#tw; implied grooming

[s0fti3w1tch]

CW: Implied Grooming

Image Description: Two panel digital Rise of the TMNT fan comic. Panel one is a close up of Leonardo, tears in his eyes, frustratedly yelling "You're not mature for your age, Mikey!" Panel two shows that Leo is standing behind Michelangelo, speaking firmly at him with his hand out. Mikey is shadowed in the foreground, hiding on his hoodie and looking off the side, also tearing up. Leo says "You're a victim!" /End Description

I wish you understood that I'm not telling you this to infantilize you. I'm telling you as someone who's been there before, that this isn't right. I'm telling you to please listen to me because you're being taken advantage of, even if you don't see it.

Please don't assume you're an "exception to grooming" or an "exception to being manipulated and sexualized by older friends." From someone who was convinced they were that exception one time before. That I was special or mature.

[the-beastlands-craze]

i mourn the person i never got to be

[mikka-minns]

Im here to tell you that Utena having to go by stairs changing to her having to go by elevator symbolizes her thinking she has it easier now. That its more simple. That she gets it now.

But NO

She is trapped now.

Once there were stairs, she could just turn back.

Once there were stairs, she could go by her own feet, in her own speed.

But now, that all gone.

Now, she can only get in and only get out once the elevator stops.

She is in a Cage and She doesnt even realise it.

This isnt a ride worthy of a real prince, its a prison that you walk in. One that you cant call a prison because from the outside it looks beautiful.

"its easier" they say. But its realy hard to get out once you are in.

ZETTAI-

[six-white-venus]

perhaps if your still doing poetry requests i could make an ask for something silly about green apples? maybe even polaroids ^_^

[sage-writes-n-coins-mogai]

Proof that minors are being groomed by PRATS.

This user thinks that the age of consent should be abolished, and that children of any age should be allowed to be in sexual relationships with adults and thinks you can’t be youth lib if you disagree with this. Everyone with a brain knows that, yes, pubescent minors can consent, TO EACH OTHER.

There’s nothing wrong with teenagers having sex, but it’s not healthy for them mentally, to engage in sexual relationship with grown ass adults even if it’s “consensual” as the consent that teenagers give to adults is usually the result of prior grooming (I should know because that happened with me) and there’s countless reliable studies and victim word of mouth recounts proving this.

Children can’t consent to adults, simple as that and hope that “AAM” radqueers realise this and get help.

This account also thinks that “cracker” is just as bad as a slur for white people as the n-word is for black people even though cracker doesn’t have the horrible history behind it like the n-word does, so yeah there’s that…

Conclusion: Radqueers are groomers, pass it on.

[chuchayucca]

/ / Implied grooming

[ID in ALT text]

Mouthwashing AU where Jimmy decides to take it upon himself to make Daisuke a man. When, in actuality, he’s trying (and successfully achieved) in turning Daisuke into a man just like him.

[just-call-mefr1es]

april fools day isnt going so great for tbp fandom

tw: child gr00ming, ped0ph!lia, implied+referenced s/a

(sorry if my handwriting is ass in the warning i tried😭) song is shut up (and sleep with me) by sin with sebastian!

istg if this doesnt get into a gacha life/2/club reaction video im burying myself in the 69 inch deep snow outside (yes we still have snow)

[wisteriasymphony]

awww ☺️ mother son bonding... so normal and not traumatizing for a seven year old...

[farshootergotme]

Are there any fics touching upon the topic about Liu and Dick Grayson? I have read fics that deal with what happened with Tarantula and Mirage, but I haven't stumbled upon a fic that focused on what Liu did to Dick.

[crypt1dcorv1dae]

Ykno I've seen a. Few people point out that Adam was 100% grooming Miya (that's it's own whole separate discussion) but I haven't seen anyone (at least not yet, I'm new here) mention that... It's highly likely the reason Miya had prospects to be picked for the national team... Was because of Adam's influence.

