#lesbian npd + bpd culture is

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

TW // Age Gap, Infidelity, Grooming

NPD and BPD lesbian culture is finding out my ex girlfriend cheated on and left me for someone 6 years younger than both of us (ex gf and I are the same age, nearly 25.) On one hand I'm absolutely distraught, and on the other I'm laughing at how pathetic she is that she has to resort to someone that much younger than her. Girl, find someone your own fucking age...

Also part of this is literally wanting to kill her because the person she cheated with is in a throuple with two 17 year olds. Making her now a 25 yr old woman in a quad that's shared with two minors... She's so fucking pathetic and disgusting. ._.

I'm hurt, angry and embarrassed for her because how the hell did we end up here? Also overly self-aware and insecure NPD culture is wondering if I'm being too self centered because I'm genuinely traumatized this.

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[paras-doxical]

Paraqueer

[ID: Two nearly identical flags. The flag has nine stripes, with all of them except for one being the same width. The middle stripe is twice as large as the other stripes. The stripe colors are: dark blue, dark green, yellowish green, off-white, pale sea green, off-white, yellowish green, dark green, and dark blue. The second flag has the symbol of a turtle over top, its silhouette in black. End ID]

What is paraqueer?

Paraqueer is inherently pro paraphilia and anti contact. It is a term meant be used by queer paraphiles. You can only use this term if you are queer and a para.

Paraqueers understand the importance of consent and are strictly anti contact for any paras that would be nonconsensual or harming to others if acted upon. They know that children and animals can never consent.

Paraqueers know that they can be proud of their paras without harming other people, and they support other paras. Paraqueers also support recovery for those who desire it and finding coping mechanisms. They understand that thought crimes do not exist.

Paraqueers know that paraphilias do not necessarily make them queer; however, their paraphilias can interact with their queer identities.

Turtle and mountain emojis can be used as symbols for paraqueers. (🐢⛰️) (🏞️🐢) (🏔️🐢), (🐢🗻), etc.

Paraqueers support:

Anti-contact

Kink

Sex workers

Plurality/Systems

"Contradictory" labels

Mspec lesbians/gays

Lesboys and turigirls

Neopronouns, xenogenders, and neurogenders

Those who are aspec, including aplatonic

Freaks and weirdos

Polyamory

Disabled people

Body inclusivity

Self-shipping

Informed self-diagnosis

People with personality disorders (including NPD, ASPD, BPD, etc)

People with mental disorders/who are mentally ill

Neurodivergency

Stigmatized disorders

Accessibility

Fictionkin/Otherkin/Therian/Alterhuman/etc

Cringe/being authentic

Solidarity

Identities they do not understand

Paraqueers are against:

Pro contact/contact neutral/contact complex/anyone who claims that children or animals can consent

Minors in kink

Purity culture/anti sex beliefs

Exclusionism

Gatekeeping

Censorship

Ableism

Fatmisia

Abuse and grooming

Harassment

Bullying

Shaming

[goobersnart]

Joyqueer

Image description of flag is tba

I want to preface this coining post with the following:

This blog is not a discourse blog or a coining blog! We don't take requests for this stuff. If you start shit you will be blocked and ignored! ^_^

The emojicode (cus we're a sucker for 'em): 🌤️🌈

Feel free to do whatever the fuck you want w/ this flag, it's a pretty flag, have fun with it!

This is a long post, be prepared HELP

Joyqueer is essentially a blankqueer term where one prefers to focus on positivity. They try and look on the bright side of things, even in the darkest of hours.

Even though Joyqueer focuses on the positivity, it doesn't condone toxic positivity. We're not naïve, the world isn't sunshine and rainbows 24/7. We look on that side when applicable to ease life and stress because focusing on the bad 24/7 and being drowned in misery is painful and hurts.

This stance is for good faith terms/identities, follows P.L.U.R (Peace, Love, Unity (and), Respect), and users might spread positivity and joy amongst others.

