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I want to clear things up

(Disclaimer do not hate me for this, but after i’m done writing I went and used ChatGPT for spelling and punctuation checks because i’m a minor about 14-18 in that range and i’m horrible with grammar)

Hello, hi. I know I said I was leaving to go regress, but I became strong again and wanted to make things right.

Hello, I used to be ask-welcomehome, and yes, I did all those hurtful things that I now regret ever doing. I wanted to publicly apologize for everything I’ve done, to the people I’ve hurt, to anyone who I’ve put in a low place because of what I did.

This post is talking about everything or most of the things I’ve done. Amazing work putting everything together, by the way. I was a stupid teenager when I did everything. I was anxious and not thinking straight. I feel really horrible, and yes, I did everything in this post… everything. And I’m ashamed of myself for this. Words cannot express how dearly and truly sorry I am for everything this post says about my old abandoned account.

The school account was from my school Chromebook. I faked being a friend of my old abandoned account just to try de-escalating the situation, and it only caused people like myself pain and suffering. That was not right. I was in the wrong, and to make matters worse, I blamed people. I blamed others and caused them harm.

There was a post that is now gone speaking about how I didn’t tell them the full truth on why the user got banned from my little corner community. At that time, I was being so stupid and so rude!

This was the post.. I found it from a user who reblogged it before it went away! Yes I was in the wrong not the user me. I did something not right and I’m taking action for it that was just a rude and stupid thing I started and I was just being really dumb!

now onto the cozy cafe part.

yes this has a part A and a part B

Part A

This started last year sometime; I don’t remember when. I copied the pinned post of this community, but later found it to be wrong and deleted/fixed it. A user, before I even got to fixing it, made a post calling me out in the Cozy Cafe community. Yes, they were right, but they made that post after I had already fixed it and apologized to the admin, while also juggling being harassed for it. It was my fault, nobody else’s.

Part B

This started about 3-4 days ago when it was still 2024. I was blocked by the admin, and it showed up as a ghost blog, so me being the dumbass I am, I thought it was like that for everyone when in fact, it wasn’t. I started making posts in the community saying how they were gone and nobody would take over, so NSFW blogs could get in, and telling people to leave. I was told by many people it wasn’t the case in the comments, and I never believed them when I should have. I started spamming people’s DMs, saying that the admin of Cozy Cabin/Cafe was a ghost blog and to leave that community. That was downright disinformation and not at all the best thing to do. All these people then started making mean comments and posts about me, saying I was a bot and everything, when in fact, I have a disorder where when I read something like that, it makes me not know what’s real or fake anymore. I used that against them and, in the end, apologized to the admin, who then banned me from my school account.

Summary of everything

Nobody needs to forgive me for any of this. I was rude, ugly, mean, and really disrespectful to every user I encountered, as stated in these posts and paragraphs. I don’t need anyone to forgive me; just know I never meant to do any of this. You can criticize me in the comments, but just know this is my post, presenting my side of everything, and clearing everything up.

These users deserve justice, not just an apology. I want to do something that shows I’m here, doing what’s right, and apologizing. You may not forgive me, but here is a token of appreciation for everything you’ve been through. If there is anything at all I can do for you, such as creating art or something similar, as a token of your bravery and effort to be a good person, I’m more than happy to do that.

I can do:- DNI banners- Userboxes- Little regressor headcannons

feel downright horrible, and words cannot describe how dearly sorry I am and how much I acknowledge that nobody needs to forgive me for any of this. I was the worst person, and blocking all of you afterward was my way of escaping from the reality I was going to have to face.

I am going to work my way toward recovery and try to never do anything like this EVER again!

@puppersbagel-org @who-is-page @puppyregect-org @notexplainingmyselfnotatall @softcg

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Never thought i would make something like this but oh well

im here to talk about a user by the name of @ask-welcomehome and their community. DO NOT GO AND HARASS THEM. REPORT, BLOCK AND MOVE ON

I SPEAK INDEPENDENTLY AND AM NOT SPEAKING ON BEHALF OF COZY CAFE OR LITTLE CORNER

Basically there was an a issue a while ago between cozy cafe, an age regression community that aims to be a safe space for regressors and caregivers alike, and little corner, ask-welcomehome's community who has the same goal, on how little corner was a copy of cozy cafe. The description and about was copied from cozy cafe.