Like, when Miya loses his race to Langa, Adam says (I'm paraphrasing) "skating with friends is great, it's all you have left anyway"

And miyas national prospects aren't mentioned again for the entire rest of the show... She suddenly has PLENTY of free time to hang out, and it's just... Kinda... Forgotten about?

So I think that... When Miya lost, he didn't JUST lose Adams favor and attention (most likely grooming him to be his next potential "eve", tho I don't think he has actually DONE anything physically yet) he also lost the foothold he had gained in the profession skating world... Because Adam took it away from him.

It's either Adam was responsible for getting him in the spotlight, or was responsible for getting him OUT of it when he lost... Tarnishing his image or paying people off to not offer him the opportunities he has every right to at his skill level.

Just something that I noticed and always to point out...

I could totally be wrong too idk, I just find it strange the wording Adam used to taunt Miya being "it's all you have left" (again, paraphrasing if I got it slightly wrong) and also I'm going off the dub cus that's the version I watched so if the sub is different and has different implications that's my bad

[draconifay]

I just found out puppychan is on tumblr now under a different username and ngl, the whole situation with them just feels so....conflicting

On one hand a lot of the shit they did is straight up awful and stuff that should not be excused (endangering minors / innappropriate interactions with them, that racefaking incident they had for a bit 💀, the constant suicide baiting, among many other things)

But on another I just feel...man. i can't help but feel bad for him. I followed him when Antoonz was directing his bigoted ass audience towards him when he was still a minor, and all the ableist, racist, transphobic and straight up violent shit that was thrown Puppychan's way was genuinely awful - ESPECIALLY at such a young age. (I still remember the lynching art someone made on the day of his 18th birthday...ugh.) Not to mention it feels like the internet was kinda the only coping mechanism he had, and a really unhealthy one at that. It's very clear the internet just fucked him up a lot from being exposed to so much shit at a young age.

Don't get me wrong - I'm still incredibly disgusted by the things he's done and I do think people should definitely be warned about his antics. But part of me feels just...sad - sad that this clearly unwell person needs help and has been through so much shit, and they've dug themself into a hole, and because people are constantly on their tail they dig even deeper into said hole. It's like the Chris-chan thing all over again.

I will never condone any of the harmful shit that he did, but I do still hope he someday leaves the internet, finds a proper support system and works on himself. (And learn to stop blaming his harmful actions on his mental health issues). Cuz the internet is the last place he should be right now.

[gor3sigil]

When i was 14/15 i was groomed by someone at my school who was around 19 and my parents let them sleep over at our house. They would drive me to the mall to hang out with them too. My mothers bf would constantly make jokes about us having sex and me running off to prostitute myself to older men. My “parents” were my number one enablers when it came to sexual abuse. I could go on forever about their mistreatment, jokes and overall piss poor behavior.

Enough rambling though, i wanted to share a part of my experience because ive never seen anyone else mention their parents enabling the abuse they went through in a similar situation to mine.

I hope you are taking good care of yourself.

I'm so, so sorry it happened to you. That's horrible. I'm slowly healing, it's hard but we do our best. I hope you are too.

I'll talk about my experience here, feel free to not read further if it might trigger you.

My then boyfriend used to say my age to his friends and they would find it weird for a 20yo to date a 16yo until they saw a picture of me. All of his friends were cis men. They saw pictures of me and went "oh yeah, figure, she's hot".

And because I had an early puberty, my family and the people who were close to my bf saw it as normal. That's pretty fucked up.

He even showed a pic of me to his DAD who said that he hsd "the same taste in women" HIM.

[shittyemopoetry]

15/16

THIS POEM IS EXPLICIT AND TRAUMATIC.

This is a poem about my experience with my online sexual abuser and the themes are extremely explicit and heavy.

