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[richarlotte]

Tuesday’s Wisdom.

[caviarproject]

Your life should be confusing to others.

Your next step should never be announced to those closest to you,unless it has been achieved.

People should watch you improving your life silently and keep giving them the shock factor.

Come out with a new body, new skill, new hair style, better makeup, a snatched new set of teeth, a new business venture, an upgraded home, a new car, a move to a new country/ city, pop out with something new and do not explain anything.

Shock them, be mysterious.

There is nothing more attractive or inspiring than seeing a woman upgrade and do a complete 180.

[femininedating]

[prettieinpink]

BEING MAGNETIC THROUGH SOFTNESS

BEING OPTIMISTIC, regardless of the circumstances. People love positivity and will gravitate to people who make them feel good regardless of their circumstances.

SMILE. Even if you’re just walking around, having a nice friendly smile appeals to people and deems you approachable.

HELP WHENEVER YOU CAN, hold the door for someone, or lift a small burden for them. However, if you’re helping someone and it is out of your capabilities, it’s people-pleasing.

BE PRESENT, don’t dwell on the past or worry about the future. Just focus on what you’re doing, and with who at that moment.

BE AN ACTIVE LISTENER, engage in conversations with people and genuinely take in the information they tell you + make an effort to remember these facts about them.

AVOID JUDGING AND GOSSIPING, no matter how nice you are, as soon as you display these traits, you create a distance between your friends/family. While honesty is valued, if people don’t feel like they can be their authentic selves around you, they’ll close themselves up.

GIVE COMPLIMENTS OFTEN. Only if you mean it. It doesn’t have to be someone who you’re close to, but even just passers-by.

BE VULNERABLE. People won’t open up to people who are closed up. Share your deepest fears, challenges and emotions to create a deeper connection and trust.

PRACTICE BEING HUMBLE, while it is okay to celebrate our successes, we must be mindful of the manner we do so. Acknowledge other’s efforts and be willing to learn from others.

REPLACE SORRY WITH THANK YOU. If you’re a serial say-sorry person, replace them with thank you. E.g. sorry I’m late -> thank you for patiently waiting.

BE OPEN-MINDED, surround yourself with a diverse environment, and be willing to learn from other’s perspectives.

TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY. Apologise when necessary and own up to your own mistakes, but be sure to not repeat them.

[rihnely]

[arikasugar]

[bbltheque]

she is so real for that

[thesirencult]

THEY DON'T KNOW YOU

They don't know how many times you cried yourself to sleep.

They don't know how many times you had to pick yourself up.

They don't know your true desires and dreams.

They don't know what you're capable of.

They don't know what your soul is made of.

They don't know you. They only know their perception of you.

Don't let a mere perception control you.

Fuck them.

[maenadmaiden]

A little guide for the girlies

A wise woman once said that the kind of man who would marry Paris Hilton is not the same man that would marry Amal Clooney and it's so true. You need to know who you are and how to market yourself and whoever you'll appeal to naturally to succeed because life is all about compatibility.

When dating pretty much all men come under these categories : independents, partial independents and dependents. 

Dependents

They're: Either young or not established and rely on nepotism, allowances and familial goodwill ( they are highly dependent on mummy and daddy’s approval) or they’re controlled by managers and contracts and are controlled by the image these entities want for them e.g nepo babies, athletes.

You're: Young but age appropriate, hot but reserved and classic with your style personality or hobbies. Not boring but definitely someone that won't create fuss or scandal with their family. More Nara Smith than Anna Nicole Smith. A solid good girl image and a clean slate are musts.

Independents

They're : Established or self made and their money and name are their own ( they’re not controlled by the opinions of others in any big way. You can’t fire them or disinherit them).Don't care about pissing-off family members or managers.

You're: Whatever their type is. Sometimes looks and stereotypical femininity don't matter to them at all sometimes it's all they care about.

These women both landed independents.

but so did this one

Partials

They're: A mix of both, they have their own thing but their families more than likely have a say in how they live or they have boards to answer to.

You're: A mixture of what they want and what they can get away with taking home to their parents.

Further down there are four categories of each 

Entrepreneurial: They made their money through business or they are set to inherit one. Eg magnates, tech bros or heirs.

You're: Either a stereotypical trophy wife or an entrepreneurial person yourself. Looks may matter but they may not.

Academic: Their lives are devoted to academia eg tenured professors, experts in their fields etc.

You're : Educated and more than likely an academic yourself. Being a bimbo with a phd in thewizardliz and simonesquared will not cut it.

Entertainment: They made their money through getting people to waste their attention on them.

You're: Stereotypically hot and flashy and very social think wags and hollywood gfs.

Even further down you have the private and the forward facing. 

Privates will never be in Forbes willingly, they have almost no socials and will make the guy at Starbucks sign an NDA before placing an order.

You're : Extremely Discrete

Forward facers need attention to live and their professional and romantic choices reflect this.

You're: Good At Keeping Up Appearances

[richarlotte]

one of the most important videos I’ve seen this year.

[caviarproject]

Protect your feminine aura.

Men or toxic friends are vultures preying for your energy.

The company you give, the creativity you have, your looks, your body, your wisdom, your love, your ideas, just being around you, your poise, the connections your attract, your abundance.

Be careful or one day all that you have worked on will be drained out of you.

Sometimes people have you in their life because you are that attraction and energy they need to thrive in their lives.

They ghost you for days and come back not because they miss you but they need some of that aura again.

[femininedating]

[multiverselovegoddess]

some of my favorite archived stripperweb posts - hustle hut (pt. 1)

💗The full archived version of Stripperweb can be viewed here💗

I'm going to make this a series in order to help sw'ers, especially those who may not have been around to experience Stripperweb. I'm also kick-starting this series with some of my favorite posts/threads from the Hustle Hut forum so we can all make some fat stacks! Reblog to fatten a hot girl's wallet tonite!!! 💰🤑💰🤑💰

Law of Attraction and Me being a Money Magnet

Putting customers into a trance & hypnotizing them

$2000/night advanced hustle tips

I've been giving men too much credit

Selling champagne rooms 101

Exteeeeend VIP

Helpful things

When they ask what you do in the VIP room

Selling more than a few dances

The Greedy Stripper/Spoiled Princess Hustle

Ice Queen Hustle

Trophy Wife Hustle

Being an Aggressive Money Maker

How to compete and make money in a club with heavy extras

Read this if you find it hard to believe you are worth large amounts of cash

Making the most of your time at the club

How high earners do it

That "one girl"

Hustling at a twerking club

Casting a Wide Net + Other Secrets

[arikasugar]

[bbltheque]

girl ate im afraid