#A DISABLED IN HIGH POINT
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CANDIDO ARE YOU CRAZY
YOU HAVE TO GIVE
ALL
YOUR
PASSWORDS
TO ICE NOW
WITH THE IMMIGRATION
GOOD LUCK WITH THE SECURITY QUESTIONS
YOU'RE GOIN BACK TO ALTAMIRANO
ON SOME MARRIAGE FRAUD SHIT
BTW MARCELO NEVER FUCKING SWINDLED ME
I FUCKED THAT SEXY BOLIVIAN CAUSE I WANTED TO
IDGAF NEITHER BITCH
DAT N*GGA SMART AND HANDSOME AF
SO IF YALL WANNA COME TO THE COOKOUT
YALL GONNA HAVE TO CONTACT MARCELO MALDONADO SALINAS, DEYVIS ERNESTO VASQUEZ-SOTO, AND JOHN/JUAN LAST NAME UNKNOWN HAHA WHAT AUS MEXIKO OKAY NOOOOOOOOOOO JOHN IS MY NEW HUSBAND HAHA DAMN SON WHERED'Y OU FIND THIS
#ooooooooh#HE GOING TO DO THE PROPOSING#NO#FUCK MARRIAGE#LMAO#GIVE ME THE MONEYYYY#FOR THE FAMILY LAW#ON SOME ADULTERY SHIT#BUT ELECTRA YOU CHEATED TOO#THAT IS CORRECT#BUT AT LEAST I NEVER FUCKED KATHY#A DISABLED IN HIGH POINT#THAT'S HORRIBLE
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in case you need to hear this
workout because its good for your heart, lungs, releases endorphins, and you want to get stronger. not because it’ll make you skinny or make your body look a certain way.
wear sunscreen every day in order to protect yourself from easily preventable and deadly skin cancer, not with the goal of preventing aging (there is nothing wrong with aging or wrinkles; it is a natural part of life and reflection of the life you live).
eat more vegetables because you need the fiber to make you more regular, they help lower your risk of eye and digestive problems, and they help in nutrient re-uptake. not because eating only carbs is “bad” for you. you need a combination of carbs, fruit/veg, protein, fiber, fat, etc for a full balanced diet.
cut out dairy from your diet if it makes you shit your brains out every single time without fail, not because it will “make you fat”.
drink more water because, despite how annoying it is to be told “just drink water”, it does actually make you feel better if you’re anxious or your head hurts or you don’t have any energy. not because it’ll “flush out your immune system uwu” or it will make your skin clear.
drink green tea because its delicious, not because it’s a “natural detox”. ( “detoxes” aren’t real. your kidneys detoxify your blood for you)
not everything “natural” is automatically healthy for you. not everything “unnatural” is automatically unhealthy/dangerous
cutting out whole food groups and labeling them as “bad for you” in any form is restrictive. if you aren’t allergic to gluten, you don’t need to cut gluten from your diet in order to be healthy. if you were not specifically instructed by a doctor to go keto in order to aid treatment for a disease (such as cancer or epilepsy), you do not and should not go keto.
do “healthy” things because you deserve to live a long, healthy life. yes, you. your weight doesn’t matter and it has never mattered. you deserve to keep yourself safe.
#anti diet#anti diet culture#mental health#body neutrality#self care#self love#also note: this is not me saying that being physically healthy/without issue is the only thing a person needs to have value.#people who aren't healthy have value#disabled people have value#everyone has value regardless of their appearance/weight#thats the point#thoughts on diet culture while i am a bit high#listen to me im right
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The only thing I have to say about the autism support needs & masking discourse:
There are people who haven't been talked to like a baby by a stranger in real life, and it shows.
