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It is the curse of the lover to be a mother,
to be hated as much as he loves her.
It is the curse of the lover that she wants to,
wants to hold the pieces of him together.
It's not his fault he aches this way.
It isn't hers either.
It is the curse of the lover to be consumed
By his anger, by his worship, by his love for her
To drown in it, to want to
Want to let proximity evaporate him entirely
It isn't her fault he bleeds this way
It isn't his either.
It is the curse of the lovers to destroy each other,
It is their pleasure too.
#forgot to post this on my ACTUAL poetry account lol#I like to think that some day once I'm long dead some random guy will be making a video essay on me (god knows why lmao)#just a narcissistic flight of fancy hehe#and this will be the lynch pin that ties my shitpost blog to my poetry#leaving these bread crumbs for you my dear video essayist#giving you a little kiss on the cheek via these tags#also you will never guess what post inspired this poem#but also it was inspired by the patriarchy#and dysfunctional relationships
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#recovery#stop enabling#self care#self care is not selfish#doing the hard stuff#self care is not an indulgence#codependency#boundaries#relationships#unhealthy relationships#family#friendship#mental health#make yourself a priority#self compassion#healing#low contact#no contact#dysfunctional family#people pleasing#fawning#love#find your people
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#house md#hilson#james wilson#gregory house#oughhhhh the deeply deeply mentally unwell middle aged men in a severely dysfunctional relationship#i’m on the train home and i’ve tried posting this six times already whenever there’s a touch of 4g/5g in the scottish wilderness
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#book redraw for yall today lol#rare non-shitpost gf drawing i know#.png#gravity falls#book of bill#the book of bill#bill cipher#stanford pines#book of bill spoilers#billford#<- sorry. everything they do is imbued with being the most dysfunctional bpd dependant relationship ever
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Trope blender strikes again!
Since the formation of the Justice League Dark to deal with supernatural threats, Diana had been acting as the team's 'Superman' for lack of a better term.
It was, however, not a position she was entirely suited to, as ironically enough when engaging supernatural threats she was better suited to the same role that Batman played in the Justice League, engaging with superior training, tactics and specialised tools while also acting as battlefield tactical command.
With the lack of any other candidates however, she made do. But not for long.
Thanks to a wandering little girl, Diana had gained a new cousin and uncle who were refreshingly free of the hubris of the Greek pantheon, as well as an unexpected (and terrifying) meeting with her Grandfather who was far different from the stories, she supposed death and a few millennia would calm someone down. She was pleased however to add some paternal family members she could enjoy calm moments with.
Her Uncle was willing to help, however his backlog from the previous King in addition to the repairs and ongoing negotiations for reparations with the United States government made her feel guilt for placing further demands on him.
Her younger cousin however was more than happy to "get out of the house", her Father's comments about the expansiveness of a TARDIS castle completely ignored.
Ellie was already training with her old friend Pandora (So many happy reunions) so Diana was more than willing to take her to Themascerya for an initiation to the Sisterhood of Amazon's. Danny was ecstatic that his daughter was making friends.
Now Ellie as Banshee is JLD's front line fighter and Diana is the tactician, a dynamic duo of their own. Diana is so proud of her little cousin.
Which is why today was very..... Strange.
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Basically the JLD have to head to the Watchtower for some threat, Ellie is super pumped because SPACE and Diana is excited to take her smol bean cousin to the Watchtower for the first time.
Batman and Co arrive and Drama TM occurs because "Holy shit that little girl looks like a Talia with blue eyes", Damian starts accusing and mouthing off, Ellie freaks because her Dad has warned her about the League of Assassins, so she freaks and bails.
Diana is explaining who Ellie is, how they're related when Uncanny Valley Danny in human form comes out of a portal in his "Royal Casual" work attire. Loose jeans,button up with vest, fluffy slippers with a coffee mug in hand. He's facing Diana, paying 0 attention to who else is there beyond "cool space station".
"Hey niece, why is my daughter running through my castle screaming about killer birds?"
"Ah, I believe she is referring to Robin being a former member of the League of Assassins." Diana replies.
Batman and the rest of the Justice League are tense, assessing this possible ally who RADIATES power and death. Anyone affected by death can feel it like static in their teeth during a lightning storm. Those who have been into the Lazarus Pits feel safe yet the overwhelming urge to KNEEL BEFORE YOUR KING.
"Well shit, someone actually escaped from the Fruit Loop Supreme? Anyone who gets away from my asshole grandfather is alright by me." Danny replies as he turns to look at the various heros, taking a sip from his mug.
