#cupioromantic positivity

[xxcalicofemmexx]

cupioromantic wallpapers!

Cupioromantic: Someone who does not feel romantic attraction, but still desires a romantic relationship. A microlabel that implies the user is on the aromantic spectrum

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Requested by whimsiboy

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[your-queer-dad]

hey there dad.

I just wanted to spread some positivity and tell you that I’m finally starting to accept that I’m on the aro spectrum after 6 years of being in denial and that I now identify as cupioromamtic :)

Hey kiddo!! That's amazing, I'm so happy for you!!!!! Congratulations!!! I fully support you!!

- dad x

[genderqueerdykes]

here's to the romance repulsed aromantics. not wanting to date or have a marriage or partnership is okay. it's not unhealthy, shameful or bad to enjoy being single and wanting to stay that way. not wanting to be involved in discussions about romance or other peoples' romantic lives is not a personal attack against the people who have them. not wanting to be touched, called pet names or shown affection is a proper boundary to establish if that's how you feel. not having an interest in fictional romances (romantic comedies, shipping, etc.). is not a moral failing. not wanting to be near or witnessing romantic displays, fictional or real does not make you an asshole.

you are allowed to assert what oversteps your boundaries. you are allowed to curate your experience online and have conversations with those you interact with in real life about your boundaries. you do not owe the world romance or time and attention for it when your needs aren't being met. your experience as an aromantic person deserves to be positive when and where possible, just like anyone else's- you do not deserve to be uncomfortable

[aroacearchangel]

i’m going to say something that might be controversial and i’m sorry if this is cringe or whatever but i can’t sleep:

dan and phil are like. the perfect example of my ideal qpr. have they kissed. maybe. irrelevant. did they form an almost instantaneous soul binding connection within days of meeting in person. yes . are they literally soulmates, as proclaimed by mr howell himself. also yes.

did they design a house to live in together and still have separate closets. also yes . when they’re apart for even a few weeks they are soooooooo sad. i’m just. hooollyyy shitt.

in response to the age old question “are they dating or are they friends?”: does it actually change anything? they’re dan and phil :]

[magpie-murder]

being in a romantic relationship while aromantic is like. i love you, i think as much as you love me, but i will always love you wrong. i've never felt butterflies and my knees don't get weak. i love you like i love music and the moon. but i don't know if you'll ever understand what i mean by that. i will spend every minute of my life trying to make it up to you. i love you, but not correctly. it will bother me even if you don't mind it. i will always be convinced that someone else could love you better. that anyone else could love you better. i will never know what's going on in your head or your heart— more than what happens in mine, at least. surely. i love you. i'm sorry. and mostly i'm just sorry that you happened to fall in love with something like me that cannot ever grasp the part of your soul which drew you to me in the first place. i love you

[eyesthatfollowtheangel]

neeeeed a qpp to do cute "couples" things with. kissing, but as friends. cuddling, but as friends. sending love notes, but as friends. devotion and commitment to each other, because we're best friends - no. more than that. we're partners, but not romantically. fully platonically, because that goes as deep as romance can.

[bizarreaizen]

does anyone else just say the "simpler" version of their identity? like saying i'm a trans aroace gay sounds more simply then saying i'm gendersatyret, genderfaunet, polysexual, oriented aroace, aegoromantic and cupioromantic >.< /gen

[acexualien]

Happy Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week! 🥰💚

[xxcalicofemmexx]

genderfluid cupioromantic wallpapers!

requested by anon

Genderfluid: Someone whose gender identity changes or fluctuates. An umbrella term that refers to a vast variety of individual experiences, and is difficult to fully convey in one paragraph. A common example is someone who is a man sometimes and a woman other times, but this is only one possible experience out of countless. Someone who is genderfluid may be any gender, or any combination of genders, at any given time. Their gender may change at random, it may be different day-to-day, or there may be certain circumstances that trigger a change. A term that is often used as it's own identity, but may also be used as a descriptor. Often considered to be a subcategory of transgender and nonbinary, but not all genderfluid individuals identify that way.

Cupioromantic: Someone who does not feel romantic attraction, but still desires a romantic relationship. A microlabel that implies the user is on the aromantic spectrum

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[artsyaech]

shoutout to aspec folks!

shoutout to asexuals

shoutout to aromantics

shoutout to aplatonics

shoutout to asensuals

shoutout to analterous folks

shoutout to anaesthetics

shoutout to demisexuals

shoutout to demiromantics

shoutout to demiplatonics

shoutout to demisensuals

shoutout to demialterous folks

shoutout to demiaesthetics

shoutout to gray-aces

shoutout to gray-aros

shoutout to gray-any-other-attraction

shoutout to aceflux folks

shoutout to aroflux folks

shoutout to any-other-attraction-flux folks

shoutout to aroaces

shoutout to aroacespecs

shoutout to aegosexuals

shoutout to aegoromantics

shoutout to aego-any-other-attraction

shoutout to cupiosexuals

shoutout to cupioromantics

shoutout to cupio-any-other-attraction

shoutout to acespikes

shoutout to arospikes

shoutout to any-other-attraction-spikes

shoutout to reciprosexuals

shoutout to reciproromantics

shoutout to reciproaroaces

shoutout to recipro-any-other-attraction

shoutout to alloaces

shoutout to alloaros

shoutout to omniaspecs

shoutout to eclectio aroaces

shoutout to sex-favorable aces

shoutout to sex-indifferent aces

shoutout to sex-repulsed aces

shoutout to aces who enjoy sex as an activity

shoutout to aces who enjoy erotic media

shoutout to romance-favorable aros

shoutout to romance-indifferent aros

shoutout to romance-repulsed aros

shoutout to aros who enjoy romantic media

shoutout to aros whose favorite type of media is romance

shoutout to autosexuals

shoutout to autoromantics

shoutout to auto-any-other-attraction

shoutout to autospecs

shoutout to bellussexuals

shoutout to bellusromantics

shoutout to bellus-any-other-attraction

shoutout to quoisexuals

shoutout to quoiromantics

shoutout to quoi-any-other-attraction

shoutout to fraysexuals

shoutout to frayromantics

shoutout to fray-any-other-attraction

shoutout to apothisexuals

shoutout to apothiromantics

shoutout to apothi-any-other-attraction

shoutout to orchidsexuals

shoutout to orchidromantics

shoutout to orchid-any-other-attraction

shoutout to loveless folks

shoutout to lovequeer folks

shoutout to acespec folks who don't specifically label themselves

shoutout to arospec folks who don't specifically label themselves

shoutout to acespecs who experience sexual attraction

shoutout to arospecs who experience romantic attraction

shoutout to acespecs who experience romantic attraction

shoutout to arospecs who experience sexual attraction

all of y'all are valid as hell

[arenabreadandbiscuits]

Asexual issues #1

Having to explain that asexuality is a spectrum and not just "yeah I like sex" or "no I f*cking hate it" all the time.

It's a spectrum for a reason, let's try not to accidentally invalidate others.

[joestarkisser]

Arospec selfshippers are amazing!

Aromantic selfshippers?

Aroflux selfshippers?

Arospike selfshippers?

Arofluid selfshippers?

Loveless Aro selfshippers?

Frayromantic selfshippers?

Lithromantic selfshippers?

Bellusromantic selfshippers?

Acoromantic selfshippers?

Acriromantic selfshippers?

Amoraromantic selfshippers?

Autiaro selfshippers?

Cupioromantic selfshippers?

Cassromantic selfshippers?

And any other selfshippers with an arospec identity?

Your F/Os all respect you and your identity regardless of what it is!