This stance is supportive & inclusive of/to the following:

Mspec queers (ie mspec lesbians, gays, biles, bipan, etc.), gender anarchy (being a girlboy, transfemasc thing, having no gender while having gender, etc), & relationship anarchy (being aplatonic, being loveless, having sex with your friends and or doing things with friends that others consider "weird", polyamory, being with objects and or stuffed animals, etc)

System inclusive with the respect of cultures and against spreading misinformation.

Inclusive of ones with cluster B disorders and to educate about them and spread joy to the ones with the disorders that are suffering. NPD abuse doesn't exist, and pw HPD/BPD/ASPD aren't bad for existing!

Anticontact paraphiles that are just existing in a world that sadly doesnt understand them. attraction isn't action and no matter how ""harmful"" the attraction is (attracts cannot be harmful as thought crimes dont exist), you aren't a bad person for something you cannot control.

Anti-censorship in art and storytelling; fiction freedom in the largest of sense. Fiction isn't on the same level as reality, characters are the dolls you play with.

Youth liberation; realizing that the youth isn't stupid and that children are people too.

Atypical dysphoria and the ones that're nonhuman and or alterhuman, extranthrope, altsex, therian, objectkin, conceptkin, etc. A means to spreading positivity and joy to the ones suffering with odd and unusual dysphoria. This includes transhumanism and the personal choice of deciding what one does to ones body; this includes things that you'd find personally uncomfortable/harmful.

This stance is not supportive & inclusive of/to the following:

Transitioning to harmful transids (transnazi, transracist, transblack, transasian, etc.)

xenosatanism

any sort of harassment

antitheism/abolition of religion

Like I said above the cut, any sort of hate will get deleted. Spread positivity to the ones that need it, the world needs more positivity. If one has any questions, feel free to ask! :]

[selfdxculture]

ʚ♡ɞ ʚ♡ɞ ʚ♡ɞ ʚ♡ɞ ʚ♡ɞ ʚ♡ɞ ʚ♡ɞ

➤; ᴡᴇʟᴄᴏᴍᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜɪs ʙʟᴏɢ.↶

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In this blog, you can submit asks about Self Diagnosed culture! This should be in the format of: "Self Diagnosed culture is..." "Self-Diagnosed Autistic culture is..." "Self Diagnosed NPD culture is..." etc.!

I will not be giving information on how to self-diagnose as I am not qualified. Similarly, don't ask us for resources please, it's really difficult for us to find them ourselves.

Please send anon hate. It's absolutely hilarious and only fuels our ego. (Will only post if funny so be original!) We also accept named anons!

You may vent in the asks and request that it be marked as no reblogs. Please specify it is a vent so I can tag it appropriately.

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DNI:

Pro Endogenic systems/Use the terms sysmed or traumascum

Ableist in any way (Demonize personality disorders, etc.)

Homophobic, biphobic, transphobic, etc.

Anti mspec gays/lesbians or anti turigirls/lesboys

Racist or sexist

Transid(Transabled, transage, transrace) [peopled with BIID may interact.]

Proship or anti anti

Demonize intrusive thoughts/Believe in thought crime. Yes this includes ALL intrusive thoughts

Fake claim ANYONE

Anti-self-diagnosis

Pro ED/Pro ana/Thinspo (Even if you say "not pro, just for myself". Fuck off)

NSFW content (We're bodily a minor...)

Believe in narc abuse

I'll add more if the time comes.

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We are called Blight Files and we collectively use He/They/It/Sick pronouns. Call us Elliot

We currently have self diagnosed; BPD, NPD, HPD, Autism, Dyslexia, Dyscalculia, DID, Insomnia, Unnamed ED, Depression, PTSD (possibly C-PTSD)

We have diagnosed: ADHD, Anxiety

Base Account: @awkwardlyqueer

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Inspired by: @ndcultureis @cluster-b-culture-is @queercutlureis @aego-culture-is

Boosts appriected!

