#Cupio

[cookiekat-blogz]

halfway through my pride pfp and I’m realizing I might be cupiosexual… 😕

happy pride month especially to the aroace-specs who are still struggling to find an identity that fits

[hydor-graphics]

Cupiogreyromantic Vincian Asexual Cockroach Emoji Recoloured.

★ We take requests.

[pridewishes]

♔ || HIMIKO TOGA ICONS

250x250 || cupioromantic || bordered circle

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requested by anon !!

[fuzziekins]

Disney Say Aro

Charlotte and Anna are hopeless romantics. They love meeting up for a good rom-com and catching up on their romantic lives. But every once in a while, Anna gets the feeling that Lottie is just a little too into it. She goes on and on about these amazing dates she's been on yet they never actually lead to the romantic relationship of her dreams. Anna's considered saying something, but instead opts not to pry and let Lottie come to whatever conclusion on her own eventually. In the meantime, she just enjoys seeing her friend light up talking about her dreams.

This pairing came a little out of left field. I had Princess and the Frog on in the background while trying (and failing) to draw a different pairing but, naturally, kept glancing at the TV. It's so obvious that Charlotte is a romantic at heart. From the time she's been little she's talked about finding her dream prince and getting married. But here's the thing - in real life, that's the kind of thing that's expected, what we're supposed to want. That's the amatonormativity talking. What happens if, even when you think you find the person of your dreams it doesn't fall into place? When the idea of it happening is more appealing than the reality? That's where the term cupioromantic comes in; the desire for a romantic relationship but not (or rarely, hardly, sporadically, etc) feeling romantic attraction. It felt like such an interesting dynamic to play with when it came to Charlotte. It's also a reminder that there's no wrong way to be aromantic. You can enjoy the idea of romance or a romantic novel or movie but not want it for yourself. And that's just as valid as never feeling or wanting anything to do with romance.

From what i could find online, there were a few cupioromantic flags. Most are alternatives to the general cupio flag which would represent both cupiosexual and cupioromantic. I opted to go with the most used flag, but you can use whichever design you gravitate more towards. I almost used the pink from the cupio flag for Lottie because putting her in pink or even red felt so obvious. But i wanted the romantic identity to stand out on its own rather than be tied to the sexual one; because while cupio is both an asexual and aromantic identity, not everyone who is aro identifies as ace. So as strange as it felt to color Lottie in green, it not only made sense to solidify that, yes, this is specifically about an aro identity, but it's also a nod to the bond that she shares with Tiana. Because we all know that Charlotte has always come through for her friend and would choose her over romance any day.

There's also little pan-colored hearts on Anna's shirt at my friend's suggestion because i just couldn't resist throwing in my personal headcannon as Anna being pansexual. 😆

Happy Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week to my fellow aro-specs! 💚 This may not be much, but i hope that every little drawing is enough to help you feel seen, accepted, and validated. With so little representation out there, sometimes we just have to make it ourselves. And if that means continuing to make Disney gay, then i guess we'll just have to keep that going. Hope you enjoyed!

More Queer Disney: x, x, x, x, x, x

[lynn-the-lynn]

Aro relationships are odd

Cupioromantic means wanting a romantic relationship but never feeling attraction towards anyone. It's a microlabel, but it's made me feel very comfortable with myself.

For context, my friends and I are all 16-18. My friends are all alloromantic and in relationships. They went through "honeymoon phases" and such. Based on how they described romance, my mind compared it to an illness.

"You can't HELP it! You will go through a honeymoon phase!"

?

"Its like butterflies in your stomach, nothing feels real in a way..."

???

?????????

I waited for these feelings to show up when I got with my girlfriend but.... nothing. I'm happy around her and she brings so much joy to my life, but it's not the joy my allo friends have described. It's different.

It feels like a loose, warm hug rather than a tight, hot embrace. Nothing changed when started calling her my girlfriend other than her title. Because she's always been so much more than that.

My friends talk about me and her differently since the title change. I don't see anything different. I'm happy to not call her "the girl I've been talking to" tho!

I do wish I had more people who understood. All of my friends got so romantic so fast! It makes me feel childish in a way.

I love my girlfriend. But not that intoxicating teenage love my friends describe. And I'm grateful.

I find myself reminding myself that there's more than one way to love. I'm not a romantic person, and that doesn't make my relationship more or less valid than those of my peers. It's just something that's my speed. 💖🩷🤍💜🩶

Little entry over, see you next time I post

[cupio-culture-is]

Cupio culture is only using the cupio label privately because it's hard enough to get people to understand what (even just) aromantic is let alone a more specific, complicated label.

Cupio culture is...

[xxcalicofemmexx]

cupioromantic wallpapers!

Cupioromantic: Someone who does not feel romantic attraction, but still desires a romantic relationship. A microlabel that implies the user is on the aromantic spectrum

[palatteflags]

Panromantic/Cupiosexual based moodboard~ ^^ For @tinyrainbowshark :) Hope you like how it turned out!!

Want one? Send an ask! -mod Jay

[tokyoghoulaspecs]

can we get nonbinary cupioromantic furuta omg..

[tannuki-in-training]

part 2 of my pride alcremies!! feel free to do whatever with them and comment other flag suggestions <33

[gray-ace-space]

wanna see something.

please consider reblogging ♥

[themogaidragon]

Gay, Cupiosexual, Transmasc, Disabled Cane and Cruch User Pride Flag

PT: Gay, Cupiosexual, Transmasc, Disabled Cane and Cruch User Pride Flag /END PT

ID: a flag with eight horizontal lines, the two middle ones being smaller. Their colours are, from top to bottom, dark orange, orange, pastel orange, grey, yellowish white, pastel green, dark green and purple. In the center of the flag is a symbol of a cane and a crutch, diagonally superimposed, colored with the colors of the disability flag. END ID

ID: the symbol of crutch in black, isolated on a transparent background. END ID

ID: the symbol of crutch in black, isolated on a transparent background. END ID

ID: the symbol of the cane and crutch with the colours of the disability flag, isolated, on a transparent background. END ID

[warriors-pride]

HYPERSEXUAL CUPIOROMANTIC AROACE THISTLECLAW PLEASE>:3

[hydor-graphics]

"Men" Dropdown Text Mobile Phone Pride Wallpaper — Cupiogreyromantic Vincian Asexual Pride Flag Colours

★ We take requests.

[cookiekat-blogz]

determined that I’m keeping all these flags in my profile picture till I figure out wtf I am.

Happy pride month, especially to all the people who are questioning.