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sagethegayyyy · 3 months ago
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endos are valid
mspec lesbians are valid
bisexual lesbians are valid
aroace people are valid
therians are valid
self shippers are valid
self diagnoses are valid
disabled people are valid
you’re valid
stop telling people that they’re not
edit: not even a day and someone was already complaining in the comments. I will delete them in order to keep this post a safe place for discussion
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leggywormy · 1 year ago
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It's end of May, yall know what that means
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uncanny-tranny · 1 year ago
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Periodic reminder that unless a person specifically and clearly tells you it is okay to tell others they are trans or queer, you should err on the side of caution and assume they do not want you to tell people (especially random people!) about their transness or queerness.
You have no idea, generally, why somebody doesn't talk openly about their trans or queer status, and you have no idea, truly, how somebody might react to that information. The most progressive person out there is still capable of harbouring incredibly negative thoughts about somebody's queer status.
#lesbian#gay#bi#bisexual#trans#transgender#queer#lgbt#lgbtq#ally advice#inspired after somebody at work outed me (again ×3)#i don't care how 'safe' you assume they will be! you cannot TRULY guarantee their safety!#you are effectively gambling with somebody's safety by assuming you can out them#also even if their safety was somehow 100% guaranteed it is still not your place to dictate what others know about THEM#like it isn't your own information you are giving out. the other person is a real human being with real thoughts...#...and there are real ramifications to your actions! this is like... real life and like... real people#anyway. i'm still fucking horrified at how cool people are (at least wrt me) with outing others 🙃🫠#and it just... further reminds me that others see me as like... a thing to be talked about/over and i'm not seen as an autonomous human#maybe that's not their intentions 9/10 times but that still doesn't justify it nor does it change how i interpret that behaviour 👍#it's just dehumanizing imo to be reminded 'your comfort DOESN'T MATTER. i think you should be talked ABOUT not TO.'#clarification for the first tag: this is the THIRD time somebody has outed me. i NEVER talk about being trans to... pretty much ANYBODY irl#it's shit like this that i have to resist taking the 'doompill' over#because it's scary and dehumanizing every. single. time. i feel so fucking scared each time#because - AGAIN - i know my safety will NEVER be guaranteed because i am trans and queer
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akorean · 8 days ago
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Please stay safe
Please stay safe
It gets better please
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autismhotpot · 2 months ago
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The fact that the most biphobic mfs out there nowadays are BISEXUALS THEMSELVES is crazy
Imagine being SO desperate to call yourself anything BUT bisexual. Bisexuals would rather call themselves gay/lesbian or queer OR just make up some bullshit ass terms like omnisexual, pansexual, polysexual whatever like that shit is any different
MF YOU ARE BISEXUAL⁉️ WHY ARE YOU DENYING IT, ARE YOU EMBARRASSED OR SOMETHING ⁉️
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pillarsalt · 1 year ago
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LGBeetles
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carmens-tummy-hurts · 4 months ago
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hey please interact if you're disabled, queer, plural, reality shifter, furry, or spiritual, I need friends
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goldstar-rage · 23 days ago
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isn’t it crazy how every single fucking day there's dozens of comphet "lesbians" falling in love with men and finally admitting their bisexuality like "i really thought i was gay but turns out i am bi, never could have imagined it!" yet people still believe that comphet is a thing and that you can be a lesbian even if you've had relationships or crushes on men before? like damn are you guys sure there's not a bit of a proof there. you don't find it weird AT ALL that these lesbians who were vIcTiMs of cOmPhEt all later come out as bisexual and almost all end up marrying men. the thought that it might means comphet doesn't exist REALLY has never crossed your mind ? amazing
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centaur-dreaming · 6 months ago
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Happy birthday fellow gays and queers of other flavours <3
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travelersofthemultiverse · 4 months ago
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why is everyone fighting? Why are we all hurting each other? Why are we fighting over terms? Why are there people ignoring intersectionality and coming up with bullshit to say about each other? why are we dismissing the existence of people within our communities? Why are we isolating each other instead of helping each other? Why are we getting into silly fights about shipping? why are some of us pitting us against each other? Why is any of this happening at all? Just why why why why why why? Why is there so much bigotry(of all kinds) within our communities? Why can’t we just wake up and help each other? we are all being oppressed by the same bigoted capitalist assholes. Why are we busy fighting each other instead of them? 
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doomgendr · 10 months ago
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lesbigay / bigayles flag
for people who use the labels bi, gay, and lesbian to pin down their complex attraction/identity!!
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higher quality + more versions on my twitter
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viridi-is-sapphic · 2 years ago
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Reblog if your blog is a safe space for any mspec mono peoples!!
@genderstarbucks thanks for letting me use the image!! Credit goes to him!!
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bisexualsafespace · 1 year ago
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three flags to make the exclusionists MAD
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Flag one: gay spectrum, a flag for gays who are mspec, arospec, acespec or generally id complex, in other words not purely homoromantic homosexual.
Flag two: lesbian spectrum, a flag for lesbians who are mspec, arospec, acespec or generally id complex, in other words not purely homoromantic homosexual.
flag three: those who are “bisexual”, but who have a complex orientation that would require lots of words to explain and/or is unexplainable.
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nix-that-rad-lass · 1 year ago
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🌈Happy Pride Month🌈
🌸To the lesbians told they are transphobic for refusing biological males
🌸To the lesbians hiding their true orientation for fear of discrimination from the same movement claiming to support them
🌸To the lesbians who wonder if maybe it would be easier to identify out of it and pretend they are a man in a woman’s body
🌸To all the lesbians feeling left behind by mainstream pride
🌈Happy pride month🌈
🌻To the gay men called transphobic for refusing biological females
🌻To the gay men who hide their true selves to appease their peers idea of how they ought to be
🌻To the gay men who wonder if maybe they should give in and try to change yet again
🌻To all the gay men feeling left behind by the mainstream pride
🌈Happy pride month🌈
🌺To the bisexuals who are told they are transphobic for refusing someone that believes in outdated gender roles as an identity
🌺To the bisexuals told they aren’t gay enough to be LGB and aren’t straight enough to be “normal”
🌺To the bisexuals who feel like they don’t fit and are always having to change and hide bits and pieces of themselves to be accepted
🌺To all the bisexuals feeling left behind by the mainstream pride
🌈Happy pride month🌈
🌼To the dysphoric people told their bodies are wrong and should be medically harmed
🌼To the dysphoric women and girls seeking to escape the trauma of sexism and misogyny
🌼To the dysphoric men seeking to escape the trauma and toxicity that seems to infest most masculinity
🌼To all the dysphoric people feeling left behind by the mainstream pride
🌈Happy pride month🌈
💐To all the people whose identities aren’t just an identity, but a part of them, a biological reality
💐To all the people who reject ‘queer’ because same sex attraction and dysphoria are not strange or weird
💐To all the people told to follow a political movement that claims to support them despite actions showing otherwise
💐To all the people left harmed by the medical industry as it preys upon individuals with dysphoria or those struggling to come to terms with their sexuality
💐To all the people told that their desire for simple acceptance and normalcy is politically incorrect
🌈Here’s to a pride month for everyone, and a hope for a better future for all- regardless of ones orientation, presentation, or politics🌈
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magickpancakes · 6 months ago
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Happy Pride Month!! <3
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batpoisonz · 9 months ago
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twitter users be like
"lesbians can't like men. but we aren't bisexual even tho we are attracted to women and a spectrum of nonbinary people"
but also be like
"yeah a man who likes women and a spectrum of nonbinary people isn't straight, that's actually bisexual."
the double standards are insane.
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