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I'm seeing a lot of discussion about what Dream actually said in his video about his boundaries, reinventing what he said, paraphrasing, so here is everything he mentioned about them, with time stamps! If something he says is repeated in writing in the background, i will not mention it.
Actual quotes will be in quotation marks, anything that is displayed in text in the background of the video with be in [brackets].
While talking about the fanart account:
"I never supported NSFW art of minors or from minors. I think that that's weird and gross." [That's disgusting] (16:21 - 16:28)
"Generally it's just, I don't want anything weird drawn of me." (16:29 - 16:32)
Context: "I think it's incredibly unhealthy to be obsessive with someone, and I also think it's clear to anyone that's stepping back and looking at these situations, that people obsessively hate me, and are making up lies about me, which is also because of parasocialness. Parasocial love, turned to parasocial hate. And I have no doubt that the anonymous people making these fake allegations were once big fans of mine." (1:19:14 - 1:19:29)
Context: "i think part of why I'm in the position that I'm in right now, is because I started pulling away from my fans after my face reveal. Meeting fans in person made things much more real and i wasn't so chronically online anymore cause I actually had real life, and things to do. I think the fact that I'm a pretty relaxed person overall that has relaxed boundaries has encouraged that type of behavior too, so I'm just gonna re-clarify some of my boundaries." (1:19:41 - 1:20:01)
[I'm pretty relaxed. It takes a lot to bother me.] [But just because it doesn't bother me, doesn't mean it's okay] (1:19:55 - 1:20:00)
"One: I don't support any sexually explicit art of me or my friends. It never bothered me personally that much 'cause I don't really care about anything, but it is just weird. Especially if you're a minor nd drawing anything like that. That's gross. I don't support anything inappropriate from minors at all. Art, tiktoks, comments, anything. It's gross." [I don't support any NSFW art of me] [If you're a minor, do not engage sexually as a fan whatsoever, that's gross & unsafe] (1:20:01 - 1:20:16)
"Two: Serious shipping is bad. I think that prying into people's private relationships, being deeply speculative, or anything like that is terrible. I don't mind jokes, I don't mind doing it for fun, but anything serious really crosses the line." (1:20:16 - 1:20:27)
"Again I've always found it funny being shipped with George, because we're not dating. We're friends. But if you genuinely think we're dating and it's part of your personality, you need to get off the internet. That is not healthy." (1:20:27 - 1:20:37)
"I'm sure I'll make more clarifications in the future, but I just don't want anything weird. Don't obsess over me or my friends." (1:20:37 - 1:20:43)
Context: [Sometimes you guys being odd can make me look odd] (1:20:49)
"Be the passionate fan, not the stalker obsessive fan." (1:20:50)
If i missed anything, please let me know!
#dream's boundaries#dream fanart#dtblr#dreamblr#dnfblr#feel free to share this around i guess#im not here to give my opinion on if or how strongly you wanna follow or enforce these#just wanted to have it all in one place#js.p#Youtube
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This is gonna sound weird but I had a very vivid fever-induced dream about Pangur. I was standing in a lake surrounded my forests and mountains at night. The moon was so bright but there were no stars. And then Pangur came over the mountain but she was so long like Falkor Neverending Story and she had so many legs and big sad eyes downturned like a 20s movie star and big purple eyelashes.
She was circling around me in the sky like some majestic sky worm and said in a voice that sounded like Helen Mirren “it’s 20% off on Wednesday”. I kept asking her what was 20% off but she kept saying things like “it’s a good deal for a Wednesday” and “you should take the offer while it’s hot”.
So anyway I’m taking that as a sign to buy something stupid that’s 20% off on Wednesday thanks Pangur
this seems like an elaborate way of getting me to do a 20% off sale but okay, I'll bite!
Pangur says "use the code 'GoodDeal' at greerstothers.shop"
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2025 : #1 be disciplined
[ the 2025 glow up serie ? Click here !]