TWs: (O)SA, underage victim, pedophilia, grooming, PTSD, derealization, separation from past self, dehumanization, imposter syndrome, victim blaming

you have ruined my 16 year old self.

the way he is seen is perverse, gross, wrong.

there is nothing good about the way i see him.

but i see him through your eyes.

he was good at what he did.

he was good at fucking you,

making you beg,

doing just what you wanted.

he was not good at being 16, and

you had already stolen part of 15 from him.

he was not good at hanging out with friends,

talking to his mom,

getting ice cream,

going to the park.

no,

you taught him how to stand over you,

fuck you just right,

be so incredibly perverse that he lost himself in your bed.

yes,

your bed.

your bed like a prison cell of which there was no escape.

there were no parks, no ice-cream, no mom.

he knew things he shouldn’t have known.

he saw things he shouldn’t have seen.

and for what?

someone who couldn’t even get off?

it was what you so clearly wanted.

why else put him through all of that?

i used to be egotistical about it,

i used to think,

“they must still jack off to me,

i’m the best they’ll ever have.”

i thought,

“you miss me, you miss what i did for you,

you miss the way i made you feel.”

he wasn’t the best. he was 16.

i was 16.

and you were not.

and i don’t miss you.

i don’t miss the way you made me feel.

yet i still feel it, feel *you.*

your hands covering me, suffocating and stinging hot.

your mouth, wet and sharp.

your claws, deep in my skin.

your eyes, squinting with a forced smile.

but none of it was real, so what right do i have?

what right do i have to claim your hands or your mouth?

what right do i have to be proud or puff my feathers?

what right do i have?

and maybe,

this means i am just like you.

i am broken and perverse,

and i see with your eyes

the me that could fuck you just right,

and think,

“i am no better than the wolf that tore my flesh open,

and ripped it to unrecognizable shreds-

i am but the wolf that feeds on the scraps”

but that doesn’t matter,

it was what i so clearly wanted.

[lilac-the-void-pup]

hey so this post comes with a big FAT fucking trigger warning, but i need to tell people about this.

tw for: child abuse, potential CSA, pedo shit, incest

So I've been avoiding this topic for a long time but tonight i can't ignore it anymore.

My dad's been really fucking weird about my body since I started puberty, he started making comments about my masturbation habits when I was like 12, and I didn't realize that was wrong until I was groomed two other times. He's broken my jewelry in public before, including once i vividly remember at a Rennaisance fair, in the middle of a shop, where he yanked me to the floor by my choker, snapping it in the process, and told me "that's what those are good for!" He's pushed me off chairs once or twice, yells at me constantly, he controls almost all my devices, which wouldn't be too terrible if he didn't acknowledge that I own them and I earned them and then put monitoring software that goes deep enough that only a fresh install of windows or hand-scraping the Registry can get it all the way out. Tonight, because I didn't get great sleep last night, he made me lock my computer, leaving him the only person that can unlock it, he said he was going to check if it was locked, and that I "don't usually wake up to much," which implies that he comes in here regularly while I am ASLEEP, NAKED. I don't know what he does. I don't want to know what he does. But the knowledge that he's in here regularly and that he's planning to come in here at some point tonight fucking TERRIFIES ME, considering he's fairly open about having lolicon content on his computer, its just sitting in his fucking steam library, right there. I was going to use it as leverage in an argument, but at this point I'm considering starting the argument myself solely so that my mom can understand that he's a fucking creep. He's also super weird about the clothes I wear, won't let me wear skirts outside the house, won't let me wear certain belts outside the house, and he says it's because he's afraid I'll get touched, but I'm beginning to think that he's only saying that's what hes afraid of because that's what he thinks about when he sees his "son" (ahem daughter) in a skirt. I don't like talking honestly about my age on the internet, but I'm only 15, and I can't prove anything legally. I don't care whether you read this and give me advice, or just read this and scroll on, I just needed to shout this into the void in the hopes that ANYONE would hear me. Thank you for listening if you read this far. I appreciate any help in any form. Thank you all.

[csaventing]

It wasn’t just people, chats, stories.

It was a whole world.

[impure-as-a-lamb]

can’t cut? then listen to songs that remind you of your trauma!