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Triggers are tagged as: #TW [trigger] Boosts are tagged as: #Boost Vents are tagged as: #TW vent Positivity Posts are tagged as: #Positivity or #Self Diagnosed Positivity Important Posts are tagged as: #Important Syscourse or any sort of discourse will be tagged as TW syscourse and TW discourse

All Posts are tagged as "Self Diagnosed Culture" or "Not Self Diagnosed Culture"

[sugarfiric]

introductory post :)

hello! we are the sugar system, a medically recognized mixed origin OSDD system. we have 70+ members, but the most common fronters are:

🍉 ; liz (she/they/fae/love, primary protector, introject of 1 2 3)

🪓 ; michael (he/they, host, introject of 1 2)

🌒 ; asthore (they/it/paw, trauma holder, introject of 1 2 3)

🧸 ; cory (it/plush/soap/he, secondary protector, introject of 1 2)

💽 ; robyn (he/him, gatekeeper, introject of 1 2 3)

we are bodily triracial (hispanic, black, & asian) and a minor. we are also autistic and cannot control our interests, problematic or not.

speaking of problematic, we would like to make it clear our stances.

we support:

non-traumagenic systems.

m spec lesbians, gays, straights, abros, etc.

queerhets.

turigirls and lesboys.

those who use neopronouns.

the queer, LGBT+, mogai, liom, and xenogender communities.

disabled people and bipoc.

RESPECTFUL use of AAVE for all (as a black person).

the reclamation of slurs, cringe culture, IDs/flags made by problematic people, etc.

SFW age regression/dreaming.

SFW pet regression/dreaming.

people of any religion as long as they're not harming anyone. including muslims, witches, jews, buddhists, etc.

all neurodivergent people, including "dangerous" pd's/nd's (ASPD, BPD, HPD, NPD, etc).

therians of all kinds.

the problematic media itself.

we do not support:

cringe culture.

transids (transabled, transnd, trace, etc). the only exceptions to this are chronosians/people with biid.

truscumism.

sysmedicalism. (we as a trans system support the use of this term)

transmedicalism.

TERFs, SWERFs, FARTs, TEHMs, SWEHMs, etc.

MAPs, p3dos, p3dosexu4ls, noMAPs, whatever the hell they call themselves now.

the ever so transphobic definition of lesbian "non-man loving non-man". we prefer to use "queer attraction to women".

real-person fiction, conship, incestship, pedoship, zooship, or other forms of proshipping.

⚠ HAVING FACTIVES WHO DATE EACH OTHER DOES NOT MEAN SUPPORTING RPF. WE COMPLETELY SUPPORT (LEGAL) IN-SYS RELATIONSHIPS.

ddlg, mdlg, ddlb, mdlb, cgl, or any other ageplay fetish.

ddlp, mdlp, ddlk, mdlk, or any other petplay fetish.

melanie martinez, mitski, lana del rey.

the creators of problematic media.

[cluster-b-culture-is]

Hello! Welcome to cluster-b-culture-is! This blog is run by two plurals who have cluster b disorders and who want to spread positivity and awareness for them, along with building a safe space for others.

As mentioned in the blog description, we will not be responding publicly to hate and negativity. It will either be deleted or responded to privately. Any discourse sent to our blog will be deleted as well; this is meant to be a safe place for personality disorders.

And, as a quick aside since we've gotten many asks about this, cluster B disorders are a group of personality disorders including ASPD, NPD, BPD, and HPD. There are two other clusters (cluster A and cluster C), but this blog is specifically focused on cluster B disorders.

Information, a discord server, and introductions are below the cut!

Do not repost posts from this blog without explicit permission and credit. Reblogs are okay.

Information

- We support informed self-diagnosis and non-traumagenic systems. If you disagree with either of these, you will be blocked on sight. We do not welcome anti-endos and anti-nontraumagenics (A more detailed explanation of our stance here). We are also pro-tulpa and pro-nontraumagenic (p-)DID/OSDD systems.

