#feminine masculine polarity

[femininedating]

How to receive Princess Treatment from men:

Raise your standards. Never settle for the bare minimum or less.

Expect the best. Have high expectations.

Act like a princess. Take being called "boujee", "high maintainence" or "gold digger" as a compliment. Not everyone can have access to you or afford you. You are a luxury.

Look the part. Looks matter. You have to look good. The reality is men will treat you better if you look good

Have a PRIZE mindset. Know that you're the prize.

Be Feminine. Feminine Energy is a valuable asset to have. Heal your wounded feminine energy and embody your divine feminine self. (My How to be more Feminine playlist)

Learn how to RECEIVE. Get comfortable with receiving. Say "Thank You" & express gratitude. (Learn to receive)

[feminineenergylife]

Don't decenter men if you want a man...

Be careful with jumping on these trends.

They'll have you living the life you don't want lol

[matriarchalfemininity]

Instead of saying:

"My brain turns off when I'm with my boyfriend"

Try saying:

"My boyfriend makes me feel safe so I don't have to be hyper-vigilant about my surroundings"

The vast majority of women mean the latter when they say the former, but the former has extremely misogynistic pornified tropes ('bimbofication' etc) attached to it.

[geminimoonmadness]

ᴘᴏʟᴀʀɪᴛʏ ɪɴ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴꜱʜɪᴘꜱ: Masculine & Feminine ☯️

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Each person is has their own unique balance of masculine and feminine energies. These energies are completely different and yet we all embody a combination of both polarities.

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When it comes to handling stress, the way that the 𝙢𝙖𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙮 will cope with this is to retreat and go inwards. 𝙁𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙮 will reach out to her community to discuss problems. The 𝙢𝙖𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚, wants to get away from the problems until he has solutions while the 𝙛𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙚 wants to connect, and experience empathy and support around the problems.

When it comes to mistakes that have been made, the 𝙢𝙖𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙮 is very action-driven to find the solution, while the 𝙛𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙚 tends to express their feelings & regret that the mistake even happened and then tries to make up for that mistake being made.

Everyone has both 𝙛𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙚 and 𝙢𝙖𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙮, regardless of their gender. Finding a balance can help you feel better about yourself and have more positive interactions with others. Two people with similar energies can love each other, but they can never have passion.

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These traits come from two sources: genetics, and the influence of our parents, particularly the one of the opposite sex who is the first person we meet that is significantly different from us.

For example, young boys tend to be emotional, empathetic, and sensitive, which they learn from their mothers. Young girls are strong-willed and adventurous, which they learn from their fathers. Children are also affected by their parents’ Shadow sides.

As we grow out of infancy, we start seeking independence from our parents, and the easiest way to do this is to start fitting ourselves into the existing identity of gender roles, despite whatever natural 𝙛𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙚 and 𝙢𝙖𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙮 we have.

For example: Young boys tend to be emotional, empathetic, and sensitive, which they learn from their mothers. Young girls are strong-willed and adventurous, which they learn from their fathers. Children are also affected by their parents’ Shadow sides.

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If you start to notice which energies are being used then you’re more likely to gain a self awareness that allows you to balance these divine energies a lot easier in your everyday life.

♀𝑫𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒇𝒆𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒈𝒚-

Intuitive, grounded, receptive, reflective, strong boundaries, empathetic, compassionate, magnetic, supportive, vulnerable, authentic, open, surrendered, flows through life effortlessly, trusting and creative.

𝑾𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒅 𝒇𝒆𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒈𝒚-

Insecure, needy, codependency, manipulative, inauthentic, victim, over emotional.

♂𝑫𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒔𝒄𝒖𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒈𝒚-

Deeply present, doesn’t judge, supportive, has discipline, focused, logical, confident, protective, honest, accountable, humble boundaries, has integrity, responsible, offers stability and security.

𝑾𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒂𝒔𝒄𝒖𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒈𝒚- controlling, aggressive, withdraws, avoids, unstable, abusive, too competitive.

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[unmeritedunearnedundeserved]

The Shiva And Shakti Analogy

Shiva and Shakti are the Hindu God and Goddess of masculinity and femininity.

In many depictions of Shakti, she is holding the head of a man whose head she's just cut off.

This is a symbolic picture of how the divine feminine accepts nothing less than the divine masculine. And will cut the head off of any man who is weak in his purpose and not grounded deeply in his First Cause Consciousness.

I would now like to bring this allegory into the rhelm of the Law of Attraction.

You see, when using the Law of Attraction, you must be Shiva, the Divine Masculine. Just as a man must be fully erect and maintain his erection in order to penetrate a woman, so to must you remain erect in "First Cause Consciousness". That is, "erect" in your awareness of your own thought being the only cause and power and in your awareness of there being no second cause.

