#Help For Grief And Grieving
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so the good place is widely lauded on this site for its takes on morality and capitalism, which i totally agree with
but i think it should get more recognition for the line "all humans are aware of death. so we're all a little bit sad all the time. that's just the deal. we don't get offered any better ones. and if you try and ignore your sadness, it just ends up leaking out of you anyway. i've been there, and everybody's been there. so don't fight it. in the words of a very wise bed bath and beyond employee i once knew - go ahead and cry all you want. but you're gonna have to pay for that toilet plunger."
#i dunno i've been thinking about grief lately#and i think the nature of humanity is everyone's grieving something#it might not always be as straightforward as the death of a loved one - sometimes it is#but sometimes you're grieving a life you never got to live#the person you used to be#hell an old toy you just realised you lost years ago and are never going to get back#we're all just a little bit sad all the time#and i think looking at the world like that makes it a lot more friendly place#because everyone is someone who needs a bit of comfort - or just someone to say hey its okay to be sad and angry and confused#and when you're finally ready to let whatever you're grieving go the world will be a happier place#and you'll find a new thing to grieve because there's always something to be a little bit sad about#but the world keeps getting better for every one you get through and every friend who helps you through it#and sometimes you just need to throw a dumb joke in there at the end#that's what it means to be human#the good place#tgp
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#arabic translation#healing#dubailife#dubai#grief#dealing with grief#qoutes#life qoute#everything is temporary#summer#euphoria#send help#tumblr girls#grieving
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an urn for a beloved cat
#making memorial pieces is always so intense#I'm helping someone grieve#??#I always get so anxious when these kinds of pieces have to go into the kiln#pottery#ceramics#ceramic#ceramic art#carving#sgraffito#underglaze painting#sculptural#cat urn#pet death#death#loss#grief#cat death#urn
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I have a DP x DC AU brainworm about Danny and Tim being long lost siblings (twins or otherwise).
Because both of them have faced evil future versions of themselves who've almost ended the world in some way through altering time. If Clockwork had been watching Danny's world-ending timelines, then who's to say he wouldn't keep tabs on Tim's as well?
Imagine that the brothers had to be temporarily separated at a young age to ensure a peaceful future. Danny had to be in Amity Park to gain his ghost powers and become the new Ghost King. Meanwhile, Tim had to stay in Gothem to become the new Robin, something he'd have been less likely to do if Danny stayed in his life.
However, their separation was only supposed to be temporary. What if both Dan and Future Tim were from futures where they never reunited as teens? Heck, what if both of them were from the SAME future?
The Nasty Burger explosion happened, Danny killed Vlad and absorbed his soul, and became Dan. Dan grew too powerful for the GIW to handle anymore, so the government tried reaching out to the Justice League. But oops! Future Tim already killed off and tore down that whole organization, meaning the world no longer had it's protectors to stop this new foe.
Though they were strangers, the future brothers unwittingly collaborated in sealing the world's fate.
Back to the present, the Observants wanted Clockwork to get rid of Danny and also Tim before that timeline came to pass. What they didn't understand was Clockwork's plan.
See, the Infinite Realms needed a new monarch to replace Pariah Dark, but not just anyone would do. In timelines outside of Dan's future, the U.S government would've started a war with the Infinite Realms anyway. One that would guarantee Earth's destruction and offset the balance of other realms near it.
The war is set to start in Amity Park, but the information blackout is preventing it's citizens from getting outside help. Mid-to-late teen Danny can't bring down the Anti Ecto Acts alone. He'd be struggling to keep the Realms beings from invading his home as it is. And the government's iron grip on the city makes it nearly impossible for news to get out to the masses.
Danny being the brother of a vigilante detective across the country is another story.
Batman's mentorship would give Tim the training needed to eventually track down his lost sibling. And through Red Robin's connections to the Justice League, Danny could get help overturning the Anti Ecto Acts while he keeps declarations of war at bay on his end. Danny and Tim's combined efforts could be what's keeping the world at peace instead of ending it.
Long story short: Clockwork kills two birds with one stone by uniting a pair of long lost brothers through the prevention of an interdimensional war.
#dc x dp#dpxdc#danny fenton#tim drake#danny and tim are brothers AU#I personally like the headcanon of Tim vaguely remembering Danny's presence in their early childhood before he just disappeared#and the Drake parents (out of grief or guilt) gaslit Tim into believing Danny never existed#They thought it was a white lie that would help him move past it#but it actually became an early contributer of his self-doubt growing up#Grieving the foggy memories of someone you're supposed to doubt the existence of#Never sharing this with anyone in fear of someone calling you crazy for it#(Fearing they might be right)#((That fear doubling after the Joker Jr. incident if we include that))#The need to gather and compile evidence supporting your thinking at a young age#because if the facts line up then that proves you know what you're talking about#Tim discovering he was right about his brother being real all along might not fix everything#but it'd probably be a relief at least
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Let me drown in my delusion , just as I once drowned in you.