#autism#high support needs#actually autistic#autism things#masking#tw infantilization#i am visibly autistic/disabled#and i know my fellow autistics and disabled friends who have higher support needs know what I'm talking about#I'm too tired to get involved#but a lot of friends have interesting and valid points#i know that a lot of folks are helped by things being broken down and That's fine#im that way sometimes too#I'm talking about others being condescending and assuming your needs without talking to you like anyone else#because of being visibly autistic
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re: last post: i think some of you are conflating correlation with causation tbh. like there’s a lot of neurodivergent gifted kids but gifted kids are not inherently neurodivergent, its a different phenomenon
#tbh its giving ‘’autism is NOT a disability and youre ableist to autistics if you say that’’#or like. idk i notice that a lot of nd people that are low needs are pretty shitty to nd people who have high needs#like as if to go ‘’oh THOSE people dont REPRESENT the community. we’re the REAL community because we can talk normal hehe <3’’#and i dont think thats what those people specifically are doing but idk#echoed voice#the most bizarre interactions ive had are when i mention the ableism around autism#and people go ‘’???? why on EARTH would anyone hate an autistic person? theyre so smart! id love to hang with one!’’#and im like oh you do not live on the same plane of existence as me wtf#bonus points: later that same person interacts with an autistic person and freaks out and gets pissed off#so trying to go ‘’oh Being Smart counts as being neurodivergent!’’ sets off red flags to me#bc my automatic question is just. ok how do you act around nd people that you deem ‘’stupid’’
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29/6 - valentino
11/7 - marc
both 'pecco doesn't have to prove that he earned those titles by beating the marc marquez' and 'pecco should embrace the challenge of testing himself against the marc marquez' are takes I fundamentally agree with, but of course there's still something fun about how it's basically mind games by proxy from these two. neither of them are wrong! but the contrast is still pleasing. it stems from their fundamentally oppositional relationships wrt pecco, where valentino functions as The Mentor and marc functions as The Rival. valentino is emphasising pecco's existing status in the sport by offering a reminder of the world championships he already has, in order to minimise the importance of next year's battle and the pressure on his protege. marc is emphasising the status imbalance between himself and pecco by offering a reminder of how marc has more titles than pecco, in order to heighten the importance of next year's battle and increase the pressure on his rival. the two statements end up mirroring each other quite nicely, right?
you see it in how valentino positions the battle as something that's been hyped as the press, as something that's more illusory than 'real', versus marc implicitly challenging pecco by saying pecco should surely be seeking to challenge him. valentino will not go so far as to suggest pecco will beat marc - all he's saying is the outcome does not reflect on the fact that pecco WAS already the strongest (past tense). valentino's removed from the action, he can't make any promises on behalf of another rider, he deliberately refrains from placing more pressure on pecco by engaging in any way with his chances of winning next year... whereas marc very much argue his own case, saying that he believes he will win at least one more title (which would most likely involve beating pecco). valentino says pecco doesn't need this challenge, whereas marc suggests pecco should want it. and more than that - what marc is saying the challenge isn't just facing marc on the same bike, it's the fact that pecco's team decided to put him there. that they invited marc into pecco's house. marc speaks of all that pecco has to lose, while valentino speaks of all that pecco cannot have taken away from him
I don't want to read too much into the phrasing here since I'm aware the translation may be imperfect... but valentino both explicitly ("he will have a very uncomfortable teammate") AND implicitly "[pecco] has everything he needs to keep up with [marc]") acknowledges just how big a challenge this will be. uncomfortable - not just because marc is hard to beat but because he is a bastard of a teammate. keep up - not even beat, because just matching marc isn't going to be easy. and marc isn't being shy either about how hard defeating him will be for pecco, pointing out they will be on equal machinery for the first time, that marc still has more titles, that pecco still hasn't shown he has what it takes to match marc under those circumstnaces. still, marc is coming for pecco because right now pecco's on top of the mountain - pecco is the one with the results, the momentum, the "mental stability" (jorge martin girl stand up)
I don't know. I'm really fond of how pecco has ended up being positioned between the two of them. pecco's unique narrative role is such that if anything, the marc/valentino axis is de-emphasised. it still matters, but it's very much the hypotenuse. this isn't just a continuation of an old feud, it's not just two legacies facing off or the title race or any of that - because it's pecco's legacy that's being litigated as much as anything else. pecco's primary objective is not protecting valentino's title count, and valentino's advisory role is centred around pecco's objectives rather than his own... his desires and hopes in that capacity are subservient to pecco's. marc isn't there primarily to match/overtake valentino, he's there to beat the current king in his own castle and to win titles for himself. they mirror each other and oppose each other... but ultimately, it's still pecco who currently sits at the centre of that triangle. he's the one who the other two are primarily focused on. quite a unique position, especially for a rider who has been so publicly wrestled with how he compares to those particular legends of the sport. quite the task ahead of him. quite the challenge
