#SELF CARE OR SELFISHNESS
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#rest#give yourself permission to rest#self care#self care is not selfish#self compassion#self respect#self love#work culture#grind culture#stop the glorification of busy#spoons#chronic illness#burnout#compassion fatigue#activism fatigue#no guilt#no shame
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MCF: MADE IN THAILAND
WATTIKORN PERMSUBHIRUN
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KITTIKUN TANSUHAS
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#MCF: MADE IN THAILAND#My GIFS#MyGIFedit#From My Main Blog: BL-BAM-BEYOND#MYGIFSET#Thai BL Series#Based On A True Story#Loosely Based On 2 Mini Series PHUPHA | NANFAH#BEST FRIENDS SINCE CHILDHOOD#DECADE DISAPPEARANCE#SELF CARE OR SELFISHNESS#Undeniable Feelings#Mistakes#Bad Choices#Fear#Love
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the woman i want to be loves to
educate herself on various topics
take care of herself mentally, physically and spiritually
be pretty in her own way. prettiness doesn’t hurt and isn’t strict, it adapts itself through her authenticity
explore her inner world & the outer world
be in tune with her inner child
embrace and understand her emotions, even the bad ones
be kind, specially with herself
be organized, but flexible with what life gives her
work hard, rest hard. she loves to be in harmony and have a balanced life
eat light and nourishing food
feel good in her own skin and she actively work on it everyday
take her meds because she knows it’s good for her
#self improvement#healthy lifestyle#self care#self care era#self care is not selfish#self love#self love era#healing journey#self healing#self confidence#confidence#mental growth#self growth#do it for yourself#dream life#dream girl#pinterest girl#becoming that girl#that girl#it girl aesthetic#wonyoungism#self awareness#glow up#glow up era#level up journey#pink pilates princess#glow growth girlboss
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HOW TO GET A GLOW UP
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I used to be the ugly dunklin, till I change in 1 week and turned pretty much half of my life upside down, it happened right after my 16th catastrophic birthday, at the time I was already following Liz and her tips which helped me so much!! So here how to glow up in minimum 1 week
౨ৎsmell good౨ৎ
This is so important, I noticed how people react to good smelling people, they just say it out loud how much they like the fragrance, knowning that it's you, will just make you more approacable, it boosts your confidence and overl all more liked
౨ৎexercise + diet౨ৎ
This was huge for me, not only it imroves your moods but it also makes your prettier, you need to fist know what goals you want to archive physically, if you want a bigger butt, eggs and potatoes salad can be a good alternative, if you want to have a snatched waist try to do more cardio, at the time the only cardio I used to do was jump roping, which is amazing!!
౨ৎwardrobe౨ৎ
This was the revolution, just dress how ou want each outfit can have at max 2 trendy elements, not more, and the rest it needs to rappresnt YOUR personality!! This is going to make you unique and recognizable!! Also I suggest to go shopping on friday lol, the beauty day!
౨ৎmentality౨ৎ
This is how everything started, a munch of motivational viddeos, the wizard liz and confidence targetting posts, moodboards and much more, at the time I was getting treated really harshly from my classmates, it was probably one of thelowest point of my life, bit I pick myself up, cause I had a goal: Changing my narrative.
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There was not sense into staying bitter and hating not only myself but the world around, I wanted to prove to myself that I actually mettered, you don't glow up for other, but for yourself, never, ever welcome in your life people that before put you under the rug, have some respect for yourself and clear boundaries.
