#Not self diagnosed culture

[selfdxculture]

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[toomuchdivergentformyneuro]

me: *reads over symptoms of autism once again* “see but i don’t get upset over changes in routine, we change the routine all the time and i’m totally okay with it!”

also me since i was a kid: *gets irritated, stressed, angry, aggravated, and depressed for the rest of the day after something is switched to another day* *gets angry, stressed, and depressed, and has a breakdown when i find out we have to cancel plans, even if i didn’t really wanna go to wherever we were planning to go* *gets aggravated and is easily upset and is depressed the whole day after i get to cancel something that i had been planning for but also are relieved that i don’t have to go since i really didn’t want to* *is depressed, angry, irritated, and stressed after we cancel plans that i had zero feelings for up until that point* etc.

[finnslay]

POV:

That autistic getting told they're "book smart not street smart"

(This happened to me Monday)

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

self diagnosed ( "evil" aka being treated like a monster so you try to prove you are one) NPD culture is going into your first therapy appt like "btw i have NPD tendencies" and your therapist actually listening and actually asking if you think XYZ thing is tied to the narcissism (in a non abelist way) and just being like...yessss im the evil Narcissist convincing you i have NPD...im so evillll. Im getting a good grade in manipulation (his ass has done no manipulating)

(I have no idea if this one is actually relatable.)

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[borderline-culture-is]

(self-diagnosed) bpd is the constant war between logic saying I know I'm not being ignored out of malicious intent and my friends are genuinely very busy, and the absolute despair when no one responds for multiple hours

Don't leave me alone with my thoughts please

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[chronicsymptomsyndrome]

“Winners don’t hit snooze” drop dead actually. Fucking die.

Winners don’t go around assuming everyone is just as privileged and healthy and well rested as them

Winners don’t shame others for whatever accommodations they might need to maintain a decent quality of life

Winners don’t act like pretentious ableist assholes in fact I’m pretty sure winners are perceptive open-minded kind and understanding. Idk

[silly-lil-vent-blog-heehee]

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I can't believe one of my favorite artists would spread awareness about BPD, and I reblog their posts because, hey, maybe my mutuals would find this helpful, all while being completely oblivious to the signs I related to.

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❝ Oh, hey, mood swings. It's probably just my teen hormones at it. ❞

❝ Oh, hey, being comfortable with talking to only 1-3 people at a time? Nah, it's just social anxiety. ❞

❝ Oh my gosh, they physically feel pain from how strong their emotions are? It must be so hard to have your muscles ache. It's totally not referring to the literal heartache when one's sad because I experience that. That must mean it's normal. ❞

❝ Oh, limerence? Nah, I'm just lonely. ❞

❝ Oh, avoiding somebody after a small fuck up? Just because I relate to a symptom, it doesn't mean I have that disorder. ❞

❝ Impulse buying? Gambling? Risky, self-harming behaviors? Opinions of people changing quickly, from asking why God would let such a demon roam the Earth to thinking they're the sweetest saint to ever exist and vice versa? What do you mean? I must have these symptoms from a different disorder I'm aware I have but not too knowledgable of! ❞

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All of these flew right over my head until a TikTok slideshow appeared in my fyp.

I still cannot believe the reason I started to suspect I have BPD was because of a TikTok slideshow that appeared randomly in my fyp. If the algorithm didn't decide to add something different, then I would have realized later.

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[plural-culture-is]

selfdxd closeted plural culture is not being able to come out to your mom who has DID because she’ll accuse you of self diagnosing for attention-⚜️

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[chaoticautie]

Me: My autism has been confirmed by more than one medical professional, it was written on paper but it’s outdated now (Asp*rger’s), I had an IEP, my RAADs score was 187, and almost all of my friends and even some of my family members have suspected it before or have otherwise affirmed it

Some random person who doesn’t even know me: You’re not autistic

Me: Yeah I guess you’re right

[self-dx-culture-is]

Self dx conduct disorder is trying as hard as possible to be able to see a therapist to hopefully get diagnosed but knowing you probably can't because you were never charged for your violent/illegal behavior but still really wanting to put a name to a face

hope things work out for you nonny

[selfdxculture]

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[toomuchdivergentformyneuro]

the “gifted child” to “burnt out young teen” to “oh shit i’m AuDHD older teen” pipeline is too real

[crimsoncosmic]

I feel like we as a society need to come to the realization that the “r/fakedisordercringe” phenomenon was just normalized casual ableism against neurodivergent teens that for some reason, (some) neurodivergent individuals not only let slide, but also condoned and participated in. I can’t help but wonder how different the ND community would be if it wasn’t for this.

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

self dx npd culture is do i actually have npd or am i faking it or it is normal just to act like an asshole for attention and to get attention from anyone because i cant live without it

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[borderline-culture-is]

self-diagnose bpd culture is feeling like a faker when you're not constantly feeling negative even though you literally have most of the symptoms.

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[chronicsymptomsyndrome]

I’ll never forget my counselor’s face when I said I used to secretly be really into aliens because I was worried that I was one. I thought I must not be from earth. But I must have known how weird that was because I never wanted anyone to find out. I would pull up the wikipedia page for dogs or trees or something, just to have a decoy tab to click to really fast so I wouldn’t risk anyone noticing what I was actually reading about or asking me why.

Anyway I’ve never attempted clinical diagnosis but if a professional ever tries to tell me I’m allistic I will laugh at them so hard and mock their career choice.

Go ahead tell me I don’t seem autistic I dare you