#Slondilesibiya#writeblr#writers on tumblr#writing#poems on tumblr#relatable quotes#self help#self care#words#web weaving#dealing with grief#alone with my thoughts#thoughts#quotes#inspiring quotes#quoteoftheday#life quotes#unconditional love#unrequited love#love#literature#poetry#poem#grief#grieving#dealing with loss#dealing with depression#heartbroken#heartbreak#hurtquotes
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"grief is just love with no place to go"
(jamie anderson)
"i this hope grief stays with me because it's all the unexpressed love that i never got to tell her..."
(andrew garfield)
Credits: Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie: Notes on Grief / C.S Lewis: A Grief Observed / Shannon Barry quote via @academia-aesthetics / Fleabag 2016 / Jamie Anderson quote / One Day 2024 / Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Half of a Yellow Sun / Little Women 2019 / Amanda Gorman, Call Us What We Carry / WandaVision 2021 / Andrew Garfield quote / Ocean Vuong quote, source / Up 2009 / Lang Leav: September Love via @academia-aesthetics / "the grief is never ending but so is the love" monkey meme / commemorative bench plaque in Central Park, New York, photo:© Neva Micheva / Valarie Kaur, See No Stranger: A Memoir and Manifesto of Revolutionary Love / Glennon Doyle Leyton: Love warrior / Hotel Del Luna 2019 / Heidi Priebe: As Long As There Is Love, There Will Be Grief
#y'all this is my first ever webweave pls be nice#if anyone seeing this post is grieving a loved one im so so so sorry and im sending you so much love#its such a hard thing to deal with but making this helped me cope a little hopefully it helps others too#crediting was a lot of work man#but still feel free to tell me if anything is missing im very new to making webs lol#web weave#web weaving#webweaving#grief#web weavings#grief is love#poetry#parallels#words words words#poems and quotes#poeteunoia#mine#spilled ink#spilled poetry#mourning#tw grief#dealing with grief#grief poetry#grief journey#loss#grieving#sad quotes#sad poetry#heartbreak#tw death
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Silent Night (2023): “Help me.”
#whumpedit#whump#silent night#joel kinnaman#brian godlock#silent night 2023#grief#scar#alcohol abuse#burns#coughing#help me#lost voice#worry#emotional whump#my gifs#movie#broken man with damaged vocal cord struggling with grief resorting to alcohol to numb himself asks for help from his equally grieving wife#major whumperflies#made my insides tingle#weak at the knees
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Whumptobrt #30+31: TimKlone (end scene)
Whumptober index - there are at least 5\6 parts in the series before this No. 30: recovery | Holding Back Tears | "What have I done?" No. 31: asking for help | Making Amends | "I'm alive, I'm just not well." (Elliot Lee, Alive, Not Well.) If anyone wondered "I'm alive, I'm just not well" is a perfect summarry of my current state.
"What's her Kryptonian name?"
Tim stays silent for a moment.
"She... doesn't have one," he finally says, quietly. "
He looks at his daughter, avoiding her father.
"Tim-"
"I- I couldn't, I'm sorry. I know, I could have asked Clark or Kara or- but it didn't feel right. It didn't feel- I'm sorry, I couldn't -"
And there's a hand around him.
"It's okay".
"No, it's not," Tim still doesn't look away from the child in his arm. "It's - it's also her culture. Her traditions. I was - I shouldn't left her out".
"You didn't," is the quiet reply. "You did your best, and that is enough."
Tim is-
Tim is sitting there, a baby in his arms, and there's another's hand who wipes her face as he cries.
(There's another hand that holds him).
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"How do you say light?"
The question comes out of nowhere.
"Light?"
"No," Kon says. "Not in English. In that language you sometimes humm in. I remember you once gave an hour long lecture about why Kryptonian names doesn't make any sense. Something about Kal means easy or lightweighted?"
There's a moment of confusion before Tim realises.
"Or"
"Or what?" Kon looks confused. "What are the options?"
"No, that's how you say light in Hebrew. 'Or'."
Kon's eyes widen with horror,"I'm not calling our daughter Orel! "
"It's actually pronounced Or-el, not o-re-l," Tim corrects him unnoticed.