Motivation feels amazing, doesn’t it? It’s like a spark—a burst of energy that pushes you forward. But what happens when the spark fades? That’s where discipline steps in. It’s the routine you build, the habits you cultivate, and the consistency you stick to even on days you don’t feel like it.
So, instead of waiting to feel ready, discipline says, ‘Let’s go, regardless.’ It’s the engine that turns dreams into reality.
"Ask urself right now: What’s one thing I can commit to daily in 2025? Write it down. Small steps lead to giant leaps."
1.Building Your Disciplined
How do u stay disciplined? Start with these three small steps:
✒️.Growth is not supposed to feel good. You’re going to hate it. You’ll feel like quitting more times than you can count. That’s normal. Growth is built in the moments where you want to give up but don’t.
1. Create Clear Goals: Be specific. Instead of saying, ‘I’ll study more,’ say, ‘I’ll study history for 30 minutes every evening.’ BUY A SMALL NOTEBOOK AND WRITE ALL UR GOALS WITH SMALLER ONE TO BE MORE PRODUCTIVE
2. Track Progress: Whether it’s journaling or using an app, tracking helps you stay accountable.
3.Master Your Mindset: Stop waiting to "feel motivated." Understand that motivation is fleeting, but discipline is reliable. Every time your brain tells you to quit, remind yourself: your emotions don’t run the show—your goals do.
2.Excuses Are Lies
Excuses are lies you’ve sold yourself to stay comfortable. 'I’m too tired.' Lie. 'I don’t have time.' Lie. 'I’m just not motivated.' Biggest lie of all.
Here’s the truth: You’re scared. Scared of failure, scared of discomfort, scared of how much effort it takes to change. But let me tell you something: Fear is temporary. Regret is forever. Which one do you want to live with?
No more excuses. You don’t need more time. You need more discipline. You don’t need motivation. You need action. Stop talking about what you want and start doing the work to get it. Right now.
3.look at yourself in the mirror
Look yourself in the mirror tonight and ask: Am I proud of the choices I made today? If the answer is no, fix it tomorrow. And if the answer is still no, fix it the next day. Don’t let yourself off the hook.
2025 isn’t your year unless you make it your year. Stop expecting change to happen to you. You are the change. Get out of your head, get off the couch, and get to work. The only thing standing between you and the life you want is your own laziness. Crush it.
4.Action Plan for a Disciplined Life
Stop acting like you’re doing enough when you know you’re not. If you want that dream college, that perfect GPA, or that career you keep fantasizing about, you need to stop wasting time and follow a real plan. Get up the second your alarm goes off—no snooze, no excuses. Tackle the hardest, most uncomfortable task first thing in the morning because procrastination is for quitters. Create a non-negotiable schedule and stick to it like your life depends on it, because it does. Eliminate every distraction: delete the apps, unfollow the nonsense, and stop treating your phone like your best friend. Hold yourself accountable—write down your progress every day. If you didn’t do anything to move forward, face the fact that you’re the problem. Plan your next day before you sleep, so you wake up ready to win, not wander. And for the love of everything you want in life, stop choosing comfort over progress. Your excuses won’t get you that GPA, that acceptance letter, or that dream job—but discipline will.
breaking this into chunks
1. Kill the Snooze Button: Get out of bed the moment your alarm goes off. No "just 5 more minutes." Those 5 minutes are the difference between starting strong and losing the day.
2. Start With the Hard Stuff: Tackle your most challenging task first thing in the day. Procrastination is your enemy—eat the frog and move on.
3. Create a Non-Negotiable Schedule: Block out specific times for studying, working out, or any critical task. Treat these blocks like appointments with your future self—don’t cancel.
4. Cut Out Time-Wasters: Delete apps you waste time on. Unfollow distractions. If you spend hours scrolling or binge-watching, you’re digging your own grave.
5. Build Accountability: Tell someone your goals and have them call you out when you slack. Better yet, make it public—you’ll hate embarrassing yourself in front of others.