- Exclusionists (transmeds/truscum, aspec-exclus, anti-mogai, anti-mspec lesbians/gays, anti-nonbinary lesbians/nonbinary gays/male lesbians/female gays, etc.) will be blocked on sight. Our identities are not up for debate.

- Others that we will block as soon as we see them: Flop/cringe blogs, NSFW/kink blogs, radfems (both trans-"inclusive" and trans-exclusive), anti-blm or don't see the problem with "all lives matter", MAPs, ED-focused main blogs regardless of if you are pro- or anti-recovery, actively encourage being anti-recovery for others, pro-lifers, pro-cancel/call-out culture, not anti-harassment, and right-wingers

- The symbol on the avatar is one made by one of the mods! Feel free to use it if you want, but we will not claim that it should represent the entire cluster b community--it was mostly just a fun thing to help represent the blog.

- You can do more specific things than just cluster b culture! You can talk about the intersections with other disorders, specific personality disorders, really just anything so long as it has to do with (a) cluster b disorder(s)! However, please make sure it is cluster b culture is (or some variant, such as NPD culture is or autistic cluster b culture is, etc), as this blog is made by and for people with cluster b disorders.

- We also will not be posting any asks that don't have a "cluster b culture is" type thing at the beginning. If it's just a vent, we will not be posting it, and we also won't read it and it'll just be deleted. Sorry y'all, but if you want something posted, then we need the "cluster b culture is" style beginning for organization purposes.

- That being said, certain submissions may not be posted for the mods' comfort OR there may be a major delay before something is posted, often due to overwhelm, lack of spoons, or just plain ol' not being sure how to tag it properly. It could also be a case of the queue being massively full! We currently run at 6 posts per day, but we still have many posts in the queue. Often new asks will take at least a week to be published, even if there are no other delays. Feel free to ask us to tag certain triggers!

- Asks asking for personal advice will not be answered, certain questions (i.e., "What is an FP?" or "What is splitting?") may be answered, but it's not guaranteed. Please note that we are not professionals here, just two cluster Bs with too much time on our hands. This blog is a hobby, not a job.

- here is a link to our discord server! If you have a cluster b disorder, traits of one, or are questioning, feel free to join!

- Here is a link to the cluster b song suggestions playlist! (The ask, that is)

Introductions

- Mod Reef is a multi-origins collective with DID, NPD, and ASPD, plus a whole laundry list of other disorders such as autism, schizophrenia, OCD, and AVPD. We use it/its and ze/hir pronouns collectively and exclusively, and will not talk about our headmates. We also wish to not be called a system, and rather we be called either a collective or a constellate. Feel free to ask if you'd like to know why. We're physically disabled and use forearm crutches and a wheelchair.

- Mod Orange is a large DID system with ASPD and NPD. We also have a nice laundry list of other disorders because mental illness is “buy one, get seven free”. We’re very queer and use they/them, xe/xem, ze/zem, and vo/ven pronouns collectively and are totally indifferent to which of those people use. We’re chronically ill (and chronically online as a result) and Jewish. Open to answering most questions, but somewhat new to tumblr :)

Tags

@romo-aro-culture-is @ndcultureis @plural-culture-is @adhd-culture-is @autistic-culture-is @ocd-culture-is @disabled-culture-is

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

FDC LOSERS GET NO BITCHES💞💞💞

something i want to say first and foremost: there will be asks of questionable morality and asks that show the "uglier" side of NPD, it is a trauma disorder and more often than not it does not have pretty symptoms.

if you are an egotypical here to learn about NPD, you need to know no one here is going to be a "model minority" or whatever you're thinking. if you've come here to learn, you need to be open and aware many of us do not have "pretty" symptoms and this is a space we will not hide that in.

i am open to this being a space where egotypicals can read about our symptoms and experiences but ultimately, this space is not for you. this is a space for people with NPD and we will not filter ourselves just because it makes you uncomfortable.