"I mean, you can also have 'Ori', which means 'my light', or Uri- which is aort of, more ancient and less used? But it means 'my fire'. It's actually also considered to be one of the angels that sits over a newborn's cradle to-"
"Ori," Kon mumbles behind him. "my light. I like it. Ori-El. It's you and me, both of our history, but together. New. And it's a reminder: I'll always have a place to call home, I'll always have a light to guide me. Even in the darkest times."
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(Like it? I have more mini-fics Whumptober index | And full size fics on ao3. )
#whumptober#whumptober 2024#no. 30#recovery#Holding Back Tears#What have I done#No. 31#asking for help#Making Amends#I'm alive I'm just not well#batman#batfam#fic#fanfic#fanfiction#timkione bb au#grief#tim drake#robin#dealing with grief#grieving#kon el#TimKlone bb#kon el kent#superboy#happpy ending#grand finale#names#jewish tim drake
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a burden shared // papa emeritus iii x reader
“I cannot imagine the pain you’re in,” he says, his hushed voice shaking with emotion.
You're not sure of the last time you spoke, and it's reflected in the brittle croak that comes from you.
"A lot."
Terzo's hand slips from your cheek to your chest, resting over your heart, feeling the erratic beat beneath his fingers. “Let me carry it for you,” he whispers. A gentle request, but a firm one. “Just for a little while.”
1.3k words, sfw, tw grief // read on ao3
#terzo x reader#papa emeritus iii x reader#the band ghost#terzo#papa emeritus iii#get in loser we’re grieving#started writing on a particularly bad night and it turned into whatever this is#processing grief through imaginary scenarios with The Characters™#i’d like to thank 20 years of maladaptive daydreaming experience for helping me through this difficult time#and thank you all for the sweet comments and messages after my last post#you are the kindest bunch and made a very sad person feel very cared for <3#i am still ✨️desperately depressed✨️ and my enthusiasm for really anything is yet to return#but i wanted to drop in and say hi hello i haven’t given up completely and here's this thing i wrote to prove it#love u x#writing
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It’s so embarrassing and heartbreaking being in so much pain over losing someone while knowing they don’t give a fuck if you live or die. Your favorite person becoming a stranger is a special kind of hell.
#I fucking hate having bpd#while I’m at it I don’t understand the fuckin audacity some people have to say they love you and do horrible things to you#I feel so stupid#I feel so stupid for believing all the lies#but I was so in love and put him on such a pedestal that I just allowed it all.#thinking about someone constantly and grieving over them and knowing they’re perfectly fine and to them you don’t exist#I’m still in such a state of grief and I don’t understand why time hasn’t healed#it honestly feels like it’s gotten worse w time#I just torture myself but I can’t help it my brain wants me dead#it’s so painful I feel so fucking stupid#being abandoned with no closure by someone who’s your entire world#for someone they were unfaithful to you with multiple times (I don’t even know how many and dony want to know) immediately#like that was the plan all along#he took our cat hundreds of miles away and I don’t even know if he still has her or if she’s still alive and I miss her every day#I never loved someone like that and it feels like the heartbreak is actually physically killing me#i spent 1/5 of my entire life with him#I was my prettiest and had the best body at the time and I wasted it on someone who didn’t appreciate me#not wasted. it wasn’t wasted. we had some incredible times together#I’ll never be that beautiful again#and now idk what do so bc i can’t decide which is worse: being alone and isolating or loving deeply and ending up horribly hurt all over#it’s all just so upsetting.#and I feel so stupid for allowing it all#he knows more about me than anyone and he made me feel like he loved me so much sometimes and then did horrid things and it’s so fucked up#nobody read this I’m so embarrassed and horribly broken#it traumatized me so much there was so much abuse and pain idk if I’ll ever recover#I deserved it but it still hurts my heart#I was so mentally ill and sick I know it had to have been miserable to be around me#there are so many things only he understands and knows about me and I need to talk about them I j wanna b able to b there 4 each other#but that girl is so beyond insecure and controlling so. if I want to talk to who fuckin gets me I’m just fucked#why lead someone on like that for years knowing you’re going to abandon them the second it’s convenient
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i think two characters drifting apart is worse than one of them just dying actually because. what do you mean they changed each other irrecoverably but circumstances mean they now live separate lives what do you mean one of them might look at the ocean and be reminded of the other one in a way that causes that very specific pain in their chest except the person they’re thinking of isn’t even dead, they’re just a stranger. what do you mean they’ll never get back what they lost what do you mean their conversations will now be awkward and stilted like two people meeting one another for the first time wh
#yeah i’m thinking about harringrove who even cares anymore#right person wrong time or what the fuck ever#makes me sick to my stomach#what if i bashed my head against the wall what then#girl you are mourning someone who is still alive ! the grief is eating away at you ! you can’t grieve because they are still alive ! help !
