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muckmagister · 6 months ago

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Stop being horny. That's weird

alright just give me like 30 minutes

#worst possible response i think #whoops!#posting this like i'm dropping a grenade at my feet #askmuck #lascivious

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maricoelquelolea · 1 year ago

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Recently decided to re-read Impulse because he’s my fav and this particular character development has been living in my head for years and years

(Issue 23- Issue 66)

#Bart Allen #Impulse #Max Mercury #thaddeus thawne #I always think how the very first issue of impulse starts out with him writing about how he thinks Iris is the only one who’s ever loved him #And of course Thad’s a beautiful parallel because his anger derives over the same frustrated feeling. That no one has ever really loved him #but there’s also the fact that like Bart clearly loves and cares for the people that surround him very early on he’s just.#like right after that happens in issue 23 he inmediately starts behaving as properly as possible to appease max #who’s understandably pissed but hasn’t really explained why to Bart and he’s clearly wanting to get any form of response #(average neurodivergent kid when they say something off and no one bothers to explain to him the why just assume the worst)#and like the point is that he doesn’t need to learn how to love people he just needs to adjust his parameters basically #and I love that because it means that his clear neurodivergence isn’t treated as a flaw or something wrong #in the next issue after 66 he once again drifts off and has trouble focusing on a convo and max is still looking at with pride and fondness #I just love Bart a lot man I don’t know

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moeblob · 9 months ago

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There was a post I saw about someone who mutually ghosted a guy after a date and kept matching with him and they're not interested but it's the longest "relationship" the person had been in at that point and I'm like. Karen would mutually ghost someone.

She doesn't really tell Brent/Right/Evelyn/Chris his name (he has a double first name, Patrick is not his last name) and just refers to him as "My Guy". Like "Ah damn, My Guy matched again. End my suffering." And when she tries to explain it to Right who does NOT understand how it's different, her logical answer is "it's my God given right to ghost a polite man!"

Also I just imagine her confiding in Paul about Rick and he's like "is his name Patrick" and she's like "kinda". And after that, Paul calls him "Pattycakes" cause he's never even seen the guy so why not give him a funny little nickname. He's allowed to do so at this point probably.

#my characters #also i just think it would be so funny to have him walk into the bar when karen and the boys are all there #and she sees him and is like OH MY GOD ITS MY GUY AND HE HAS A WOMAN WITH HIM I have to go congratulate him #and she jumps out of the booth to go say hi to him and the rest of her group is staring with wide eyes because whomst #and then her shoulders drop and the guy looks nervous and then karen is just gesturing to her group #and she walks him over and is like hey this is my guy and his cousin i hate my life #and then introduces rick to her friends/coworkers in the worst way ever like.... so lackluster #thats right and hes gay and pining and possibly dating #thats brent and hes pining and possibly dating #thats chris and he might have a divorce on his track record (HEY!) but we still love him #and thats paul the disaster bisexual currently pining #she sighs then points to the bar and goes AND I GUESS ILL INCLUDE the pining hot bartender in the introductions #everyone meet rick and his cousin and rick is like oh ! paul! hes your best friend!#cause he KNOWS that name from their ONE DATE that they both pretend didn't happen #and paul is just sunshine and flowers and beaming like oh ?? OH ??? KAREN? BESTIE? MY BEST FRIEND?#and she blushes and glares at rick because DOES THAT LOOK LIKE A FACE THAT CAN HANDLE COMPLIMENTS YOU JERK look what you did to him #and rick is v sorry and feels bad about it cause hes really just some random polite guy and thats why it would never work #hes too nice for karen and she CRAVES the teasing THE BANTER THE LANGUAGE and no hes just nice bye #so he leaves with his cousin to get some drinks and walks back over after hes done #and stares at paul as he says wow the bartender really is pining like you said in response to karen and paul wants to melt into his seat #therefore karen will forgive her guy for telling paul he was her best friend (its true tho) bc he made paul embarrassed #and he smiles at her and says bye and she just nods and is like yup talk to you next time we match #and its never romantic its always platonic #they are always going to match but its NEVER going to go beyond friends #though they do become friends and hang out eventually!#yes you can tell i thought about this A LOT on the drive #oops i fell in love

