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As a fanfic writer, I've always faced more judgement for headcanons that involve making characters disabled than ones that make them queer.
Both of these are matters of projection for me, yet one is always seen as just a touch too far for people to handle.
Disabled people exist. Queer disabled people exist. Chronically ill people exist. Diabled people are not required to ignore their existence when it comes to media. They deserve to be seen just as much as able-bodied queer people do.
If seeing disabled people in media makes you uncomfortable, I can only imagine how you might treat disabled people in real life.
#I felt like complaining today#disability#chronically ill#chronic illness#chronic pain#chronic fatigue#fandom discussion
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Regular reminder that sudden and severe weight loss is a pretty serious sign that something is very, very wrong
#weight#weight loss#brought to you by the realisation today that my hips are currently smaller than my fucking waist usually is#it’s summer and i’ve been walking the hill a lil more but damn that’s not fucking good#and before anyone even THINKS ‘i wish i had this problem’ i guarantee you do not#cuz it comes from 2 hour bathroom trips that are screamingly painful#and the arbitrary inability to eat literally anything#which often crops up right before i sit down to eat something#and i mean i can wait it out and eat late but it’s really goddamn annoying#and none of my goddamn clothes fit AGAIN i’m way out of even my smallest stuff#my broke ass is not buying new shit and if i make any cosplay to fit me now it’ll be way too small when i’m back in remission 😤#gotta get the goddamn meal replacement shakes again and see if i can process those#they are GROSS#gym bros are lying to you#they all suck#and i need to do em along with regular meals cuz i’m not gonna get enough from either#luckily i also have chronically low blood pressure so frenchfries are medicinal on both levels#this may also explain my resting heartrate being around 120bpm in my opinion#but no one’s ever really discussed it
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Are there any like.. idk studies? That look at the permanent effect chronic pain has on the brain?
Because i feel like even if i was magically cured and woke up tomorrow with 0 pain and never had it again, I would still for the rest of my life have issues with regulating my emotions, seeing things rationally, being sociable, etc etc etc.
If you took a person and inflicted non-stop pain on them for years on end and the only time they could possibly take a break was to choose between the pain or taking drugs, that would be considered literal torture and they’d have severe trauma and so many mental issues for the remainder of their life.
But my body being in 24/7 pain that stops me from functioning unless i take pain killers so strong they make me high is just life and I’m expected to get on with it.
I really wanna know what kind of mental toll years of chronic pain, especially in cases like mine where the chronic pain started before I even hit puberty and shaped my entire development.
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logan and wade helping each other deal w their chronic pain <3
#having a metal skeleton and literally being made of cancer cannot be fun#i recently read a fic where wade would pick fights w logan bc the endorphins from the exercise and pain from being stabbed distracted him#from the pain of his cancer#and i thought that was a very interesting take on pain management that can only be done with these characters#could also look at it from a self harm perspective…. but i digress#i think we should all be discussing their chronic pain more#anyway#poolverine#deadpool#wolverine#txt
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I really think we need to start talking about the stigma around hysterectomies and their place in the treatment for the symptoms of endometriosis.
Something I see often is the phrase 'hysterectomies don't cure endometriosis', which is very true, but do you know what a hysterectomy can cure?
Pain.
And you know the pain I'm talking about. The gnawing, all encompassing agony that surrounds our entire lives. The one that keeps you from going back to school, or uses up all of your sick days and vacation time from work combined, the one that leaves you dry heaving for hours until you pass out on the bathroom floor. That pain. There's truly no describing what it's like until you're living it.
And I cannot describe to you how free I feel knowing I will never have to suffer through that ever again.
If we continue to talk about our pain journeys we can end the stigma against hysterectomies. It will never be a cure-all, but remember that you are not a baby machine, you are a human being who deserves to live pain free. And I'm telling you, it's possible.
#endometriosis#hysterectomy#adenomyosis#chronic illness#chronic pain#i was discussing this with my doctor#theyre finally studying hysterectomies relating to pain#and the amount of people who experience pain post surgery#is like less than 0.1%#i like those odds#and i feel so fucking good you guys#i haven't had a period in over two months#TWO MONTHS!!!!!!!!!#NEVER AGAIN!