Hi bonitas I hope you liked this short post, This is just part of my expereince, tell me if you want to know more + other tips!! maybe I'll make a longer version in the future, Have a great day xoxo gougeous
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#girlblogging#just girly things#girly tumblr#it girl#goddess tips avenue#goddess sorority#becoming that girl#pink text#self care#dream girl#just girly posts#hyper feminine#self love#self care is not selfish#have some self respect#divine feminine#glow up era#glow up#beauty diary#beauty tips#beauty affirmations#fashion blog#girl blog#this is a girlblog#girblogger#the wizard liz#self improvement#wonyoungism#wonyoung
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take care of YOU first⋆.ೃ࿔*:・🍭
taking care of urself ISNT selfish. its NECESSARY and in this post i'll talk about how to put urself first more without feeling guilty, cuz u shouldn't feel guilty for doing whats best for u…💬🎀
MAKE YOUR PRIORITIES CLEAR ;
make ur priorities clear not only to urself but also to the people around you. if ur priorities aren't clear to you then how are you going to make smart decisions? you need to know what matters to you. some of my priorities are (in this order)
♡ myself
♡ my future
♡ my education + family
everyone's priorities will look different and dont compare your priorities to other people's priorities, and dont feel bad if ur priorities are different from the people around you. honestly i think the only thing that should be constant (in my opinion) is that yourself should be at the top of ur priorities.
BALANCE COMMUNICATION ;
u shouldn't be bending over backwards to answer every phone call, email, or text message. if ur doing something, its okay to be like "hey im busy, i'll get back to you" and you shouldn't feel bad for doing so. thats just you respecting ur own time and doing what u have to do.
i dont rly have this problem cuz im not the best communicator but i do make an effort to get back to people when i can. and its not even like u purposely being unavailable for the people u care about, its just u doing what u need to do first and then getting back to people when u can.
CUT THINGS OUT ;
if u have someone in ur life who is simply taking up space and isnt pouring into u in the way that u are doing for them, then u can cut them off. for example guys who wanna be in the talking stage for a billion years, or people who just like to yap and waste ur time.
if ur not getting something out of a relationship or connection to someone else then u dont HAVE to keep them around. and ik that sounds harsh but people shouldn't be able to walk in and out of ur lives when they please, people shouldn't be able to take ur time and energy and not give anything back. u deserve friendships that are RECIPROCAL. connections with people that SERVE U.
INVEST IN URSELF ;
whatever makes ur life easier, better, healthier, whatever brings u closer to ur goals or makes u feel beautiful is an investment. that includes doing ur nails, doing ur hair or makeup. buying that dress, paying for that course, or paying a little extra for a wellness shot. INVEST in urself cuz you are ur biggest investment.
DONT LET PPL INFILTRATE UR SCHEDULE ;
dont get so caught up in showing up for other people that u forget to show up for yourself. make sure that ur managing ur time wisely and doing what u need to do before u go and say "yes" to invitations or hang outs with friends.
#honeytonedhottie⭐️#it girl#becoming that girl#that girl#self care#it girl energy#self love#advice#self concept#self improvement#self development#self growth#dream girl tips#dream girl#dreamy#dream life#selfish#self care tips#self awareness#girly#hyper femininity#hyper feminine#girl blogging#girl blog
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#self care#self care is not selfish#self care is self love#self care is productive#self love#pink#pink aesthetic#girly girl#champagnexowishes#love#girly#pretty#princess#style#luxury#glam#fashion#cute#spa#bath#relaxing#beauty#pink nails#beauty products#gisou#candles#soft#feminine#soft girl#cozy
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Add these to your November to-do list!
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#self care aesthetic#self care#black tumblr#aesthetic#aesthetics#black aesthetic#source: pinterest#pinterest#black women#self care is important#self care is not selfish#self-care#black women aesthetic#black girl mood board#black girl moodboard#moodboard#mood board#relaxation#relax#take care of yourself#take care of your body#take care of your mental health#positive vibes
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It has come to my attention that people who haven't read the comics don't realise Wallace was the one who harassed scott into being his friend. Like he saw that nerd at uni and went oh yeah that's my guy now. This bitch would not shut up and showed up at his house uninvited to hang out till scott gave in and befriended him, then they got suuuper drunk and scott let him crash at his. He comes to family dinners, is best friends with his sister, and chats to his mum.