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nomairuins · 3 months ago

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i like overthink everything now it makes me feel so dumb. i used 2 be able to just talk 2 ppl but nowadays every single thing im like Is that actually going to make them hate me. Yes probably. and then i just dont respond which makes ppl hate me. this is how it is

#ive been overthinking 1 light and casual mildly funny response to something but im worried itll come off as disrespectful and dismissive And #make me seem stupid and uncaring all at the same time. and also be seen as insulting. but like idt itd be insulting right like. im not #saying what it is so ig for all you guys know im like I mean if i say All your shit suck ball and i hateit kys. <- thats not the thing i was #going to say #like it doesnt matter now the window for response is closed now but i feel stupid bc i shouldve just said it it was light and casual. im so #bad at keeping convos gojng im convinced im not going to survive. In like a light and casual way like in a He will not make it through the #winter joke way. dw. im not going to do anything bc i had One failed interaction. if i was going to do anythjng itd be bc of the 8000000 #other failed interactions. But im not. anyways. it just makes me feel so useless 😭 like i want to respond i want to talk to ppl so bad but #i feel like i mess things up Irreparably every time i speak OR i take too LONG overthinking my response and then i just cant respond bc its #been too long and then its been 3 years and the only messages ive ever sent r my intro message and 1 message 2 years ago that nobody #responded to at all. or the conversation stopped immediately after. and like i used to be better at this i was lkke. talkative in a couple #muts servers like. i talked 2 ppl daily in those servers and i had fun and like. I was an important part of the group and i felt like it #but i just feel like such an outsider for Everything and its literally my fault bc i cant just like. Talk. The explosion. bc im always like #im gonna try im gonna do it this time im gonna get it back im going to finally be Good connor and im going to fix it all and make a Good #solid friend group and ill find HEALTHY LOVE and i wont selfsabotage and ill move out and have a job and ill balance it well and ill start #all my hobbies and ill have a great routine and be so loveable and on top of it and not stressed and content and happy and roll with the #punches and then theres a single hiccup and im like Well fuckinf whatever im going to be an unemployed hermit forever and im going to die b4 #im 25 anyways so Who cares and also im digging a little hole for myself. and its like. AUGHH ik i just have to persevere and overcome but #even saying that feels so stupid its not fucking hard its Talking to ppl. like. i literally if ive ever said a word to you i had to think #avt it and strategize how to respond right even for like. like. it makes it sound like its not genuine it is #like for example i want to say hey i love your art! but then i freak out and im like thats not normal thats like a rly generic comment they #hear that all the time theyll thjnk im being polite and my brains like hrmmm rewrite Your art changed my life. It shaped me. Ill never be #the same. Nad im like ok too far overcorrected go back and the sentence generator is like Your art has colors 💯 like. GOD. WHY IS IT SO #difficult. and then usually i either just dont say anythinf and feel awful abt it 4ever OR i send it on anon and then i spend like 15 #minutes ibsessively slightly tweaking the apelling and capitalization and punctuation to make sure it doesnt seem like its me just in case #it Is the worst possible thing to say but then i see the response and itll be like AWWW TYSM :] THIS MEANS A LOT or whathaveyou and i feel #stupid bc i couldve just Told them this to their face and it wouldve been a good positive interaction we had. but instead i had 2 hide and #tyoe entirely differently so they couldnt sniff me from my typing style. and it soesnt even feel like the thanks is actually 4 me bc i #tweaked the message sm. and it still makes me happy that the oersons hapoy but its like. that couldve been a nice mutual interaction #like not that i need a personal ty i compliment ppl when i Want to compliment ppl and when its genuine yk. i dont do it so i get mutualpoint

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monstermoviedean · 3 months ago

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at the end of my fucking rope with "conversations" about k12 chronic absenteeism.

