#Not self diagnosed culture

[selfdxculture]

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[selfdxculture]

Keeping in mind, however; Neurotypical systems do not exist.

DID and OSDD are both neurodivergencies! :)

one thing that I don't see a lot of people talking about in regards to fictive heavy systems is that if you are stuck in the same unsafe situation that caused your trauma, you are going to be predisposed to split more.

if you are a minor with access to the internet, you are more likely to use the internet as a coping mechanism to distance yourself from the situation you are stuck in. And if you are still actively being traumatized and use media as a form of escapism YOU WILL HAVE A LOT OF FICTIVES.

fakeclaimers that see fictive heavy systems and immediately assume that they are faking are just being belligerent at this point. And the argument falls apart even more when you consider the fact that a fair amount of systems are also adhd or autistic and will be even more likely to turn to hyperfictations or spins during times of stress, causing them to (potentially) split off of that thing even more then a nt system.

anyway tldr: fakeclaimers are silly and don't do adequate research and fictives I love you mwahh

[toomuchdivergentformyneuro]

me: *reads over symptoms of autism once again* “see but i don’t get upset over changes in routine, we change the routine all the time and i’m totally okay with it!”

also me since i was a kid: *gets irritated, stressed, angry, aggravated, and depressed for the rest of the day after something is switched to another day* *gets angry, stressed, and depressed, and has a breakdown when i find out we have to cancel plans, even if i didn’t really wanna go to wherever we were planning to go* *gets aggravated and is easily upset and is depressed the whole day after i get to cancel something that i had been planning for but also are relieved that i don’t have to go since i really didn’t want to* *is depressed, angry, irritated, and stressed after we cancel plans that i had zero feelings for up until that point* etc.

[finnslay]

POV:

That autistic getting told they're "book smart not street smart"

(This happened to me Monday)

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

self diagnosed ( "evil" aka being treated like a monster so you try to prove you are one) NPD culture is going into your first therapy appt like "btw i have NPD tendencies" and your therapist actually listening and actually asking if you think XYZ thing is tied to the narcissism (in a non abelist way) and just being like...yessss im the evil Narcissist convincing you i have NPD...im so evillll. Im getting a good grade in manipulation (his ass has done no manipulating)

(I have no idea if this one is actually relatable.)

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[selfdxculture]

Also, be sure to report them!

PLEASE SPREAD TO ALL AROACE AND POLYAM BLOGS THAT YOU CAN

Hey guys just so you know there’s a aphobe and polyphobe going around and leaving hateful messages. Just go ahead and block aphobic-polyphobe before they come harass you.

[chronicsymptomsyndrome]

“Winners don’t hit snooze” drop dead actually. Fucking die.

Winners don’t go around assuming everyone is just as privileged and healthy and well rested as them

Winners don’t shame others for whatever accommodations they might need to maintain a decent quality of life

Winners don’t act like pretentious ableist assholes in fact I’m pretty sure winners are perceptive open-minded kind and understanding. Idk

[borderline-culture-is]

(self-diagnosed) bpd is the constant war between logic saying I know I'm not being ignored out of malicious intent and my friends are genuinely very busy, and the absolute despair when no one responds for multiple hours

Don't leave me alone with my thoughts please

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[silly-lil-vent-blog-heehee]

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I can't believe one of my favorite artists would spread awareness about BPD, and I reblog their posts because, hey, maybe my mutuals would find this helpful, all while being completely oblivious to the signs I related to.

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❝ Oh, hey, mood swings. It's probably just my teen hormones at it. ❞

❝ Oh, hey, being comfortable with talking to only 1-3 people at a time? Nah, it's just social anxiety. ❞

❝ Oh my gosh, they physically feel pain from how strong their emotions are? It must be so hard to have your muscles ache. It's totally not referring to the literal heartache when one's sad because I experience that. That must mean it's normal. ❞

❝ Oh, limerence? Nah, I'm just lonely. ❞

❝ Oh, avoiding somebody after a small fuck up? Just because I relate to a symptom, it doesn't mean I have that disorder. ❞

❝ Impulse buying? Gambling? Risky, self-harming behaviors? Opinions of people changing quickly, from asking why God would let such a demon roam the Earth to thinking they're the sweetest saint to ever exist and vice versa? What do you mean? I must have these symptoms from a different disorder I'm aware I have but not too knowledgable of! ❞

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All of these flew right over my head until a TikTok slideshow appeared in my fyp.

I still cannot believe the reason I started to suspect I have BPD was because of a TikTok slideshow that appeared randomly in my fyp. If the algorithm didn't decide to add something different, then I would have realized later.

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[plural-culture-is]

selfdxd closeted plural culture is not being able to come out to your mom who has DID because she’ll accuse you of self diagnosing for attention-⚜️

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[selfdxculture]

SEND SUPPORT

IF YOU ARE ABLE TOO, PLEASE DONATE TO @tf2heritageposts !!

He is currently struggling to pay rent and eat. He also needs to buy a new bed frame and get his T.

He recently broke up with an abusive ex-girlfriend who raped him and has her polycule attacking him.

His ex-girlfriend also raped a 16-year-old, and presumably groomed them. She is 18.

Please send all your support to Cheavy and his system, he is struggling currently, and I'm sure even some kind words will go words away.

He has posted more about his ex-girlfriend, Delilah, and her blog name on his blog.

Her blog is called straawberries. Do NOT send anon hate or harass her, please block her and inform anyone unaware of the situation about her abuse, and mistreatment.

POSTS ABOUT THE SITUATION: THE OG POST + REBLOGS (please simply block both the people defending Delilah) EXTRA

THE DONATION POST: https://www.tumblr.com/tf2heritageposts/756226081699299328/77200?source=share

[chaoticautie]

Me: My autism has been confirmed by more than one medical professional, it was written on paper but it’s outdated now (Asp*rger’s), I had an IEP, my RAADs score was 187, and almost all of my friends and even some of my family members have suspected it before or have otherwise affirmed it

Some random person who doesn’t even know me: You’re not autistic

Me: Yeah I guess you’re right

[self-dx-culture-is]

Self dx conduct disorder is trying as hard as possible to be able to see a therapist to hopefully get diagnosed but knowing you probably can't because you were never charged for your violent/illegal behavior but still really wanting to put a name to a face

hope things work out for you nonny

[toomuchdivergentformyneuro]

the “gifted child” to “burnt out young teen” to “oh shit i’m AuDHD older teen” pipeline is too real

[crimsoncosmic]

I feel like we as a society need to come to the realization that the “r/fakedisordercringe” phenomenon was just normalized casual ableism against neurodivergent teens that for some reason, (some) neurodivergent individuals not only let slide, but also condoned and participated in. I can’t help but wonder how different the ND community would be if it wasn’t for this.

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

self dx npd culture is do i actually have npd or am i faking it or it is normal just to act like an asshole for attention and to get attention from anyone because i cant live without it

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