He despises envy more than anything and is furious when she tries to mess with his life again and scott gets hurt, so he cooks him breakfast and comforts him. He coaches scott in fighting and helps with strategies so he doesn't get his ass kicked. He bullies him to leave the house because there's a heatwave and he wants to make sure he doesn't get heatstroke. Like they're close enough Wallace walks around in his underwear (though scott whines about it).
I've seen people assume Wallace supports scott out of pity but that man is a bitch and morally questionable (affectionate), I do not think he would put up with it at all if he didn't want him around, especially given he can barely afford to support them both. When they stop living together he doesn't just kick him out it's because their landlord kicks them out, he actively enchorages scott to move in with Ramona out of care for him and offers to stay with him if he needs it, though ends up signing a lease with his boyfriend (in his defence scott didn't ask for him to stay and decided to try make things work with Ramona) but still let's him stay at the new apartment with them when Ramona kicks him out.
Yeah he's mean to scott sometimes and makes fun of him/is brutally honest but he basically became part of Scott's family and part of that is calling people out when they're being a total jackass and teasing them, he's that kinda guy and scott knows that he doesn't actually hate him or something. Yeah scott will do puppy dog eyes if he wants something but wallace is frequently nice to him on his own initiative and scotts not a suck up to Wallace, he can be a bitch right back at him.
They're a really important part of each other's lives. though I can understand people not familiar with the characters who watched the show thinking Wallace doesn't care about scott being gone, literally all the characters reacted super casually. Bryan has tried to clarify his way of trying to cope is him "being a jerk"/disconnecting/acting apathetic. Also in the show o'malley basically confirms Wallace had feelings for scott and that was why he had the affair with Todd and you can quote him on that, aswell as scott admitting how they became roomates was "somewhat gay" in the comics, so there's definitely some weird more than friends emotional mess tied in there.
comic panels i reference under the cut
TLDR wallace lives with him because he cares about him, whether you read that as still somewhat romantic or now platonic, with either interpretations fitting better with different versions of the story
#scott pilgrim#this comic means a lot to me if you cant tell#it made me less scared of growing up reading it for the first time in middle school and countless times since#because it makes it clear that yes scott starts off as an immature selfish self centered asshole#it is made very clear and if the reader still idolises him imo it is 100% on them and a reflection of them as a person#but the comics give him the time and care to give him real character development and shows him realising all the shitty things he's done#he learns from and owns up to and faces his mistakes and in turn matures as a person#and I know mid 20's isn't old but to 13 yr old me I was supposed to have my shit together by 18 man#so seeing him be shitty and fail as an adult and still become a better person meant I wasn't doomed if I messed up#also that relationships suck sometimes and thats ok#you can fix it or move on#anyway#ig this includes scollace ?#scollace#wallace wells#hi its me
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"why don't you want him to know how much you love him?" "that's a little personal. he knows." "uh-huh."
#interview with the vampire#iwtv#armand#the vampire armand#loumand#louis de pointe du lac#daniel molloy#alice molloy#must preface that NOBODY IS ALLOWED TO USE THIS FOR LDPDL HATE PURPOSES#even though louis (well both of them lbr) clearly had communication and commitment issues#armand directed a play that would KILL louis all because he was self conscious that louis didn't love him enough#anyway this is just one interpretation of the 'alice rejected daniel's proposal' convo scene#cause i see soo many people ask 'why did armand say all that' (and have wondered so myself)#even though we cant rule out the possibility that devil's minion happened in the past and that this was armandaniel history tease#armand could be projecting his choice re: louis and the trial onto alice's choice here#similar to how daniel was projecting his feelings about paris onto claudia in this same episode#i just think this would make sense thematically w armand's arc this season#(ie revealing what a deeply insecure and selfish and fucked up lover he is under his guise as a 500 yo devoted and caring husband)#armand 🤝 lestat: i will love you and i will hurt you. if i cant have you then i will break you#[plays under your spell by desire] whats the difference between love and obsession and desire? do you think this feeling could last forever#c.txt#mine#'she didnt think she could trust you' sounds like a YOU problem buddy#and then armand realizes he was wrong too late and bro was SCRAMBLING#the start of something beautiful aka failmarriage!!! :D
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#recovery#stop enabling#self care#self care is not selfish#doing the hard stuff#self care is not an indulgence#codependency#boundaries#relationships#unhealthy relationships#family#friendship#mental health#make yourself a priority#self compassion#healing#low contact#no contact#dysfunctional family#people pleasing#fawning#love#find your people
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Hey, here's a lil self care checkpoint!