Only then will you be able to penetrate and permeate the world. Which is represented by Shakti, the Divine Feminine.

If you don't maintain your "Shiva Consciousness", through continuous revelations of the Law of Attraction, then you will in effect "lose your erection". That is, lose your consciousness, lose your clarity of purpose, become divided inside and weak.

And thus, fail to pervade Shakti (the world) with your grace, gift and manifestations.

The world doesn't take kindly to weak men. The world accepts nothing but full consciousness and will only allow itself to be penetrated by wholeness and fearless power.

Anything less that this will be met with Shakti's wrath. She will cut your fucking head off.

But the one grounded in the eternal principle of their consciousness, the one who is ripe with the awareness of their own inherent value and power, divorced from the external world and divorced from their performance, Shakti will lavish them with her gifts and grace. (Shiva: "I am not whole and valuable because of __. I am wholeness and value." Shakti: "Take me.")

The Divine feminine wants and accepts nothing less than the Divine Masculine.

And the only way to maintain this presence, this awareness, is by finding the "sweet spot of the present moment" through contemplation of the divine, of your oneness with the First Cause and All Things. Unprofained by externality or sense evidence.

If you remain as Shiva, the world will remain your Shakti. But anything less than Shiva will be punished. The world wants all of you in your pure uncompromised awareness.

The "head" of creation is your imagination. And as long as you abdicate your power to secondary causes, you forfeit your authority and masculinity. Shakti will cut off your head, for you yourself have cut off your own.

FOR EXAMPLE: Many of us have watched a television program known as "better human better dog" hosted by Caeser Millan. (Previously known as the dog wisperer)

In the program, you will watch as Caeser, the dog trainer, will use his CALM CONFIDENT energy to fearlessly guide and direct the dog.

One of my favorite things that Caeser does is he tells the owner to walk their dog down the street.

In which you will watch that the dog is really walking them. The dog will pull and lunge and back and bite.

And then Caeser says, "give me the leash".

And THE MOMENT that Caeser gets ahold of the leash, the dog gives him PERFECT OBEDIENCE.

Caeser does this to prove to the owner beyond any reasonable doubt that the problem is not the dog. The problem is their "heart condition". The energy they feed the dog. The dog is just a mirror.

His most popular quote is "I don't train dogs, I train humans!"

And so like in my allegory above. Caeser goes into his interaction with the dog in full SHIVA CONSCIOUSNESS. And that is why the Dog (Shakti) surrenders to him.

But the other pet parents go into the interaction with there dogs weak in consciousness. Insecure and full of the belief in external causes. And so in this case. Shakti cuts there head off.

Imagine applying this principle in every other area of your life. Imagine going into your relationship with your spouse and children as Shiva.

Imagine going into finances or your career as Shiva.

Being Shiva isn't to be domineering. It is to be fully calm confident in the awareness that you are one with God. And the world, like Shakti to Shiva or like the Dog to Caesar Millan, will quickly surrender and allow itself to be lead by this consciousness.

[soulful-lving8]

Its two ways to this thing!!!

1. He doesn't love you

2. He's not a healthy masculine ie mature.

When a man is mature and a healthy masculine/loves you he provides ,care for,spoils his woman

He makes sure you are relaxed,at rest and safe

Most men grew up to see their moms self sacrifice thinking that's healthy feminity.

A woman must put everyone else's needs before hers,work to meet the needs of others even if she's tired.serve others before herself

That isn't feminity that's self sacrifice

You can't pour from an empty cup

Healthy feminity desires rest nurture and care as well..

Every woman wants to feel soft in the presence of a man.

Not worn out.

You can't expect a woman to be an angel if you've not made heaven for her..angels don't exist in hell.

Women who understand this will never settle for a man that ever puts in the work to be a man for her.

mothering a man isn't nurturing a man,it's a relationship and that requires two grown adults with a sense of responsibility.

Choose men who are healed or on the journey,it's not your responsibility to tiptoe around a grown mans trauma or mother him. Leave them baby boys for the streets.

[luvblushed]

I went on a date with a 40-year-old which is the oldest I’ve dated so far and was not prepared for the fact that I did not have to open the car door! That’s lesson number one! But I was ever so slightly tipsy. 

He opened it for me to get in and then when we arrived he took off his seatbelt to open it to let me out but I opened my own door and hopped out. Haha awkward! Him taking off his seatbelt was obviously the signal that I was to sit back and wait for him to walk around and open my door. 

lts a learning process! Ideally I would like to set the precedent that I am very much accustomed to princess treatment, and that is what will be expected, but the fact is I’m not. I’m very inexperienced after having been in a long term relationship since high school and all through university. 

