#; reminders

[night-dark-woods]

ID. a photo of a cream-colored dog sitting in a partially submerged camp chair. it looks forlorn. text on the image reads, "its going to be okay, but its going to be different." End ID.

[invitetoislam92]

[17panicattacksinatrenchcoat]

forget genres. there will always be a niche to appreciate your work.

[thereigningqueen]

Oh ouch I felt that one.

Friendly reminder: when people say ‘as long as you tried your best’ it doesn’t mean ‘the best you could possibly have done ever’ it means ‘the best you were capable of at the time.’ Sometimes ‘trying your best’ is just getting out of bed in the morning. Just because you weren’t working yourself to the bone doesn’t mean you weren’t trying your best. 

[heraldofcrow]

Reminders for today

Art recap post to document progress

Finish answering asks in inbox

Eat @katyspersonal

2024 Dash War Highlight post

Finish editing two chapters of two different fics and publish

Eat @katyspersonal

Try to catch up on SOME tag games

Wish the squad a happy new year

Go into foggy woods and summon Nosferatu

Eat @katyspersonal

Clean out some tumblr drafts

[transvampireboyfriend]

i think "it takes a village" shouldn't be just "to raise a child". we should understand it takes a village to do literally everything we do. all day every day. without our communities we would not have drinking water or electricity or clean streets or food or shelter or anything. we cannot do any thing alone. we just can't. and with that comes the fact that you are not alone. you already have a community, seek to be an active part of it, you will feel better. reach out and thank them, they're happy to have you too. i promise. it takes a village to live.

[loredwy]

It may be surprising to hear but most people dont really notice something is wrong unless others point it out. And sometimes when they hear someone point it out they just go with the flow because "they probably know more than me" or "they sound convincing enough".

Thats why "fake it till you make it" works. If they do notice, then you can mention you already knew or whatever, but if they dont mention it first? act as if those problems never happened. Chances are they wont really think your work is as bad as you think it is.

you'll get the urge as an artist or a writer to say out loud the things you're worried about "the proportions are off" "kind of out of character" "i'm not good at summaries" "didn't get as much detail as i wanted" "i made a mistake and here's how" and that's the self-conscious part of your brain telling you "it's bad and if you don't tell them you know it's bad then they'll think you're stupid" but you've got to ignore that little voice and pretend you think it's good or else that little voice is going to ruin your life

[recoverr]

i don't know who needs to hear this, but guilt, self-hatred and shame are not sustainable sources of growth and healing. you can't hate yourself into feeling better, or being better. you can't repeatedly punish yourself for your flawed humanity and expect wholesome results.

[orchidbreezefc]

i made a variant of [link: two cakes] to illustrate a related principle

[octoberloved]

[potato-face09]

[positiveseed]

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Please consider each rarepair and vote for the ship you like the best / find the most interesting / that compels you the most / etc.

NieShui from Grandmaster of Demonic Cultivation & Heaven Official’s Blessing

Characters: Nie Mingjue (MDZS) x Shi Wudu (TGCF)

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Characters: Original Luo Binghe (Bingge) x Mobei-jun

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[Please be kind and respectful in the notes. Anti-Propaganda is NOT allowed.]

[nando161mando]

no one for president 2024

[spac3y-d0g]

shoutout if you hyperfixate

Shoutout if you say sorry to everything

shoutout if you have trouble speaking for yourself

shoutout if you overthink

shoutout if you snap for no reason

shoutout if you use neopronouns

shoutout if you don’t use pronouns

shoutout if youre part of the lgbtqai+

shoutout if youre trying your best

shoutout if you can’t handle every day life

shoutout if you don’t fit in your body/species

shoutout if you made it through yesterday <3

Adding more because it made me so happy to read through the comments and reblogs :3

shoutout if you’re 1 minute clean

shoutout if you successfully made it out of a abusive household/relationship

shoutout if you’re stuck in a abusive household/relationship

shoutout if you can’t communicate your needs

shoutout if you can’t love anybody in a romantic way

shoutout if you don’t know your gender/sexuality

shoutout if people don’t understand how your brain works

shoutout if you’re disabled

shoutout if you’re a person of color

shoutout if you don’t fit into stereotypes

shoutout if you do fit into stereotypes

shoutout if you love to fast

shoutout if you made it out of bed this morning

shoutout if you ate some food today

shoutout if youre hydrated right now

shoutout if youre trying your best to take care of your self <3

Whelp gotta edit this again bc of how many hate I'm getting with my "your" and not "you're" (dw I've deleted most of them) :(