#sorry. work rant #next time you read a headline about it think to yourself. why is it schools' job to get kids to come to school.#why do schools have to bend over backward to cater to kids #kids not wanting to go to school is an extremely common occurrence #the difference now is that the responsibility is being shifted off kids and parents and onto schools #i get that schools can do better i really do #i think there is a shared responsibility #but there is a profound belief across society that school is not important and does not matter #and that needs to be addressed too #i'd say 99% of the examples i hear of systemic school problems are actually just examples of individual bad actors #again. schools have issued that need to be addressed! the public school system has profound inequities!#but when the only problems you point out are 'a kid was mean to my kid' or 'a teacher wasn't as nice as they could be'#you're not interested in changing the system #you're interested in changing your kid's experience #and guess what. demonizing school staff sure isn't going to fix anything #at this point I don't see myself ever going back to teaching #you know who will go into teaching? people who don't give a shit.#and that's not going to help anything either.#you can't attract people who care when people who care are punished and chased out #imagine if instead of constantly bringing up the worst possible examples and insisting they are representative of everyone #the good examples were celebrated and rewarded #same thing happens with the medical profession btw #and again. lots of legitimate examples of harm #(i'm fat ffs i know this)#and also I think it's dangerous to have people delegitimizing medicine to the point that crystals are seen as just as valid as a doctor #sorry. separate rant.#but still. delegitimizing professions that require knowledge skill and training is how we get thousands of unqualified people #homeschooling their kids and treating them with herbs they got from their local Etsy witch

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lith-myathar · 2 months ago

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#incredibly difficult to express and also like. next to impossible to find the sort of support i think i actually need #which is for people to just *accept* me when im struggling instead of trying to help or pushing me to behave differently #i need somebody who can challenge me and encourage me and push me sometimes #but at the same time aomebody who i could count on to just love and accept me even if i never get better #i feel like it's such a weird and impossible ask #like please don't let me slide but also i need to know that if i am worst self that i would still be unconditionally loved and supported #i am not convinced this is a thing that's even possible #like i don't want an enabler but i also have demand avoidance like crazy and anything other than acceptance feels like a demand #and an implicit ''you're not enough''#and how i feel about it is all so dependent on mood which is changeable as hell #i read somewhere that this is kind of what heing a Freeze response person does to you. you just shut down and lock up #when people are trying to bring you out of it. like it just makes it worse. the only thing that thaws you out is unconditional acceptance #and fucking. that's the most counterintuitive ''you shouldn't do that bc it's enabling'' things ever

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mokeonn · 10 months ago

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I think my brain has become absolutely free from any sort of internet sludge after I went outside more, talked to people outside my age group, and played dinosaurs with a 5 year old. Like, oh?? You expect the creator of the post you're reading to have knowledge of all things related to the topic they made a casual post about? Skill issue. I understand that's a human behind the screen and not an information machine, and I'm gonna go make tea in a kitty cat tea pot.

#simon says #i have been offline for a bit since family has been visiting #so coming back and seeing new bad takes on that art advice post has been so funny #like oooh I love having reading comprehension it's so fun being less mad at things because im not making imaginary arguments to be mad at #also i will admit the response of 'yes we know that' to my post is the worst response possible #like after THOUSANDS of tags in my notifications of people being thankful to know that they can do so much more with their art #i think it's safe to say we DIDN'T all know that #anyways im just salty im gonna be honest #probably gonna delete this tomorrow

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icewindandboringhorror · 8 months ago

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Hrmm... put together a roommates quiz finally after years of thinking it would be an interesting idea lol.. Though obviously not meant to be taken super seriously, I just like thinking about this aspect of personality compatibility. Like yeah, maybe you could get along with someone just chatting with them, but living together is such a different thing. .. curiouse...

