#luxury heaux

[rihnely]

[kissmethroughthebone]

I don't leave my house for anything that wouldn't give me more bliss than I would have back at home.

I stay in my zone, relax and enjoy my own presence.

I provide my own joy, my own peace, and my own freedom and sense of self. I don't need the validation of others to thrive.

I love to make delicious homecooked meals, for me, myself, and I. The taste of savory rice, exquisitely juicy meat, and fresh cooked veggies always makes me melt. It's so euphoric.

People know to treat me to exactly I deserve, since I give myself nothing less.

I only allow the wealthiest and generous men in my presence, and they cover all things when I leave outside. They give me money just for showing up, since I know my worth is priceless.

I get free gifts from men just to leave my house for them. Plants, gift cards, flowers, money, gemstones. All of it is mine, with a smile on their face!

I get everything I believe I am worthy of, no matter what.

Men pay attention to what I like, and they provide me with everything I love so much, since they love me as well.

I am worth everything I desire and more, and I get everything I desire and more.

I never leave my house for anything not better than what I can do for myself, ever.

[giselleseraphin]

Becoming soft spoken affirmations

I am soft spoken

I have a delicate voice

My tone is soft & sweet

People fawn over me even more once I speak

My voice is highly feminine

Now practice saying these phrases in your most feminine natural voice whilst looking in the mirror.

“Oh really? I think that’s actually quite fascinating!”

“I appreciate your offer, but no thank you. Have a lovely day!”

[cochellacoco]

[swingingbaby]

HE APOLOGIZED

So I woke up this morning to get ready for school and i find a text message from him

Am I happy? YESSS

Will I regret it? I HOPE NOT

Do I love him? MAYBE

I DO I DO I DO

[rihnely]

That’s what I’m saying, every path may be different but don’t sit around waiting for a man to rescue you. It could happen in theory yes, men have been a great asset to me financially and have rescued me through a lot but that was based on a mix luck, hypergamous skill, & beauty. Actually I was/am able to be successfully hypergamous due to a lot of what I learned on tumblr, but the downside of that was that out me at a man’s mercy because I depended on them. Regardless no one should be putting all their eggs in one basket. Even if you are being provided for, have a way for yourself, be able to provide for yourself when you need to so you never have to worry about anything regardless of your circumstances.

I will always be hypergamous an use my Youth, beauty, and Witt’s to be financially provided for by a man, but I see them as an “extra boost” to what I already have for myself now. For example. If I’m going to work and making a few thousand a month and a man wants to contribute by paying my bills or for cosmetic treatments. I will be saving at least one check. I will save my own money and spend his which helps me financially in the long run 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

A soft life requires HARD WORK!!!!

You should pamper and take care of yourselves. HOWEVER, You need more than a pretty face these days y'all to get ahead in life. You see women who are in business, law, and Healthcare. They had to bust their behinds to get where they are now. Endless nights staying up to studying, not worried about men 24/7, dreaming about what will be on the other side to motivate themselves. Some of y'all want to be babied. Yes, not every woman thinks the same and wants to be a rich housewife. How do you think women become rich housewives? Networking, Education, volunteering, Hobbies, etc.

Some of these girlies on tumblr are selling a fantasy and I'll let them have it but this is not a Wattpad fanfiction. WAKE UP and get up and do something!!!

[richarlotte]

Tuesday’s Wisdom.

[blissfullyecho]

2025 Vision 🖤🍸🪩

[scorpioluvvr]

[giselleseraphin]

This, Is such an important reminder 🌷

Understanding that life isn't fair and that people will not always stand by you when you are on the correct side will take away a lot of unnecessary emotional burdens.

A lot of people act and support exclusively the things that benefit them or that suit their biases. Other people are not able to think critically to assess a situation and will not care to understand where you are coming from because their minds are unable to see the world through the same lenses that you have. Others simply do not share the same values as you and won't come to your aid because it's not in their character.

Understanding this is crucial to keep yourself from constantly feeling betrayed and/or victimized. When you understand that in this world you don't get rewarded for acting right but for acting in accordance with your best interests, and that the assistance of others is only an added bonus but not a need, is the moment you will alleviate a lot of unnecessary resentment and emotional pain. Realizing that you don't need them or their approval makes you free.

So what if they misrepresent, mistreat, or misjudge you? As long as you remain true to yourself and you keep going doing what you know is best for you, standing strong by your convictions, and rising above their reactions you will reach your goals. You don't need their approval in anything, what you need is a solid and unwavering peace of mind and a strong sense of self-preservation.

[rihnely]

If a man wants to cheat he’ll cheat. Don’t take it personally. It’s not about you, if he was with someone else he would do the same things to her. It’s a him thing. Make sure any man you’re with is investing in & spoiling you, cry in a bmw, tesla or better rather than a Kia. Wipe your tears with the napkin you just pulled out of the new Chanel limited edition purse he just bought you, & use his card to pay for your divorce lawyer that’s going to take half his assets & stock shares for you that will allow you to never have to work again. Don’t get your heart broken by a broke man who can’t do anything for you, leaving you empty handed. At the very least a man’s infidelity should be able to level you up in life.

