#important for self

[wanologic]

reminder to take care of your loser human body

[archerdepartures116]

Ill post this au( inspired by tweet above) i started on my twt on Tumblr too

First part

more comic panels below

Second part

Third part

Fourth part

Shenanigans side extra

this is currently an ongoing series, if this does well here, I will continue posting these in bulk (～￣▽￣)～

for more frequent uploads, you can follow my twitter at ArcherD116, feel free to ask me ab this au and give your suggestions!

[kpopchyeah]

Concerts I have been to

List of concerts I have been to, for me to keep track of.

I have stopped writing fanaccs mostly due to not having enough time (adulting sucks) but I still take vids and photos. Let's take a trip down memory lane!

2013

130808 LIVE ON EARTH SINGAPORE

131005 One Great Step in Singapore

2014

141121 kstarfanfest (With soundcheck)

141212 BTS TRB (wich hitouch)

2015

150503 Vixx Utopia

150924 Beast FM

2016

160109 Exoluxion

160627 LOE Awake (with hi touch)

2017

170402 Exordium

2018

180713 One The World

2019

190119 Love Yourself

190406 Seongwu Eternity FM (with hitouch)

2022

220702 NCT IN Singapore Neo: The Link

2023

230421 Red Velvet R to V in Singapore

230514 Born Pink In Singapore

230517 EXO-SC Back to Back in SG

230610 D-Day in bangkok Day 2

230616 Day in Singapore Day 1 (With soundcheck)

230716 Colours of Yongguk (with soundcheck, hi touch and photo op)

[smiles-advice]

there is no such thing as being "behind in life" but it's okay to recognise that you missed out on some things whilst you were busy surviving

[dlxxv-vetted-donations]

Urgent: We fundraised to get these Palestinians into college, but they need supplies.

Updated: Oct 23

Deadline Oct 27 (survival needs):

USD $ 5,460 6,428 / 7,200

Short term-goal to keep the campaign on track

@devtawfik / vet / more details 1 / gfm: Paypal, Venmo, credit/debit

Tawfik urgently needs to buy living supplies for his family. After that, he needs to pay off his international student fees. Surplus funds will go towards caring for his family and paying off future academic costs.

Deadline Oct 31 (part of tuition):

€ 1,900 2,147 / 3,100

Short term-goal to keep the campaign on track

@3bdulra7manosama / vet (#4 on list) / more details / gfm: Paypal, Google Pay, credit/debit

Abdulrahman is an evacuated Palestinian attending medical school in Egypt and must pay off his tuition.

Done:

Deadline Oct 20 (laptop):

CAD $ 20,505 21,800 / 21,800

@reemagaza / Operation Olive Branch #18 / more details 1 / more details 2 / gfm: Credit/debit / Paypal: my Kofi, I'll donate whatever Paypal doesn't take and post proof of donation within 3 days under the 'receipts' tag

Reema needs a laptop to take her exams. Surplus funds will go towards supporting her family in Palestine.

This campaign could use more support. See my rb here.

[saucefunk]

CONTROL YOURSELF

[prettieinpink]

HOW TO GET OUT OF A READING SLUMP

Inspired by how I'm currently trying to read again. 

START SHORTER. Try to read something manageable for you, and it doesn’t have to even be a full novel. It could be an essay on something that interests you or any short stories you find. Get into the habit of reading at your own pace, till you feel ready to take on something bigger. 

SET REALISTIC GOALS. Instead of wanting a goal like completing a book within a week, I would say 20 minutes of reading per day or at least 2 hours per week. You don’t have to track the time when you’re reading, but make mental notes of when you start reading and how long you read. 

EXPLORE. You may even be tired of reading certain genres, and not notice it. While in a slump, I would explore different books and see what interests me the most. For example, if you love reading romance books, try some action ones instead(or vice versa.)

REREAD FAVES. The familiarity of some books can help us get back into the swing of reading. Every time I reread a book, I always pick up on new details that I didn’t notice before. Reread one of your favourite books and try to spot details that you didn’t spot before. 

MAKE A LIST. Create a list of all the books that you want to read or reread. I feel like the process of seeing all the books you could, really encourages you to pick up that book. 

TRY A DIFFERENT FORMAT. For a lot of us, reading paperback or hard copy is the way to go. However, when I’m in a slump, I feel like opting for a different format helps me to get back into reading. For example, a digital book, or an e-book. (or vice versa)

READ IN A DIFFERENT ENVIRONMENT. I love LOVE, reading in an actual library. It is not for everyone, but a change of scenery can help. Some ideas can be at a park, a cafe, beaches and or a nature trail. 

PAIR READING WITH ANOTHER ACTIVITY. Some examples are exercising, cooking, travelling/commuting or doing mindfulness activities. This is more for getting back into the habit, once you’ve got it again, I would say to focus only on reading. 

[trans-axolotl]

nothing makes me more insane than the phrase "selling your body" btw. like was i not also selling my body at every other job i've had where i had to be on my feet all day, lifting boxes, working in a warehouse, etc. why is it that sex work is uniquely labeled as "selling your body" while every other job is sorted into another category, no matter how much that job might have a physical impact on your body. lmao.

[stuckinapril]

I genuinely think that any change in behavior starts w telling yourself that your worst days, worst performances, just worst moments in general aren’t who you “truly are.” It’s all about unlearning any thought process that essentially chalks up traits you aren’t proud of to “this is who I really am” “in reality I’m lazy” “in reality I’m just a bad person” bc not only is that never true, but it impedes your efforts to try to do better as well. Anything we struggle with has roots in things like childhood trauma, thoughts you’ve been fed before, your upbringing…. but never that you’re inherently a bad person. What I’m learning this year is that a lot of us doing better & being better & improving really comes down to self-talk—to disavowing the very notion that deep down we’re simply bad.

[becomingvecna]

reblog if you think these are all valid reasons for a student or an employee to take a day off from their school or their job without their grades or paycheck being affected in any way:

- period cramps

- exhaustion, be it mental or physical

- depression, anxiety, and other mental health related issues

[chiangyorange]

big fan of wild being the only one with scary blue eyes.

sir put those away.

(not necessary for enjoyment but heres the video im referencing)

[dumblr]

[liberaljane]

"What did you do all weekend?"

"I just rested"

"Just?"

Digital illustration of a brown woman sleeping in blue linen sheets. At the end of the bed is a sleeping cat.

[smiles-advice]

you don't talk too much. you're not too loud, or too needy, or too annoying.

you are not too much.

you're allowed to exist and take up space.

[yousaveeveryonebutwhosavesyou]

What really sucks is when you know you should be doing something but physically/mentally cannot bring yourself to do it no matter how important doing that thing is.

[byfulcrums]

Most straight relationships in media: “Even though there's no development and no chemistry and we don't look like we love each other that much we'll date because we're straight and that's what we're supposed to do. Right??”

Most queer relationships in media: “If saving you is a sin, I'll gladly become a sinner.” — “Dying together also included a ‘together’.” — “You changed my destiny from the moment we touched.” — “I would know him in death, at the end of the world.” — “The hero and the warrior were like the sun and the moon...”