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A safe place because I need it, too. How are you doing? I’m fine, how are you? I lie. I’m not fine. Not even remotely. I’m scared. I’m depressed. I’m confused. I just need to see her one last time, to say goodbye. But I can’t. So I take to harmful tactics to get her out of mind… And it’s not working. The helpful ones are hurting. The unhelpful ones are hurting in a different way. My chest is so heavy. I just want to curl into a ball and cease to exist.
#mental help#mental heath awareness#abuse survivor#actually mentally ill#mentally tired#mentally unstable#mental illness#mental health#grieving#grief#growth#this is a cry for help#please help#send help
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i wonder how much of richie being dismissive of carmy and claire in season 3 connects back to his marriage with tiff crumbling while he took carmy's role(as son/brother) of helping donna cope post mikey's death
#the richie mikey carmy grief triangle is just very dense#it's not really a triangle atp is it ??#the bear#i want to talk more about richie and carmy and mikey and grief lads#anyone ???#i don't get how people can't understand why richie is so mad at carmy still despite the phone apology#richie's family crumbled while he helped mikey's mom grieve#richie calling carmy donna was fucked and you can see that he knows that#but the way carmy goes on to say richie is a leach and just clinging on to them while he doesn't belong#when he totally fucking does belong!!#and then he just apologizes on the phone like 'oh yeah sorry. see ya tomorrow'#of couRse it's not resolved#i kinda love that it didn't resolve#as much as i can't wait for the blow up#i think it needed to fester#it's just delicious conflict#richie's too hurt to properly bring it up and carmy's spiralling and thinks his apology solved it#bc berzattos will be cruel to one another and then just move on
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I thought I knew her so well, but I don't know her at all. I hope she knows herself as well as I thought I did.
#Slondilesibiya#writeblr#writers on tumblr#writing#poems on tumblr#relatable quotes#self help#self care#life quotes#quoteoftheday#quotes#love quotes#inspiring quotes#poem#prose#poetry#unconditional love#unrequited love#literature#web weaving#web weave#words#dealing with grief#grief#grieving#love#self love#poems and poetry#poems and quotes#positive mental attitude
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y'know sometimes its ok
then sometimes it's thursday night and my grandma is dead and the world hasn't stopped
and i miss her
but there isn't anything anyone can do to bring her back
but i miss. her.
#grief#gran i love you#i hate grief#i dont wanna grieve#i want her back#its not fzir#ITS NOT FAIR#im loosing my mind#help
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idk how to put words together to say what i want to say. so if this doesn't make sense that's why. i think sometimes the language about fetuses used by pro choice people is intentionally inflammatory and further drives a wedge between pro choice /pro life. and sometimes the lack of respect is so glaring. what is your gross, dehumanizing, awful descriptors of a fetus supposed to accomplish? you aren't winning anyone over. you're pushing others away. and for the folks who have experienced miscarriage, can you imagine the grief that comes only to be met with "it's just a disgusting alien parasite clump of cells"? you're only posturing to other people who already agree with you. you're taking no care. no compassion. why should anyone ever listen to you when you obviously discredit the significance of pregnancy? why should a pregnant person trust you when you belittle a massive decision and call their growing baby insignificant & a cancer? idk man. i'm not blaming anyone, i just. maybe think about it for a few minutes before you call a fetus a smeared shit stain. okay?
! i am staunchly pro-choice ! this is not a condemnation of abortion ! abortion should be easily accessible to all people !
#maybe i'm just more sensitive because of past experiences but#idk man#it's not accomplishing anything to talk about fetuses that way#and it's really polarizing#what are you hoping to accomplish?#what other ways can you accomplish it?#what material impact do you hope to have?#and yes every example up there are things i've actually heard/seen people say about fetuses#and some of these things have been said directly to me to my face about my baby#they assume because i was a child i must have been glad to miscarry and think it okay to be absolutely vile#but i grieve every day every day every day even over a decade later#and every day every day every day for the youngest#both pregnancies if i had carried any longer would likely have led to abortion bc my body cannot and that still would have devastated me#so maybe i'm just sensitive but think about how common these situations are#these are sensitive topics and i wish folk would understand that#i mean the bare minimum is just to not be an asshole yk?#like who are you helping?#it's not me it's not struggling soon to be mothers it's not people grieving for a baby they can't carry to term#hell it's not even folk who desire an abortion or people who don't think twice about it#you're helping no one and hurting and pushing away a hell of a lot of people in the process#i'm tired#the grief is so heavy today
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