#ftm tran ed blog

[answersfromzestual]

Whao! 180 followers?

Thank you all for taking a chance and reading my blog.

Thank you for making this all worthwhile.

Thank you for helping me educate the community on phalloplasty, and other aspects of ftm transition.

I appreciate each and every one of you.

I appreciate my information reaching people.

I appreciate my information being trusted.

I appreciate you all having this information to share with your peers.

Thank you all for your support, even if you just read and do not interact.

-Zestual ✌🏽🩵🩷

P.s Every day is another day to spread love acceptance, support, and knowledge.

[h0ld-my-b0nez]

Wanting to study medicine and preparing for it while purposely destroying your own body feels so embarrassing.

[blehboyspost]

okay but i saw this video of a guy ⭐️ving for 30 days for a crush and he was so sk1nny so i might do that😍🙏

update; im doing it 🤯

[bexsi]

My reasons why I need to get sk1nny:

.·:*¨¨* ≈☆≈ *¨¨*:·.

To look good in tight fitting clothes

my binder will fit correctly

people will wonder where all of my weight went/how I lost it so fast

I won't feel bad about eating

I won't stick out among my skinny friends

To maybe get a partner

I'll look more masculine/androgynous

I can wear cute clothes

So I can be more confident in my body

To stop getting asked out as a joke

So my thighs don't touch anymore when I walk

[s0lren]

Sexual information post!

(This is not a post to make anyone feel bad or to scare anyone this is just to inform people on how to have safe sex since I feel like it's not talked about enough and it needs to be normalised)

Safewords are always important, especially when doing cnc and even during 'vanilla' sex

The stop light system is a great method

Green means keep going

Orange means slow down

Red means stop

If you aren't a fan of the stoplight system try using words that you would never use during sex but are also easy to remember, names of fruit are very common

Remember, ignoring someone's safe word is never okay, sometimes people can just not hear it but if it continues to happen it's not okay.

Aftercare is also extremely important.

Some people need aftercare all the time. Some people only need it sometimes. Other people don't need it at all. But it's always good to ask.

Aftercare is for both subs and doms. I've seen way too many people claim its just for subs which isn't true, aftercare is for everyone.

People can also need aftercare in different ways. Some people need something to eat and drink. Some people need some reassuring. Some people need to be left alone for a bit. No matter what kind of aftercare you need, it's valid.

It's okay not to cum.

For some people, especially AFAB people or people on medication, it can be hard to cum but that doesn't mean that they can't enjoy themselves. Just because your partner hasn't cum doesn't mean they haven't enjoyed themselves. You can get off without needing an orgasm and don't be disheartened if you or your partner doesn't have one.

Always be safe.

If you have multiple sexual partners always use condoms to avoid contracting anything, even if they claim to be clean don't go without one unless they have proof of being clean. This also applies to sex toys, if you are sharing them with someone else then use a condom and be sure to sterilise it after using just to be on the safe side.

STIs aren't always curable and can lead to health complications down the line so if you ever suspect you have one then go to the doctor before having sex with anyone, especially if it's unprotected.

Don't do the pull out method. There is a chance that sperm can leak with precum or you could pull out just a little too late. If you are worried about pregnancy just use birth control or a condom.

Reminder

Giving your consent shouldn't be a turn off

If you aren't sure that someone is consenting then ask, never do something with someone unless you are 100% sure they want to do it

It is not consent if they persuade you to do something

It is not consent if you are too drunk to say no

It is not consent if you are asleep

It is not consent if you are being blackmailed

It is not consent if you say no

It is not consent if you don't say yes

If you didn't want to give your consent then you didn't give your consent.

Even if you aren't sure that something wasn't consensual you still need to reach out to someone. Don't suffer in silence.

[endifr]

BONEPSO 🦴🩻

[hades-lost-in-space]

[z1pek515]

im just a boy🎀 (bodycheck)

[sluttyboycvnt]

Gonna do smth crazy & ask for T-blockers from my doctor-

My body produces excess testosterone so due to my stupid biology, my body produces more estrogen to counter that so I have more f4t than other ‘female bodied ppl’

I may be ‘girlier’ for a while but at least i’ll get th1nner & be more comfortable dressing masc. I’m not rly sure I wanna go on T anyway, just looking like a slutty sk1nny boy will be enough i think

God i want a cigarette rn

[sw33t-without-sugar]

I may be going on hormone blockers in a few months, I'm nervous because I need to get a lot more calcium in for it and the doctors don't know I st@rve myself. What're some good sources of calcium that are low c@l?

[h0ld-my-b0nez]

No bond as strong as me and my hot-black-coffee-and-cigarettes breakfast.

[blehboyspost]

who wants to ⭐️ with me for the whole month of september ⁉️🤫🧏

[drwqi0]

⁴⁴⁴ breakfast . . (10:40am)

For breakfast i ate a 2 crispbreads with curd cheese and cucumbers. I also drank tea with lemon (≈62 c4ls)

Yesterday my dad brought me my box of protein bars, I think I'll eat one today

[babiebeta]

when he puts it in without even fingering you first >>

so he can really feel how tight you are and how you stretch around him <3

[endifr]

SICKSPO

🩻🏥🩹

[t00-f4r-g0ne]

guys is it normal to have an ugw 100+ pounds away from your sw? am I doing this wrong???