#Not that I think that many people would really care since I barely know anyone on tumblr in real life and would never live with random #internet strangers lol but... idk.. I made this to give to friends from time to time and thought... why not post it here too #just out of sheer curiosity if anyone takes it what the most common results would be and etc.#My initial assumption is that most people would probably fall into the 'maybe' category and that either extreme of 'best roomates'#and 'worst roomates' would be the least common #very long also since I like to be thorough I guess #THOUGH... upon second thought... tumblr is home of the like Weird Introverts Who Sit Inside All The Time.. so maybe it's more #likely to come across compatible poeple on here. given that many of the questions are about how meticulous #people are with their scehdules or how often they invite friends over or if they like to mostly stay inside etc.#(since personally I think having a roommate coming and going and bringing random people over all the time would be too chaotic #lol... I need a peaceful quiet household)#Also I kind of don't like the way uquiz seems to do results. I was hoping it would be a number tally? I used some sort of quiz making site #before where you weight the question responses with a number (so the 'Best' response is worth a 0 #The worst is worth like 5 points. and all the in between are like 1 - 4 points or something). So then it is actually possible to have a #''perfect score'' category (someone who gets a literal 0 points). and also you could weight some EXTREMELY bad answers #to add like +10 to the score instead of just +5. And someone who got the MAX possible points would be the WORST compatibility. etc.#But uquiz seems to just be like ''which category did you score towards the MOST'. So someone can give some pretty bad answers #that are VERY non compatible. but as long as MOST of their answers landed in a 'compatible' category #then they would still be listed as compatible despite still actually having some dealbreakers in there. Which is also possible with the #'every answer is a number amount' ranking system too. but I feel like that one does allow for a little more customization #and accuracy (like making the dealbreakers add like...+40 to the score or something so that #there's basically NO way that someone could answer with one of those and still get a good score. Or the ability to have a literal #'perfect score' (getting a zero) etc.#BUt anyway lol... inchresting.. inchresting... curious to consider maybe making a uquiz #for the characters in the gameI'm making like.. which npc are you type quiz or something #now that I've made one and seen how it works.. hrmm hrmm....#(< game will not even be done for like another year but still thinking about nonsense like this lol)

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drinkingdeadpeopletea · 8 months ago

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relistening to the second half of midst 2.16 for like the eighth time. feeling really unhinged about the fact that one of the first things saskia says to hieronymous is "i didn't expect to see you again ever." they're clearly friends and clearly close but she still at least on some level expected their different roles in their shared mission was going to keep them apart forever, or that it was going to get one or both of them killed before they got a chance to see each other again! and she had good reason to think that! she watched sherman be nearly killed in front of her during a raid! she herself was nearly arrested, and now knows her position's been exposed and the trust could come back for her any day! she only survived the tearror by luck! not to mention what we now know about the specter of nick and maggie fleit's murder hanging over both their heads!

and yet by the end of the conversation what she says is "maybe someday we won't have to pretend we don't know each other." it's "maybe" and it's "someday" and it's a little wry but still, she didn't expect to see him again ever and here they both are! it's the choosing to still have hope it's the choosing to believe in the possibility of the best outcome or to at least say out loud you do even if you can't quite get there internally. but it's also about having the friend to whom you can admit you honestly didn't think you'd make it this far because you know he's risking just as much as you are and is just as committed to it. UGH saskia del norma the woman you are....

#midst #midst podcast #midst spoilers #midst podcast spoilers #i just think it's really easy to make a character with her archetype Always Hopeful All The Time. and i think it's fun that she's NOT.#but also that she is! you know what i mean.#i am once again saying that i hope something bad happens to her before this podcast is over #third person you can't give me a girlie like this with these kind of themes and these kind of convictions and NOT let me see her in the #WORST circumstances possible....#i guess the tearror was pretty bad. tbh. but i mean danger directly from the trust here #btw i think there's also really something to that hieronymous's 'maybe' in response to her at the end doesn't sound convinced #'hope's not a course of action is it?' :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

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hesperidia · 8 months ago

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On the topic of Dazai finding out Akutagawa died:

It's probable that he absolutely knows, finding out while in Mersault. It would make a lot of sense if Ango notified him first thing (given that Ango was also the first person Atsushi told about what happened at the ship). Another situation would be Ango hiding this information from him in order to not give him more baggage while dealing with Fyodor, but this seems unlikely.

Dazai would feel guilty i think, because why would he feel "happy" that Akutagawa is not killing anymore if he didn't care at all about him?

