#tw radfem shit

[chaosclover1999]

yeh i always hated shit like this

like okay there was a point in time where i knew i was nonbinary in some way but hadn't figured out i was a demiguy yet and i was still presenting kinda feminine-ish mainly bc of trying 2 play around w gender expression 2 c what worked, i constantly was being lumped in w women and had cis women talking 2 me abt misogyny but in a way where they clearly thought i was going 2 hav the same experiences as them bc of being visibly afab at the time, they didn't seem 2 want 2 talk abt sexism w me anymore whenever i talked abt transphobia and the transphobia i was specifically experiencing as a nonbinary person, and the few that did always tried 2 universally blame men 4 transphobia and tried 2 act like ppl not respecting me using they/them pronouns was the extent of what i was experiencing and also that it was just an extension of the sexism they experienced as cis women, they always seemed so uncomfortable and surprised whenever i brought up that it wasn't only men being transphobic 2 me and that nonbinary specific transphobia goes beyond ppl not getting that my pronouns were they/them and they would straight up start arguments w me insisting that the majority of transphobic ppl at least were men and would just straight up say i was wrong when i said that it was honestly abt 50/50 between cis men and cis women and if i tried 2 argue that "well 2day it was mostly women that were being weird abt it" then they would try 2 argue that there were definitely more guys being transphobic and i just hadn't noticed it even trying 2 put in my head the idea that random men had been being transphobic 2 me and i just didn't notice it when they hadn't been, this got especially bad when i was presenting kinda hyperfeminine and wearing lots of dresses ect and none of this was even in those kinds of spaces this was just,,, me meeting w ppl in cafes and stuff 4 various reasons, so when i started seeing shit that said "women and nonbinary ppl" i had a p good idea of what it was gonna b and i knew i wasn't actually going 2 b welcome there

naturally this got worse when i became even more aware and i realised some more things abt myself and that im specifically a demiguy who uses he/they pronouns or he/him pronouns depending on situation and how likely i think some1 is 2 switch between he/him and they/them interchangeably vs seeing "he/they" and then just using they/them pronouns 4 me, like legit i feel like most ppl don't even c me as nonbinary even tho i literally am just bc im also a guy and i present a lot more masc these days, like buzzed hair w joggers and a hoodie kinda masc bc that's just how i feel the most comfortable but bc of that and bc of me being both a guy and nonbinary im p sure i would either get misgendered or told 2 leave if i went 2 1 of those types of things

i think 1 of the things that needs 2 b talked abt within the queer community more is the performative fragility of cis women when it comes 2 trans ppl just,,, existing but especially when it comes 2 trans ppl talking abt our experiences w sexism and transphobia, a lot of cis women from my experience seem 2 treat transphobia as an extension of the sexism that they experience and not as it's own seperate axis of oppression they also never seem 2 want 2 listen 2 the concept that cis women r often transphobic and sexist 2wards trans ppl since the idea that cis women can b sexist in some way shatters their idea of how sexism works which is the concept that "woman = good and morally pure" and "men = gross/creepy and morally evil" like even a lot of cis women who don't c themselves as terfs fall victim 2 that kinda thinking, hell even i did, that's y it took me so long 2 let myself b a guy bc i had so much unlearning 2 do, i think smth that needs 2 b stated more also is that terfism is an ideological cult based around the concept of moral purity which is how so many ppl including ppl literally hurt by terfism fall victim 2 it but also it's often easier 4 cis women 2 fall victim 2 terfism and a lot of "women only spaces" or spaces that r functionally "women only spaces" when it comes 2 talking abt politics usually just has the side effect of creating an echo chamber 4 terf ideology not bc all cis women r terfs but bc it's so much easier 4 terf ideology 2 spread when there's no1 in the room who can correct misinformation or incorrect assumptions ect like it's gonna b more difficult 4 terf ideology 2 spread in a group if there's a transmasc there who's confident enough and feels safe enough 2 speak up and say "actually when u guys make jokes abt how u think all men r rapists or how u think all men should b killed it makes me feel really unsafe and is just another form of sexism, also it's literally that kind of assigning morality 2 gender that made it so difficult 2 accept myself as a guy" like sure terf ideology can still spread even when there r ppl speaking up who feel safe enough and confident enough 2 do so but it's a lot less effective than if it was a bunch of cis women in a room talking abt how they think all men r trash as a "joke"

