#tw discorse

[rainbow-neko-artblog]

saw that one of your posts had the word "delulu" in it... id like to kindly ask you not to use that word. if you havent already heard, pretty much nobody who actually experiences delusions likes "delulu". it's making light of very real struggles we face by turning it into a cute & quirky #relatable thing to say on social media, meanwhile we aren't taken seriously at all. it's like saying "im so ocd" just because you like being neat, or "im so bipolar" because you sometimes have mood swings, or "im so adhd" because sometimes you forget things. even if it isnt your intention to be disrespectful, it lets mentally ill people who see your work know that you dont care about us/take us seriously & think that engaging in your favorite media is somehow comparable to thinking all your friends are going to kill you, or that the world is a simulation. delusions arent a hobby, they arent a daydream to escape to by choice, theyre often debilitating & terrifying & inescapable. nobody who has experienced delusions thinks "delulu" is okay. please stop using it. not hating on you, i just wanted to inform you of what's wrong & why in a calm & polite way before someone else comes in guns blazing. please remove "delulu" from your vocabulary.

Hi I'm sorry but...I'm, not, gonna do that?

Uhm. Maybe this is out of pocket for me to say but I have??? DID????? Which....while I don't like to think of it this way because it makes me feel crazy, does in part deal with delusions and blurring reality. I am delusional. I experience delusions. Using the word delulu feels easier to me to say, cause it's a silly word that has no impact on me compared to alternatives.

As for the "mentally ill people who see your work", as you might have guessed as someone who has DID among other mental illnesses, my friends, other people who veiw my work, are like me. Nuerodivergents, systems, ectect. I have a whole discord server dedicated to talking to them, and I'm sure they would tell me if they were really uncomfortable with me using that, but they haven't. Because I'm actually delulu? So I mean. Yeah. Uh. Ye.

[lacunazai]

hello people. just letting you know and giving you a massive heads up for those who dislike discourse or drama, I'll be posting the follow up to the luma callout post in response to their response, + other things of note. this will be the LAST post about them you see on this blog. you can mute the following tags if you do not wish to see the negativity on your dash. i am sorry to those who only want love on dash, but im worried about the people they could endanger in the future. thank you for understanding. ( though please spread it around if you can!! I'm a small blog and my reach only goes so far. )

- tw discorse

- cw discorse

- tw callout

- cw callout

- awareness post

- any of their username tags. ( listed in og callout and this post tags )

[blkkizzat]

y'all please keep the bs out of my inbox, do not send me anons about my friends/moots on some dry ass hater shit. please it's a friday night, theres gotta be something more productive you can do.

tysm❤

[ghost-on-a-string]

me when someone argues a bad take with an even worse take

[helpami-flaffy]

Man, i was so hyped for Get in the water and now that it's here and i don't like it because of the story I'm really bummed out.

I always thought:

" Ooooh an impossible challenge, an impossible choice! If Ody doesn't accept death his wife, child and Kingdom will die! How will he get out of this one I wonder? What will it cost him?"

And the answer is just...beating the shit out of Poseidon?

That's so anticlimactic!

It also doesn't solve the fucking problem!!

So now you've beaten the shit out of Poseidon (okay?I guess??)

What's stopping him from going through with his threats and pulling an Atlantis on Ithaca?

Where you even thinking about that Odysseus?

Hello?

And if Poseidon doesn't... like, why not?

He hasn't learned shit from this experience! And him and Ody have not made peace of any kind!

If he wanted he would totally drown all of them! He's an immortal threat!

And if it's revealed that he actually can't drown a fucking island and that's how the conflict resolves, what kind of wet paperbag sort of god is this??

[darth-emerald]

My thoughts on the Wilbur Soot allegations

I support Shubble 100%, though we shouldn't just attack Wilbur until we know that he was the abuser for sure. I just hope that if this is true and the allegations are found correct, that Wilbur is getting the help he needs, though it doesn't justify his supposed actions. This doesn't, however justify the harassment, doxing, and death threats. Even if he is an abuser, he is still a human being and no one deserves that.

