#cluster b lesbian

[sistrly]

🎭 、 CLUSTER B LESBiAN ── A flag for lesbians with cluster b personality disorders ｡

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[chainsawgendered]

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[narcissisticpdcultureis]

lesbian + questioning npd culture is thinking back on when you used to daydream about popular boys falling in love with you just so you could manipulate them and break both their heart and their ego when they confessed to you with the simple rejection of “i’m a lesbian”. my rejection would be DEVASTATING and remind them that their place on the social hierarchy means nothing. i’m better than them in every way, much more of a kind and moral person. meanwhile they are a horrible, bigoted asshole and my rejection will make them reflect and change for the better. i’ll laugh and jeer in their face when they confess their pitiful feelings. you really think i’d like somebody as low as YOU? get off your high horse.

then it’s like. yeah the signs were there

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[officials-of-hell]

One of the funniest things about my relationship with my partner ( @eternalparadisesys ily <3 ) is that in all technicalities, we don’t actually love each other. Let me elaborate on this

I have NPD and he has ASPD. We’re both autistic and due to those specific disorders, we both are incredibly low empathy. It actually cannot even feel sympathy, that’s how low empathy xe is. On top of that we’re both aromantic and acespec. So there’s not really any emotional love, romantic love, or even really that much sexual love between us

However, we still love each other in a practical sense. My partner cannot function on its own. He is incredibly high support needs due to multiple physical and mental disabilities. So our relationship provides xem with a caretaker he can trust. Whereas I am provided with a companion and a partner in crime. I am low support needs myself, but even then I couldn’t really live alone. However due to my lower support needs, I’m able to care for my partner while it provides me someone to talk to and keep me company

I also get a lot of supply from my partner. He provides me with the attention my NPD and HPD (killer combo right there ☠️) crave

And on top of that, my partner is the reason I will be able to ultimately pursue a service dog of my own one day. Xe thinks I could benefit from one and his special interest is dogs, more specifically working dogs. As a handler itself, he knows a lot about them and wants to help me acquire one for my own disabilities

Ultimately, to the public we do come across as a very loving and doting couple. Especially if we both have certain people fronting (yes we’re both systems). But in reality, that love cannot be defined by traditional means, and I think that’s beautiful

I talked about this with my therapist and her immediate response was “well that’s why the Greeks had multiple words for love” and you know what? She was right. Our love cannot be defined by eros or agape or anything like that, but pragma? Pragma defines it well

We stay with each other because there is mutual benefit to our relationship. I think that’s beautiful and we should normalise relationships forged out of mutual benefit. It’s a unique kind of bond and I would love to see it more

I guess you could call us queerplatonic but that doesn’t seem to fully cover it in my eyes. If anyone knows a better term, please let me know

[2syves]

Happy pride month !! ♡

I've been seeing a LOT of lesbians thirsting over vampires so I introduce my take(s) on a vampbian flag! (Both flags above are just diff versions. Wasn't 100% sure of what I was going for!)

Sorry if these look similar to other flags. I plan to make vampfemme and vampbutch flags probs!

Can be used by: vampgender lesbians, vampire fictives/introjects who are lesbians, and most importantly the lesbians who want a hot lesbian gf! (Or just like vampires)

I encourage all sapphics and achilleans to make vampire flags or flags abt anything they like! 🫶🏽

As always tags for reach

[sleeplessv0id]

my favorite part about smoking, aside from the getting high part, is watching the smoke as I exhale it. It's a different kind of peace, watching the smoke dance. It's freer than I could ever dream of being.

[ssatanicsscrabble]

Why do you get pissed off over identities that do not belong or apply to you?

[gothsnickers]

Sunny walk 🖤🩸🦇

[berryscentedwlw]

can all the lesbians out there with chronic bpd make some noise !!!!!

[alwayseclecticobject]

it always pmo when people say how "we need more weird queers" (which is absolutely true!) but then, in the same post, say "but people piss themselves over lesboys!" as if a "lesboy" isn't just a straight man who's pissy about not being able to use a label that isn't meant for him (by definition, a lesbian is a non-man who loves non-men. in no way does this mean a transgender man, cis man, demiboy, or any form or male-identifying person can be a lesbian). he/him lesbians? for sure! pronouns aren't the same as gender! but if you deadass identify as a man in any way (not including genderfluid or nonbinary) then you're not a lesbian.

[sirenium]

okay, it's genuinely so fucking annoying to get 'anti good faith' and anti endos on my dash. guess who came across another one of these people? me! tag your shit! I don't want to see it! I don't care if it's unrelated, if you're making a post, especially an intro, tag with 'anti endo' or something so I don't have to waste my time reading through it.

the rest of us who occupy spaces such as cluster b tumblr and alterhuman tumblr would rather not have to come across your sorry asses, and I'm sure coming across someone who supports stuff like endos isn't fun for you either (lmao, by the way).

[stefaniesappho]

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

TW // Age Gap, Infidelity, Grooming

NPD and BPD lesbian culture is finding out my ex girlfriend cheated on and left me for someone 6 years younger than both of us (ex gf and I are the same age, nearly 25.) On one hand I'm absolutely distraught, and on the other I'm laughing at how pathetic she is that she has to resort to someone that much younger than her. Girl, find someone your own fucking age...

Also part of this is literally wanting to kill her because the person she cheated with is in a throuple with two 17 year olds. Making her now a 25 yr old woman in a quad that's shared with two minors... She's so fucking pathetic and disgusting. ._.

I'm hurt, angry and embarrassed for her because how the hell did we end up here? Also overly self-aware and insecure NPD culture is wondering if I'm being too self centered because I'm genuinely traumatized this.

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[niksu-agassi]

I know so many people struggling with BPD think they are hard to love, that they don't deserve it and that there will never be anyone who could match their love. None of you are too hard to love and every single one of you deserves the love you give out to those around you. So many of us have dated those who worked against us and our disorder, but there are people who WILL work with your disorder, who WILL give their best to understand you. Don't lose hope.