6. Track Progress Daily: Write down everything you’ve done that day to move closer to your goals. If you haven’t done anything, face the hard truth: you’re slacking.
7. Plan Tomorrow Tonight: Before you go to bed, write out your next day’s schedule. If you wake up without a plan, you’ve already lost.
8. Say No to Comfort: Skip the cozy excuses. If it’s not pushing you closer to your goals, it’s holding you back.
Discipline is the foundation of every success story. It’s not about luck, talent, or fleeting motivation—it’s about showing up, doing the hard work, and making the right choices every single day. If you want to achieve your dreams, you need to stop waiting for the perfect moment and start building habits that get you closer to your goals. Cut the excuses, own your failures, and take control of your life. The road to greatness isn’t easy, but every sacrifice, every uncomfortable moment, and every disciplined action will take you one step closer to the future you deserve. You either make it happen, or you watch someone else do it. The choice is yours. The clock is not waiting for u !
@bloomzone ✒️
#bloomivation#bloomdiary#becoming that girl#glow up#wonyoungism#wonyoung#it girl#dream life#divine feminine#creator of my reality#it girl affirmations#love affirmations#dear diary#stay focused#project 2025#get motivated#self growth#self love#self confidence#self development#self improvement#self care#happiness#self healing#alone but not lonely#jang wonyoung#boundaries
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boundaries between a regressor and caregiver - what are they and how to put them in place ! [a guide]
i often get people in my inbox saying "quinny i wanna ask my bf/gf/friend/etc to be my cg!!" which is great and awesome !! i'm so happy you found someone who you feel safe enough to regress with !! but, you little ones need to be mindful that finding someone to be your caregiver is only half the journey!!
so, here is a [mostly] compressive guide to agere boundaries !!
What are boundaries?
In simple terms, boundaries are the invisible lines we draw for our friends/family/significant other so we can feel respected in relationships!
These can be emotional, with examples such as :
Please don't discuss [insert triggering subject] when I'm present
Please don't shame my interests
Please don't lie to me
These can also be physical, which examples such as :
Please don't hold my hand without asking
Please don't sneak up behind me
Please rush me while I'm speaking
Boundaries are cool!! Can I have some?!
Of course you can kid! Boundaries are for everyone!
How can I set my boundaries?
Well first, you have to identify what your boundaries are! This is fairly easy!! Ask yourself some of the following questions,
Do I feel safe when [insert a specific action] occurs near me?
Do I feel loved when [insert a specific action] occurs near me?
[Examples of actions can include; yelling, lying, raising voices, etc etc.]
Once you figure out what your boundaries are, you can start vocalizing them! It might feel scary at first, but in the long run it'll lead to healthy communication and relationships :)
Find a time to sit with your regressor/caregiver to discuss both your boundaries, allow the conversation to be a two way street- be open to listening to your partners boundaries and answering questions [within reason].
This does not mean to allow your partner to pick and choose which of your boundaries they listen too. It simply means be open to further explaining how they can respect your boundaries- this could be a learning process for both of you !!
How do boundaries apply to caregivers and regressor relationships?
Let us get one thing clear, boundaries apply to every type of relationship. You and your boss at work, you and your teachers, you and your second cousin's dog walker...every type of relationship has boundaries because well, everyone has boundaries!
Regressors are allowed to have boundaries.
Caregivers are allowed to have boundaries.
It's important that we communicate these boundaries with our regressor/caregiver otherwise an incident can occur that can lead to an unhealthy/unhappy littlespace/carerspace.