He doesn't know Akutagawa comes back. And he's not going to make it to Japan in less than 2hrs, so he will find out he's alive way after the rest of the cast (unless he and Chuuya communicate with Mori or Ango in the meantime).

So, i think Dazai would not have the guts to face Akutagawa afterwards, because he's deathly allergic to admit he ever fucked up. There should be a re-encounter, and an apology, but it should not be warm. though it probably would be and i'd hate that

#bsd #bsd akutagawa #bsd dazai #i didn't even consider the possibility of Akutagawa dying being a part of the plan. Why? i think Dazai's character development would be for #nothing if that was the case. He's not supposed to be that cruel anymore (and i do believe he cares about aku to some extent)#anyway. other option is he dismisses the whole thing. which would be more in character but lazy writing imo. let him grow up and admit #that he fucked up. let him take responsibility #at best: we have an scene where aku thinks his life is disposable and that he was a nuisance. and atsushi reassures him with the #“your life is valuable if you can save others” card. which is the mantra he lives by. and also he very much saved atsushi that is a #significant thing that happened.#then the dazai youtuber apology comes in #at worst: Dazai never adresses all of this happening and i physically manifest into the story and kill him #dumb theory tag #lazutxt

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ai-the-broccoli · 9 days ago

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aaghh I hate health anxiety ocd (or whatever you call it), it's literally doing nothing other than contributing to make my health worse

... wait actually, does anyone have like, tips/advice for that kind of thing? I really think I need some help with this one

#i (ai)#ocd #vent cw #I also have like severe decision paralysis + procrastination issues so that's great #like. being so scared that i have to choose for something to eat that is nutritious&healthy AND affordable AND eatable #that i delay my eating by many hours every other day (+ combined with many other reasons like general awful schedule)#is not in fact the amazing health plan my instincts apparently think it is for some baffling reason. fucking hell #I consistently have all sorts of digestive system issues and I'm plenty underweight. tbh my adhd meds prob also dont help with this part #....on that note I have severe anxiety with spending money (which I have very little of) too. lmao. just great #during the lockdown years my contamination ocd spiked very badly and it still hadn't fully recovered now #and it was/is really godawful harmful for my physical and mental health alike. like this was worse before but even now it really screws wit #my hydration habits. also its always my top consideration/anxiety to think about 'god would the toilet hygiene be bad'#whenever theres any option for me to go anywhere. so I avoided nearly every possible activity/event/social event I could avoid #that require leaving home for half a day or more. and I freak out badly whenever anyone comes to our home to visit for fear of contaminatio #some family friends used to send kids over to our place for dinner montly-ish & that was always my worst anxiety source for the month #I always dreaded the night terribly and it was awful experience. urgh.#gdi I wish I had less types of ocds like why am I cursed with so many annoying things at once lmao #...anyway ugh. i hate how my parents is about me getting sick/ill/any sort of pains etc. always jump to blame me at once #now I don't even want to tell them about it but I have to and they'll often force me to do chores as usual and/or never stop talking about #how it's so totally my fault for having awful schedules and bad habits etc that I'm sick & that I'm making excuses or whatever the fuck #that i'm an adult its my responsibility etc etc #anyway sorry and thank you if you've read this far lmao

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phantaloon · 2 months ago

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#i mean in the nicest way possible #but like when you're in med school you truly have to have your priorities straight #bc otherwise you're going to end up doing just mediocre #and like #who wants a mediocre doctor to help them #there's some shit you have to sacrifice sometimes #sometimes its spending time doing things you like sometimes its asking for help with your responsibilities #sometimes its knowing you're gonna get an hour or two of sleep bc you have to finish doing everything you have to do #and if you're not gonna learn how to prioritize and be responsible idk if there's a point 😭#like im sorry #ik mental health is incredibly important more than anyone else #but we're training to be people who will literally have to save someones from dying at one point #us being late or us not studying or us not knowing something can literally kill someone #i just #ugh #it pisses me off how some actual friends dont take this seriously #and like oh im sleepy bc ive been doing other stuff all day im not gonna study i think #LIKE BROTHER IN CHRIST #and the worst part is like #i feel so bad saying this but we should be taking 5 classes each semester so we can get to intern year #this person is taking only 3 #like bro we've literally had exam after exam every day this week #we're exhausted too #we just gotta suck it up

