#choose better

[feminineenergylife]

Why struggle with a man when you can just CHOOSE an already established man?

Cheat Code for Women:

Never waste your time & youth struggling with a man.

CHOOSE who's already at the finish line.

[soulinkpoetry]

One thing we don’t realize is that we have the power to change our lives. We can say no more to someone and something that takes away our peace. We can change our day and make it better by stop inviting madness for coffee.

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#learnhowtosayno

[littlestellababy27]

You ever have the kind of nightmare that shakes the entire foundation of your being?

[keyki421]

Black men: Anything that bad that happens in a relationship is your fault. You should choose better men.

Black Women: Proceeds to choose a better man. Gets married, has children and is happy.

Black Men: Naw, not like that. Choose me, not men of other races. Choose me, I'm a high quality traditional man.

( I want you to go 50/50 in our traditional marriage though. I don't want a gold digger so you will have to work and also take care of the home and all of the kids. I won't help you out with anything and I will also cheat on you. But hey you can't be mad at me. I'm a high quality man.)

Any man that claims he is a high quality man, is definitely not one. A man that provides just does it, he doesn't brag about it.

[miniar]

Better is better than perfect.

Perfect policies don't exist. Perfect leaders are pure fantasy. Perfect choices aren't available.

If you expect or demand perfection, one of two things happen. 1. You will blind yourself to their faults. 2. You'll choose nothing.

The first option leads to religiously supporting flawed ideals, leaders, policies, etc, which inevitably don't deliver what you expect from them, leaving you desperately seeking another flawed thing to latch onto while your life and the world around you stagnates.

The latter is stagnation in and of itself, even as you stand up and rage against the imperfect options, venting your frustration at the flaws and failures. You get to feel righteous in your stagnation.

But nothing changes. Not you. Not the world. Not your home. Not your life.

Better is choosing harm-reduction because saving even just one life is worth the effort. Perfect is sacrificing a thousand lives to the existing harm because saving one life is just not enough.

Better is grabbing the vacuum and hunting dustbunnies from the corners for five minutes just to take the edge off the mess. Perfect is waiting until the motivation strikes, and you have the energy and the attention span, to properly vacuum the entire floor, as well as mop it, as well as put away all of the clutter, as well as take out the trash, as well as clean all the surfaces, etc, etc, all the while kicking yourself for living in filth, knowing full well that if you ever crack under the pressure and run yourself ragged cleaning the house you'll still not get everything and also leave yourself so exhausted that the mess will get just as bad, if not worse, before you break down and clean again.

This applies basically everywhere.

Better isn't perfect. Better isn't even "good".

Better is sometimes disappointing, often flawed. Better can be criticized for not being as good as it could be, should be. But it is Better.

Perfect locks us in cycles, keeps us sitting still, waiting for things that only exist as fantasies.

Better moves us forward, sometimes painfully slowly, but we are in motion none the less, and that's the only way we're ever going to get closer to perfect, even as perfect stays always out of reach.

Better is better than perfect.

[gretasworld]

Devil May Cry

Just incase the Fuckflix version of DMC disappoints people, which is high possibility coz its fuckflix after all...DMC still already has an animation plus some good game story movies. 👍👍

[seventhdiscipleworldwide]

IS IT WRONG FOR A MAN BREAKING UP WITH HER GIRLFRIEND BECAUSE HER CHILD IS BAD ? :

[healerinchief]

Sometimes in life it seems like you are standing at the edge of the world… all alone.

It can feel frighting at first, but I have learned to embrace and celebrate that feeling. I have found peace, clarity, love, and myself in my 'loneliest' and darkest moments.

Anything in life is possible.

It doesn't matter how your life began or where you are now.

In an instant your life can change, for better, or, for worse. It is completely in your control, and no one else's.

I have consciously chosen to leave my past self behind and live a different and more fulfilling life of value and purpose. You can too, if you truly want to. It is possible. ;)

[counting-stars-gayly]

I’m actually LOVING how Rick Riordan, and the other writers of the show, took his initial concept of a Percabeth rivalry fueled by that of their parents and kind of turned it on its head?

Now, instead of Annabeth being wary of Percy because he’s a son of Poseidon, he’s wary of her because she made a callous impression on him. They get off to a rocky start even before finding out who Percy’s father is, and when they finally do, Annabeth doesn’t care. Instead of them fighting because of who their parents are, they’re fighting over their own opposed worldviews.

Then, instead of them arguing over which of the gods is cooler and who was right in the story of Medusa, they realize that, just like Medusa, Annabeth is a victim of her mother and that, unlike Medusa, she is a far kinder and stronger person, unwilling to repeat the cycle of hurt. They realize that, like his father, Percy often acts without considering potential consequences and that, unlike his father, he is a far kinder and stronger person, willing to step up for someone he wronged and whom he cares about.

Instead of Percy and Annabeth’s rivalry being focused on that of their parents, it’s focused on who they are, themselves. But the path to friendship is still the same: a realization that they have each other’s backs, no matter what, because they’re not their parents after all.

[technically-human]

Mandatory handjob joke

[bigfatbreak]

Birds of a Feather previous / next

[keyki421]

I will not name names, but I'm sick of black women getting impregnated by men who they know ain't no damn good. Like what the actual fuck are you thinking. It's so exasperating watching black female celebrities choosing men that are below them. Why aren't you choosing men that will elevate you? The reason why I am annoyed is because when things go wrong, these women will take to social media and they either want sympathy or they wanna expose that their baby father is a deadbeat asshole. When the public already knew that. These men have other kids they don't take care of. They are known cheaters and yet you still get with them. Take responsibility for your actions.

As much as I like Ciara, I have always criticized her relationship with Future. You SAW that this man has several kids all throughout Atlanta. You SAW that he didn't take care of them. You SAW that he was always in and out of child support court and yet you still decided to have a child with him. Becoming his 3rd or 4th baby mamma. Now you are suddenly shocked that this man is being a deadbeat towards your child and you act like you didn't know. You did know, you just didn't want to believe it. This is what I am talking about. Some of ya'll women see the red flags. In fact the red flags are hitting you upside the head and you CHOOSE to ignore them. You have this ideology that because you're famous, you will somehow be treated differently by these men. But that ain't true.

Choose Better

These men aren't switching up on you.

You are just ignoring their bad qualities and think they will change for you.

[kristicainbooks]

CHOOSING BETTER

In case you missed it: My latest Cainspirations: CHOOSING BETTER when the world distracts... Struggling to find your focus? Here's some encouragement! #cainspirations #christianblog

[nobie]

#ineffable idiots

[snoji]

she'd stab me and I'd be so thankful if I'm being real