#healthy challenges

[inkskinned]

i hate to say it because i'm neurodivergent and a chronic-pain-haver but like... sometimes stuff is going to be hard and that's okay.

it's okay if you don't understand something the first few times it's explained to you. it's okay if you have to google every word in a sentence. it's okay if you need to spend a few hours learning the context behind a complicated situation. it's okay if you need to read something, think about it, and then come back to re-read it.

i get it. giving up is easier, and we are all broken down and also broke as hell. nobody has the time, nobody has the fucking energy. that is how they win, though. that is why you feel this way. it is so much easier, and that is why you must resist the impetus to shut down. fight through the desire you've been taught to "tl;dr".

embrace when a book is confusing for you. accept not all media will be transparent and glittery and in the genre you love. question why you need everything to be lily-white and soft. i get it. i also sometimes choose the escapism, the fantasy-romance. there's no shame in that. but every day i still try to make myself think about something, to actually process and challenge myself. it is hard, often, because of my neurodivergence. but i fight that urge, because i think it's fucking important.

especially right now. the more they convince you not to think, the easier it will be to feed you misinformation. the more we accept a message without criticism, the more power they will have over that message. the more you choose convenience, the more they will make propaganda convenient to you.

[r4tfromm3rcury]

how i imagine fnaf 3 went

[agirlwithglam]

How to get over negative experiences in your life.

Whether it’s heartbreak, failure, feeling unloved, left out, not achieving something,

Always learn the lesson, then get over it. Life is short, you should not be dwelling on something that has happened!! Don’t let a small part of your day ruin the entire experience of this wonderful life!

It’s like for example: if you had $86400 and someone took away $60, would you be mad? Of course, but would too just give away the remaining $86340 to them? No, that would be stupid. The same way- you have 86400 seconds in a day and something happens, do you just let that consume you the rest of the day? Absolutely not.

That’s why here, we’re all about growing and evolving as people. We know that God gives us everything for a higher purpose, a reason that’s much bigger for you.

So any situation or event he gives you, LEARN FROM IT. Because why would you let something happen to you for nothing? Figure out the lesson, write about it, make a video about it, journal about it, or spread the message about it so more people can learn. But what’s important is that you understand the lesson God was trying to give you and so that experience doesn’t feel like a waste anymore. Instead, it feels like more of a blessing.

Like you also need to understand that all the advice I have and I right about on my blog, I have learned from personal experiences- and that’s how great those problems can be. Heartbreak and failure is your superpower if you know how to use it in a way to boost yourself.

[yakichoufd]

I'm working on a easy and chill kinktober on patreon (where zinnia and rose patrons vote for what prompt I draw)

[foreverrryourssss]

Back to regularly scheduled programming.

[veroinfaciem]

[awhoreintheory]

Some bats (doesn't matter who) get stuck in a sticky situation with Peter dressed as a civilian, and man, would spider-man be convenient at this moment! Except he doesn't exist here!

Which sets off a light bulb in Peter's head. Like, 'well, shit, Spider-man doesn't exist here, so they can't tie me back to him!'

So he casually walks up a wall to do a thing to get them untrapped. So he's doing the things, and the literal vigilantes he's stuck with are starting at him like

'Fuck, he's a vampire'

And it doesn't help he has! Literal! Fangs! He's straight up venomous! But they don't know that. Now the bats think there's a vampire casually prowling the streets of gotham, and now they're not even hiding their stalking.

[itsquakey]

Day Twenty of the ship request challenge goes to Metasusie! The ship that got me blocked by some rando on Insta complaining about it.

[ask-narratordoe]

Six Tumblr Fan Art Challenge: Complete!

Hi! Thank you all for your patience; I'm so happy I was able to draw some new faces, especially ones that were long overdue. Featuring @lovelockanswers, @lemon-sugarcoats-nothing, @matchakirin, @ask-coppertop, @chromacloud, and @askdaisydandfriemly.

I also want to thank everyone who left suggestions. I couldn't get to every single blog, of course, but I really appreciate everyone bringing attention to new blogs. Left to right: @askrosemaryandguru, @temper-temper, @ask-wizard-sunburst, @reversal-mushroom, @foodielovethealicorn, @ask-summer-epos, @jdeck306, @ask-coppertop, @torrentialchaos, @asktwilighteclipse, @ask-luna-and-discord, @lullabytundress, @allyooops, @painttasticpony, @ignus108, @mewskylar, and @vaderssolace.

And I have one more surprise... REVENGE!