Common boundaries that regressors may have :
Don't swear when I'm regressed
Don't shout at/around me when I'm regressed
Don't touch me on my [insert body part]
Common boundaries that caregivers may have :
I'm not comfortable with helping you [insert task]
I'm not comfortable discussing [insert topic] when you're regressed
I need space before I'm ready to properly caregive
if you've vocalized your boundaries yet find that there is a cycle of them being disregarded, then you may not be in a safe dynamic :(
[dividers creds to @softandsleepyboy]
-- with sparkles and love,
quinny 💌
#agere#age regression#fandom agere#age regressor#age regression sfw#age regression blog#sfw agere#sfw age regression#agere blog#agere classroom#agere community#agere little#agere sfw#age regression community#age regression caregiver#age regression moodboard#agere moodboard#agere caregiver#safe agere#age regression info#agere info#boundaries#healthy communication#healthy coping mechanisms#sfw age dreamer#age dreaming#age re safe space#age re blog#petre#pet regressor
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mindful social media habits for 2025 🦋
social media can be our best friend, and our greatest enemy. but there's a way you can mindfully alter your use of social media to benefit your improvement journey.
let's make our online presence as intentional as our offline one. here's how to create healthier social media habits while staying connected~
morning routine:
no phones first hour
check notifications once
respond mindfully
set daily time limits
positive feed curation
content consumption:
follow inspiring accounts
unfollow negative energy
save posts for later
engage meaningfully
share with purpose
digital wellness:
regular feed cleanse
turn off notifications
set boundaries
scheduled breaks
mindful scrolling
engagement tips:
genuine comments
support others
share knowledge
spread positivity
be authentic
mental health checks:
notice emotional triggers
compare less
practice gratitude
take regular breaks
offline activities
social media should add value to your life, not drain it. it's okay to step back when needed and create boundaries that protect your peace.
virtual hugs, mindy
#socialmedia#digitalwellness#mindfulness#boundaries#girl blogger#becoming that girl#girlblogger#that girl#it girl energy#self improvement#glowettee#dream girl#pink#study tips#study inspiration
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10 things you should stop doing for self-growth
Wasting your time on one-sided relationships.
Worrying that you are asking for "too much".
Distracting yourself from complex feelings instead of processing them.
Ignoring your gut feeling.
Seeking external validation over self-assurance.
Expecting people to just know what's wrong instead of opening up.
Disregarding your boundaries and beliefs to make others like you and/or to avoid conflict.
Being scared of trying new things and failing.
Not celebrating your achievements because "others have accomplished more".
Believing your worth depends on how productive you are.
As always, please feel free to add your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! •̩̩͙❅*̩̩͙‧͙♡*̩̩͙❆ ͙͛
❆‧₊*:・love ya ・:*₊‧౨ৎ
#girl blogger#it girl#pink blog#that girl#coquette#dream girl#aesthetic#pink pilates princess#pinterest#manifesting#loa affirmations#girlhood#girlblogging#this is a girlblog#gaslight gatekeep girlblog#self esteem#self care#self love#self worth#self improvement#glow up diaries#glow up#glow up journey#advice#confidence#boundaries#angel aesthetic#dollete aesthetic#coquettecore
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Uno Reverse
Bonus:
@arialerendeair keeps giving me ideas to springboard off of XD
final image was referenced from Calvin and Hobbes :3
#he drank the water#listen I love the trope of Dream offering Hob a boon or service#out of some warped logic that Hob expects something later#and its so sweet when Hob says Dream “owes him nothing”#but the funnier and more unhinged option is for Hob to immediately order Dream to practice self care.#Dream: “wait no that's illegal!”#I also love the concept of Dream suspiciously theory crafting why Hob is being kind#only for his hypotheses to get struck down with increasing hilarity#this is good for Dream though#he's testing his new boundaries#horse girl au#the sandman#the art tag#dreamling#hob gadling#dream of the endless#centaur!dream#centaurs
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how to protect urself and stop breaking ur own heart⋆.ೃ࿔*:・🍡
in this world its crucial to learn urself wholly so that u can protect urself in the best way possible. ofc u won't be able to protect urself from everything because some situations are opportunities to grow which is what life is all about. but lets talk about protecting urself and how to NOT break ur own heart…💬🎀
LEAVE THE PAST WHERE IT IS ;
first thing i wanna touch on is STOP checking on ppl that no longer have space in ur life. its just so stagnant and useless like why do u care? if u have enough time to check on someone from YEARSS ago (especially if this someone did u wrong) then ur wasting time that u won't get back. go spend ur time on something useful like affirming.
i feel like this also encompasses not trying to change people. respect a person for who they are -> not what u hope they will become. dont be friends or get into a relationship with someone for potential because they won't grow and evolve unless they WANT to. if ur thinking "oh just give them time, they have potential" or "they'll change, they won't keep hurting and disregarding my feelings" then ur just wasting ur time.