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Me trying and failing to explain to my boss why I think people with a disabled placard/parking thing (what are they called actually?) should be able to park in the parking lot at the nature reserve in town for free because I am struggling to find the words and it just kind of sounds like I'm whining about having to pay $10 to park in the reserve
#and like it doesnt even benefit me to advocate for this bc i dont HAVE a disabled thing#id still have to pay or park down the road for free#he hit me with the “well then its not fair its not equal”#and i was like well no its equity#and he goes “thats just an excuse”#im going to get violent#killing you with my mind#i think he finds it amusing he unlocks my argumentive side when we start discussing disability anything#bc i get heated#hes usually chill but every so often he reminds me that hes actually a self centered ass#and hes honestly ableist as hell#and he Knowssss im disabled#stop pissing me off bro#chronic pain#chronic illness#disability#disabled
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someone remind me to write up my fh disability theory reading meta at some point
#ive got something. it's gonna overlap a bunch with the transhumanism theme and discuss ortegas internalised ableism#alongside the allegories of the enhanced for disability + racism/disability/poverty/queerness (cigs inherent queerness of fh post is inspo)#mostly started with thinking abt the parallels between sura and ortega and how they choose to deal with their disability#some similar and some wildly different#i love that so much of the cast is disabled and in such a variety of ways#owl lost her legs during the nanosurge and ortegas highly experimental mods let them walk again and enhance their agility/strength#+ other things (at Extreme cost.)#chen is multiply disabled with the multiple amputations and the gut issues#argents got the nanovore stuff and chronic pain#sidestep is autistic coded! also the paingate being broken can be an allegory for chronic pain/fatigue. no longer being able to push through#like they used to.#ramblings#fh meta
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physically disabled people: i love us physically disabled people
other people for some reason: what about everyone else? you don’t love everyone else? you could have just said disabled people. or just people. you’re excluding any non-physically disabled people. why are you promoting exclusion? i’m a bastion of inclusion and yet people are attacking me for it. if physically disabled people have their own spaces or positivity posts it’s because they’re ableist to everyone else and no other reason. if physically disabled people ever uplift themselves and not everyone else too it’s because they’re hateful
#this is WILD#sorry maybe i’m just pissy cuz i feel like i’ve been run over by a truck#still tho wtf is that person’s problem k#I could keep going but everyone else has already said what i could#everyone else has given proper explanations but like. sometimes things aren’t for you#if i have a discussion about chronic pain it’s not ableist just because my hoh sibling isn’t included#that convo just isn’t for them. that’s all there is too it#it’s like an addressed card#if you’re mad a card isn’t for you than tough shit. cope instead of getting mad at the writer and receiver of the card
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quick note - this blog is gonna be sparse again for at least this week. trying new medications and tbh initial side effects are not super pleasant + actual effects build up. as a result: currently as if unmedicated for mental health, with anxiety+ side effect, extra fatigue, dizziness, and fatigue. it's uh, sure something.
totally recognize that most of y'all know we're absent at times due to health things, just wanted to give a heads up that this one is at least anticipated.
#fun fact sometimes condensing meds just means poorer treatment of some conditions#this is a re-expansion + new thing#so that instead of poorly treating my mental health and using an unusually high dose SNRI for another (physical) condition#i will hopefully both be in less pain AND not depressed af AND also have an appetite again#i doubt i will be lucky and not have a fucked stomach due to meds but one can hope that an appetite will allow me to eat foods that upset#my stomach a lot less#my health is forever a massive balancing act#every time a medical thing is like 'so what meds do u take' i'm like here i wrote it down for u#and they're like 'oh. ooookay. let me just...' *five minutes of typing and clicking later*#'so! what did you come in for again? uhuh. you said you experience pain daily? with your chronic pain thing? hm. have you tried yoga?'#/gen#like. straight up every time i say 'i am in pain all the time due to fibromyalgia' they are like 'ooh studies say regular exercise helps'#and like. theoretically yes! but also. i would be lying if i said the fibromyalgia studies i've skimmed don't set off general 'bad science'#alarm bells in my brain#like... cool you performed a fibromyalgia study with... all male lab rats? mhmm? so are you aware fibromyalgia appears to occur#overwhelmingly in women? like. data seems to suggest between 70-85%?#(not that the data can't still indicate things but it certainly makes male rats a poor choice of model for tests on it)#also just... idk i've looked at some metaanalysis and been like 'okay cool theory and for all i know about human bio or bio in general that#sounds more or less correct BUT. you never discussed that one study on this subject that did NOT support your conclusion.#and that's 1) interesting when it was the most diverse group of subjects and the exceptions often teach just as much as the 'rule'#2) just shitty science. tell me how your theory is still credible when some evidence doesn't fit the model.#like... 'given that all other studies were primarily conducted on white american women in their 30s to 40s it is possible that this model#only explains (the early effects of fibro since that's a typical onset period) / (a possible genetic link primarily found in white women) /#(a possible sign of bias in diagnosis that demonstrates the possibility that there are different causes) / combinations of all of those#like... idk a paper that just throws out things that don't support it is a pretty big red flag#it doesn't mean the conclusion is entirely incorrect but it is often important to understand the context in which it applies#like... it's very easy to jump to an incorrect conclusion if you used something in the wrong context#ie: thumbs up is a good job / positive thing in a lot of western civilizations. teenage kee once went to china and discovered it to be#neutral to offensive in many areas outside of major tourist locations that were used to it#anyways i gotta sleep
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Important Doctor Appointment Today. Wish me luck!