#what if u were SUCH a determined wee ferret that u hauled urself and ur non-alien talent to the centre of a narrative triangle with 2 goats#like he was SUCH a flop at times and now these two guys he has such *gestures* issues about are like. all in on him#genuinely given pecco's performance patterns if i were valentino i'd tell him his entire legacy is on the line next year#sitting pecco down and explaining slowly to him twenty times that this IS going to be hard and the stakes are VERY high#please do NOT let marc get ten million points ahead in the championship before getting your season going#pecco. are you listening to me. every race is a title decider okay? this is valencia. we are in valencia pecco are you listening to me#//#brr brr#disabling reblogs because 90% of takes on this topic make me break out in hives and whenever I post something shorter -#- there's a heightened risk of it escaping into the ecosystem and suddenly I'm seeing tags that give me a jump scare#not any of you lot!! you're all lovely!! it's the second or third order reblogs where it really falls apart#yeah that's right i'm saying your followers and your followers' followers SUCK (i'm kidding i'm kidding)#usually my immediate takes in response to stuff remain between me and god (google doc/whatsapp) but here. have a free hot take#current tag#idol tag
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winter depression is here and I am ANNOYED about it
#not really a vent in tags. just bitching about it lmao#i am a creative extrovert who suddenly does not want to create or talk to people!#but i have been through this more than enough times to know that i need to start doing those things MORE#as to not get dragged into the depression spiral#and like for a lot of people it's just 'get outside more'#but my disabled ass isn't easily able to do that so it's just 'text more. discord more. draw more. read more. inside things more.'#which does work for me but is harder in some ways#i do not miss high school but at least it got me out of the house some#at least I do enjoy christmastime. i like the lights and the vibes and the winter flavors and scents of things#so i have that in the next few weeks to lean into#like idk. i know how to deal with this. i do it every year. it's more annoying than anything at this point#like. oh okay. life feels like a cloudy grey parking lot. again. it'll go away eventually.#and until then i just need to be a Normal Person About Everything if i feel like it or not#hate that feeling of going through the motions. everything is just emotional grey static
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btw not to be a disabled poor piss baby but the way ppl (SPECIALLY americans) treat struggling to recall things deemed common sense that you learned in school/straight up not knowing them as some personal moral failure is fucking weird lmao.every education system has a problem w failing disabled kids that cant follow along typical learning by just letting them fall behind w zero ways to catch up n my country has an issue w teenagers dropping out to support their families so they dont starve to death so it just rlyyy doesnt sit right w me when ppl claim if you cant remember some random fuck middle school class fact youre an idiot that doesnt remember bc you dont want to.i dont know how to explain to you all if a CHILD is being failed by adults to be taught smth its literally not their fault specially when in nearly all cases its bc of outside factors (i mentioned disability n poverty here but lets not forget stuff like abused kids being unable to focus due to stress or bc they lack a safe environment to study at home, for example)
idk ig my point is not everyone had a great home life w a stable financial situation n zero genetic conditions that let them get head pats from adults for being good at memorizing books, n its weird af to want to be superior than ppl who didnt have those bc its literally not our fault that as CHILDREN we were failed by adults n nowadays only managed (at BEST scenario, remember lots of ppl nowadays still cant even read bc they didnt even get the chance to do elementary) to remember actual essential basics that let us get by n not high school physics trivia.also if all those things r suuuuch big common sense idk why yall want to feel better than us for knowing them, by your own reasoning theyre completely worthless knowledge everyone has, no point in showing off you know smth like that, but ig at the end of the day its all abt feeling special for having success handed to you in a silver plate compared to the losers not born as lucky
#analiceoriginal.txt#sorry this kind of attitude pisses me off so bad at such a deep level#not just bc i failed so much school stuff bc i was being neglected of having disabilities acknowledged#but bc ever since we were little we were always told abt the issue w kids not managing to finish school due to financial issues#i had friends whose parents had to teach themselves how to read to work.i had friends whose parents joined#a special adult class my elementary school hosted so they could at least graduate that#n to see ppl like them? like me? getting shamed bc we didnt get the opportunity to learn worthless fucking trivia?#its filth.i hate being open i genuinely am upset by smth but i have no respect whatsoever for the kind of ppl this post is abt.#n again abused kids!!! how the fuck is it their fault? the system ENABLES ABUSE to the point some kids die bc of it#kids who run away from home too! how the fuck is it their moral failure they cant remember a fucking high school class they might not even#have had?#n this applies to this godamn website bc you ppl shame others who struggle w your deemed intellectual subjects all the fucking time#its embarrassing jesus christ#sorry just.absolutely no fucking respect for ppl who struggled to even make it alive past 18.bc we cant remember your little facts.
