#best life

[catsofyore]

"Portrait of Frieda Baars (Sangernebo) with three cats, 1907" Source.

[purehoneyy]

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[theambitiouswoman]

Read This If You Want To Stop Caring About What Other People Think 🧐💭💡

Life is short, and we only get one shot at it. Think about this: someday, when you're 95 years old, do you want to regret not doing what you truly wanted because you were worried about other people's opinions? I don't want that, and I'm sure you don't either.

Here's the thing: people are mostly focused on themselves. They're not dwelling on your actions or thoughts like you might think. Have you ever noticed how you nitpick your own behavior but hardly notice the same things in others? That's because we're all caught up in our own worlds.

Caring about what other people think will hold you back from being your true self and pursuing your true passions. When you're clear about your own path, and actively working towards your goals, other people's opinions become less relevant.

You can't please everyone, and that's perfectly fine. It's impossible to have everyone like you while staying true to yourself. Everyone has their own judgments and biases, often based on their personal experiences. Other people's opinions are just that – opinions, not facts. Their views don't define your worth or identity. Some won't like you no matter what, and that's not a reflection of your worth. Remember that everyone has their own insecurities and struggles. When you see people through a compassionate lens, their judgments lose their power.

Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Building your self-confidence through accomplishments can help you care less about external validation. Spend time with people who support and uplift you.

Remember, it's your life, and you should live it for yourself, not for the approval of others. Learn to say "no" when necessary and prioritize your well-being over seeking approval from others. Changing your mindset won't happen overnight, but with time and effort, you can make progress. Keep reminding yourself of these key points:

Life is short, so avoid regrets.

People are mostly focused on themselves.

It's okay if not everyone likes you.

Be authentic and true to yourself.

Instead of obsessing over what others think of you, shift your focus to how you feel about yourself. Your self-perception should matter more than anyone else's opinion. Stopping caring about others' opinions isn't easy, but I promise it's worth it. As you continue to remind yourself of these reasons, you'll find more freedom to be the real you. Remember, nobody can be a better "you" than you!

[ilovehowyoufeel]

[whyyjakee]

Lil freckle Sketch

He is living His best life. 🙏

[kriegermeanswarrior11]

Life lately aaaaaand Logan 😍

[oceane4loveu]

I'm tired of always being sad. How can I have a bubbly personality like Chuu ,Chaewon or Sana ?

stop always being sad

🍓accept your emotions: the first step to stop being sad all the time is to accept and recognize your own emotions, this is advice that my psychologist gave me during my first session. so every time you will be sad, take a sheet of paper and write down everything you feel instead of keeping them inside you.

🍓 identify the causes of your sadness: try to understand the reasons for your sadness. and take action to change what can be changed.

🍓take care of yourself: it means letting go, resting, exercising, just doing what makes you happy.

have a bubbly personality

🍓practice having a positive attitude: even when things aren't going well, try to see the bright side of things and keep a positive attitude. You can repeat positive affirmations to help you.

🍓surround yourself with positive people: choose your surroundings carefully. go out with people with whom you can be yourself and who make you happy.

🍓don't take yourself too seriously: don't be afraid to laugh at yourself and live each moment with lightness.

🍓Get out of your comfort zone: try new activities, visit new places…

🍓practice gratitude: keep a gratitude journal and write down at least three things you are grateful for every day.

🍓uses the romanticizing life method: SCHOOL: Listen to music. create a playlist for different occasions like studying and walking the halls etc. bring coffee or tea in a cup when you are in class or in a library study in the library, in a cafe or outside if you can! take careful, efficient but pretty notes. use highlighter colors that match your aesthetic be organized and at least try to get good grades, you'll feel great! decorate your file cabinet, locker, desk, uniform, etc. it's so cute! always carry a book with you, it makes you look smart. LIFE: Start a journal in which you write down your feelings and be objective! start reading books before sleeping and light a candle during this time start watching series like Gilmore Girls or Gossip Gir!! create Pinterest boards of your mood and aesthetic do your skin care while listening to your favorite playlist give yourself flowers (or other small gifts) take photos every time you see something beautiful like nature spend time taking care of yourself I face mask, date, movie night, etc. you can romanticize your life the way YOU want. You don't need to watch Gossip Girl. You don't need to light candles. There are so many different aesthetics you can have. You can also mix them up or create your own aesthetic. Romanticizing your life is not about having a calm life full of candles. It's having the life you want.

[minimalist-quotes]

What a wonderful thought it is that some of the best days of our lives haven't even happened yet.

[simply-beautiful-world]

[paulgadzikowski]

My new online jazz radio station (I quit the first one because after about a year a popup demanded that I disable my adblocker, but this one's public radio) and the local eighties-till-now radio station that goes Christmas carols on November 1st both play Linus and Lucy during the holiday season as if it were a Christmas carol.

They also play Christmastime is Here (actually the jazz station is more likely to play a cover) and Guaraldi's O Tannenbaum. Guaraldi's O Tannenbaum and Deodato's Also Sprach Zarathustra, between them, are probably why my favorite genre of music is jazz covers of tunes I already know.

Linus and Lucy popping up on the car radio unannounced can move me to tears.

Sparky Schulz left such a huge legacy of joy and humor for people to enjoy, and aspire to matching. I aspired to it. It doesn't look like my legacy's going to be quite as far-reaching as his, but I like to believe (and have had cause to believe over the years) there are people it's affected as deeply.

[geosgaymer]

This little girl is getting an upgrade from her current Terrarium. I finally finished the build, now to let it establish before seeing how much she likes it.

[randomreasonstolive]

Reason to Live #8781

  To become an eccentric old person living your best life. – Guest Submission

(Please don't add negative comments to these posts.)

[retrohearts89]

[ae-cha08]

Equip us Lord to always abound in your will. Grant us wisdom with an extraordinary perspective for the ordinary days and something to grasp when crises strike.

[ilovehowyoufeel]