#sigh

[w-oobin]

Tablo:  Throughout the entire time (3 years) it took to resolve the controversy, [Hye Jung, Tablo's wife] never once made it seem like she was experiencing any hardships.  

Host:  Even though it was probably really difficult for her.

Tablo:  Yes, it was probably even more difficult for her than for me.  Much more difficult.  But she always said, "It's okay, it's okay."

But, we did have one conflict.

We were eating together, and because I always had this troubled look on my face, the atmosphere while we were eating wasn't very good.

Suddenly, Hye Jung-ie slammed her spoon on the table.

"Hurry up and cry.  Just hurry up and cry.  Cry as much as you want," she said.

And at those words, I really cried.

She told me to just cry it all out now and put an end to all of it.  She told me, "You're not someone who can't beat this.  You're stronger than this."

So, like a child, I cried and cried.

Host:  Did she not cry with you?

Tablo:  She didn't cry then, but when the whole controversy was resolved, one day, I asked her, "It was hard, wasn't it?"  And then she started crying really hard.  She had held it all in.  Even though she'd been wanting to cry, she thought it would, as a result, make me weaker.

[gunsatthaphan]

Gone™. Leave a message after the beep.

[tbhshaped]

the way some of you treat sevika is a bit sad, I know she's unbearably hot, but she's way more than just smut, tough girls deserve to cry, be taken care of, be emotional, cuddle, and not just be your knight in shining armor

[lurkingshan]

Not gonna lie, I really deeply hate this construct that Joke is the problem in their relationship and uniquely the one making bad choices as if Jack has not also been part of a criminal enterprise and making terrible choices this entire time right alongside him (but not with him, because they don’t actually trust each other enough to tackle problems together).

[ghost-y-toast-y]

I agree with most of this. My blog is not for these types of issues. I have nothing to give you. It genuinely makes me so guilty that I can’t help, and I’m so sorry. But please, no donation asks.

Please do not send me asks for donations

Here's why:

I have NO money to give you

I'm not a popular enough blog that I will give you any reach

I am a minor, and most of my followers are too

It makes me feel extremely guilty

Seeing pictures of injuries or hospitals etc are triggering for me (which are in most intro posts for this sort of thing)

They are always worded in a way that makes me feel like I am a murderer if I don't donate

It makes me feel uncomfortable

I said I don't want them, and my boundaries should be respected

I can't tell what is a bot and what isn't

I get a lot of spam from this. It is disappointing to see 10 new asks in my inbox just to be the same ask for donations over and over

Please, just respect the fact that I have said this.

Edit: To all the people reblogging this, I'm sorry you have had to deal with this too. And yes, you can put this in your pinned post! Stay safe <3

[rosemariiaa]

oh okay

[f4iry3ss]

saw this and thought "omg someone should redraw this as viktor and jayce" and now im crying because why do i do this to myself

[queen-of-hawkins-why-ler]

I think Byler hits so different as a ship because of how damn unlikely the circumstances are and also because the stakes are so high. Like, in what universe do you fall in love with your best friend over the course of ten years? And in what universe can you expect that love to be reciprocated? To feel those feelings and that love about someone you know so deeply must be terrifying, as is the idea of them rejecting you, which would be devastating but also fully expected.

Add onto that the fact that they are both gay in a time where being gay was taboo and just not seen as a genuine option. Mike and Will are hopelessly, desperately in love with each other—with their own best friends—and they both believe that this friendship that is so important to them comes under threat because of the love. Like, both boys probably partially resent themselves for even putting their relationship at risk by daring to have feelings for each other.

It’s so damn unlikely to have a slowburn romance with your best friend over the course of a lifetime. It’s even more unlikely for your best friend to reciprocate your feelings. It is the most unlikely thing of all for your seemingly straight best friend to surprise you by revealing that they are gay too and that they’re in love with you. Like… can you even imagine how intense it will be for Mike and Will to realize all of this in the span of a few seconds? They’re both banking on rejection and that their love is an impossibility. But in one swift kiss or confession, the truth will come out and the weight on both of their shoulders will be lifted.

Also, I simply can’t imagine how intense it would be to know that your best friend who you’ve been in love with as long as you can remember is in love with you back. It’s almost too good, too fantastic to be true even for straight couples and even for people in real life. Like, the reality is that most of us can’t even fathom how intense a love like that would be. It’s truly a once in a lifetime, romance of the century kind of thing. Add onto that the fact that neither Mike nor Will knows that the other is gay let alone reciprocates. The moment they realize will be so intense that I’m all out of words to use to be able to describe it. It will be indescribable.

[boobachu]

Sadly, it looks like I wasn't full of shit.

Like so far the only hope is both Republicans and Democrat cohorts are too incompetent to pass laws, mandates or repeal laws and rulings the way they repealed Roe vs. Wade.

Tho turns out the election was super duper close and terrorism and good ole voting suppression won the fight against civil rights.

See y'all on the flip side, I guess I'm going to find out what happens if you have neither estrogen or testosterone in your body firsthand next year

┐⁠(⁠‘⁠～⁠`⁠;⁠)⁠┌

some of yall will be like "be gay do crime!!!" but then torrenting is too scary n diy hrt/medication is too dangerous and shoplifting is too risky and i think the only crime u guys r comfortable committing is "being" illegal in a country you'll never visit who's people you've never had to recognise as actual human beings

[ohpuckno]

[leon] oilers @ habs 11.18.2024

[murmuringbug]

some art i made on munchy <3

[mister-forest]

Should I make a Greek mythology SoapGhost AU or would it be way too much for my heart to bear? Who knows... Who knows...

[letloverule1111]

I actually think it’s super important not to pretend things won’t be fucking catastrophic. I think the question we need to be asking ourselves is, “How will I survive and how can I help other people survive?” Yes, I asked “How will I survive” first because it’s like the oxygen mask—we need to be alive and resourced in order to help others. It’s not selfish. In fact, it’s weirdly selfish not to take care of yourself. None of us can afford burnout which leads to apathy.

Project 2025 Cliff Notes:

1. Complete ban on abortions, without exceptions (pg. 449-503)

2. End marriage equality (pg. 545-581)

3. Elimination of unions and worker protections (pg. 581)

4. Defund the FBI and Homeland Security (pg. 133)

5. Eliminate federal agencies like the FDA, EPA, NOAA, and more (pg. 363-417)

6. Mass deportation of immigrants and incarceration in "camps" (pg. 133)

7. End birthright citizenship (pg. 133)

8. Cut Social Security (pg. 691)

9. Cut Medicare (pg. 449)

10. Eliminate the Department of Education (pg. 319)

11. Teach Christian religious beliefs in public schools (pg. 319)

12. Use public, taxpayer money for private religious schools (pg. 319)

13. End the Affordable Care Act (pg. 449)

14. Ban contraceptives (pg. 449)

15. Additional tax breaks for corporations and the 1% (pg. 691)

16. End civil rights & DEI protections in government (pg. 545-581)

17. Ban African American and gender studies in all levels of education (pg. 319)

18. End climate protections: (pg. 417)

19. Increase Arctic drilling (pg. 363)

20. Deregulate big business and the oil industry (pg. 363)

Not to increase anxiety, but I found this buried on Reddit. From six months ago. very good thing to have in your pocket so you are prepared

[carriesthewind]

Sometimes I see a take so wrong that I'm just, like, well. I could explain to why you're wrong, but since the underlying problem is that you're not bothering to read the words you yourself are quoting, I don't think anything I could say will help.

[cumcov3redangel]

Do you ever see a really nice penis and go “oh wow that’s a really nice penis”

[backtocarousel]

the only two things that could take care of my boner are kryptonite and chns hole