#luxury heaux

[rihnely]

If a man wants to cheat he’ll cheat. Don’t take it personally. It’s not about you, if he was with someone else he would do the same things to her. It’s a him thing. Make sure any man you’re with is investing in & spoiling you, cry in a bmw, tesla or better rather than a Kia. Wipe your tears with the napkin you just pulled out of the new Chanel limited edition purse he just bought you, & use his card to pay for your divorce lawyer that’s going to take half his assets & stock shares for you that will allow you to never have to work again. Don’t get your heart broken by a broke man who can’t do anything for you, leaving you empty handed. At the very least a man’s infidelity should be able to level you up in life.

[kissmethroughthebone]

I don't leave my house for anything that wouldn't give me more bliss than I would have back at home.

I stay in my zone, relax and enjoy my own presence.

I provide my own joy, my own peace, and my own freedom and sense of self. I don't need the validation of others to thrive.

I love to make delicious homecooked meals, for me, myself, and I. The taste of savory rice, exquisitely juicy meat, and fresh cooked veggies always makes me melt. It's so euphoric.

People know to treat me to exactly I deserve, since I give myself nothing less.

I only allow the wealthiest and generous men in my presence, and they cover all things when I leave outside. They give me money just for showing up, since I know my worth is priceless.

I get free gifts from men just to leave my house for them. Plants, gift cards, flowers, money, gemstones. All of it is mine, with a smile on their face!

I get everything I believe I am worthy of, no matter what.

Men pay attention to what I like, and they provide me with everything I love so much, since they love me as well.

I am worth everything I desire and more, and I get everything I desire and more.

I never leave my house for anything not better than what I can do for myself, ever.

[cochellacoco]

After constantly feeling the urge to bark back at negativity, being loud in order to be heard, having a bad attitude to get the attention I was lacking, always having to have the last irrelevant words to feel complete, & people pleasing my way into a hole of despair: I am done. I am done stressing about anything, why should I when I can just let it all go, move on & do the things that make me content & allow me to rest in my soft femininity🧘🏽‍♀️

I want to remind you that having the last words aren’t worth your time, being loud to be seen isn’t worth your softness, having a bad attitude isn’t worth your image, & people pleasing isn’t worth your dignity. 🧚🏽‍♀️

[giselleseraphin]

Becoming soft spoken affirmations

I am soft spoken

I have a delicate voice

My tone is soft & sweet

People fawn over me even more once I speak

My voice is highly feminine

Now practice saying these phrases in your most feminine natural voice whilst looking in the mirror.

“Oh really? I think that’s actually quite fascinating!���

“I appreciate your offer, but no thank you. Have a lovely day!”

[swingingbaby]

HE APOLOGIZED

So I woke up this morning to get ready for school and i find a text message from him

Am I happy? YESSS

Will I regret it? I HOPE NOT

Do I love him? MAYBE

I DO I DO I DO

[rihnely]

That’s what I’m saying, every path may be different but don’t sit around waiting for a man to rescue you. It could happen in theory yes, men have been a great asset to me financially and have rescued me through a lot but that was based on a mix luck, hypergamous skill, & beauty. Actually I was/am able to be successfully hypergamous due to a lot of what I learned on tumblr, but the downside of that was that out me at a man’s mercy because I depended on them. Regardless no one should be putting all their eggs in one basket. Even if you are being provided for, have a way for yourself, be able to provide for yourself when you need to so you never have to worry about anything regardless of your circumstances.

I will always be hypergamous an use my Youth, beauty, and Witt’s to be financially provided for by a man, but I see them as an “extra boost” to what I already have for myself now. For example. If I’m going to work and making a few thousand a month and a man wants to contribute by paying my bills or for cosmetic treatments. I will be saving at least one check. I will save my own money and spend his which helps me financially in the long run 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

A soft life requires HARD WORK!!!!