idk mayb im just kinda jaded but if im being 100% honest i think the worst transphobia i've ever had 2 deal w has been from cis women, like at least w the handful of cis guys i've dealt w that from they r not trying 2 convince me im doing something morally reprehensible by accepting myself idk, not every1's experience ik but in my experience when cis guys r transphobic it's usually attack helicopter jokes or slurs which sucks ass but it's at least easy enough 2 b like "okay well ur clearly just being a dick" or they try 2 argue that ur gender identity is "illogical" and "doesn't make sense" which also sucks but also like being human in general doesn't make sense and doesn't really operate on logic so yeah, just kinda annoying af, whereas in my experience typically when cis women r being transphobic it usually instead is about how me transitioning was morally wrong somehow even if it's not explicitly stated that that's what it is and it's more just heavily implied with "i just don't understand how some1 could live as a woman and then choose 2 become a man after seeing how terrible they r" type statements or its "jokes" abt how they think men r terrible or it's calling transmascs sexist when we speak up abt the specific transphobia we experience and how us being transmasc plays a role in that or it's cis women saying that "bc we're men" (in quotes bc this is also said 2 ppl who don't identify as men) they now don't feel safe around us bc anything 2 close 2 "being a man" 4 them is labelled as dangerous inherently

ok hands up

how many other nonbinary/genderqueer people here hate the phrase "women and nonbinary people"

[aishabellasbigblogofeverything]

I love it when women hate men. I love it when women are allowed to vent to each other about how horrible and creepy men are. I love it when women form friendships with and prioritize each other over relationships with men(whether they're attracted to them or not). I love it when women put men dni in their bios and on their nude photos and on posts on their blogs. I love it when women refuse to mollycoddle and accommodate entitled male feelings with "but this doesn't mean I hate all men, I know a few men who are great, I love my father/sons/brothers/uncles/male cousins/guy friends" I love it when women complain about men WITHOUT "not all men" being a disclaimer. I love it when women avoid socializing with/refuse to be around/befriend/get close to men because they know men can't be trusted. I love it when women make "kill all men" jokes. I love it when women offer absolutely no concern or care for men's feelings and if their misandry offends men whatsoever because why should we, men are the oppressor class who have raped and killed and abused us and kept us as subjugated as second-class citizens for millennia, they regularly mistreat us and the women in their own marginalized communities still every single day and make this world so much harder and more awful for us to be in, and if we choose to hate them and not spare them any sympathy then so be it, and I don't just mean "men as a class" either, you can be a woman who doesn't want to have anything to do with any man on an individual basis and completely cuts off men from her personal life too and ykw I will love and fucking support you in that because men deserve absolutely NOTHING from us. If they're so tough and strong then they can handle it just like they can handle being lonely. If you are a woman who hates men, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE A LESBIAN AND/OR A TRANS WOMAN, then just know that I love you. I love you, I support you, and you are safe here.

[star-anise]

Unsentimentaltranslator, xxchromies and marinamothh (last three people on the skirts are practical post) are all three TERFs btw, so it really does make sense how they want to erase women’s history and replace it with narratives that fit their ideology better. Not directly relevant to the argument, but very obvious sign that their judgement is not good to say it friendly

Yesss, I spent the morning blocking that whole crew before I finally decided to say something. Because unfortunately, blocking someone because their reblog addition is noxious does not prevent any of their followers from reblogging and being noxious in turn.

I'm not interested in any sort of prolonged debate with them. I planned to go to IKEA today, even if it is the afternoon of the last Saturday before school starts, and by god, I'm going now.

[ichverdurstehier]

Korea is the worst country for women on the entire planet, wtf.

[thedepressedweasel]

Dear So-Called "Feminists",

If you decry a butch-looking black woman literally being better than a white woman at boxing as "a man beating up an innocent woman" yet you're perfectly fine with an actual child rapist being allowed into the Olympics, then no, you don't really care about women; you're just being a racist and an abuse/rape apologist!