"Danyal?" A faint hopeful whisper as Damian takes his mask off to look at his Brother (HOW, HOW? HE LOST HIM HE'S HERE HOW?) His dead twin somehow here and changed so much.
*Slurp*
"Well shit, didn't expect this."
This entire time Bruce's brain is making crunching noises.
It's not the extra son that's apparently God of the Afterlives. It's not the granddaughter.
Diana is his son's niece. Bruce had sex with his grand niece. Barbara is right, he needs therapy.
#dp x dc#dpxdc#dc x dp#dcxdp#danny phantom#dp x dc crossover#dp x dc prompt#dani phantom#Wonder Woman#Diana Prince#Danny is Clockwork's Ghost Son#Danny is the Ancient/Titan of Space#Danny is Diana's Uncle#Twins AU#Danny and Damian are twins#Ellie is Danny's daughter#Batfam dysfunction is just Greek God Family Relationships#Ellie and Diana are cousins#Ellie looks like Talia but with blue eyes#Ellie looks 9#ish#She won't start aging until she's *actually* 9#Danny grew a beard so he looks older#17 year old dad to 9 year old daughter isn't convincing#Clockwork's time missions help#Danny is definitely older twin now#Danny looks like Thomas Wayne
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A typical evening with the Farmer and Shane
#stardew valley#stardew valley fanart#sdv shane#sdv farmer#fancomic#aashi doodles#im supposed to be studying for another exam rn but#the urge to draw a dysfunctional relationship was much stronger
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#toxic parents#emotional abuse#trauma#aftermath#parental abuse#accountability#repentance#manipulation#dysfunctional family#boundaries#trust#trust issues#ptsd#relationship problems
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#toxic#toxicity#toxic people#toxic relationship#people pleaser#emotional abuse#childhood trauma#dysfunctional family#inspirational quotes#self help#positivity#new beginnings#new life#self improvement#mental health#self reflection#be yourself#letting go#life lessons
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Are you normal or do you have hypervigilence problems because you always had to be aware of your family members moods growing up in order to deescalate situations before the arose
#toxic parents#toxic family#toxic mother#dysfunctional family#toxic mom#childhood trauma#toxic relationship#parentification
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I love the idea of Anakin bringing up his experiences as a slave on Tatooine in random moments or conversations.
Imagine that not long after Anakin arrives at the temple, Obi-wan introduces him to Quinlan and Vos tells Anakin how he and Obi-wan used to sneak out of the temple as teenagers and what they did and Obi doesn't want Quinlan to demoralize his padawan and suddenly Anakin comes out with:
"If I ever sneak out I'll be blown up"
And now there's complete silence, both knights are quiet and Obi-wan is completely terrified because his little sweet padawan just said he was about to get blown up as a child with zero fear like it was normal and that's how Obi-wan found out Anakin has a bomb chip in his neck.
Or how during the Clone Wars Anakin was seriously injured but seems completely normal, can stand normally and doesn't complain about pain, and everyone around is panicking and Anakin just says:
"I'm fine and I've had worse untreated injuries"
and everyone looks at Obi-wan because if anyone is to know what Skywalker is talking about then only Kenobi can do it, but Obi-wan looks at Anakin as if he didn't say anything terrible, but inside he is terrified by how badly Anakin was injured as a child and how close he was to death.
Or another story from the war, the 501st and 212th battalions were on the front for a long time and food started to run out, which was complained about in their free time by the soldiers, even Obi-wan, everyone but Anakin and at some point Ahsoka asked her master about it and he only replied that:
"It's not that bad Snips and plus I've been without food for a much longer period of time than a week"
Which made most of the soldiers passing by stop and look at their general with concern, because what the hell did this man survive that he didn't have access to the right amount of food for more than a week, Ahsoka completely terrified looks at Obi-wan looking for some hint or proof that her master is joking as usual, but she finds only seriousness on his face which means that Anakin really isn't joking.
After a while, Obi-wan becomes more and more used to his padawan dropping such information bombs at various odd moments, not understanding how serious it is, but that doesn't mean he is prepared for it, Obi-wan is still terrified every time by what his boy has been through and how normal it is for him.
#star wars#shitpost#anakin skywalker#obi wan kenobi#star wars fandom#anakin and obi wan#star wars shitpost#obi wan#obi wan and anakin#star wars headcanons#anakin needs therapy#anakin#obi wan is anakin's father#padawan anakin#star wars anakin#obi wan anakin father#obi wan and anakin's dysfunctional relationship#obiwan kenobi#obi wan star wars#obi wan loves his padawan#obi wan is parent#anakin doesn't understand that his childhood was terrible.
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#actually traumatized#childhood trauma#trauma#trauma survivor#dysfunctional household#dysfunctional parents#dysfunctional family#dysfunctional relationship#toxic ex#toxic mom#toxic mother#toxic family#toxic parents#toxic love
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Watched 'The Last Dance' on its premiere yesterday and, well... These two give me feels. ;_;
#They have no right to be this wholesome 🤧#I'm actually astounded by the development their relationship has gotten throughout these movies#Like???#They fight and get on each other's nerves all the time but deep down they both really care 🥹#Their dynamic is HIGHLY dysfunctional#But it's also emotionally transparent and also kind of deep#Surprisingly gentle and accepting also#Simply put: what they share -albeit messy and ragged at times- is genuine and selfless#And that's golden 💖#Love them#Venom#eddie brock#The last dance#Friendship#Platonic or romantic#Who cares honestly#They're them#And they're great together 🥲#Fanart#Digital
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#mental health memes#mental health#mental health matters#mental health awareness#dysfunctional family#dysfunction#dysfunctional relationship#toxic people#toxic household#toxic family
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I have two types of ships:
Healthy:
Dysfunctional:
#dysfunctional vs healthy relationships#also known as anthusker 🤭#parallels#it’s funny because it’s true#huskerdust#quintessential dynamics#stolas of the ars goetia#helluva boss#shipping wars 😂#hazbin hotel#blitz buckzo#angel dust#husk#pansexual#gay#stolitz
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the little details and subtleties in this show go so hard like this scene for instance...when rodrigo said he's glad that juan was born and finally gave cesare a brother, juan immediately turned to cesare with an anticipatory gaze expecting acknowledgment or perhaps even a warm moment. but instead cesare deliberately ignored him and went to pat gioffre's head and left juan disheartened as he turned his head down feeling ignored at a moment when he yearned for a crumb of connection with cesare.
#the fucking texture of this scene SUCKS but tried my best to make their expressions clear i guess???#everything about these brothers' relationship is profoundly sad tbh it's built on aggression out of misconceptions#the way he expected a little bonding moment naurrrr#dysfunctional families and doomed siblings you will always be loved by me#honestly it's little stuff like that make the show worth rewatching#because even tiny moments like that hold emotional weight#the borgias#juan borgia#cesare borgia#rodrigo borgia#jeremy irons#francois arnaud#david oakes#tvedit#perioddramaedit#usereverything#juan and cesare#text post
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Hello. I was wondering if you could make a platonic Honkai Star Rail story with the reader being Jing Yuan's child and but they ended up running away to stay with their mother because they keep messing things up especially after Jing Yuan and the readers mother got divorced. it takes awhile but a few months later the reader suddenly returned to the Loufu because of some disaster where the reader had been living with their mother and Jing Yuan also wanted to talk the reader so he would finally be able to apologize to them especially after he accidentally saw the video diary they kept on their computer. (I was kind of inspired by the first episode of The Owl House season three Thanks To Them for this request but If you're not not comfortable with writing this that's completely alright and I wish you a good morning/afternoon or goodnight☺️)
“I’m sorry that I let you down”
Summary: Jing Yuan, the General of the Luofu, is faced with the aftermath of a disaster in the Outer Sector, where his estranged child has been living. After months of distance and guilt following his divorce, he arrives to find his child alive but emotionally scarred. Through a quiet, painful reunion, Jing Yuan confronts his mistakes and apologizes for not being there when needed. The two begin to rebuild their fragile relationship, uncertain of the future but willing to try again.
Tags: Dad!Jing Yuan x Kid!Reader, Platonic, Family Reunion, Apology, Guilt, Father-Child Relationship (Jing Yuan is Reader's Father), Emotional Healing, Hurt/Comfort.
Warnings: Emotional Distress, Abandonment, Dysfunctional Family Dynamics, Mild Violence (disaster aftermath), Trauma
A/N: Don't worry I'm comfortable with writing this!! 🫶🥺
Jing Yuan sat silently in his office within the Luofu, his golden eyes fixed on a stack of reports. His usually composed expression was fraught with something unspoken, something that had been gnawing at him for months. He couldn’t remember the last time he’d truly been able to focus on his duties.
The quiet hum of the room was broken by a soft knock on the door. Jing Yuan looked up, his gaze softening as the door creaked open. Standing there was one of his trusted aides, a concerned expression on their face.
"General... there's a situation." the aide began hesitantly.
Jing Yuan’s brow furrowed as he stood, adjusting his armor. "What happened?"
“There’s been a disaster on the Outer Sector. The place where... your child has been living with their mother.” the aide continued, not meeting his gaze.
A chill ran down Jing Yuan’s spine. He had not seen you in months, ever since you had run away after the divorce with your mother. You had been angry, hurt, and confused. You blamed him for the fallout, and perhaps he had been too distant to see the cracks forming in your relationship. Now, you were in danger.
Jing Yuan’s heart ached with guilt, but he masked it with his calm, composed exterior. "Prepare the Cloud Knights. We leave at once."
The journey back to the Outer Sector felt like the longest of Jing Yuan’s life. Despite the urgency of the situation, his mind couldn’t help but drift back to the last time he saw you—your eyes filled with tears, your voice accusing him of failing you. He had tried to do what was right, but somehow, all his efforts had been in vain. The divorce had torn your family apart, and Jing Yuan had never known how to bridge the chasm that had formed between you. Now, he feared the damage was irreversible.
As they arrived in the disaster zone, Jing Yuan’s heart pounded in his chest. He moved swiftly through the wreckage, his soldiers clearing debris as they searched for survivors. His thoughts never strayed far from you. Where were you? Were you safe?
Then, in the distance, he saw you. Sitting on a pile of rubble, looking smaller and more fragile than he remembered. Your eyes were wide and filled with fear, your clothes torn and covered in dirt, but you were alive. Jing Yuan’s breath caught in his throat.
"[Name]," he called softly, his voice breaking through the chaos.
You slowly turned your head, your expression cold, guarded. You had clearly been through a lot, and Jing Yuan could see the bruises of both physical and emotional scars. His heart sank.
Without waiting for an invitation, Jing Yuan approached cautiously, kneeling in front of you. “Are you hurt?” he asked, trying to hide the tremor in his voice.
You shook your head, but your eyes stayed locked on the ground. You didn’t speak.
Jing Yuan’s gaze softened. "I’ve come to take you home."
Home. The word seemed to make you flinch, and Jing Yuan’s heart ached even more. He had failed you. He had failed to be the father you needed, the one who would always be there for you.
“I know I haven’t been there for you," Jing Yuan said, his voice barely a whisper. "And I know I’ve hurt you, more than I should have. I’m sorry... I should have done better.”
You finally met his gaze, your eyes searching his face for something—anything—that might give you the reassurance you needed. But it wasn’t there, not yet.
"You saw it, didn't you?" you suddenly spoke, your voice hoarse. "The video diary. I thought you’d never find it. I thought if I just ran away, everything would stop hurting. But... it didn't. It only got worse. I couldn’t fix it. I couldn’t fix... us."
Jing Yuan's eyes widened in shock. The video diary. He had stumbled upon it by accident weeks ago while investigating something unrelated, but seeing it, hearing the pain in your words, had struck him like a sword to the heart. It had been raw, unfiltered. The child he had once held so close now seemed a stranger, their emotions raw and unspoken.
“I didn’t know, I didn’t understand," he whispered, reaching out a hand to gently touch your shoulder. "I never wanted to hurt you like that. But I understand now. I see my mistakes. And I’m sorry for making you feel like you weren’t enough.”
You didn’t pull away from his touch, but you didn’t look at him either. You were silent for a long time, your emotions swirling in the quiet space between you.
Finally, after what felt like an eternity, you spoke again. "I didn’t want to be alone, Dad. I didn’t want to be in the middle of all of it. I didn’t want to choose... I just wanted everything to stop."
Jing Yuan’s heart shattered at your words. How much had you suffered, thinking you had to carry the weight of everything alone?
“I’m sorry,” he repeated softly. “I should have been there. I should have been the one to help you carry it.”
You were silent for a moment, before you slowly stood up, brushing off the dirt from your clothes. “I still don’t know what to feel,” you said, voice small but strong. “But... I’m glad you came. Maybe... maybe we can figure it out together?”
Jing Yuan nodded, his golden eyes filled with an earnest hope. “We will. And I’ll be here, no matter what.”
You didn’t say anything more, but you didn’t pull away either. For the first time in months, there was a flicker of something between you—a small, fragile bridge being rebuilt, one careful step at a time.
As you both returned to the Luofu, Jing Yuan couldn’t help but feel a sense of quiet relief. The journey ahead would be long, and it wouldn’t be easy. But for the first time in what felt like forever, he had the chance to try again. To be the father he should have been all along.
And he would do whatever it took to make sure you knew you were never alone again.
#honkai star rail#hsr#x reader#honkai star rail x reader#hsr x reader#jing yuan honkai star rail#jing yuan x y/n#hsr jing yuan#jing yuan x you#jing yuan x reader#jing yuan#family reunion#apology#guilt#father child relationship#redemption#divorce#hurt/comfort#emotional distress#abandonment#dysfunctional family#mild violence#trauma#kid reader#platonic
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