ALSO it doesnt matter if ur excuse is that you've known each other for a long time, ur allowed to leave relationships, situationships, friendships that no longer serve you its YOUR life. ur 100% allowed.
LEARN URSELF ;
by becoming aware of what u value, what triggers you, ur boundaries etc you can stay true to that and protect urself better. something that u can do to help you to learn yourself + how to protect urself is
make a list of things that u LIKE or are OKAY with. things that make u feel good. then make a list of things that make u feel bad and things that u don’t like…💬🎀
stay true to that list. when u understand urself and ur triggers u can protect urself better. live privately because what ppl don’t know they can’t ruin. not everyone has to know ur business, which leads me to my next point.
WHAT PEOPLE DONT KNOW, THEY CANT RUIN ;
dont put ur business out there for everyone ALL the time. privacy is power and the more private u are the less people will have to try and sabotage u because not everyone wants the best for you. when u tell everyone everything that makes you vulnerable and vulnerability can be good when building meaningful relationships and connections, you should NOT be vulnerable with every single person.
USE UR INTUITION ;
what u can't immediately sense YOUR BODY CAN. thats why we have things like gut feelings and hunches that often times are correct. ur intuition is like, everything that u know or have experienced subconsciously that u might not be able to recollect quickly, but ur body can. thats why its there.
#honeytonedhottie⭐️#it girl#becoming that girl#self concept#self care#that girl#self love#advice#it girl energy#dream girl tips#dream girl#dream life#self improvement#self reflection#self awareness#emotional intelligence#mindset#personal growth#hyper femininity#girly#girl blog#girl talk#girl thoughts#my thoughts💬🎀#intuitive#boundaries#self discovery
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the best thing maggie stiefvater ever did was NOT having ronan dream a magical device that would "fix" adam's hearing. the best thing maggie ever did was adam knowing that he did not need or want to be "fixed". the best thing maggie ever did was ronan knowing that adam did not want or need to be fixed and accepting it without a second thought.
#been thinking about this lately#ronan dreams adam so many fix-it objects but never tries to fix anything that adam doesn't want 'fixed'#or that don't need to be 'fixed'#because both ronan and maggie know that that would be a boundary that couldn't be uncrossed for adam or for any disabled person#anyway#adam parrish#ronan lynch#the raven cycle#the dreamer trilogy#trc#tdt#pynch
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Go off queen
Dream belongs to Jokublog
Transcription:
Dream: I am… okay
Dream: You know what? No, I am NOT okay. In fact, I’m HURT. A-And I had a BAD DAY!
Dream: I NEED A BREAK GOSH DARNIT!!
#art#utmv#comic#dream sans#the last comic of 2023 and it’s just Dream screaming at a wall lmao#happy new years everyone#be sure to make your boundaries clear#and also give yourself a break from time to time#everyone needs one
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Become Your Best Version Before 2025 - Day 18
Creating Healthy Boundaries
Hey Goddesses! Do you ever feel like you’re running on empty because everyone seems to want a piece of you? Work, family, friends, obligations, they all add up, and before you know it, you’re left with no time, energy, or space for yourself.
If that sounds familiar, trust me, you’re not alone. Most of us weren’t taught how to set boundaries, and even when we know we need them, it can feel so hard to say, “No, this doesn’t work for me.���
Just like clearing out our physical space makes room for what matters, setting healthy boundaries helps us make space for the right people and experiences in our lives. And honestly? It's one of the kindest things we can do for ourselves and others, even if it feels a bit scary at first!
