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And I'm not supposed to be cringed out by men?

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My post was not meant to say that people should care about how others perceive them. I was just pointing out how some lesbians see bi women as less to them bc they are bi. Although I wouldn't let it affect me if someone told me that irl and I'll just find someone that does accept my sexuality for who I am. That doesn't mean I don't get to voice my concern with the whole problem. This is also very much online (which I've shown pictures recently from radfems on Twitter) and can affect bi women when they are just starting to be bi women (or really at any stage). Obv we learn to just move on and find ppl that love us, but this experience is still a major part of being a bi women at this point. And I think we deserve a space to talk about it.

My intentions were not meant to be lesbophobic (bc i don't believe that lesbians inherently hate bi women out of biology or smth. Or that they don't have a right to be against some bi women that don't fit their life). I myself (as a febfem) get not wanting to be around much male centered people or male leaning people.

Although I agree with the video. I would argue that bi women don't feel less gay bc they aren't oppressed enough. They feel less gay bc lesbians and literally everyone always talks about how they aren't oppressed enough therefore not gay enough. Our feelings of not being gay enough are a reaction to yall telling us we aren't bc we have privileges.

Yall always blame bisexuals for valid feelings. Us expressing those feelings doesn't mean we are saying we are more oppressed or as oppressed. We just want yall to see us as equally gay and not just "half gay half straight" bullshit.

Why is it when bisexaul women speak on their issues and discrimination, yall like bringing up their privilege as if bi women haven't been acknowledging it for fucking years.

The amount of time I've seen bisexaul women having to state how they know they are privileged as a bisexual before speaking on their experiences or thoughts or feelings, just indicates how much ppl don't bother listening. Bi women are well aware and have always been of their privileges. That doesn't mean we don't deal with other shit too and have fucking feelings.

This shit never happens with bi men 🙄🙄

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maybe not all of my female ancestors would be proud, but i hope that feminist of the past know how a lot of us are grateful for them and look up to them.

(sorry, i don’t remember the owner of the og post)

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if you take away lawful divorce, women will just revert back to god's divorce (poison)

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One time here a man strangled his girlfriend so hard she broke ligaments in her neck and threatened to kill her and her family but the judge didn’t put him in prison because he was a young man and it would ruin his life or something and then he got a gun and shot up his workplace killing two people and I believe the police killed him.

Another time an old man killed his wife because she had alzheimers and wouldn’t be able to do all the housework or something and he didn’t want to move into a home so he pleaded it to be a murder suicide and the judge gave him like. Idk. Was it 4 years? Because he was old.

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at this point i feel like you either have to be legit stupid or willfully ignorant to pretend there's something wrong with being against porn and prostitution as a woman or feminist lol like i really... i used to struggle to articulate my feelings on the matter and i'd kind of try to be live-and-let-live about it because i was scared of getting yelled at. but nowadays i just feel like it's inextricable from any genuine feminist ideology to not accept those things as natural or acceptable. the whole "swerf" thing is absolutely insane to me. people really compare being against human trafficking and mass institutionalized rape/rape apologia to... being a right wing maniac and/or neo nazi and/or bigot... it's so fucking crazy. like actually. step back and look at yourselves.

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I think one of the biggest self-owns in hetero relationships (along with the myriad other ways woman lose in that dynamic) is the way women fake orgasms. Your man is often just too lazy and selfish to even bother learning how to navigate his woman's anatomy properly, and you're going to encourage that laziness and selfishness with positive reinforcement? Doing this is just SO sad, because it's resigning oneself to just being an object to be used for his pleasure, and abandoning any expectation of mutual enjoyment.

Why not just congratulate him each time he doesn't help with his portion of the chores?

Or when he leaves you a sink full of his dirty dishes?

Or when he only brings back 2 out of the 4 things you asked for from the grocery store, because he wasn't listening to you?

Or when you say you're too tired to cook, so he picks up takeout - for himself?

Why are you cheering on his selfishness and mediocrity, and screwing yourself over?

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Also funny how they think supporting porn/the sex work industry and gender ideology will somehow lead to gradual progressive change lmao, when it's doing the exact opposite. But ofc I can't say that there without getting banned.

And funny how everyone thinks women should strive to be "equal" to men. Imagine what society would be like if men are the standard lol.

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the stars are telling you this, trust me.

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99% of snark pages target women (often for stupid reasons) but as soon as I talk about how I find timothee chalamet creepy, I am bombarded with questions and hate. Weird.

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Can we like talk about how dating sucks now these days videos? Like I’ve been seeing video essays on how dating sucks in this generation and some of the reason are REAL REASONS, like because of social media and it’s less genuine because you don’t actually meet the person because all you can do now is send a dm and that’s it and dating apps and Covid too. But like can we be so fucking for real for a second like the main reason is men in this generation SUCKING so badly like. In those video essays, they say that cheating now is normalized because of social media BUT CHEATING HAS ALWAYS BEEN NORMAL FOR MEN. But suddenly since women do it now too and are proud of it(because men be always bragging abt it but suddenly it’s wrong when a woman ALSO does that crap.) like yeah the internet has a big reason to play in why dating sucks right now and it’s because men have easy access to 4chan and shit, introduced into these incel spaces and it being spewed out by influential men like Elon Musk and Andrew Tate and now that fuxkass crap is common.

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recently saw a video on insta where a woman was talking about her acts of micro feminism (shaking hands with both women and men, asking women's opinions first, turning to female specialists). in the comments, men started writing that these were "rather acts of hatred towards men", that is, what men did and continue to do with women is normal, but asking women's opinions first and shaking their hands is hatred? wtf is wrong w men??