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yoooo ok that last job turning out to be bullshit might actually be a blessing in disguise because I just landed an interview for an after school theater teacher gig that pays way better~ I went to theater camp every year from ages 12 to 17 and always loved the idea of being a counselor for a program like that, and did backstage / dramaturg work for a play at UCSB back in pre-pandemic 2020 so I might actually have a shot at this. Wish me luck!
#so far I have a 100% rate of getting the job offer after interviews#ended up turning down the offer I got yesterday as it was a bit too high stakes for me at this point in my life#I take working with kids--especially kids with intellectual disabilities--super seriously#and I just don't think I'm ready to be a para-educator especially since that's not exactly the career path I want to go down in the long ru#but yeah for whatever reason I always do really good with interviews#my resume isn't anything special but when I get a chance to turn on the rizz I usually get the gig#perks of being an awkward neurodivergent kid who had no concept of social cues is that I had to learn it all from scratch#so I'm actually pretty good at being very friendly and personable and telling potential employers what they want to hear#without coming across as phony#partially because I do genuinely like chatting with people#personal
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been thinking abt it more and it is genuinely baffling how allergies aren't generally treated as disabilities... our little sister has a life threatening peanut and hazelnut allergy and seeing what she and our mom have had to deal with is wild. it's such a simple thing. to keep people informed about the ingredients in the food they are eating and keeping classrooms and other spaces free from allergens that people in those spaces can't be around.
#our sister also doesnt see herself as disabled#i dont think our mom even does#which is objectively fine ig but like. allergies are a disability.#same way like glasses are an aid#but its just very normalized to the point where people dont see it as a disability bc of like#the connotations of the word. people dont want to be disabled#but like. there being a food where if it enters your body there is a high likelihood you will die. thats a disability LMAO#and the state of accomodations for people with allergies are so bad#like our sister wasnt allowed to carry her epipen herself until like... high school?#and even then there was like a ton of hoops to jump through#not to mention the costs associated with life threatening allergies in terms of epipens and other medication and#visiting a doctor and/or allergist like. yeah#and most people are too indifferent to human life to care about not exposing allergic ppl to allergens 🙃#confluence.txt
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Marvel Comics Presents (1988) #75
#of course this makes me think of the response to Logan’s original mutation in Wolverine: The Origin (2001)#where he was immediately decried as an animal#but also how he developed amnesia there#as his brain’s way of protecting him from the traumatic event which caused the physical transformation#but was so extreme that he would have been doomed if he didn’t have Rose to take care of him#because he was confused and didn’t know anything#he became disabled to the point of needing a high level of care/direction for a time#it feels cyclical to have these elements again at Logan’s second transformation#but now this has been done to him on purpose#and he will be manipulated in his vulnerable state#‘his subconscious stripped bare… cut from his very soul… and scored to the bone’#marvel#logan howlett#my posts#comic panels
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@heartofstanding tagged me in this meme months ago and unfortunately it took me this long to get to it because I had a mild crisis over how long it's been since I've read a novel, let alone one that I loved 😅 so this is nine of my favourite novels (not books, because if I included manga/short stories/comics/etc this would be giant)