Setting Boundaries 101
Think of boundaries like the walls of your house, they show where you end and others begin:
Your time and energy are precious resources
"No" is a complete sentence
You're allowed to change your mind
Your feelings are valid guides
Your needs matter as much as others
Signs You Need Better Boundaries
Let's get real about some common situations:
Feeling resentful after saying yes
Apologizing for things that aren't your fault
Always being available for others
Feeling drained after social interactions
Taking on other people's problems
Struggling to speak up for yourself
Some simple ways to start:
Begin with these simple steps:
Take a pause before saying yes
Use "I" statements: "I need time to think about it"
Start with easier situations and people
Practice saying no to small things
Give yourself permission to have limits
Practice phrases like "I'd love to, but that doesn't work for me right now"
Turn off app notifications during your personal time
The Art of Saying No
Try these gentle but firm responses:
"That doesn't work for me"
"I'll need to check my calendar"
"I can't commit to that right now"
"I have other priorities at the moment"
"Thanks for thinking of me, but I'll pass"
Setting Work Boundaries
Protect your peace at work:
Define your work hours clearly
Take your lunch break away from your desk
Don't check emails after hours
Learn to say no to extra projects
Communicate your limits professionally
Digital Boundaries
Create healthy limits with technology:
Set specific times for checking messages
Remove notifications that stress you out
Don't feel obligated to respond immediately
Mute or leave overwhelming group chats
Take social media breaks
Relationship Boundaries
Nurture healthy connections:
Express your needs clearly
Respect others limits
Share what feels comfortable for you
Take space when you need it
Don't compromise your values
Self-Care Boundaries
Protect your relationship with yourself:
Schedule non-negotiable me-time
Honor your emotional needs
Listen to your body's signals
Protect your energy
Make time for what fills you up
Setting boundaries isn't selfish It's actually about:
Teaching others how to treat you
Maintaining your mental health
Having more to give from a full cup
Building authentic relationships
Creating space for what truly matters
The Challenge for Today
Identify ONE area where you need stronger boundaries
Practice ONE new way to say no
Set ONE small boundary today
What's one boundary you're proud of setting? Or what's one boundary you want to work on? Share below, I’d love to hear from you!
See you tomorrow for Day 19! Remember, every time you set a healthy boundary, you're showing yourself and others that your wellbeing matters. And it absolutely does!
♡ ☆:.。 Keep glowing, babes! ♡ ☆:.。 With love, Goddess Inner Glow.
#boundaries#setting boundaries#healthy boundaries#self love#be confident#be your best self#be your true self#becoming that girl#becoming the best version of yourself#confidence#growth mindset#it girl#it girl energy#personal development#self appreciation#self confidence#self improvement#self care#self concept#self development#glow up tips#becoming her#become that girl#lifestyle#dream life#girl blog aesthetic#girl blogger#goddessinnerglowmagazine#goddessinnerglowblog
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can we have one good awakening alt before EOS please. just a crumb of recognition for my bisexual angel and her butch wife. just one tiny reference to the canonical girlprince homoeroticism sumia got to enjoy during the harvest scramble
Sumia: I know it's silly...but this whole thing is just SO alluring! I mean, men have their own unique appeal, and women do too, right? But combine them both, and you get the best of both worlds! The beauty of the female form, with the magnetic appeal of a handsome man... If we can pull this off, you'll be like a dashing prince from a fairy tale!
(FEH summon simulator here)
#sumia#sully#sulmia#fire emblem heroes#fire emblem awakening#feem bleem#Sully: I mean I don't mind but is this the right thing to wear this to the bride festival?#Sumia: But you look so good in men's clothing! Nearly everyone says so. It's an elegant seductive#world that transcends the boundaries of gender itself!#im jesting i know heroes would never reference this. because no one making heroes has ever played an fe game#but let me dream of this elegant and seductive world that transcends the boundaries of gender itself. let sumia dream about it too
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2025 : #6 FAILURE IS THE GREATEST TEACHER
failure is not your enemy. In fact, failure is the best teacher you will ever have. It’s raw, unforgiving, and humbling. And you know what? That’s exactly why it’s necessary.