It takes a while to train yourself to expect the most from the men (and women!) that you date when you are used to getting scraps or only getting princess treatment inconsistently. I really only got it when he was in a good mood, or to lure me back in when I was pulling away, now I will have it all the time, forever, or I’ll be single. Those are the only two options. 

I am naturally good at showing appreciation though. He sent back a drink he’d paid for just because it had a garnish that I was allergic to that was not listed on the menu. I told him I appreciated that gesture a lot. When you show appreciation it’s a very powerful way of making the person you are dating crave more, they want to get that validation again and again. They associate spoiling you and respecting you with a deep sense of satisfaction. One simple yet specific thank-you and he was beaming for an hour! 

[suuneater33]

(((((((divine (re)union))))))))

[brother-hermes]

THE CHYMICAL WEDDING AT CANA

To understand the transformation of water into wine requires we take an in-depth look at the symbolism. The difficulty in doing so is tied into language and cultural shifts as the mystical elements of the mysteries moved from culture to culture. Let us approach the subject with an open mind and bring mystic union into the 21rst Century.

[sherkirti]

In relationships, there is a polarity between feminine and masculine energies, not just between man and woman, but also between the archetypes of femininity and masculinity themselves. Tony Robbins talks about the Law of Polarity and how it works in relationships. When the feminine feels unsafe, there is an opposite reaction, and she begins to become controlling, less open, less emotional, wanting to take the reins. The masculine, feeling controlled, not trusted, and questioned, will begin to lose direction, a lack of will, and the ability to make decisions. This depolarization happens when the environment does not allow natural energy to be expressed. We can bring this back to the biological level with plants, for example. Certain plants need certain conditions to survive, or it needs an ample amount of space to thrive. So, we can accept that, and we can bring it back to our relationships. Depolarization is what’s happening when the relationship is falling apart. It is not quite working. It could work in a volatile way, but it’s not joyous.

When we stop fixating on something, it comes to us with ease. The more we force, the more we grip, the more it falls, right? Like gripping sand, watch how it seeps out the tighter you grip. The more you confine your child, partner, friend, or loved one into a way of being that YOU want, the more likely it’ll escape you.

[hiddenloner]

For most relationships to work in a healthy manner - Polarity has to exist. One partner has to have and give something the other does not. In most cases this polarity could be divided into feminine and masculine energies. This would give the women the role of taking care of her appearance,bein responsible for the spiritual and emotional part of the relationship and the household and would give the man the role of taking care of the wife and children, taking care of finances and being responsible for the practical logical part of the relationship. For every circumstance and individual there are roles that fit them more and they enjoy more but still the part of being something different for your partner is very important to keep the sexual tension alive and also to have the other partner be attracted, drawn and intrigued by you. If you are the same in a relationship and literally do the same tasks It will turn into a friendship or family dynamic where you just add the bonus of sex. Most people are inherently more feminine and masculine and therefore have different needs that are supposed be met for the other person to feel satisfied in the relationship.

E.g. most men genuinly appreciate feeling respected and gaining status through their wife and most women genuinly appreciate being complimented and being taken care of by their spouse more

Pem (hiddenloner)

[femininedating]

POV: You married a generous, gentle, provider man

[feminineenergylife]

I don't care what this generation says. Marriage is STILL the GOAL. 🤍💍

[matriarchalfemininity]

The feminine is the highest vision, the divine inspiration. She leads energetically and spiritually. The masculine then executes her vision and leads in bringing it into the material world.

“Women need guidance from men/need to be led by men” is a falsehood and almost a reversal of true masculine and feminine polarity. Before patriarchy decided women were basically just silly children, kings used to seek the guidance of priestesses and oracles. However, because women are smaller, have less reliable reserves of energy and are the ones who grow and nurture life, men are the ones who build and provide. And this isn’t just women/men because we all have masculine and feminine energies within us. A woman can call on her masculine energy to bring her dream into reality and a man can call on his feminine energy for vision and inspiration.

[strongwithoutrealising]

Feminine and Masculine characters - are you playing?

This may be an Unpopular opinion but Femininity cannot be taught. At least not in the way I see most people thinking it can. It’s not wearing flowing dresses. It’s not wearing long flowy hair. It’s not wearing makeup. It’s not a certain way of speaking. It’s not bigger boobs. It’s not bowing down to all the men. Anyone teaching this stuff is teaching you how to play a character. And…

[spiritualtia]

Be neutral finding that middle ground. Nice but stand firm when is needed.