0The Picture of Dorian Gray -- Oscar Wilde// Pyrrhus-- Mark Merlis//The Scarecrow--Ronald Hugh Morrieson//Unnatural History--Kate Osman//Tunnels of Blood--Darren Shan//The Coffin Dancer--Jeffery Deaver//Hero--Perry Moore//Frankenstein--Mary Shelley//One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest-- Ken Kasey
#TPODG I feel like is obvious. But a genuinely hilarious book that is also poignant and tragic and so /so/ compelling#The more work you put into it the more you get out of it and I get so sad every time I see people#not wanting to look deeper than what's beyond the surface#Pyrrhus gets the extremely high honour of Greek Myth Retelling That is Actually Good#it's less about the Trojan War and more about the journey there set in the 1980s gay scene#the cursed spot that gets Philoctetes abandoned is an effective allegory right until the moment it isn't an allegory at all#and you should see the gut punch coming but somehow you don't#The Scarecrow is my Token Kiwi Representation and it's also the one that got me into the genre I now write almost exclusively#reading it feels like watching a cheesy low budget slasher that accidentally says some really interesting things about sexism and misogyny#(I say accidentally because it is the 20s and my tutor very loudly hated this book for being sexist)#(and I both totally agree and disagree because Prue is the prototypical final girl and needs an adaptation that does her justice)#Also the story of this novel's publication is freaking hilarious and why I will only write under a pseudonym because I would be next#Unnatural History is an exact blueprint of what I love about sci-fi done well in the way we've only very recently started to see on screen#and I hate that the show of Doctor Who rarely if ever reaches this level#Tunnels of Blood is my favourite of the Darren Shan Saga but really is just a stand in for the entire series#yes it's a kids series but it's a kid series that got me into horror and surrealism#and delivers the most effective and heartbreaking plot twist that not even Hannibal pulled off as well#The Coffin Dancer is just some damn good crime fiction and I wish Jeffery Deaver wasn't so slept on#(yes I know The Bone Collector got an adaptation but The Bone Collector isn't even in the top ten of the Lincoln Rhyme series)#unfortunately Deaver's strongest point is his use of point of view#but he still manages to get the twist to be shocking (and Coffin Dancer is the best example of it) in a way that other media fails at#Hero is about a gay disabled teen with superpowers and somehow tumblr does not know about it#It is such a fun riff on superheroes while also being genuinely sweet and touching and sad#It was meant to get a tv show but the writer passed so it got stuck in production hell :(#Frankenstein is Frankenstein. It's just good on like every level. Victor is my problematic fave. I will take no criticism.#I am however on my knees hoping the Guillermo Del Toro adaptation finally gets it right#one flew over the cuckoo's nest means so much to me but no one ever talks about it beyond the Ratched and Mcmurphy stuff#who are the least interesting characters to me. And I find the debate about the sexism ignores that the novel is about the structural abuse#of the mentally ill
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So understandably we're back to talking about the quality of the Seine again. (The Paralympics are on now, with competition having started just today!!)
So hear me out: swimming in open water is literally part of the sport. They... have to have done worse than this, right? When I was watching the Olympic marathon swim (open water, in the Seine), the commentators were talking for a while about how yeah this is pretty decent really, a lot of these athletes (read: ones who are primarily marathon swimmers rather than primarily/exclusively pool swimmers who were like "fuck it, why not") have swum marathons in worse just this year.
And now like people are going "oh no, not the Seine again, protect the poor Paralympians!" which like FIRST of all somehow the language being used is rubbing me the wrong way SO hard (it's giving "Paralympians are delicate and must be coddled" which... holy shit do you actually KNOW any Paralympians?? I do, actually! She could lay me or just about any one of my able-bodied friends flat if she wanted to. That might even include my Olympian friend lmao.)
