#leveled up mindset

[missexquisite]

SIS, before you start making your goals for 2025:

• make sure you become loyal to your word!

• don't just write goals to be cute.

• handle that shit like you said you're going to!

• commit to doing what you said you are going to do.

• quit PLAYING and DISAPPOINTING YOURSELF all of the time

[richarlotte]

How to start?

First you must let go and free yourself of the idea that you cannot be soft or beautiful while being yourself.

Begin the process of experimentation and find what works for you. Don't rush; take your time and enjoy every step of the process. Leveling up is all about finding something that works for you and that you love.

Choose a topic you love and learn more about it; focus on getting a degree or a certificate, and work your mind. Focusing on education will help you succeed. 

Make a pact to stop fighting with yourself, stop hating yourself, and start appreciating what you have to work with. You must think of yourself as a work in progress instead of a failure. Life is easier when you’re evolving.

Find a way of moving your body that you love and keep doing it. Working out, eating well (80/20), hydrating, and caring for yourself is an integral part of aging well. 

Document, journal, take notes, and write things down. Journaling gave me the ability to look back and see how I felt about things after they’d passed, it kept me on the path moving forward, and it helped me grow up.

Set a goal to meet one new person or do one new activity every month. Focus on slowly building quality relationships with people and finding new hobbies; don’t speedrun through things and hope for the best.

Be sure to save a little here and there, take your time to build up your funds, and don’t spend on things you don’t need. Careless spending will stop your journey before it can begin, and the truth is that you don’t need to overconsume or buy things without really thinking.

Take your time building yourself into the person you want to be. Can you do it in 6 months? Yes, but you should expect to work on yourself for at least a year. 

Prepare to pour into yourself. You’re going to spend a lot of time pouring into yourself and nourishing your own development, and you should be prepared to analyze yourself, both current and past versions. 

Find something you believe in. Be that a culture, a tradition, a religion, a language, a school of thought, or the works of an author. Find something you love, enjoy, and believe in; take it to heart, and bring it to life. 

[foreverrryourssss]

[windonthewaters]

[lasaidso]

I NEED women to get comfortable telling folks “You’re not doing enough for me” and “I need more than what you’re capable or willing to provide.” I need my ladies to say it, mean it, and STAND on it, because that’s where your best life and best LOVE resides. It’s not selfish, it’s self preservation. Too many times, people come into our lives, leave with more than what they had, when they came, and we are left depleted and broken when they’re gone.

Dead it. ♥️

[graceandopulence]

[chichiscloset]

She’s a lady

[golden444manifest]

[blackgirldiariess]

[highblkfemsociety]

Finishing Strong: A Guide to Ending the Year with Intention

Hello Beautiful,

As we enter the final quarter of the year, it’s time to reassess, realign, and step into our power. For the high-achieving woman, Q4 is the perfect opportunity to manifest abundance, success, and peace. The last stretch of the year can be incredibly transformative if you take the time to focus on intentional growth and clarity. This guide will help you make the most of it.

Vision Boarding: Your Visual Blueprint for Success

A vision board is more than just a collection of inspiring images— it’s a visual roadmap to your goals. As the year draws to a close, this tool can help you stay aligned with your deepest desires and prevent distractions from trends that may not serve your higher purpose.

Why Vision Boarding Works:

Clarifies intentions: Visualizing your goals helps solidify them in your mind.

Amplifies focus: It’s easier to stay on track when you can see success every day.

Boosts motivation: A visual reminder reignites passion when the journey gets tough.

Tracks progress: As you achieve goals, you can reflect on how far you’ve come.

Encourages self-reflection: It’s a tool for assessing what truly matters to you, even as life shifts.

How to Create an Inspiring Vision Board:

Set your intentions: Before you begin, ask yourself what you truly want to manifest in the final months of the year. Be specific. Is it financial abundance? Career growth? Deeper self-love?

Gather visuals: Find images, quotes, and affirmations that align with your intentions. These can come from magazines, online, or even personal photographs that symbolize your goals.

Display with purpose: Place your vision board somewhere you’ll see it daily. It could be your workspace, bedroom, or even your phone wallpaper—wherever it can regularly inspire you.

Review regularly: As the quarter progresses, check in with your board. Adjust it as needed, whether adding new goals or removing old ones.

Vision boarding is not just about aesthetics; it’s a way to stay grounded in your purpose and connected to your inner desires. This practice empowers you to remain authentic and committed to meaningful objectives, ensuring you don’t stray from your path as the year winds down.

Journaling for Clarity: Unlocking Your True Potential

Along with vision boarding, journaling is an essential practice for self-discovery and personal growth. It allows you to access your innermost thoughts, uncover desires, and identify areas where you need to pivot or push harder.

The Benefits of Journaling for Clarity:

Fosters self-awareness: Writing helps you process emotions and ideas, leading to deeper understanding.

Refines your objectives: Journaling can reveal what’s most important to you, helping to prioritize goals.

Uncovers hidden strengths: Often, we don’t recognize our capabilities until we reflect on them through writing.

Helps you strategize: By identifying potential obstacles, you can develop plans to overcome them.

Enhances focus and motivation: Regular journaling keeps your objectives clear, making it easier to stay disciplined.

Journaling Prompts for a Powerful Q4:

What do I want to achieve by the end of this year?

What obstacles have held me back in the past, and how can I overcome them?

What are my strengths, and how can I leverage them to reach my goals?

How do I want to feel when I look back on this year in December?

What am I grateful for right now, and how can I use that energy to propel me forward?

When you make journaling a part of your daily routine, you create space for clarity and creativity. This practice is especially powerful for manifesting success and growth because it fosters a mindset of continuous self-improvement and reflection.

Mindset Shifts: The Power of Affirmations and Mental Resets

The final quarter is not just about working toward your goals but also about transforming your mindset to support your journey. Affirmations and mental resets are two key strategies for doing this.

Why Mindset Matters:

Success isn’t just about hard work; it’s about believing you are worthy of the results. Affirmations are a daily tool to remind yourself of your power and potential. Whether you say them in front of a mirror or write them in your journal, affirmations help shift limiting beliefs into empowering ones.

Examples of Affirmations for a Powerful Q4:

I am deserving of all the abundance that is coming my way.

I am capable of achieving everything I set my mind to.

I am worthy of success, love, and happiness.

I trust the process and know that everything is unfolding for my highest good.

I release any doubts and embrace my power fully.

Daily mental resets can also help you stay grounded when challenges arise. These can be as simple as taking a few deep breaths, practicing meditation, or taking a short walk to clear your mind. By intentionally resetting, you can approach tasks with renewed energy and focus.

As the year draws to a close, the fourth quarter provides an opportunity for reflection, growth, and manifestation. Whether through vision boarding, journaling, or affirmations, reclaim your power and finish the year with intention.

How are you planning to end the year with intention? Share your goals and insights below!

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[missexquisite]

If you want 2025 to be your year:

Don't sit on the couch and wait for it.

Go out.

Make a change.

Smile more.

Be excited.

Do new things.

Throw away what you've been cluttering.

Unfollow negative people on social media.

Go to bed early.

Wake up early.

Be fierce.

Don't gossip.

Show more gratitude.

Do things that challenge you.

Be brave.

[richarlotte]

Tuesday’s Wisdom.

[foreverrryourssss]

[wonyoungismn1glowup]

"I hate how mean they are!"

𝐢𝐭 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥 𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐞 𝟐𝟏𝟑𝟏𝟒𝟒𝟑𝟐𝟑𝟒𝟐𝟓: 𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐧𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫

[ef0si]

[graceandopulence]