-drink some water if you haven't for a lil while
-try and have a lil snack or some general food if you havent had any for a bit
-take a 5 min screen break (so you don't get eye strain)
-if you bind, have you been wearing it more than 8-10 hours? Have a lil stretch if you're within your time
-did you take your meds today?
-if its between 10pm and 7am where you are rn try to sleep or rest, even if its just for an hour
if you've been sitting for a while get up and have a lil walk if you can, even if its just to the kitchen for a cup of tea
-pls remember that you are amazing and beautiful and deserve love and happiness, you are enough
OK end of checklist, have a nice day you amazing human!!
#mental health#positive#positive mental attitude#positive thoughts#positivity#self care#you are enough#you are loved#you are not alone#you matter#self care isn't selfish#self care tips#self care is important
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#self care#positivity#mental health#self love#positive thoughts#positive mental attitude#healing journey#self healing#healing#hopecore#hope#self care reminder#self care is not selfish#self improvement#self compassion#mental illness#actually mentally ill#positive thinking#be kind to yourself#love yourself
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August ⋆.˚ ᡣ
A month of growth, discovery, end of the summer, last minute beach day, dreaming of fall, pearls, starfish, walks in nature, library, quiet afternoon reading books, new hairstyles
#girlblogging#it girl#just girly things#dream girl#hyper feminine#girly tumblr#self care#just girly posts#self love#pink text#goddess sorority#goddess affirmation diaries#girl blog#girl blogging#words of affirmation#positive affirmations#loa tumblr#loablr#loa blog#summer#i’m just a girl#just girly thoughts#just girls being girls#just girlboss things#wonyoungism#pretty privilege#princess treatment#self care is not selfish
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Thinking about the CFAU and marveling at how much Danny and Jason care for one another. Does anybody else figure out that Danny is going to kill the Joker, or is that knowledge Jason exclusive? I can't see Danny being close enough to any other Batfam member to disclose his plans, but I wonder if he drops hints. They're a family of paranoid detectives. I'd be surprised if they don't figure out Danny has a PURPOSE for being in Gotham at some point. Whether Danny's able to disguise it as wanting to be closer to Jason or not is another burning question.
Its def Red Hood exclusive! You're right in that Danny isn't close enough to disclose his revenge plot to any of the batfam members -- hell, not even Sam and Tucker know his true motives for returning to Gotham, and they're his best friends right after Jason! And Red Hood knows only because Danny accidentally slipped up ;].
I do also think that the Waynes kinda think something might be up with Danny -- at least Dick and/or Bruce might since they're the only ones who actually know him beyond brief mentions of him. Tim knows about him due to his stalking, but doesn't really know him -- and Danny plans to keep a healthy, friendly distance from the family so he can carry out his plans.
It's not that he holds any dislike towards them -- quite the opposite. He appreciates what they do for Gotham and recognizes the hard work that goes into keeping their Rogues Gallery at bay (even if he is bitter about Joker, but there's an obvious reason for that) -- but, well. He knows they're the vigilantes, he doesn't want to risk them sniffing out his murder plot before he can even go through with it.
Luckily for him he can excuse any distance he puts between them as just being busy with life and trying to settle in, and they're not close enough to him anymore to find it suspicious. I do think they figure out he's back in Gotham for a reason, Danny's not going to exactly hide the fact that he's back to find some kind of closure -- but what that closure is?