heyo! like mentioned in the description this is a safe place and culture blog for people with narcissistic personality disorder to share their experiences :)

about the admin:

our names are poker, chorus, or fate

our collective pronouns are they/he and we collectively identify as a genderqueer aroace mspec lesbian

we're a polyfragmented system

we are clusters a, b, and c. we have NPD, HPD, BPD, AvPD, PPD, and are now heavily questioning StPD.

we're autistic and have ADHD

we're bodily white and ethnically jewish

frequent fronters:

🧋 - they/it/mint/nova+ - primary host, npd + hpd symptoms holder

📻 - he/him - secondary host, persecutor, bpd symptoms holder

🌃 - he/it - co-host, soother

🎶 - coffin/thou/they/she+ - co-host, homicidal thoughts holder

🥤 - he/him - sidesystem host

fun fact, there's a polish version of this blog! @bycie-narcyzem-to

we also run @hpdcultureis and @polyfragcultureis

tags:

media - npd character headcanons (and sometimes even characters who canonically have npd)

song reccs - songs with npd vibes

ableist creators - creators who use ableist language/demonize pwnpd/ect (i've said it once and i will say it again, this tag is not inherently meant to 'cancel' anyone in it or say they are malicious. i understand a lot of people are just ignorant and misinformed but i still believe pwnpd deserve to be warned ahead of time if a creator uses ableist language.)

point and laugh at the ableist - a tag for any hate i get that i decide to respond to for whatever reason, if you'd like to avoid it then block this tag

semi on topic to this section, refer to this post if you want to claim something as a sign off :)

dni:

basic dni (queerphobes, racists, terfs/radfems, ect. you get the idea)

exclustionists (we consider ourselves critically inclusive)

support transrace and transabled (people with biid are obviously fine), we have complex feelings on transage but generally have little problem with it as long as they use a different term such as altage or chronosian

people who believe in "narc abuse" or use narcissist in a derogatory sense/use it as a synonym for abuser

people who demonize npd or any cluster b disorders in general

anti-self-dx, we support self-dx here and people dont owe you an explanation on why they dont want to/cant get a professional diagnosis

radqueer, radpara, pro/neu/complex contact on harmful paras, hardcore proshippers or antis (just keep shipcourse away in general)

our syscourse stance if that's important to you i guess, i also want to add if you're against the HC-DID label or try to silence RAMCOA survivors, fuck right off ❤

other things to keep in mind:

if youre here to tell me about your relative/ex partner who had npd please dont <3. even if you put "but i dont think all people with npd are evil" after it, i genuinely dont want to hear about it.

similarly please dont come here to tell me how you "support people with npd as long as theyre not abusive," i agree with the sentitment and phrase but the fact that your immiedate thought after i bring up npd is abusers is part of the problem.

please start your asks with some form of "npd culture is." this can also include things like "npd + bpd culture is" and "npd artist culture is," as long as it includes npd in some way.

if youre here to send hate youre just feeding my ego lol you lose by default <3. (as a little side note though, any hate i get sent that i decide to post and make fun of will be put under the tag "point and laugh at the ableist" so if you'd like to avoid those, feel free to block the tag.)

i reserve the right to not post any asks/submissions for any reason.

please dont ask me for advice, i feel uncomfortable giving it on the topic of npd. i'm also not always 100% comfortable answering questions about it as i'm not a professional and it's not exactly where my confidence in my knowledge of psychology lies. i'm just someone with npd, i don't know everything and i don't want to be the cause of misinfo spreading. i'll try my best to answer questions i feel more confident on, but i won't answer everything.

we don't do this so much anymore but if an ask/post is tagged with an emoji, pay it no mind, its just how we keep track of which headmate posted what.

our system blog and the blog we post on most is @doomsdayradio. our main we follow/like/reply from is @demi-and-awkward.

tags:

@clusterbsafespace @cluster-b-culture-is @histrionic-culture-is @npdbubblygum @npdsafe @narconfessions @narc-rants-and-vents @narcpup

[flutterbyfairy]

❀ people i will block if i see them interacting with me ❀

[title transcription: "people i will block if i see them interacting with me". end transcription.]

if i notice anyone who falls into these categories interacting with me i will block them. this is just here to state my opinions and because some people prefer to know someones dni before interacting.

also: please don't interact if your blog has frequent nsfw/kink posts (artistic nudity or occasional tagged posts are okay).

this blog does not support:

- the obvious bigotry stuff: lgbtqia+phobia, sexism, racism, colourism, ableism, fatphobia, antisemetism.