#disability#chronic pain#cripple punk#cpunk#chronic illness#cripplepunk#aaaa#been in and out of the er three times#had to go to urgent care yesterday#and now my primary and i discuss some stuff today#i hope he listens
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People who go on and on about how AI art is an accessibility tool are the ones you can 100% GUARANTEE don't follow or know any disabled artists.
There are artists without hands that hold paint brushes with their feet, their are blind people who sculpt, there are people with chronic pain that have their own break schedules, etc.
But you know what AI art generators do? They steal from disabled artists. They dehumanize them and then claim they're making a tool to help them. They see you as a "style" not a person.
Would it be too far to say that the rise of AI art has only made our consumer culture worse and made A LOT of people think they are entitled to someone else's work just because it's "available"? I'll let you decide.
#art#art discussion#digital art#artwork#artist#artists on tumblr#digital artist#illustration#diability#disabilities#disabled#disability#disabilties#chronic pain#chronic illness
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Time and distance heals things I guess. My parents got into an abusive fight with me after i took markers and pens to most of my clothes in middle school to scribble doodles and social justice messages (most prominently, Save Darfur–which really needs to be a rallying cry again given that the genocide has kicked up again as the Sudanese civil war rages). They were worried I'd look "unpresentable" in my massively oversized boy graphic tees and baggy jeans held up only by the grace of God (this was all by choice btw, i had and have always despised tight clothing and by middle school I had shunned girl clothes all together). But now at 31 I make mention of writing messages in sharpie on new t-shirts and my mom thinks it's cool and my dad offered to buy me proper fabric markers (I declined bc the cheap shirts will prolly wear out before the sharpies fade anyway). Go figure
#it should be noted that both parents GENUINELY APOLOGIZED for how they treated me as a kid#i had gone non contact with my mom for about 8 years and with my dad for almost a full decade#things with my mom had been okayish for a few years prior to covid but we never really discussed it#but when covid hit they both independently (they've been divorced 4 years) realized there was every chance i would die#and that my medically fragile ass would die resenting them#so they really freaked out and began begging my forgiveness#in the same week too oddly enough. they didn't discuss it with each other before hand so that was a wild week#I'm not necessarily sure i forgive them but I'm not angry anymore#it doesn't absolve them but they grew up in the 'don't comfort your crying baby' era of childcare#and didn't know what to do with a child in constant chronic pain and agony and depression#it doesn't justify how they treated me but it does explain how it ended up like this#i feel sorry for them more than anything these days#Anyway tagging this as#child abuse#still tho
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Having demand avoidance in a medical setting is literally hell. Like, patient autonomy is already absolute ass. It's only made worse when doctors CONSISTENTLY tell you what to do and act like you HAVE to do it instead of consulting with you first like normal fucking people.
#also “”“”medical necessity“”“” is NOT an excuse here.#ive been to plenty of doctors that thoroughly discuss a range/timeline of treatment and explain it IN DETAIL before saying “thats what i-#-recommend“ instead of just going ”okay were gonna do this. im gonna explain the prep to you a mile a minute and if you have any follow up-#-questions im just gonna repeat part of my spiel with no clarification. and if i cant answer your questions too bad :)“#not to mention how many doctors just force you to do things that WILL NEVER WORK#like one therapist tried forcing me to do emdr when i was only IN HER TOWN for the summer and i had no internet access when i was at college#im pretty sure emdr takes several weeks to work and i did not have that kind of time available to me. i couldnt just drop out bc of ptsd.#also the number of times ive had to decline an ESI is stupid. I've already had 2! they didn't work! i had a bad reaction to the meds!#why am i being forced to do it again?#also back surgery. i cant do that because i am a white trash rural kid and our home (which we built ourselves) CANNOT be accessible enough#for spinal surgery recovery. but i went to the surgeon and he was like “thats valid! and also surgery literally wouldnt help you so idk why-#-they sent you here.“ : l It's cool to be right all the time lol#its like. no wonder i developed medical demand avoidance after so much traumatizing and malpracticy bullshit in my life#demand avoidance#medical demand avoidance#chronic illness burnout#chronic illness#chronic pain#medical tw#ptsd#disability#medical neglect#medical trauma#vent#this might be too personal. if i do delete it ill have it rb'd on my boar-deer-whitetrashbutterfly blog first#idk i just havent really been able to find anyone else talking about this specific effect of being chronically ill/disabled.