I've gotten so much love from the community, and wanted to revenge at least a few of them.

@ask-healthy-light for this piece of Jasper, this piece of Narrator, AND a hair-down drawing of Narrator too. Revenge far overdue.

@asktheartpone for this recent Inktober feature and a Somepony Sunday from a while ago! Also far overdue.

@nopony-ask-mclovin for an amazing pointy pic.

@allyooops for featuring my pony in her own Fan Art Challenge.

@icarroteater for being included in their birthday post.

@lumiere-angel-90 for this cute birthday thank you.

Please, please, please show everyone featured in this post some love! You're all excellent and your designs are all so fun and it was an amazing experience to freshen up my drawing experience. Thank you all for lending me your characters, your suggestions, and your attention. -Mod Doe <3

Apologies in advance if anyone misses this post. It is long, and I'm not sure if tagging will work for every single blog. I hope you all get a chance to see it and like it!

[eatingsomegreeneggos]

I LOVE THEM SO MUCH OMG 🥺💗💗

[nenelonomh]

to heal a wound,

you must stop touching it

[natolesims]

Tia made a quick trip to the vet for Waffle's monthly check up. It was actually an excuse, I wanted an age-down treat for our pup :')

[cinnamonsikwate]

"why couldn't shuro have just been honest about what he felt with laios and falin it's not that hard" are you. are you White

[matiixoxo]

sunday morning workout

5 minutes indoor biking

squats (x10), mountain climbers (x20), stretching on one knee (×10) - repeat 3 times

weight sequence with squats and arm raises (×10), burpees (×20) - repeat 2 times

4 minutes indoor biking

time spent in gym - 35mins

cals burnt - 236

[amorisxx]

What if I ship the challengers throuple in an aro way? And not in an amatonormative way.

What if Tashi is aromantic and that’s why she can never tell Art she loves him? Not because she doesn’t but because she’s not in love with him. She knows that saying out loud that she loves him means something different to Art than it does for her. Art desires a romantic connection with Tashi, but because she doesn’t feel romantic attraction, she can’t give that to him. Instead, she loves him as the father of her child, devotes herself to their shared life, and coaches him to success. To her, that is love.

Maybe it’s not until she really sees what Art and Patrick feel for each other that she realizes what’s different. When Patrick asks her how she can do that to Art—fix the match behind his back—or when he drops his racket to catch Art during the final, she realizes that Patrick is in love with Art. The kind of love she could never offer him.

I say all this to say Art and Tashi get therapy, realize that Tashi isn’t broken, just aromantic, and Patrick moves in with them eventually. Of course, they have to work through their issues as well. But I imagine it becomes a lot easier for Tashi to tell Art she loves him, or even indulge in sex with him and Patrick without guilt, because now she can be sure that the expectation of romantic love isn’t looming over her. Her platonic and intimate love for Art is just as valid and she doesn’t have to force herself into a mold she doesn’t fit.

[spontaneousmilktea]

𓆩♡𓆪 bunny's 60-day glow up challenge 𓆩♡𓆪

hi again, i was searching for a challenge to motivate me till the end of the year and i think i found the perfect one by @dreambunnynotes. please go on her account if you are interested in the rules&template. thank you! ✧˖*°࿐

my chosen habits:

learn polish

study

selfcare

my goals and why’s:

habit one: i need to learn polish at minimum level B1 because i want to move in poland next year and there are not many universities that teach in english and are interesting. i also want to become a polyglot so this is perfect.

habit two: i have to study (besides polish) for my school and my exams because i kinda want that academic validation... i also want to have high scores so it will be easier to get in unis.

habit three: lately i've been neglecting myself and my well being and of course if i dont feel pretty and clean i will feel miserable for the day and wont be able to be focus on my tasks. i want to look pretty for myself. i want to achieve my best self.

my habit energy tiers:

habit one: polish

low energy: achieve all tasks on duolingo

medium energy: finish a section on duolingo; study vocab

high energy: study grammar rules; watch a tv show; read a children's book

habit two: study

low energy: read 10 pages from a book/ lecture; review lessons

medium energy: do hw; finish projects/drawings/paintings; study 2 hours

high energy: study 5 hours

habit three: selfcare

low energy: pilates for 10-15 min + basic shower routine

medium energy: pilates for 15-20 min + basic shower routine + morning and night routine

high energy: pilates for +20 min + everything shower routine + morning and night routine

(edit: i'll change my habits energy tiers so it alligns with my daily schedule) (edit 2: as a reward ill buy for myself some gym clothes)