- another obvious one: abusers and pedophiles.

including "maps", "nomaps", or any other word used to mean adult who engages in sexual activity with a child.

this includes adults who write/draw/post/engage with sexualised content of children (both fictional and nonfictional). this is not about educational content for minors or someone writing about their experiences with something like csa.

- terfs

this means people who don't include transfeminine people in their "feminism" (in quotations because terf feminism isn't good feminism); who believe that having a vulva/womb/periods/xy chromosomes are a necessary part of being a woman; who think trans women are a danger to cis women or shouldn’t be allowed in women’s bathrooms; who believe in bio-essentialism (the belief that our biology sex characteristics determine who we are).

- swerfs

this means people who don't include sex workers in their "feminism" (in quotations because swerf feminism isn't good feminism); who think sex work should be criminalised.

- people who don't support intersectional feminism.

- "pro life"/anti-abortion ideology.

- people who are anti nonbinary, anti neopronouns, anti lesbians who use pronouns other than she/her, anti people using pronouns that you believe don’t correspond to their gender, anti people who use "conflicting" labels.

- transmeds/truscums

this means people who believe medical transition or gender dysphoria is a requirement of being trans.

- the belief that genitalia determines gender.

- the exclusion of asexual and aromantic spec people from the lgbtqia+ community.

- people who blame queer people for queerphobia, such as saying "cringe" identities, "contradictory" identities, ect. are the reason for harassment or bigotry towards queer people.

- people who are anti blm (including anyone who promotes "all lives matter" or "blue lives matter"); who support the police/the idea that racist police officers are “just bad apples”; support the idea of/believe in reverse racism.

- people who support or promote diet culture; promote/believe in the “obesity epidemic”; tell people to lose weight or that they'd be prettier/healthier/better if they were thinner; harass fat people; promote the idea/believe that fatness is bad, gross, or worse than thinness.

- supporters of autism speaks or the use of ABA; those who use an autistics person's needs for support or inability to perform certain tasks to deny them respect.

- people that support/believe in the idea that people that have a personality disorder (bpd, npd, aspd, ect.) are inherently abusive; promote the idea of “narcissistic abuse”; support eugenics of people with personality disorders (or eugenics at all for that matter).

[blankqueer]

[posting whats under the cut for archival purposes:

Joyqueer is essentially a blankqueer term where one prefers to focus on positivity. They try and look on the bright side of things, even in the darkest of hours.

Even though Joyqueer focuses on the positivity, it doesn't condone toxic positivity. We're not naïve, the world isn't sunshine and rainbows 24/7. We look on that side when applicable to ease life and stress because focusing on the bad 24/7 and being drowned in misery is painful and hurts.

This stance is for good faith terms/identities, follows P.L.U.R (Peace, Love, Unity (and), Respect), and users might spread positivity and joy amongst others.

This stance is supportive & inclusive of/to the following:

Mspec queers (ie mspec lesbians, gays, biles, bipan, etc.), gender anarchy (being a girlboy, transfemasc thing, having no gender while having gender, etc), & relationship anarchy (being aplatonic, being loveless, having sex with your friends and or doing things with friends that others consider "weird", polyamory, being with objects and or stuffed animals, etc)

System inclusive with the respect of cultures and against spreading misinformation.

Inclusive of ones with cluster B disorders and to educate about them and spread joy to the ones with the disorders that are suffering. NPD abuse doesn't exist, and pw HPD/BPD/ASPD aren't bad for existing!

