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[kirexa]

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[al-luviec]

juvie buddies

[radioisntdead]

I have the worst luck with nail salons dear grace, what I wanted vs what I got

[1phakephan]

🗣️🗣️ pov dan and phil base their pizza selection in part 2 of their iconic mukbang video on their hatred for the detroit pizza company that almost ruined your life

[pkmoth]

having swap au thoughts. *slaps roof of claus* there's so much mental illness in this guy. im gonna blow up everyone in the room and then myself

[a-z-4-m-i]

"Poor little Az used to always quit

But she never really quit, she just say she did"

-Cigarettes out the Window (TV Girl)

I just though this song would fit since this fandom never really left me- I mean, my OC whole entire backstory is heavily inspired of this universe so....

[bilboyagathechickenfootedhobbit]

Talking with my husband last night (FYI, I don’t use his name because I like to keep aspects of my personal life off the internet, not because I’m some tradwife trying to hide the fact that my husband is just some dude. He is very much just some dude) and I realized something. I have never once, in the fifteen years we’ve been dating, heard him say one bad thing about any of his exes. Like not one. Not even his ex-fiancée who did kind of do him a little dirty. Not really dirty, but a little. When he talks about her breaking off their engagement, he’s like “I totally understand why she did it; I wasn’t as invested as she was and she realized that. I’m grateful she realized what I didn’t even know and stopped things before we both did something we’d regret.” I knew his ex-fiancée and she hated me, so every now and then I’ll poke a little fun at her just to see what he does, and he may chuckle a bit, but he never speaks ill of her or her family. Same for all his other exes. He’ll reflect on things and admit where he fucked up and wish them well, but he won’t ever talk shit about any of them. He’s Facebook friends with one of the women he dated in high school (this one liked me, we were friends) and just last night he was telling me how well she’s doing, running marathons and doing beautiful garde manager work for a high end restaurant and how happy he is that things turned out well for her (my friend group was the ‘oh god they’re all gonna shoot themselves or the other students’ group in high school, so our outcomes were always in question).

I dunno. So many of the men I’ve dated, all of them really, have talked SO MUCH SHIT about their exes, how they’re “crazy” or bitches or just whatever. Even my own brother would go on about women he dated being crazy and how he was never going to date again and it was all women’s fault. And none of them ever stopped to ask what their part in all of this was. What did you DO that made her act crazy? If ALL your exes are crazy and YOU are the one unifying factor then MAYBE you had SOMETHING to do with them acting that way? My husband didn’t even have any exes that went “crazy” but he still looks back and accepts his responsibility for things falling apart.

I dunno, it just really struck me last night that I have literally never once heard him say a single negative thing about any woman he’s dated. Or any woman in his life, honestly.

My advice to younger OSA women would be to run for the hills the very instant a man mentions his “crazy ex.” If he’s willing to paint women in his past as psychos, do you think he will really treat you any differently? Pay attention to how the men in your life talk about women in their lives, past or present. If every woman is written off as crazy or a bitch, how do you think he will describe you to others? Do you think you’ll be the one special lady that he approves of? Or is it more likely that the very instant you set boundaries or have needs that he’ll write you off as just another crazy, needy psycho bitch?

Men will tell you how they plan to treat you. You just have to pay attention to how they talk about the women who���s pants they are no longer trying to get into.

[none-tadashi-left-hiro]

hi what is wrong with me

[opens-up-4-nobody]

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[stellaricwriting]

Beloved hanloooo!!

It's been very long since I last checked up i haven't been in the nicest of places so haven't been very active but how are you and will?? Hope you guys are okay! I hope you guys have been well mentally emotionally and physically, i hope you guys are well fed and hydrated, sorry i haven't been checking up more sending love bookmark anon (❁´◡`❁)

we're mostly okay!! will is pretty sick right now, and i think he's staying off tumblr for a bit until he figures out a url change (if you have any ideas maybe send them to him! i'll let him know to check)

i am getting a passing grade at the dentist (genuinely got told i'm a wonderful patient and easy to work with) and i now run two dnd games! they are using the same maps or else i'd die<3 i'm also finally getting my hermit ass to the dmv to get my actual license lmao

[goldentigerfestival]

i will never not find it hilarious that they completely forgot to animate patty at the very end of the final cutscene in the last three frames of the whole group

and the dub didn't even give her voiced lines when everyone was shouting they so the localization forgot about her too

[sojirosteacup]

I wish I had a job so bad but no matter how many resumes I send even to low paying jobs I get no reply and I'm so tired

[ex-vespidae]

the worst kind of gjinkas is when people take a fucking canonically ancient character and make them into the most bland looking anime teenager-looking person

hhh

[universalsatan]

sometimes i forget how distinctly american my mother is, and how we are generally a product of our surroundings

[minglana]

yesterday we got the news that a cousin of mine is pregnant...... this is like. terrible news i feel like i just aged 10 years all of a sudden

[lohstandfound]

I'm really the only one who cares about the bolland sisters/my d&d characters but anyway I describe iphigenia as a mean girl (and she is. mean yet popular. think Chloe Valentine or Regina George)

I may be taking more inspiration from those two characters, but she definitely suffered from comp het as a teenager. Ironic, because her older sister is already out and no one has an issue with Rhea. but I imagine that iphigenia is the type of character to have a mildly toxic homoerotic relationship with her best friend

I think it would take a conversation with Rhea or even said friend for her to actually acknowledge that about her. Once she gets past that, all is well

And then when someone threatens arson, there's no shame in blurting out 'oh my god I love you' and falling in love with this person who has already offered to help her commit arson to avenge the death of her sister