You should pamper and take care of yourselves. HOWEVER, You need more than a pretty face these days y'all to get ahead in life. You see women who are in business, law, and Healthcare. They had to bust their behinds to get where they are now. Endless nights staying up to studying, not worried about men 24/7, dreaming about what will be on the other side to motivate themselves. Some of y'all want to be babied. Yes, not every woman thinks the same and wants to be a rich housewife. How do you think women become rich housewives? Networking, Education, volunteering, Hobbies, etc.

Some of these girlies on tumblr are selling a fantasy and I'll let them have it but this is not a Wattpad fanfiction. WAKE UP and get up and do something!!!

[scorpioluvvr]

[blissfullyecho]

2025 Vision 🖤🍸🪩

[richarlotte]

Tuesday’s Wisdom.

[giselleseraphin]

This, Is such an important reminder 🌷

Understanding that life isn't fair and that people will not always stand by you when you are on the correct side will take away a lot of unnecessary emotional burdens.

A lot of people act and support exclusively the things that benefit them or that suit their biases. Other people are not able to think critically to assess a situation and will not care to understand where you are coming from because their minds are unable to see the world through the same lenses that you have. Others simply do not share the same values as you and won't come to your aid because it's not in their character.

Understanding this is crucial to keep yourself from constantly feeling betrayed and/or victimized. When you understand that in this world you don't get rewarded for acting right but for acting in accordance with your best interests, and that the assistance of others is only an added bonus but not a need, is the moment you will alleviate a lot of unnecessary resentment and emotional pain. Realizing that you don't need them or their approval makes you free.

So what if they misrepresent, mistreat, or misjudge you? As long as you remain true to yourself and you keep going doing what you know is best for you, standing strong by your convictions, and rising above their reactions you will reach your goals. You don't need their approval in anything, what you need is a solid and unwavering peace of mind and a strong sense of self-preservation.

[rihnely]

With hypergamy the ultimate goal is to settle down & be taken care of by a man. But before that happens you need to be able to take care of yourself too. Go to school get your education.📚 Make sure that regardless of a man you can live the lifestyle you want regardless. 💅🏾

Pay your bills without having anxiety of not being able to make it etc. It’s okay to do things like Uber eats, Instacart, Amazon flex, work those extra shifts, wear a costume or work at McDonald’s (make sure to save most of your money) while you’re in school (you can even start school at 50+) age does not matter: go to school!

This also prevents avoiding desperation or staying with someone, because you rely on them & have no other option due to being in survival mode.🐺 Have your own, so you’ll never be stuck somewhere you don’t want to be at someone’s mercy, because you can’t provide for yourself.

You should never ever have to stay with a toxic,🪣 abusive, cheap, emotionally unavailable man who doesn’t give you what you deserve etc. because you need him to provide for you in order to survive. If you get stuck in that situation, it happens, 🤷🏽‍♀️ do what you must, but start writing a plan to escape immediately, numbers, dates & all. 💨👟

There’s a difference in being solely dependent on a man before & after marriage. With marriage you are entitled to his $ + assets: legally, 📜 without a 💍 you are entitled to nothing.

Don’t be lazy or naive… get up… work… be able to provide for yourself until you have secured the 💍👰🏽‍♀️💒🤵💰

📸Instagram: @anarihn

🤳🏽

[kissmethroughthebone]

Went shopping for succulents the other day with this guy I met on Bumble.

He had the nerve to think an early 20s girl would ask him, a 43 year old man, to take her succulent shopping, just to have him 1) ignore everything she says at all about plants, life, etc, and 2) pay for it herself.

Anyway I didn't have my card on me and made a nice passive Oscar award winning "oh dear, oh, wait, did i-" act, while patting on the small pockets on my teeny little jacket, that he had went "I can spot you for it if you'd like."

*GASP* You would? Really?

Haha.

Anyway almost 70 dollars worth of sunset and pastel colored plant babies is pleasant as fuck.

On another note, a previous casual trick/fwb (that pays for my time and energy) was shocked and hurt at the idea of me abandoning him, and he went out of his way to visit a succulent expo and buy me a rare plant to settle my emotions again after he recently upset me.

Now that's what I am talking about; a man that gets me a graptoveria purple delight to show that he absolutely wants to stay around me is a man that I enjoy.