[splatsys-sizeshift-shenanigans]

what the hell happened here

fuck no.xcrew fuck m.cc fuck the qs.mp fuck jm fuck kaceytron and most especially FUCK Q.AUCKITY

[i-3at-s0ap]

"when I decide women and girls don't know how to label themselves and that my opinion is more valid than their lived experiences, it's because I'm a ✨feminist✨"

[selfshipconfessionz]

hey guys… this is a proship friendly blog. maybe dont come into my asks talking about how porshippers are groomers, not only does that go against my rules but i think youre on the wrong side of tumblr to be spouting that shit lmao

[ball-jointed-constellations]

Something I'll never understand is how people can be so fucking vile towards other people. Like it's really not that easy to "just get a diagnosis". You may have free resources where you are, but I DON'T. My pain is still real regardless of diagnosis or not. Which I personally do have but doctors refuse to treat because it's not severe enough or my insurance won't cover it and I can't afford it. I don't have the luxury of just going over to the next town for a second opinion or to see if someone else can treat for less. my area is DOMINATED BY A HEALTHCARE MONOPOLY! we literally have hospitals sitting empty because no one can compete with them here, and they can't buy those hospitals because they'd legally be a monopoly then. There are no small clinics that do free Health anything here, and that is the sad reality a lot of people live in. Anti rq, Anti transID people please please please open your damn eyes to situations outside your own, and understand a good amount rq/transid people are not trying to appropriate your resources but are trying to cope with their own situations.

I'm not lazy for not being able to get appropriate healthcare. I've tried, I've gone over an hour away for healthcare and never got help. I've been in constant pain since I was a child, and no one has cared enough to actually do anything. My parents tried their best, took me to places that claim to be the best, and I was still failed by healthcare places. I never lied about my pain or my health. I was failed by people who were supposed to help me and now I id as I do as my means of coping with that repeated let down. I am sure there are others out there like me. Antis stop being so close minded it only hurts other disabled folks you don't understand.

[psychedelic-ink]

Anon, very rudely piss off.

If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. Also Steph's joel fics and ALL of her other fics are amazing and they always make me smile all the time.

Honestly, just go away anon, get something better to do jfc

Stop writing for Joel. Your fics suck

And they will keep on sucking and you can do nothing about it 😌

[zebulontheplanet]

My thoughts on reclaiming the r slur as a intellectually disabled and autistic person.

I do not believe in reclaiming it. Why would you even want to reclaim it? Often, people who say they can reclaim it have their own opinions. They say because they were called it they can. However, my insight on it is that why would you want to reclaim it?

The r slur has been a slur to dehumanize and insult those with intellectual disabilities. It was even a diagnosis at a time and was used to say we were less. We weren’t human. We couldn’t make decisions of our own.

Ask yourself this if you’re thinking of reclaiming it. Who are you harming by using that word? Yourself? Other people? The answer is usually yes because the word is derogatory. There is no way to say it that isn’t derogatory towards someone or yourself. So why use it?

[fionapplespiano]

Can’t believe I even have to say this, but wanting Jean Grey, or any other female comic book character to die or stay dead because you want her significant other to be with someone else, is misogynistic.

Female characters shouldn’t have to be fridged just because you don’t like her relationship with her boyfriend/husband and prefer him to be with someone else. They can always separate or divorce, you don’t need to kill a female character off.

I’m tired of people wanting to rob female characters of potential and development for the sake of male characters. That mentality is the reason why Gail Simone started the Women in Refrigerators movement.

Let female characters develop outside male characters. Let them have the same development as male characters.

[narcpocalypse]

God I hate the idea of gender bending because YES I DO think about "what if Mettaton was a girl" AND WANT TO AGGRESSIVELY KISS HER ON THE MOUTH! GOD I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE

[themastermarkus]

I just want to preface this by saying that I didn't reblog the post in the image above because I didn't want to distract from nizzysam's post about appreciating a compliment by adding my irrelevant questioning, and not because I'm attempting to hide this from either person involved. 😅

I've seen it asserted that Micah is homophobic a few times now, but I've never seen someone give an explanation of where he has been homophobic. Having looked through the majority of Micah's lines, the closest thing I've come across is a line he says in response to seeing Javier shining his boots (CW: Vulgar sexual reference to a blowjob, sexism):

But even this feels more like toxic masculinity and sexism than homophobia, specifically. Like, we never see him go after Bill for being gay. This is not to say that I rule out the idea of Micah Bell being homophobic given the time and culture he's a part of (I definitely think he's at least got some sort of internalized homophobia), but I wouldn't call Micah being homophobic something that one "forgets" was in the game because... Was it evident?

[lemon-mint813]

I hate that, even now when I want nothing to do with any fandom or cc or anything anymore, I still have nowhere to go and am watching another youtuber to keep me at least partly occupied so I can. Do things. Instead of freezing while I spiral.