#sugar heaux

[richarlotte]

This is why we have to date men who can afford us ✨

[gent-illmatic]

[kissmethroughthebone]

I am always taken to exciting events.

Any exquisite event I want, I go to.

Men are always happy to foot a bill and buy me tickets to anything I want.

Anything I want to do, men will agree to and happily execute, just to see me myself.

I am always granted excitement, charm, and excellent experiences from the men I allow into my life.

The men I allow in my life are happy to surprise me and do the absolute best they can to see me smile and gush.

I am a magnet to men who are adventurous, and are always around to take me to any high power and fancy occasion I want.

I always have the perfect wardrobe for each and every event as well, making me look absolutely stunning each time.

Anything I want, ever, as a date, is given to me by the men I have in my life, since they're all generous, exciting, and lovable romantics.

God bless and amen, thank you so much Universe for bestowing this upon me, and thank you for the gifts.

[rihnely]

With hypergamy the ultimate goal is to settle down & be taken care of by a man. But before that happens you need to be able to take care of yourself too. Go to school get your education.📚 Make sure that regardless of a man you can live the lifestyle you want regardless. 💅🏾

Pay your bills without having anxiety of not being able to make it etc. It’s okay to do things like Uber eats, Instacart, Amazon flex, work those extra shifts, wear a costume or work at McDonald’s (make sure to save most of your money) while you’re in school (you can even start school at 50+) age does not matter: go to school!

This also prevents avoiding desperation or staying with someone, because you rely on them & have no other option due to being in survival mode.🐺 Have your own, so you’ll never be stuck somewhere you don’t want to be at someone’s mercy, because you can’t provide for yourself.

You should never ever have to stay with a toxic,🪣 abusive, cheap, emotionally unavailable man who doesn’t give you what you deserve etc. because you need him to provide for you in order to survive. If you get stuck in that situation, it happens, 🤷🏽‍♀️ do what you must, but start writing a plan to escape immediately, numbers, dates & all. 💨👟

There’s a difference in being solely dependent on a man before & after marriage. With marriage you are entitled to his $ + assets: legally, 📜 without a 💍 you are entitled to nothing.

Don’t be lazy or naive… get up… work… be able to provide for yourself until you have secured the 💍👰🏽‍♀️💒🤵💰

📸Instagram: @anarihn

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[aaliyahtaniyah]

Dates n Pretty plates

[arikasugar]

[demerara-mara]

I am so successful in life.

It surpasses mere luck; winning is my destiny.

[richarlotte]

one of the most important videos I’ve seen this year.

[giselleseraphin]

Becoming soft spoken affirmations

I am soft spoken

I have a delicate voice

My tone is soft & sweet

People fawn over me even more once I speak

My voice is highly feminine

Now practice saying these phrases in your most feminine natural voice whilst looking in the mirror.

“Oh really? I think that’s actually quite fascinating!”

“I appreciate your offer, but no thank you. Have a lovely day!”

[kissmethroughthebone]

I have a collection of classic dresses, like the one Karen wore in the Copacabana scene in Goodfellas. Whenever I step out, people notice my amazing inviting hips, my sensual walk, my high power strut, and how absolutely toned and beautiful I am. My skin glistens in all lightings so wonderfully that I look better than a Hajime Sorayama painting, and I am a magnet to the loveliest attention and affections known to man, always and effortlessly.

I have a mink coat like Sharon Stone wore in Casino. It's cozy, soft, and makes me look extremely elegant and high class every time I step outside. It makes others command respect for me, and almost fear me.

And I have an overall cozy, exquisite, and high end life that affords me anything I desire, anything at all, it is mine and here for me.

I have diamonds and jewels on my ear that shine as bright as any royal's ever could. And sparkle even better. And men love to give me exquisite gifts even on a first date, just to make me blush and see me show my sparkling teeth their way for them to admire.

I have all the sweets life can offer me. Even the rare ones. Macarons with the little plastic champagne flutes in them to squirt into my mouth. Nutella wafers in all my favorite flavors. Sweet tarts and biscuits, red velvet brownies, all the fixin's.

A steak dinner and a pork roast at a high end exclusive restaurant? Booked that evening. A nice raspberry creampuff with fluffy whip cream and a Trix-like filling? Already ordered for pickup to my area tomorrow. A nice set of jewelry and a photoshoot? Already can have it all.

Nothing is ever too much for me.

I have a man that can whisk me away to nicer places, shower me in gifts, bouquets of flowers, and make me smile as hard as possible.

I have a man who takes me through long wandering hallways and into the best dizzyingly gorgeous places known to man, just to see me smile. Just to bask in my radiance and my beauty. And savour my whimsy and happiness as if it were his own.

Tennis bracelets, the best rosé and chardonnay life has to offer, the best treats, the best snacks, it's all at my disposal and it's all for me to enjoy. No luxury is ever too much, I have all the luxuries provided for me with ease. God bless and amen, I am so grateful, thank you so much.

[rihnely]

Hypergamy as a single mom 🩷

So there’s a lot of posts about hypergamy, but geared towards typically young single women without offspring. This can be discouraging for all the mommies & mommies to be. Hypergamy is not only reserved for women without kids. Although your path may be slightly different & have different obstacles it doesn’t mean you can never find a high value man or level up your life.