...and SECOND of all... these are triathletes. Like, they see the same conditions (water, air, all of it) as triathletes who aren't part of para-sport. They chose this sport. Not only that, they chose this sport so hard that they're the best in the whole world at this sport! They're full-grown adults making their own decisions regarding their health and their sport! Respect those decisions and stop treating them like they don't know what's going on! They do!
Now none of this is to say that the people working on the Seine should at any point here stop absolutely busting their asses in trying to ensure that the river is as safe and clean as possible (I will be fucking furious if they stop!). But the reasons they absolutely should keep on that are a hell of a lot more complex than, clutches pearls "but think of the wee children Paralympians!"
#debating tagging this properly but I'm just thinking out loud tbh#I didn't say this in the main body of text because on some level it kind of isn't the point but#8 of... 237 total athletes (if I did my maths right) got sick after swimming in the Seine#now that number includes some people twice because some people were in two events where they swam in the Seine#therefore if someone was exposed to the river water twice they were counted twice#that's about 3.3% of athletes who got sick after swimming in the Seine#which doesn't SOUND very high?? but the problem is I don't know how to come about statistics of say...#how many athletes got sick after running the marathon? after swimming races in the pool? after gymnastics?#what exactly is the average rate of exposure to illness at a large event in (what for most people is) a foreign country with unfamiliar foo#and unfamiliar drinking water (which yes can be a thing)#(and it's also hard to prove that any of those illnesses actually correlate to the swimming; just to - lol - muddy the waters further)#regarding my friends: I'm not naming any names because neither of them are open-water swimmers and I'm not dragging them into this#especially my Paralympian friend who (as you might imagine) has yet to compete this Paralympics!#I'm still just so mad about the tone of the conversation tbh#“these whole-ass disabled adults are babby and must be protecc” like... ugghhhhhhhhh#this post took me like an hour and a half to write son of a bitch#oh fuck it#paralympics
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When people simply give the response of "why woldnt you just use magic to stop making them disable" when the argument of disable people in fantasy settings is brought up always fail to ever explain why or how that would happend, wich is honestly what makes their argument so boring
Ok, all disabilities are cured, why?
Is it somehow illegal to be disable? Is there a reason they need everyone to be nondisable? Is the practice like a simple surgery or is it goverment mandatory?
How ethical is it? How is it done? What about invisible disabilities? What about ones that are created later on in life?
Does a person's class affect if/when/how they can get healed? Do lower class somehow get healed "worse"? Whos doing the healing? At what age would this "healing" be appropiate? Do people need to pay for it?
You can do whatever you want with your fantasy world but the awnser of just "Just bcs" is lazy and stupid, it adds so much dept when you analise how or why these things happend in your society and how does it affect it
#magic#witch hat atelier did it perfectly#but that manga does everything good so thats a high standar#i will say read it if you want to understand how disabilities would work in these points i mention#(wich most if not all are explained/implied in the manga)#disability#fantasy#fantasy setting#fiction
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on god tho
I just want this disability check to go through so that i can spend my limited spoons on cleaning my house and drawing shitty fanart of ships and self insert drawings
#Sundae Stories#Mental health#Mental illness#Disability#Im making light of the situation but i really do need it. My job is just ICK. Mentally and literally speaking#Making the probationary period is a double edge sword at this point.#Ill power through it#But i want better for myself#Heck. With the disability checks i could save up and buy a high end laptop so that i can finally learn how to code efficiently
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People who have high support needs still deserve respect, agency and privacy. They shouldn’t be treated like children and even children shouldn’t be treated like high security prisoners.
#honestly at a certain point it’s like okay chill on the high security prisoners#disability#human rights
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#i feel like im gonna pass out#do antivoting people really think that anyone on this website thinks voting in US elections is going to solve all our problems#is it a failure to grasp the concept of damage control/harm reduction? is that what's going on?#fucking hell you guys i'd vote in any election if it meant that a single persons life materially improved 😭#if it gets 1% easier to get disability income or a dozen fewer people are deported than last year or what fucking ever tiny difference#those are Real Human Lives that probably aren't yours and that you can easily pretend don't exist or matter for your shitty high ground#but i personally i want people to be safe. and i don't think that making a theoretical point to someone who doesn't care is worth it.
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