Anticontact paraphiles that are just existing in a world that sadly doesnt understand them. attraction isn't action and no matter how ""harmful"" the attraction is (attracts cannot be harmful as thought crimes dont exist), you aren't a bad person for something you cannot control.

Anti-censorship in art and storytelling; fiction freedom in the largest of sense. Fiction isn't on the same level as reality, characters are the dolls you play with.

Youth liberation; realizing that the youth isn't stupid and that children are people too.

Atypical dysphoria and the ones that're nonhuman and or alterhuman, extranthrope, altsex, therian, objectkin, conceptkin, etc. A means to spreading positivity and joy to the ones suffering with odd and unusual dysphoria. This includes transhumanism and the personal choice of deciding what one does to ones body; this includes things that you'd find personally uncomfortable/harmful.

This stance is not supportive & inclusive of/to the following:

Transitioning to harmful transids (transnazi, transracist, transblack, transasian, etc.)

xenosatanism

any sort of harassment

antitheism/abolition of religion

Like I said above the cut, any sort of hate will get deleted. Spread positivity to the ones that need it, the world needs more positivity. If one has any questions, feel free to ask! :]]

Joyqueer

Image description of flag is tba

I want to preface this coining post with the following:

This blog is not a discourse blog or a coining blog! We don't take requests for this stuff. If you start shit you will be blocked and ignored! ^_^

The emojicode (cus we're a sucker for 'em): 🌤️🌈

Feel free to do whatever the fuck you want w/ this flag, it's a pretty flag, have fun with it!

This is a long post, be prepared HELP

Joyqueer is essentially a blankqueer term where one prefers to focus on positivity. They try and look on the bright side of things, even in the darkest of hours.

Even though Joyqueer focuses on the positivity, it doesn't condone toxic positivity. We're not naïve, the world isn't sunshine and rainbows 24/7. We look on that side when applicable to ease life and stress because focusing on the bad 24/7 and being drowned in misery is painful and hurts.

This stance is for good faith terms/identities, follows P.L.U.R (Peace, Love, Unity (and), Respect), and users might spread positivity and joy amongst others.

This stance is supportive & inclusive of/to the following:

Mspec queers (ie mspec lesbians, gays, biles, bipan, etc.), gender anarchy (being a girlboy, transfemasc thing, having no gender while having gender, etc), & relationship anarchy (being aplatonic, being loveless, having sex with your friends and or doing things with friends that others consider "weird", polyamory, being with objects and or stuffed animals, etc)

System inclusive with the respect of cultures and against spreading misinformation.

Inclusive of ones with cluster B disorders and to educate about them and spread joy to the ones with the disorders that are suffering. NPD abuse doesn't exist, and pw HPD/BPD/ASPD aren't bad for existing!

Anticontact paraphiles that are just existing in a world that sadly doesnt understand them. attraction isn't action and no matter how ""harmful"" the attraction is (attracts cannot be harmful as thought crimes dont exist), you aren't a bad person for something you cannot control.

Anti-censorship in art and storytelling; fiction freedom in the largest of sense. Fiction isn't on the same level as reality, characters are the dolls you play with.

Youth liberation; realizing that the youth isn't stupid and that children are people too.

Atypical dysphoria and the ones that're nonhuman and or alterhuman, extranthrope, altsex, therian, objectkin, conceptkin, etc. A means to spreading positivity and joy to the ones suffering with odd and unusual dysphoria. This includes transhumanism and the personal choice of deciding what one does to ones body; this includes things that you'd find personally uncomfortable/harmful.

This stance is not supportive & inclusive of/to the following:

Transitioning to harmful transids (transnazi, transracist, transblack, transasian, etc.)

xenosatanism

any sort of harassment

antitheism/abolition of religion

Like I said above the cut, any sort of hate will get deleted. Spread positivity to the ones that need it, the world needs more positivity. If one has any questions, feel free to ask! :]