#bpd + npd culture is

[cluster-b-culture-is]

bpd + npd culture is wanting to do anything for your fp but suddenly they don't give you attention and praise as much as you wanted then you're like "fuck you, i don't want anything to do with you"

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[borderline-culture-is]

bpd + suspected npd culture is crying out loud for attention because i need to be looked at and loved, then wanting to die when i’m ignored

-💫🎶

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[a-healthy-dose-of-apathy]

unfortunately for the both of us, i really like you

[autopsyfreak]

i hate that BPD gives me such a lack of emotional permanence.

you can spend hours describing the ways in which you care about me, yet the moment you stop my brain will immediately decide you hate me and are destined to leave me.

[surrah698]

[mirroringshards]

sorry for being mentally ill and actually having symptoms it will happen again xoxo

[cruelbrutality]

I have no empathy, remorse, guilt or compassion.

That is how I experience things, as a result of my personality disorders.

If you are going to support personality disorders then you also must include people with these symptoms as well and not just the glorified version the media attempts to convey.

[notesfrompanihida]

im a violent dog and i know exactly why i bite

[rqvodka]

beings with homicidal thoughts are no more immoral than those with suicidal thoughts. stop demonizing symptoms.

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd + bpd traits culture is PLEAAASEE LOOK AT ME AND RECOGNISE THAT IM NOT OK!!!!!! please look at the songs i listen to and be concerned and please pay attention to the way i behave and acknowledge that something is off because i dont know how to ask for help but this is me trying please help me please look at me - 🐍🕊️

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[cluster-b-culture-is]

possible bpd/npd culture is wanting to keep in touch with friends but not being able to for some reason, even though you want to and feeling bad about the possibility of them no longer considering you as friends

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[borderline-culture-is]

bpd and npd culture is not getting attention from your favourite highly ranked friends for LITERALLY A SINGULAR MINUTE and spiraling into a mental breakdown that ends instantly after they talk to you again

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[a-healthy-dose-of-apathy]

how it feels knowing you’ve hurt other people by accident due to your personality disorder and can’t go back in time to fix it so the relationship is either dead or damaged:

[autopsyfreak]

‘how do you expect people who have been abused by someone with NPD to refer to their abuse then?’

by calling it what it is: emotional abuse.

it’s not difficult.

slapping the word ‘narcissistic’ on the front of abuse is blindly assigning blame and associating the abusive behaviours with NPD, despite the fact that nowhere in the criteria does it state any abusive behaviours as a symptom.

i understand that people who are severely mentally unwell are more prone to abusing others, however to point the blame at a disorder (and therefore at everyone with the disorder) is ableist, irresponsible and grossly misinformed.

to put it into perspective as to how bad the stigma surrounding NPD is, i have been diagnosed with NPD and have been told i should be killed because of it, that i will inevitably abuse my partners i have had, i’ve had partners in the past be harassed by people saying that it’s ‘just a matter of time’ before i abuse them without any of these people ever even knowing me. i see endless amounts of things online calling all narcissists evil, as well as having my own experiences with abuse disregarded because they do not believe someone with NPD could be anything other than a perpetrator, despite the fact NPD is induced by trauma. the list goes on.

your choice of wording does matter and it does damage people with NPD.

[interruptedsblog]

I hate when pwbpd demonize pwnpd, YOU ARE ALSO FROM CLUSTER B, YOU EVEN SHARE CERTAIN PERSONALITY TRAITS.

[mirroringshards]

idk who needs to hear this but you CAN romanticize your own mental illness. you don't have to be miserable and in constant pain all the time if youre mentally ill. dont cater to the comfort of ableists