[kissmethroughthebone]

Went shopping for succulents the other day with this guy I met on Bumble.

He had the nerve to think an early 20s girl would ask him, a 43 year old man, to take her succulent shopping, just to have him 1) ignore everything she says at all about plants, life, etc, and 2) pay for it herself.

Anyway I didn't have my card on me and made a nice passive Oscar award winning "oh dear, oh, wait, did i-" act, while patting on the small pockets on my teeny little jacket, that he had went "I can spot you for it if you'd like."

*GASP* You would? Really?

Haha.

Anyway almost 70 dollars worth of sunset and pastel colored plant babies is pleasant as fuck.

On another note, a previous casual trick/fwb (that pays for my time and energy) was shocked and hurt at the idea of me abandoning him, and he went out of his way to visit a succulent expo and buy me a rare plant to settle my emotions again after he recently upset me.

Now that's what I am talking about; a man that gets me a graptoveria purple delight to show that he absolutely wants to stay around me is a man that I enjoy.

[giselleseraphin]

☁️ The burn inside when you feel they’ve gotten away with hurting you, the way they burned pain inside of you and walked away untouched. You wanna make them feel the pain they’ve made you feel. You want a taste of that sweet vengeance. I know you’ve felt it.

The rage. Well I’m here to tell you, you must let it go. Free yourself from the chains they’ve confined you to. Find outlets for that rage, scream, break something (not valuable) let it rage, but don’t let them see. Don’t let them see your pain. It could take days, weeks, or months, but it will pass: it always passes. Don’t let that rage burn through your field of lilies, put it in the sky & turn it into the sun that nourishes your land. 🌷

[rihnely]

This was so so sad…

This situation is so sad.

Being feminine is not enough. Having your own money is not enough. We have to learn how to VET men properly.

Vetting a man as a provider is one thing, but don’t forget to vet his character too.

Is he a good person?

Does he have good morals?

Does he have good character?

Is he respectful to you?

Does he care for others?

Is he emotionally mature?

We have to pay attention to red flags and green flags. We have to stop being desperate and rushing when in relationships. Low self esteem, fear and poor vetting is why women end up with these type of abusive men.

Women have to start dating smart!

[cochellacoco]

As I reflect on my past, I remember living in a run-down apartment in a neighborhood where I couldn't even go on a peaceful walk without Tyrones trying to disrespectfully speak to me. The fear of rejecting them was enough to make me feel like my life was flashing before my eyes. The streets filled with trash and building of graffiti. I would wake up to the sound of gunshots or streetlights and my toxic “hood" mother screaming about whatever thing had made her angry that morning.

I can still something’s feel my body tighten with absolute fear of her wrath when I think about it. I felt like I had no protection, no one to lean on, and no one to help me. I remember scrolling through tumblr and reading all the stories of women who had leveled up their lives and so bluntly said “you can do it to” giving out tips about being softer, meeting men, and somehow having endless amounts of money, as if It was easy. (I realise now that a lot of that money they had was gained in ways I’m not interested in, no hate to them ❤️ :) but I never thought I could nor would. I could only fantasize about that life.

But now, I am free. I have made several changes to my life to get where I am today,and it feels amazing. I have moved to a new neighborhood where only affluent people reside, and I feel safe. I no longer have to worry about street harassment or holding my purse too tightly. The men that approach me are affluent and kind, and they are attracted to the feminine energy that I have somehow managed to persevere through my hardships. The man I have is amazing, he provides for me, I never worry about money, being discarded, or discomfort with him. My life is a luxury I never thought was possible for me and it still leaves me in awe.

I’ve also realized one thing well this is one of many.

men aren’t the center of my life. I needed to focus on me to get my vessel where she needed to be before I thought about men. Without doing that then my relationships would fail and money can’t hold that together (although it is an essential part of a relationship) I want to be with one person and one person forever.

Sometimes, my mother's strong masculine voice comes out of me, and I fight it with all my might.

I know that this femininity is partly artificial, (actually tumblr for all these years has taught me so much about being the type of woman I’m becoming) but I am determined to be who I need to be, the woman I see when I close my eyes and dream. She is not a warrior, but she is in a field of daisies joyfully dancing with a child's shadow and laughter echoing in the background. With my husband joyfully watching us nearby. I want to be a mother, a wife, someone who can look back at my past and wipe the tears off my face, not because I am sad, but because I have finally made it.

I’ve finally healed the little girl who was always crying in her tiny room feeling trapped and contemplating life. knowing that all of her scarifies weren’t in vain, and that we finally made all of her dreams come true.

Thank you for reading my little ramble, & Remember life can be a fairytale no matter how much the grinches tell you it isn’t. 💕

[plutostearz]

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