say that" this isnt pd but if i have to read one more fic that infantilizes gillion for not understanding Land Things im going to blow up. hes stupid sometimes yeah! but hes not ignorant and hes not a baby hes like. literally the oldest one on the crew even if its only by a year or two. head in hands

16. you can't understand why so many people like this thing (characterization, trope, headcanon, etc)

ok im gonna get burnt at the stake for this one but i personally dont really see the appeal of tfem ashe... like i see the appeal yeah of course i do i just dont get why people are so like... weirdly forceful and passive aggressive about it? also this is totally a personal thing no hate to anyone that does this but its kind of a peeve of mine when ppl write analysis posts ans use their headcanon pronouns like.... if u are going to talk about and analyze canon then talk about canon !!!! i cant tell u how many good ashe posts ive skipped over bc im like. we are talking about different characters here .. respect to ashe tfemers and everything but its not for me

22. your favorite part of canon that everyone else ignores

THERE IS A DISTURBING LACK OF CLARENCE ALBERT FAN CONTENT. WHY ARE PEOPLE NOT MORE INSNAE ABOUT CLARENCE ALBERT. HELLO???? am i the only person that feels this way . can anyone hear me its so fucking dark in here. every day i just want to read a fic about clarence albert and i am met with this

and neither of them are . interesting to me. hell on earth. bizly PLEASE give me more clarence lore in season 3 im fucking starving.

#irt the ashe thing ive always had a personal Thing against changing a characters pronouns it feels a little too close to genderbend for me #and i have NOT have positive experiences with genderbends so i just tend to avoid it hsbdfjsbdf #so. not for me! but i wish ppl were less. weird about it i guess #ppl are always like. if you dont like this tfem hc that means youre a misogynist and a terf and im like???? no????#i would feel the exact same way if ppl started exclusively using he/him to refer to ja.y fe.rin. idk man. the constant Mental Illness Guilt #is like . youre a bad person for not she/hering as.he wi.nters #but fuck it we ball. im ready for the discourse anons for this. censoring tags out of fear hsbjfsjfsdfs #sooooooo many of my jrwi mutuals are going to block meeeeeeeee #head in hands. choosing violence choosing violence choosing violence #anyway both of the clarence fics are aus. and i dont want to READ an au. i want to read about THE CANON GUY. PLEASE. HES SO INTERESTING.#AND HES LIKE. THE BASIS FOR ALL OF MALS WHOLE THING.#THERES SO MUCH THERE #UAUGHHHHGHGH #anyway. anyway. hi ros im writing nhw tidalwave fic <3 its gonna be short but ive had a vision.#we should make. an ao3 collab folder or something to put the nhw fics in. because ive had so many ideas #asks #ask game #friends!!!#intertexts

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xcziel · 2 months

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has anybody else thought about how jk could easily manage sofia's parts of slow dance or is it just me?

#jikook #bts #everybody is working to insert jk in who where i just don't see it (other than the seven parallels)#and not talking much about what i see as WAY more obvious nods most especially in rebirth #like jm sings about wanting to be worthy of someone - maybe someone who just became a huge SOLO global popstar?#and mentions 'real love' - what was the name of that chapter in the bangtan book again?#and the feminine pronouns not present it's just the nebulous 'you' that in jimin songs often stands in for 'army'#(and one very specific 'fan' who has said he is ALSO army)#it's the 'i wanna be with you'#the answer for jk's 'i am still' with its unspoken additional 'still with you' layer #and then we get slow dance and we're back to the nebulous 'you' - on an island he-#oh wait what was that about a pair that traveled to an island? and filmed some stuff there that we'll see soon? hm #the reason this set me off though is the lines about 'cancelling my plans' to live to 'the tempo of our favorite song'#the falling deep into lines etc etc #because we know what happens when those two get together - they lose track of time everything else fades away #it's why they haven't done lives. why 'you and me' are 'up all night' why jm knows that as soon as jk is around #his self-discipline will crack and he'll fall into the pattern he tried to head off by separating from jk while making face #and we *know* jimin wrote on this song #frankly if he *hadn't* gotten a female feature everybody would be JUMPING on this song as a jikook anthem #the inclusion of sofia works perfectly - like hammering the pin back in a grenade #but i was reading those lines and thinking how high she went and going who else could sing this ...?#huh. who do we know of who can sing *anything*? and who has a range that can hit and blend with jimin's perfectly?#so. i dunno. y'all do your delulu the way that works for you and i will do my delulu my way lol #personally i think the eyes in the mv look like a screenshot from the love wins all mv but that's only me #i think the parallels with seven work more #and speaking of parallels (there are so many) i think this album was built to ensure jm is on equal footing with a certain someone #it's the commerciality of it - as though jm was like we will be together in this as well #when he seems not to be super interested in global domination but still 'special' enough to be on the same level with his love