[cochellacoco]

[rihnely]

This was so so sad…

This situation is so sad.

Being feminine is not enough. Having your own money is not enough. We have to learn how to VET men properly.

Vetting a man as a provider is one thing, but don’t forget to vet his character too.

Is he a good person?

Does he have good morals?

Does he have good character?

Is he respectful to you?

Does he care for others?

Is he emotionally mature?

We have to pay attention to red flags and green flags. We have to stop being desperate and rushing when in relationships. Low self esteem, fear and poor vetting is why women end up with these type of abusive men.

Women have to start dating smart!

[giselleseraphin]

☁️ The burn inside when you feel they’ve gotten away with hurting you, the way they burned pain inside of you and walked away untouched. You wanna make them feel the pain they’ve made you feel. You want a taste of that sweet vengeance. I know you’ve felt it.

The rage. Well I’m here to tell you, you must let it go. Free yourself from the chains they’ve confined you to. Find outlets for that rage, scream, break something (not valuable) let it rage, but don’t let them see. Don’t let them see your pain. It could take days, weeks, or months, but it will pass: it always passes. Don’t let that rage burn through your field of lilies, put it in the sky & turn it into the sun that nourishes your land. 🌷

[chichiscloset]

It's never too late to re-invent yourself.

What does reinventing yourself mean?

Reinventing simply means identifying patterns, values, or activities that no longer serve you and changing them for better options. It can involve external characteristics, like job, hobbies, appearance, relationships, and location. True reinvention also happens inside, in how you think and behave. It will be different for everybody, which is what makes it so powerful.

Reasons to reinvent yourself

There are many reasons why you might find yourself craving self-reinvention. Ultimately, it’s a sign that you are seeking change in some area of your life. Here are some possible reasons why it could be time for you to start reinventing yourself. 

You’re stuck in a rut.  Being stuck means you feel like you’ve stagnated in some way. This feeling of languish could be because of a static relationship, tiresome job, or lack of general inspiration.

You’re seeking fulfillment out of life. Wanting to reinvent yourself could come from your desire for personal fulfillment and deeper meaning and purpose in your activities and how you spend your time. This need for self-improvement tends to happen when we acknowledge how much time we’ve wasted on things that don’t bring us joy or meaning.

You need a change. There doesn’t always have to be an exact reason why you crave self-reinvention. It could be that it is simply time for a seasonal shift to occur in your life. From a new haircut to breaking up with your toxic partner, change is a natural thing to desire.

5 steps for reinventing yourself

1. Start with self-understanding and self-awareness

One of the first steps you can take towards reinventing yourself is self-awareness. This means actively assessing your situation and what you would like to achieve. Contemplate your current position in life and what brought you to where you are now. Think about what you’d like to achieve in the next five years and where you would like to be in the future.

2. Define your core values

One really useful practice is defining your core values. It will be much easier to make positive changes if you know exactly what they look like and why you want them. Use these core values to create a personal vision statement that will orient you toward how you want to reinvent yourself.

3. Ask yourself what you want to change

Everybody wants something that they do not have. But chasing after what you don’t have is only worth it if you’ve deeply considered what it is you really want and why. Take a moment to yourself and ponder what is missing from your life. Where/who do you want to be, and what constructive changes can you make?

4.Be honest with yourself

Being honest with yourself can force you to deal with some hard truths that are uncomfortable to acknowledge. This makes it all the more important. Lying to yourself will only hold you back from personal development.

5. Surround yourself with the right people

The type of people that you surround yourself with has the power to either lift you up or bring you down. Make sure that the people around you are kind, honest, and want what is best for you in life. They will encourage you to do the right thing and keep you grounded. 

Reinventing yourself means discovering yourself

Reinventing yourself doesn’t necessarily have to be a complete overhaul of who you are as a person. It should be about recognizing your values and living your life as your authentic self.

Whether your goals involve a new career, moving to the countryside, or finally learning to love yourself, self-reinvention is a quintessential part of life. It is also a lifelong journey.

Until next time.

Chichi ❤️