✒️..Think about this: every success story you’ve ever heard started with failure. Thomas Edison failed over a thousand times before inventing the light bulb. Oprah Winfrey was fired from her first television job because she was "unfit for TV." Steve Jobs was kicked out of the company he founded. The difference between these people and the rest? They didn’t let failure define them. They let it refine them.
WHY DO WE FEAR FAILURE?
We fear failure because we’re conditioned to. From a young age, we’re taught that mistakes are bad. The red marks on our homework, the scolding for falling short, the shame when we didn’t measure up. Society drills this fear into us, and we carry it into adulthood like a weight on our shoulders. But YOU can’t avoid failure. You will fail, repeatedly. The question is, will you let it break you, or will you let it build you?Failure taps into our deepest insecurities. It makes us feel like frauds.. like we’re not good enough. But here’s what most people don’t understand: failure is neutral. It’s not good or bad. It’s just feedback. It’s information telling you what didn’t work so you can figure out what will.The problem arises when we attach meaning to failure—when we let it dictate our self-worth. One failed business doesn’t mean you’re a bad entrepreneur. One bad grade doesn’t mean you’re dumb..one failed relationship doesn’t mean you’re unlovable...
How to Handle Failure
1. Own It
Stop blaming circumstances, other people, or bad luck. Take responsibility. When you own your failure, you gain control over it. You’re no longer a victim of your mistakes—you’re the master of your lessons.
2. Analyze It
Every failure is a goldmine of information. What went wrong? What could you have done differently? Be brutally honest with yourself. Failure is wasted if you don’t learn from it. THERE IS NO FUCKING PROBLEM IN IT
3. Detach Emotionally
It’s easy to take failure personally, but it’s not about you. It’s about the process. Detach your self-worth from the outcome. Just because you failed doesn’t mean you are a failure.
4. Get Back Up
This is where most people falter. They stay down. They let the sting of failure paralyze them BUT the only way to overcome failure is to keep moving. Adjust your strategy, try again, and keep going.
The Benefits of Failure
It Builds Resilience: Every time you fail and get back up, you become stronger.
It Fuels Growth: Failure pushes you out of your comfort zone and forces you to adapt.
It Clarifies Your Goals: Sometimes, failing shows you what truly matters and helps you realign your focus.
It Humbles You: Success without failure breeds arrogance. Failure keeps you grounded and hungry.
You think failure is the end? No, failure is the beginning. It’s the brutal teacher that shows you exactly what you’re made of. So get up. Stop wasting time feeling sorry for yourself. Stop blaming the world for your mistakes. Own it. Fix it. And then move forward. You’re going to fail again, and again, and again. But the question is, are you going to let it break you, or are you going to let it build you? Because the truth is NO one is coming to save you. It’s on you. So pick up the pieces, put your head down, and get back to work. Failure is a lesson—use it, or stay stuck. The choice is yours.
@bloomzone 📇
#bloomivation#bloomdiary#becoming that girl#glow up#wonyoungism#wonyoung#it girl#dream life#divine feminine#creator of my reality#dear diary#welcome december#stay focused#self healing#self growth#self love#self confidence#boundaries#healing#get motivated#goals#gratitude#alone but not lonely#postive > negative#girly tumblr#tumblr girls#girl blogging#dream girl journey#study motivation#study blog
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you should do an informational post on caring for neurodivergent and/or chronically ill littles!!
caring for neurodivergent and chronically ill littles ! [a guide]
written by a neurodivergent little and a caregiver to a chronically ill little <3
[it should be noted that everyone experiences different symptoms/has different needs; i'll be focusing on sensory issues and chronic pain in this guide]
Be understanding !
It's important to remember for both caregivers and regressors that while something's may not make sense to us- that doesn't mean you can't be understanding.