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martianbugsbunny · 11 months

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Used this awesome Picrew to do femme!Ineffable Husbands, they're literally so pretty

#the lipstick marks are cuz they've been smooching #like in case you couldn't guess lol #also I saw an art of Crowley where he had gorgeous freckles and I shall never divorce that idea from my mental picture of him #therefore she's got her freckles #also that shirt aziraphale's wearing I just saw it in the options and I was like omg it's so him #plus she's doing a lil nose scrunch #they're amazing I love these gworls #also the way I can mess with their pronouns is giving me life it's the most fun thing ever #also if you caught my Little Fun Detail you rock #good omens #aziraphale #crowley #aziracrow #ineffable husbands #femme #picrew #the person who made it did such a good job it's absolutely lovely #could noodle around for hours #martianbugsbunny ships

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phightingconfessions · 1 month

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Holy shit I love that this community is so supporting of chubby characters! The horrors of fat phobia I've seen in other fandoms is crazy especially the regretevator discord server the mods there are just scary..

EXACTLY!!!! like obviously theres still gonna be those people that get some violent rage and hatred over seeing someone draw a character fat but ive noticed theyre mostly.. a minority in the phandom? not even a VOCAL minority i just barely even see them and ngl its actually really refreshing

#not a confession #mod sword #also do not get me started on regretevator i genuinely hate that game/fanbase #from the razzytism situation (banning a fat transfem for drawing fat characters for *checks notes* art she unknowingly reblogged on TUMBLR)#to generally being very.. annoying to the whole mspec lesbian debate (i will go on record and say i dont really give a shit i have a job #and medical appointments and a license to get caring abt identities is a very low thing on my list of priorities) INCLUDING LIKE.#IVE SEEN SCREENSHOTS MOCKING PEOPLE WHO ARE CHILL WITH *HE/HIM* LESBIANS! THE PRONOUNS!!!! WHO FUCKING CARES #DID WE REGRESS 20 YEARS DO PRONOUNS NOW MEAN GENDER AGAIN!!!!!!! FUCK!!!! rlly do not like regretevator or its fans im #just there for bive #WOW sorry for the rant i have very strong feelings over a roblox game pretty please dont block this account i super promise i wont bring up #regretevator again just to be a hater i prommyyyyyy you can trust me #(i really dont care if other people enjoy it live and let live im just personally not a fan yk)

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cupiidzbow · 6 months

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posting ur sona on ur main twt is wack as fuck people were very nice of course but the amount of times I got misgendered and had people be like “me coded XD” UM NO ☝🏽 I DONT THINK THATS YOU CODED ACTUALLY

#I know what happens when I’m a strictly he/him dem presenting guy but. head in my hands #*fem #I tried to use any pronouns but I think someone used she/her on me and i didn’t like it so I got rid of that real fast 😭😭#it’s just 😭😭 do y’all read bios for pronouns at all on there 😭😭#I alwaus quadruple check the pronouns of a person so I don’t call them deadname mcslurrington but I realize not everyone shares that #SIGHS…..#the only people who have ever did it right are my friends and se.lf sh.ip users so 😭😭#maybe I need to slap a sticky note and write with ref marker ‘THIS IS ME.’ HE/HIM PLEASE . on my posts 😭😭

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bunny-kisser · 1 month

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Why did I give my ponysona a mane, it's hard to draw fuck 😭

#I've already spent too long on this I need to eat and go to sleep.. BUT. ART IS HAPPENING WHICH IS SO EXCITING #DO YOU KNOW HOW LONG IT HAS BEEN SINCE I'VE DRAWN FUCKING ANYTHING #Anyway if you couldn't tell bc my doodle is so messy my ponysona is a kirin. He/she pronouns pls #OH DANGIT I GAVE HER A BEARD BUT FORGOT DISCORD'S. FFFF I'll fix it tomorrow =__=#personal #🐉🪽

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saltbind · 6 days

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man sometimes it is real hard to be a wincestie who doesn't like babyboy or trans fem sam

#my post #i understand that this is a personal taste thing but Lordt it is difficult out here #i get attached to a character and i project and then i see posts with pronouns that are (to ME specifically) wrong and i wince #and yes i get that this is on me! i am not trying to make anyone feel bad! i just got back into spn while on my own trans quest #and now when i see she/her used for sam i'm like hey he's a guy :( if he's trans then he's a trans guy (to ME) he wouldn't like that :(#anyway i hate when my personal shit overlaps my fandom shit but that is the nature of interacting with art

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