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Question for my fellow chronic back pain sufferers:
I went to the doctor today to get my results for my knee and lower back scans and surprise, surprise, there was nothing showing on the results that would indicate why I'm in pain.
Botox injections for my back pain was suggested and my knee-jerk(ha!) reaction was "nope".
It sounds scary af to go for needles every 2-3 months and have them stab somewhere that is tender already. Not to mention how unnerving the word Botox is to me...
Have you ever done the injections and what was your experience with it? My doctor gave little to no info and it felt like pulling teeth to even get this far so any input would be better than me falling down a search engine hole
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I waffled back and forth about whether my mystery pain is totally fine and not a big deal vs a massive, infuriating pain in my ass that makes me want to cry. The latter perspective is supported by the sheer amount of vent-y fanfic I've written about it.
Does this solve any problems? No, but sometimes you gotta scream into the void.
Will I ever get over my medical anxiety long enough to ask a doctor why the fuck my everything hurts sometimes? God only knows. Given the past 5 years of failing to do that, I don't think my odds are great. Also, what's the point? I've got a guess about what it is - fibromyalgia, the same thing my mom has, and it's really not very treatable. If a doctor were to suggest half of the common treatment options to me, I would want to bite them (I wouldn't bite them, but I'd want to). Exercise is the main one and I think it's stupid because yes the evidence says it improves quality of life but it does NOT say it improves pain, and doesn't exercise improve quality of life for everyone? How is that fibro specific? Either explain that or bite me.
I SHOULD talk to a doctor, if for no other reason than to rule out the potentially nastier and/or more treatable illnesses with similar symptoms, but also? It's been five years. If it were gonna kill me I think it'd've done it by now. I don't need some entitled doctor telling me this is a depression symptom (VERY common comorbidity with fibro anyways), or that I need to exercise more (I might actually start screaming), or that I should try yoga (again. screaming.). The most likely outcome here is frustration, anger, emotional trauma, and zero improvement of my symptoms. I'm far more likely to suffer from asking for help than I am to actually GET help. If it's what I think it is, there isn't much of any help to be had. And that's assuming I get a better answer than: "it's in your head" or "I don't know and I don't care."
Chronic illness and medial trauma: a fantastically horrible combination. Common side effects include despair and overwhelming rage.
#i'm angry! and i hurt! and i need to fistfight like the entirety of western medicine! and a bunch of nontraditional medicine too!#yeah i feel like the inability to discuss this topic without breaking down in incoherrent rage MIGHT suggest i'm slightly traumatized#just maybe#no more words only snarling noises#vent post#chronic pain#aaaaaaaaarrrrrrrghhhhhhhh
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about me:
You may call me Abby!
I'm 21 years old.
I use she/her pronouns.
I'm bi and (probably) ace, but I don't care much for labels online.
When I'm not online, my interests include reading, baking, painting & sketching, writing, and going on walks.
I'm a huge coffee nerd, and my favourite tea is either a good masala chai or earl grey.
This is just a fun fact: my username is a reference to research I've done in neutron physics! Please feel free to ask me more if you're curious, although this isn't going to be a physics blog.
topics on this blog:
Chronic pain and all of the medical and non-medical things that make it annoying to deal with.
How mental illness affects my life, specifically dealing with my history of severe depressive episodes.
A documentation of what my journey to accepting and treating my health issues has looked like.
The occasional opinion post about the changes I would like to see in healthcare, society's views on chronic illness, and how online communities sometimes get too carried away.
disclaimers and additional info!
I'm not a medical professional! While I enjoy learning about medicine, I do so very much as a hobby and usually focus on my specific issues: please don't put too much weight in my words.
I am not planning on being a discourse blog, however: I have some pretty strong opinions on how some communities have a tendency to misunderstand the purpose of a medical diagnosis and perpetuate misinformation under the label of being pro-self dx- while I wouldn't consider myself anti-self dx, I think it's safe to say that some people have gotten a little carried away.
Following from my last point, I strongly believe that there are very, very few- if any- situations that are black-and-white. I try not to label my stances as anti-xyz or pro-xyz, but I will often use those tags.
I will be using the block button liberally, don't be rude, and follow along if you'd like :)
#chronic illness#chronic pain#mental illness#actually mentally ill#depression#major depressive disorder#clinical depression#pro recovery#mental health discussion#self diagnosis#self dx#anti self dx#anti self diagnosis
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