There’s this misconception that no “high value” man wants to date a single mom, but this is far from true. It’s not about you being a single mom it’s about how you carry yourself individually & how you carry yourself as a mother. A large portion of “high value” men actually don’t mind children because they care more about how you as their partner would be able to elevate their life & what value you can add to it, a man of substance can afford your kids and will just see them as an extension of you. If you are the woman he wants and he knows a woman like you is hard to find, he will accept everything that comes with you and will accept your children, because if a man truly loves you and sees you as his dream woman he will do what it takes to have & keep you in his life.

There are countless examples of high value men dating & marrying single mothers even in the world of elites; and there always will be. These men can have any young, beautiful woman who doesn’t have kids, but yet they chose to make a woman with kids their life partner. Here’s a list of “Elite” high value men.

1. Marjorie Harvey (Lori Harvey’s Mother) & Steve Harvey

Marjorie Harvey originally met Steve before she was a mother & Steve was instantly in love at first site, but as life has it they didn’t get together until years later after Marjorie already had children, Marjorie was always seemingly hypergamous & the father of Lori Harvey is said to be a big time drug dealer & had been in prison. Despite this Marjorie was a regular woman without status who happened to come to one of Steve’s shows & Steve decided she was the one he wanted to be his wife despite her having children. Take note that the way Marjory carried herself is what caught Steve’s eye. Her confidence, fashion sense, makeup, posture, fitness aura & personality all equated to Steve’s attraction. Steve had also stated ways Marjorie has directly improved the quality of his life one example being her changing his lifestyle for the better & his sense of style which greatly contributed to his current success. Now due to Steve, Marjorie was able to afford her children the best opportunities that many can only dream of such as Lori Harvey.

2. Ciara & Russel Wilson

I’m sure we all know of “Ciara’s famous prayer” that she claims is how she got with Russel. Ciara had already had a child by the rapper future who left her as a “baby mamma.” She then became celibate when she met Russel. He was accepting of the son she already had & of her celibacy. They later married & had 3 more children together. Russel Wilson was one of the most infamous quarterbacks in the world, whom again could have any woman he desires yet he chose to be with Ciara because of how she carried herself, her qualities, & the value she added to his life that he knew he might not find in someone else & maybe didn’t want to find in someone else because he wanted her. She leveled up from a deadbeat “baby daddy” to a sophisticated husband with not only money, but qualities so many women desire in a man.

3. Jennifer Lopez…

So despite what you might think/ feel about her. You have to give her props because she has no problem getting a man to marry her, although keeping them is another story… Jennifer has been married 4 times. Her most recent marriage being to actor Ben Affleck despite her having her two fraternal twins by singer Marc Anthony.

4. Camila & prince Charles

Although many don’t like Camilla & in the looks department many claim she never hit close to princess Diana, Camilla was able to secure the bag & the now king of England. Camilla started an affair with King Charles when he was still married to Diana which left so many people in confusion. This is an example of if a man wants you he will do what it take to have you. Camilla has children by her ex husband. Since Charles is apart of the royal family he could have lost his title being with her, especially because she was a divorced none royal with kids which was previously a big no no for the royal family & deemed unacceptable, but he jumped through whatever hoops he had to in order to be with her & then marry her whilst keeping his royal titles. As the then prince & now king of England Charles had an endless line of potential wives of the highest status & beauty whom didn’t have children, and was already married to princess Diana who was stunning, but not the marriage of his choice. He still chose Camilla to be his life partner & married her as soon as he was royally allowed too.

All of that goes to say, you being a single mom won’t deter every or even most high value men. You need to fit the part though. Take care of your body, have substance, a feminine aura, and make sure you can add value into a man’s life. Don’t listen to podcast bros or the red p!ll men who don’t know what they’re talking about and aren’t even high value men to be having the discussion. Don’t be discouraged by the nay sayers. Even men who claim they would never date a single mother end up dating exactly that.

You’re NOT spoiled, used up, or worthless because you’re a single mother.

Keep in mind you’re not just gonna run into the prince of England & he’ll fall madly in love and marry you. The point is you can most definitely get with a high value man that’s available around you.

There are high value men who will & do choose “ hot” & even not so conventionally attractive single mothers over “hot” women without kids. These men are at the gym, at high end lounges, at high end bars, at the country club/golf courses, cafes, Barnes & Nobles etc. Not sitting behind a keyboard or a podcast arguing online. Go outside & let him find you!

[gent-illmatic]

🐐LilKim

[xxsick-vicxx]

Omg I just want someone to worship and dote on and send cute lil texts to while they pay for my allowance and call me good boy

Is that too much to ask?!?!

[demerara-mara]

I am so gorgeous it hurts

I am so gorgeous it hurts

I am so gorgeous it hurts

I am so gorgeous it hurts

I am so gorgeous it hurts

I am so gorgeous it hurts

I am so gorgeous it hurts

[ms-chameleon]

Selfcare is a privilege. Never forget that.

[richarlotte]

What’s helped you most in terms of looks?

Thick mid back length hair and it has to look healthy.

Getting my nails done weekly in a clean/natural style.

Soft makeup with glossy lips and lots of contour/blush.

Knowing exactly what I’m doing with my aesthetic.

Natural makeup unless I’m doing black smoky eyeliner.

Flexirod sets, bouncy blowouts, and Velcro roller sets.

Never wearing heavy perfumes OR thick essential oils.

Thick but natural looking brows and long wispy lashes.

Extremely moisturized, hydrated, and very glowy skin.

Being confident in my height and weighing under 165.

Keeping all of my clothes clean and investing in pieces.

Buying high quality jewelry and other fun accessories.

Investing in all of my makeup and skincare products.

Making sure to both wear, and enjoy, bright colors.

Loving the color of my skin and styling with it in mind.