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garbagequeer · 11 months ago

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realizing a lot of the people around me are fucked in the head when i got picked in a stupid game as the group's most irresponsible person because i fuck around at my job due to im not an idiot (dont let my job dictate my life) or a coward (am aware my livelihood is not tied so much to my current job which doesn't offer continuity beyond a 1 year contract as to my ability to sell my time due to my #marxist influences and also having lived a life on planet earth like before this moment and for a number of years so i wont go beyond what im getting paid at all ever) when i am 1 employed 2 independent 3 doing just fine. like oooh i get it. you guys think letting your job rule your life and not the other way around is responsible and not just sucking all meaning out of life. cause you're insane

#like to say this to someone with a 1 year contract with no possibility for renewal is crazy. you think i should work hard? for what exactly #im literally more of a nuisance to fire than i am being the world's most useless underpaid intern. so i can play hard #also girl who is going to be responsible for your happiness if you devote all your free time to making sure you dont do anything that could #distract you from work or fuck up your work.. when the work would chuck you out the first chance it got if it was better for business be fr #people when you say you're leftist: yay-> people when you actually believe the leftist stuff and it affects your everyday life: stop it lol #anyways never befriend the middle class worst mistake i ever made in my life #personal

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haysgrove · 2 years ago

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vent in tags dont mind me ✌️

#im so angry at myself cause like why do i bother trying to be in good terms w this person.#like sure shes my brother best friend or whatever but she sa'd me. like wtf.#i went through a time where i tried to avoid her as much as possible but now i just...let it happen whenever she comes #like why tf do i do that. why is that my response now. to just sweep it under the rug.#i know that if i told my mom all hell would break lose cause something like that happened to her as well when she was young #the exact same age i was when it happened to me #and the worst part is how she changed my perception of myself #i identified as a trans guy back then and she is a lesbian. so my entire identity was stepped on #so i felt a repulse to wear masculine clothes for a good while #but femenine clothes felt horrible as well cause i knew they were what she was into #so i got lost in a stupid ass identity crisis bc of her #i wanna fall in love and be intimate but all i can think about is her doing that shit to me when i was 15 #and she gets to have a girlfriend now and have a job and be best friends with my brother still and live like nothing happened that night #im angry angry angry angry

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bogusfilth · 11 months ago

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okay aside from the annoyance of all my personal pursuits being questioned around the basis of "practical application" (what's the practical application of you playing video games) i sort of get being asked what the practical application of me reading philosophy is but if you ask me what the practical application of me trying to learn about cryptography is i'm going to look at you like you have two heads. "what do you have on your computer that you need to hide" nothing i'm trying to learn a Skill In General thank you very much.

#i think 'whats the point of that' the worst possible response to someone telling you what they're doing. especially when you've asked

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orcelito · 11 months ago

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Fucking Shaking with rage on this fine Friday night

#speculation nation #negative/#such a bad faith approach and it made me angry enough to want to block her on here #but SURPRIIIIIISE SHE ALREADY DIIIIIIID #block me i mean.#im thinking some very uncharitable things right now i think #i tried to be as fucking nice as possible but yeah i was putting my own mental health first. fucking sue me.#im so goddamn sick and tired of romance and i half think im aromantic by this point #it's never FUCKING worth it.#expecting me to be your entire emotional support while im going thru one of the worst years of my life like YEA #OF COURSE IM CONTINUOUSLY DISAPPOINTING YOU #i was trying to be RESPONSIBLE about it and own up to it. cutting things off because i knew i wasnt enough.#but NOOOO NOW IM THE FUCKING BAD GUY.#im the kind of angry where i want to Hit Things so so sooo so bad but i cant because im a good lawful citizen who doesnt hit things :)#this is just. a fucking insult by this point. couldnt even let me have the satisfacfion of blocking her first.#i still. have to fucking bike home. im going to hit something.

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