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Crazy how like 70% of gender norms is both men and women trying to avoid thinking and adult responsibilities.

Men don't want to clean, cook or do any of the basic life admin necessary to keep themselves functional as an adult. And many women yearn for child like helplessness regarding everything about life.

I can't believe this is what it comes down to a lot of the time. The adult part of me gets it, as the years pile up, just thinking and simple daily tasks can become exhausting.

The child like part of my brain can't believe it, I can't believe how much serious, far reaching issues actually come down to pervasive mental and physical laziness. Genuinely surprised that much of life is just filled with unpleasant, boring tasks you try to get out of doing

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Suddenly everyone knows what personal boundaries are

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post: i love being a woman in love with another woman

somebody's tag: this but instead of another woman it's a man. everyone will be thrilled to hear this and it's extremely relevant. i feel so relieved for saying that and now that everyone on this post knows it i can finally begin living my life. thank you everyone for helping me achieve this dream

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TW: disturbing content, p*rn

This is why you shouldn’t trust self-proclaimed “male feminists”.

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anticapitalist e-commies when you say that the sex industry is exploitative

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Heads up, that sillypibble user has been known to send borderline gore to radfems before. He has a weird obsession with us. Not quite sure what his deal is, but that's what I know

Oh shit thanks for letting me know

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I some what agree

Like yeh alot of biphobes are actually bisexuals with internalized biphobia but there are still lesbians and gay men and especially straight ppl that are biphobic.

And the only reason bisexuals have internalized biphobia to such an extreme degree is bc of others perpetuating biphobic beliefs and stereotypes. It didn't just come from thin air lmao. They started it.

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I don't get the claims that we should denounce the concept of biphobia 'because it's just homophobia and misogyny' - like, isn't it a good thing to have a word that describes how our experiences with patriarchy can be affected by our sexual orientation (or our experiences with homophobia can be affected by our sex)? Especially when we have multiple studies from multiple different countries that suggest that bisexuality might be a material factor in bisexual women's oppression (bisexual women have experienced disproportionately high rates of sexual abuse, domestic violence, homelessness, substance abuse, and mood disorders)?

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"bi women are straight" / "bisexuals dont want commitment" / "bisexuals cheat" / "bi women always go back to men eventually" / "bi women are only interested in other women for sex" / "bi women never have sex with other women" / "bi celebs are faking for attention" / "bi female celebs are fetishizing lesbians for the male gaze" / "bisexuals are never ostracized" / "bisexuals are always infiltrating communities they dont belong to" / "bisexuals were never a part of this community" / "bisexuals dont love women they way WE love women" / "bi women idolize men" / "bisexuals dont experience homophobia" / "biphobia isn't a real thing its just homophobia" / "bisexuals dont experience internalized homophobia" / "I dont like bisexuals because my ex left me" / "bisexuals don't understand anything we experience"

/ "les4les" "its just a preference" "I would never date a bisexual" /

Can 2025 be the year when you all start keeping this stupid bullshit to yourselves because good fucking god we get it already.

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i luv how bisexuals are gaslighted about biphobia and are told it’s not a serious thing and that the term biphobia is ‘funny’…..it’s all so incredibly weird to me. Biphobia is a thing and we’re allowed to call it out when we want to. Stop gaslighting us. We know hate towards bisexuals when we see it

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It’s interesting how much of tags like #transfem, trans femme, trans girl, trans women etc is porn. I’m talking full view of genitalia, fetish, lingerie, even some penetration. About every second post is porn, actually. I would include photo evidence but unlike those posting in these tags, i’m actually not fond of posting uncensored pornography on apps that

A) have children on them

B) has banned porn, meaning, presumably, people on the platform are expecting to scroll safety, without coming across porn.

They talk CONSTANTLY about trans kids, protecting children, normalising trans characters in children’s media, drag queen story time etc etc, but clearly seem to have no actual concern about children running into their adult content. these are not adult tags. If you wanna talk about “trans kids�� be aware that MTF trans kids, or even curious GNC kids WILL be looking at #transfem #transwoman on tumblr. That should not be shocking news.

They do not care about kids being exposed to pornography and fetish content. If it was proven it all was a fetish, or that drag is objectively explicit adult content, it would not change a thing. It doesn’t matter to them if it’s a fetish or not regarding children seeing it. They only pretend it isn’t and say it isn’t so they look better, like a real social justice/anti-discrimination movement, and so they can groom more GNC/SSA kids into it without being stopped, dare I say.

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the doomerism spreading around radblr right now is actually dangerous. I’m so fucking tired of seeing blackpill, defeatist rhetoric on my dash.

“men will never let us go quietly” so? are we supposed to accept this?

there’s an extremist thinking of either we’re handmaidens or living on nudist female-only settlements and it’s divorced from reality.

but aside from the polarized thinking—my fundamental gripe about this talk is that it is literally endangering girls and women. THE WORST thing a woman or girl can do when it comes to protecting herself from men and boys is adopt a posture of weakness and complacency. gender—like the actual behavior of femininity—is fucking dangerous. yes men are dangerous. yes they retaliate when we resist. but our SAFEST BET IS STILL RESISTING. YOU AS A WOMAN OR GIRL ARE SAFER RESISTING THAN COMPLYING. you must signal disapproval and noncompliance as early and firmly as possible with men. that is one of the best ways to protect yourself. the second best way to protect yourself is with COMMUNITY.

it’s not rocket science. men fear your retaliation too. they fear miscalculating how easy you are to take on. men frequently need other men to boost their confidence in getting away with victimizing you. so the earlier you establish yourself as a wild card, the better.

you don’t have to do too much at first either. just refuse to laugh at their misogynistic joke if you don’t feel brave enough to call it out. refuse to respond to their nagging or bullying if you can. report them. share what you know with other girls. create community with them. SHOW DISAPPROVAL in anyway. tell their parents. family members. resist fawning.

I know it’s easier said than done, but it’s easier done when tried. start resisting small, but START RESISTING.

don’t wear makeup to the mall even if you feel like you have to wear it to the wedding. say you won’t watch that movie because it’s male supremacist nonsense and when people laugh uncomfortably or tease you, double down on how you’re dead ass and refuse to explain yourself beyond that. be a killjoy and a negative nancy and a party pooper. express pain when you are in pain, when he hits you, even if playfully. signal that you’re loud. that you’re ready to resist and not planning on coming quietly at any point. believe you can win, because plenty women have or we wouldn’t be here.

men’s transformation does not factor into whether we resist or not. we don’t resist merely to improve our lives as women but to save them in the first place. femininity is how we get punished. conformity is how we get weak and defenseless.

RESIST

it could fucking save your life

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u know… a sexual act is not instantly good and healthy simply by being consensual

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I find it odd when ppl act like being lesbian automatically makes you decentered to men and your love for women is more pure or real. And being a bisexual means you have malicious intent and are tainted.

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