I think the only person who might suspect something sinister going on would be Bruce, who saw the sinking rage in Danny's eyes at the funeral -- it was part of the reason he didn't tell him who killed Jason (beyond secret identity reasons). But that depends on whether or not Danny reveals some of his hand, and the fact that he was still holding onto that rage (somewhat unwillingly) all this time.
#dpxdc#danny fenton is not the ghost king#dp x dc#cfau#childhood friends au#cfau danny#dpxdc crossover#danny's kept this deep-seeded hatred close to his chest for years. he's so close to his goal he's more careful than ever. he's under the#watchful eyes of his home city and the even more watchful eyes of her knights. he can't make any mistakes here -- not after the last one#with red hood. every step he takes going forward must be a cautious one so he doesn't draw the light of the batsignal.#also! funnily enough danny doesn't blame bruce for jason's death. sure they had a fight but he's not the one who sold him out to the joker#he's not the one who beat him to death. who blew him up. he's bitter over the fact that bruce withheld the identity of his murderer from hi#but even he can recognize the need to protect one's secret identity so he doesn't hold it against him that much. he's bitter over the lack#of action against the joker but that's a personal vendetta and again he recognizes how hard it is to be a hero. he would never ask bruce to#kill the Joker. he recognizes the fact that a hero cannot play judge jury or executioner and he respects Bruce's adherence to his moral cod#he knows it must be hard and he agrees that batman shouldn't kill. ever. bc if the batman kills the joker what's stopping him from killing#the common criminal? its a level of self-restraint and self-awareness that all heroes must have. and he genuinely respects bruce for it#if someone wants the joker dead that bad they can go and do the deed themself -- that's what HE'S doing. danny recognizes that his revenge#is wholly selfish in nature. it is closure for him and jason and him and jason only. its not good its not righteous its murder and danny#has come to terms with it.
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putting you first!⋆.ೃ࿔*:・🧁💕
always prioritizing urself and always choosing to prioritize urself will never come to bite u in the butt in the future. you are all that u have in the end of the day so why wouldn't u put urself first? ur world being centered around u is so normal cuz what else would u center it on? so lets explore that in this post…💬🎀
SELFISH? ;
its a form of self respect and love to be selfish. being selfish is demonized in society but its human nature and being selfish ensures that u take care of urself and ur own affairs before u meddle with or try to take care of others.
its okay to help others but you should help u first. lets take a look at the self respect aspect and the self love aspect of putting urself first…💬🎀
SELF RESPECT ASPECT ;
we cultivate self respect through making boundaries with ourselves and with other's and sticking to them. sticking to our word cultivates self respect and builds trust within urself to do what u said u were gonna do. some examples of boundaries with urself can include
♡ having a bed time ♡ having specific work hours and study hours ♡ boundaries that are formed on ur values/religion ♡ saying no when u dont want to do something
boundaries with urself and how u treat urself shows others how to treat u. it also lets others know that u dont play about urself and they can't push on ur boundaries. and if u communicate ur boundaries clearly with someone and they push on ur boundaries then they dont actually like u and its best if u cut them off.
SELF LOVE ASPECT ;
when u pour into urself and show urself the love that u deserve by taking care of urself in the best way that u can, ur cultivating ur self love. if u take care of urself and ur affairs, would the opinion of a nobody be relevant you? no ofc not. cuz u know that their opinion doesn't hold power over u. no one's opinion of u should dictate who you are, only your own.
♡ make time for the things that u love to do ♡ talk to urself with respect and love ♡ pamper urself everyday ♡ journal and prioritize ur healing and work through ur problems ♡ making urself ur favorite food
#honeytonedhottie⭐️#it girl#becoming that girl#that girl#it girl energy#self care#self love#advice#self respect#selfish#self development#dream girl tips#dream girl#dream life#beauty#hyper femininity#hyper feminine#girly#girl blog#girl blogging#fabulously feminine#fabulous#glamorous#self centered
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