You might not be able to feel the difference in fabric textures but your little/cg can.
Your legs might not hurt after walking short distances, but your little/cg's might.
These are real experiences your little/cg may deal with that you will have to be understanding of.
There may be times where your little/cg cannot play and need to rest, or times where games may need to be modified to ensure both of you have fun playing- reassure your little/cg that they are not burdens for needing accommodations !
Get creative !
"But Quinny, how can I make accommodations for my little/cg?!"
I'm glad you asked!! For neurodivergent littles/cgs, you may want to take extra time explaining the rules of a game or turning down the volume of shows/movies!
For chronically ill littles/cgs, low-movement activities such as arts 'n crafts or cozy pillow forts.
[There is a really great post by @mortuarymorticia about chronically ill carers that you can find, here!]
Be patient !
Flare-ups/Bad sensory days can lead to fussy littles.
Flare-ups/Bad sensory days can lead to caregivers needing breaks.
These are both okay! It's important to listen to each other's needs and limits; healthy cg/little dynamics work together to find compromises.
Tips & Tricks !
Finding dolls/books/toys with disbaility inclusive storylines/characters/features can do wonders!
Keeping fun/cute water bottles or sippy cups nearby! [Bonus points if you have some liquid IV on hand -- or just a electrolyte drink in general]
Mobiles are great for kiddos who need lotsa bed-rest!!
being chronically ill/disabled/neurodivergent does not make you a bad regressor/caregiver <3
[dividers creds to @softandsleepyboy]
-- with sparkles and love,
quinny 💌
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[ID: a digital drawing of characters from the owl house based on the song "up the wolves" by the mountain goats. At the top of the drawing there's a rectangular panel showing Camila and Eda. Camila looks out at the boiling isles at night with her bat. Eda mirrors her pose, with her arm covered in feathers. Shadows form to look like the collectors face, covering Eda's eyes and parts of Camila. Beneath this panel is a star with King and the Collector inside of it, holding hands and spinning midair. Beneath this is the archway portal from thanks to them, which is glowing, and at the bottom of the image is the hexsquad lined up in their designs from for the future, lit by the portal light and looking determinedly into the distance. The lyrics that span the image are "our mother has been absent/ever since we founded Rome/but there's gonna be a party when the wolf comes home". The background is black. End ID]
I knew I couldn't say goodbye to this show without redrawing one of my favorite old pieces, this lyric comic based on Up The Wolves by the mountain goats. I made it pre-ttt and was honestly really vindicated by all the wolf imagery that ep, lmao
#the owl house#toh#toh spoilers#watching and dreaming#luz noceda#hunter toh#willow park#amity blight#gus porter#eda clawthorne#king clawthorne#the collector toh#camila noceda#I REALLY DID DRAW 9 CHARACTERS FOR THIS DIDN'T I#hate this fucking show and the way it has constantly inspired me to push my own artistic boundaries. mad as hell about that#i don't have time for a full-on tag ramble rn but just know that i am so fucking sad about this show ending and fighting with myself#bc it feels like it'd be so much easier to like. shut my love for it off??? in order to not feel as bad about it ending#I've had a year or so with it (barely tho) surely this can satisfy me#but that's just. straight up not true and makes me feel bad in a whole different way#it is weird!! it's weird that this show I've watched 5 times over is ending and i might never get anything else from it#but I'm not gonna let that sour the show or fandom as a whole for me?? if that makes sense#i love this show top to bottom front to back. not bc it's perfect but bc it sees me and i love it for that#also it's really funny and beautiful and well written and. just. AUGHDHDJDJ!!!!!!! I'M NORMAL!!!#okay i have to go shower now#I'm going to gently leave this with you guys. i put a lot into her. do with it as you will#that's all#i love you 💖
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To the cradle of sweet dreams,
To the guiding hand that holds,
How much longer until goodbye?
#granblue fantasy#gbf#granblue#orologia#djeeta#fanart#good night and sweet dreams little child#the moon's turned in the boundary's far...
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