[littlegildedswallow]

i wish radfems understood that eating disorders (NOT disordered eating or disordered thoughts, but fully-fledged eating disorders) are more about making our mental and emotional suffering obvious via our physical selves and less about beauty standards or whatever.

just like all self-harm, particularly as seen in young women, is.

[giritina]

When people say that terfs view trans men as just pathetic "lost lesbians" and are sympathetic towards them, I think it's worth nothing that they do in fact treat gay trans men as sexual predators

[hussyknee]

you're one of those ugly white bi women who hates lesbians kys

Ah yes, that thing I'm most known for. Being a white woman.

[sick-thing]

Terfs: trans people are obsessed with genitals!

Also terfs: I'm a proud pussy-having owner of a vulva with a uterus and two ovaries to boot, come join my cunt coven

[sneakyboymerlin]

Why do so many people in this fandom obsessively treat Morgana like she’s nothing but some passive helpless eye candy who can’t make decisions for her own adult self and is just pushed and pulled and shaped by the men in her life… I’m serious, you all need to manage your misogyny.

[hard--headed--woman]

gay men be like what? are you joking. i do not have male privilege nor do i suport the patriarchy. what the hell are you saying you dumb fucking cunt. i hope you get raped like you deserve you whore

[the-official-legacies-blog]

Alright fellas, I apparently have to say this:

CW for possible sexism, enbyphobia and boundary violation

Please do not send me asks like this. I have three reasons for this:

1) I am a minor

2) Asks like this one make me feel uncomfortable

3) Asks like this one aren't even relevant, and they feel mildly sexist, transphobic, and enbyphobic. Like why the hell do you want to know a nonbinary character's breast size?

Asks like this make me think that someone is gonna draw NSFW of my characters, and I am extremely uncomfortable with that thought, especially since I'm mildly sex-repulsed.

I have deleted this ask and blocked the anon, this post is a fair warning about what will happen if I get asks like this one.

[ballsalsda]

My sibling just said that pansexual is problematic cause "the label implies bisexuals are only attracted to people cause of their gender" (??) and "the label was made by sigmund freud to mean attraction to everything including animals and children" and "its transphobic because it implies bisexuals arent attracted to trans people" (????????)

Theyve also talked about how aplatonics arent lgbtq+, they said cishet aros who still date arent lgbtq+ because there are men who do that to take advantage of women (way to go for open mindedness by comparing aromantics to manipulators), and many other stuff

:(((

[roxie-really-hates-meanies]

(DISCLAIMER: Five TERFs interacted with the last post when my tags told them not to. EWWWW!!!!!)

@/designchic75 for the block, folks!

As you can see, she is either a TERF or a tRump supporter; either way, her blog is full of racist, ableist, transphobic, enbyphobic, acephobic, biphobic, panphobic and homophobic rhetoric because she really hates BIPOC as well as the disabled community as a whole and everyone from the LGBTQ+ community...and will post hateful comments against those who stand up to her.

Also, just because an autistic kid couldn't bathe in a "feces-filled" bathtub still doesn't give you free pass to be such a bigot.

Oh, and she's an election denier who cannot get over the 2020 results, nor can she ever get over the fact that Joe Biden won fair and square and that tRump lost.

Block her and stay safe, my lovelies!

READ THIS: TERFs, radfems and transphobes are not (and I repeat, not) allowed to interact/derail/clown on this post or else they'll get blocked!

[thedepressedweasel]

Women can be just as violent, abusive and murderous as men can be and whoever says that a woman would never hurt/abuse/kill anybody is a complete misogynist and a TERF.

Let that sink in.

[society-is-rotten]

Women help, what do i do to not let this ruin my day?

I fucking hate public transportation in the rush hour because the infrastructure here is shit and that means having to be in a cramped space with so many creeps SO MANY.

I live two cities away from my uni and i have to wait for the bus at 5:30 to get here on time for my 8:00 am class. There is no getting around it.

And today in that lapse of time, those three hours i have had THREE CREEPS do something to make me uncomfortable TWO of them fucking touched me in some way. Im angry so very angry but i can't anymore, it drains me i just want to be left in peace. IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK