#anti origin labels

[marbles-for-breakfast]

I don’t identify as endo, btw. I just get lumped in with them bc I don’t have any memories of child abuse and I don’t like origin labels. I may very well be “traumagenic”. That’s not a useful distinction to me. I don’t care why I’m like this and I don’t think other people should care either. Even if I discover that I have significant childhood trauma, I won’t feel the need to say that was definitely the sole cause of me being plural. It’ll be intertwined with it, yes. Of course it will. But why should I be forced to assume it was the reason?

But because of all these things, your anti-endo posts feel targeted at me too. I don’t identify as endo, but I know that’s how you would identify me. Just because I’m not confidently traumagenic with no evidence of trauma. And just because I don’t hate endos for being confidently who they are.

When someone tells you they exist, believe them. Believe them until or unless you have actual evidence that they are lying. And “they’re lying bc that’s impossible” is not a valid reason, because guess what? You can’t just assume that something is impossible because it doesn’t fit into the story of OSDDID that people usually tell. You don’t know what’s possible and what’s not. No one does. Especially when it comes to brain stuff. The only way to know what’s possible is to LISTEN to people. If you think endos are all lying weirdos who want to be special and think that your trauma is a fun game, you’re not listening.

And I understand why you’re not listening. The narrative that trauma made you like this is important to you. And you know what? That’s okay. No one’s trying to take that away from you. We just want the freedom to have our OWN narratives about why WE are the way we are. Some of us (like me) want the freedom to be unsure. Or to simply not care. I don’t feel like I need a reason. And I don’t feel like I could ever really know for sure. But I understand that the reason is important to a lot of you. And I do respect that.

You can have your own spaces if you want. Stop talking shit about us (especially in shared spaces like the plural tag), and we’ll leave you the heck alone. I certainly think we should be allowed to have some separation between different communities based on origin. I mean, my experience is very different from willogenic systems. And I’ll admit that I sometimes have negative instincts towards them. It’s natural to feel some level of resentment towards people who got to have a choice where you didn’t. It can be confusing when they make the choice to be something that you worked hard to come to terms with, seemingly while skipping all the hardest parts! It’s not fair. But that’s also not their fault. It’s not their fault you were abused. It’s not their fault you never got a choice. It’s not their fault that being a system is so hard, and coming to terms with everything is such an overwhelming process. It’s not their fault it’s easier for them.

I don’t want to be friends with a bunch of willogenics. Maybe I’m not ready for that, maybe I never will be. I still think they have a right to make a choice that I was never given. I’m happy for them, that they got to do that. I’m happy that it was easier than what we’re going through.

I know that it’s possible to become a system through paths other than severe trauma because I have not seen any evidence that that is not the case. And the hundreds of people claiming to have arrived at this point through a wide variety of methods is all the proof I need that this is possible. Because I have no reason to doubt their own interpretation of their own experiences. How arrogant or stubborn would I have to be to do that?

Just let systems be ourselves, please. I want community. I want understanding. I want empathy. So let’s stop worrying about so much about why we’re like this, and focus on what we are, and who we want to be.

[winecovered]

　⟢　Narc Shapeshifter　𓃉

Someone who has NPD and is a shapeshifter!

　— Requested by anonymous . Exclusive to those with NPD

[Plain text start. Narc shapeshifter. Someone who has NPD and is a shapeshifter! Requested by anonymous. Exclusive to those with NPD .Plain text end]

[sirenium]

'Safequeer' mfers when people are queer in a way they don't like:

[GIF ID: a toy decor skeleton getting absolutely eviscerated in a blue shredder with silver blades. Said skeleton looks like it's thrashing and flailing about as it slowly gets consumed. End ID]

[princessefemmelesbian]

Well would you look at this. 😵‍💫 Because obviously if you dare say anything as wild and controversial as “lesbians don’t like men, please stop using a label that hurts us and tries to force men into our identity” you’re a raging terf radfem transmisogynist. Because obviously ONLY trans women use the bi lesbian label and it’s not like there are transfem lesbians who are rightfully against the label as well or anything and it’s not like terfs use the label to refer to cis lesbians who date trans women and why can’t you just let people identify as how they want of course lesbians like men stop the infighting already if you disagree with me that lesbians can like men then surely that’s because you’re an exclusionist gatekeeper who hates trans women.

[belinhagamer999]

Crergenic

[PT: Crergenic /END PT]

A system or a headmate that’s originated from believing, having faith or having the certainty of, itself makes it own existence, even if have faith or believe before it happens.

For example, believing that your head will generate a headmate makes your system get one, having faith that your headmate is cool makes it act cool, having certainty that your system will be modified, affect reality, and your thoughts and your own system change based on your force of belief.

Crer is from Portuguese meaning to believe

Attention: [PT: Attention /END ID] If you see other people claiming to have coined this, keep in mind that it was just posted without my consent and credits.

[IMAGE ID: The image is a cartoon-style background with a vibrant color scheme of light yellow and cyan blue, creating a sense of energy. The colors seem to radiate from a central circle in a pattern that makes them transition from yellow to white between them and to blue. The yellow background is further adorned with white star-like shapes scattered throughout. /END ID]

[annie-against-beaches]

"I love weirdos, I'm a weirdo"

Quick, no thinking time, how normal are you about profiction? About anti-sanism and anti-ableism? About recognising the psychiatry and justice system are flawed and target minorities? About people with BIID? About alterhumans? About contradictory queers? About religions? About trans people?

[wanderingmind867]

What a fitting end for Magneto! Drowned in the watery depths, as his only henchman turns on him (after issue upon issue of abuse). Good for Toad! (Avengers #53):

[blastlight]

every so often i think about how if i ever make a post or something that blows up, i'll immediately be harassed en masse by people claiming i'm a zionist

[starmoon-constellation]

the Cybernetciz Collective

thought it was about time for a new pinned post :)

Hello! We are the Cyberneticz Collective, a trauma-coded endogenic system of 760+. We collectively use the name Cyberneticz (which can be shortened to Cyber) and it/he pronouns. We are collectively genderfluid and a bi-gay. We are physically disabled, as well.

Some "hot takes" we have: - we are actively pro-endo/non-disordered systemhood - we are pro-ship (we actively selfship, though we don't talk about it much) - we are anti-harassment/anti-censorship - pro LGBTA+ and pro contradictory labels - pro slur reclamation - we are alterbeing (alterhuman) - we are furry/s - we are anti-AI - we are pro-kink - we believe in self dxing - we believe in mixed origin systems

We try not to engage in discourse, especially shipcourse and syscourse, but may sometimes engage/be dragged into it. We try to just post about ourselves and our love of systemhood, but sometimes this get derailed.

We don't always sign off on posts, but if we do it'll show as: ( name - pro/noun/s )

We will not use tags to sign off. We may blog about adult things, so we request that minors follow with caution, as we can talk about things that are not suitable for minors.

Thank you for reading :)

[youturningintodust]

Far too many people:

“AFAB people are inherently built for having submissive, receptive sex with a vagina and AMAB people are inherently built for having dominant, active sex with a penis. And it’s okay that I think this and even dare to bring my entitlement into LGBT communities, because I identify as some form of LGBT so I can do no wrong!

“Also anyone who doesn’t live this way is weird and icky and it’s okay for me to make up political reasons to hate them or associate them with the Regressive Bad Dinosaurs of the world who are so Mean and Uncool and Unqueer and Not With It. Queer is a compliment after all, a subculture and not an inherent inborn thing you can be — so I only use it for people who let me sexually get off to their original bodies, in the exact ways I want!

“No it’s not weird at all that my desires line up fully with religion and/or chaser porn and I’m going to manipulate and shame, and even literally gaslight you to shut up about it. I’m definitely not abusive or creepy at all for that. Because it never happened! Or if it did, it wasn’t that bad, and you deserve it!

“You just need to UNLEARN all that silliness you call your “inherently wired state” for us, honey. So you can be sexually liberated and enlightened! There you go…mmph, that’s hot right… That’s what’s good for Me / My libido / My cultural bias/expectations uh, I mean, you, yeah, good for you!

“Me?? Bioessentialist??? For coercing you to fill ancient roles for people of your AGAB?? Uhhhh no I think it’s YOU sweetie! because the sex you have or body that you want, line up wayyyy too well with the gender or the sexual role or social role you also feel naturally a part of. And that’s Bad Somehow! Why? Oh, Cause, Uh, [reads cue card] Stereotypes. Definitely Not because it ruins my kinks, oh nooooo it’s just uh. Problematic and Not Queer Enough and Morally Wrong Too.

“Now shut up and give me what I want you worthless homo/genderfreak, teehee uwu 🥰😇 The More-Normal-Than-Thou are talking. Obey 💋👌”

[sl1nkie]

hshshaha someone w/ proshippers in their dni followed me this is the funniest day of my life 🤭

[c0rpsedemon]

going from "i like ayaka but i'm going to pull for her brother instead bc i already have a cryo sword user + i want to replace my barbara w a 5*" to ayaka's biggest wanter and a ride or die barbara stan who doesn't even use ayato. every day i regret my decisions made during 3.5

[eemoo1o-kuroo]

I feel like the biggest difference with Adam and fans of the show is that there’s the profans/apologists, so those that apologise for him by attempting to rationalise his behaviour, and then there’s the antis/analysts who want him as a character to apologise for what he’s done whilst acknowledging that all of his wrongdoings are, as the word implies, wrong.

[robocops-a-christ-allegory]

I have a pitch for a black label Vigilante series.

[makedamnsvre]

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