Ask welcomehome then apologised and corrected said issues, said it wouldn't happen again and all was well. Until some people started digging it up and harassing this user because of this issue, which was fixed and they were forgiven and still allowed in cozy cafe.

This drove ask welcomehome to make a post in little corner saying to report everyone in cozy cafe and to attempt taking down the community, whilst making rude remarks about people in the community and saying they're all horrible. I then attempted to inform them that what they were doing was also coming off as harrasment and that a better disision would be to report individuals that were harassing them. They then removed my comments for "irrelevance" and banned me from the community.

I thought maybe i came off as rude and brushed it off as i worded it wrong. But due to recent events i realised its simply because they dont care.

Remember when i mentioned they apologised and said they'd improve? That didn't happen.

i found a post of them asking someone in their ask box if they'd like to join their alterhuman community. This person then called them out for being a copy of their community. This was less than a week ago.

they then apologised, whilst blaming harassment for giving them anxiety, which is a very common thing they do.

user has already been informed that this isbt the first time this has happened.

What drove me to make this post is recent events were welcome home joined cozy cafe, reported some accounts that were against the rules, and used that to brag why they're better. they then blocked admin and started lying saying admin is a ghost blog/a bot.

when you block someone or someone blocks you back, you show up as a ghost blog.

welcomehome then sent an alt who they said was a friend to go "apologise"

this apology was FULL of excuses like "they were semi regressed" "they have anxiety " "theyve been dming me crying about how they wish it went differently"

i am a regressor who has unmediated general anxiety disorder and i have frequent long lasting anxiety attacks that disable me from doing basic things. i have a daily anxiety attacks yet am still able to take responsibility for my actions because anxiety doesn't MAKE you harass people. anxiety doesnt MAKE you copy communities and fake apologies when you're called out.

this "friend" never went and talked to admin before posting and there were two posts made.

the admin then took down the posts, due to it being against the rules and distressing people in cozy cafe and privately talking to said friend.

ask welcomehome was then banned and soon after so was the friend due to the screenshot below

"main home account"

this was their reasoning for this

this may have been the part where i messed up and im sorry for this

i was blocked by them after being banned from little corner so i used an alt to look at their account since people were panicking about them making up stuff. im sorry for that i had no justification other than "i was curious"

but in their description was this

thats the blog tgat was in cozy cafe.

i also found posts straight up LYING about what happened and again, using anxiety as a guilt trip which is INSULTING for someone who has extreme anxiety

they caused drama. i checked my notifs to find paragraphs of excuses used as an "apology"

"for no reason" you just stated why they were banned

"dmed them nothing but rude crap" wrong i dmed them saying that im sorry if what i said came off as rude (i said if it is them they need to log off and get mental help) and i felt like the apology was simply excuses

"over a small mistake" you make rude posts harassing the community and its members and you have not once but twice copied two communities and used being harrassed and having anxiety as a guilt trip, which then you without warning FORCED an apology on the people who dont even KNOW you whilst in a vulnerable mindset just so you can claim you're good and they're bad.

i also saw ZERO comments claiming that ur friend was a bot

the admin is an absolute sweetheart and has been trying his best to handle the situation whilst you and your friends make up lies and harrass the admin and their community

there was another rude post that was deleted

you are NOT fit to have a community and you should take a break off the internet and get HELP .

you are parasocial, you weaponise your disabilities to guilt trip others, you make empty promises and fake apologies, you harass people and throw a tantrum when you get backlash, you're a liar who makes stuff up so they get pity and you use this as an opportunity to advertise your community calling yourself better.

i hope you do learn from your actions this time and realise the severity of your actions.

Little corner and its community has done NOTHING wrong nor has cozy cafe and any other users/ communities that have been mentioned. This is @ask-welcomehome 's mistake and they should own up for it with no excuses, no "friend" speaking for them and no guilt trip/ weaponising disorders and blaming them for their actions.

pls dm my main @puppyregect-org for any further question/details or comment below

sorry for the wall of text LMAO

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Hey, so, this is to averyone in both the Little Corner and Caregiver Corner communities made by @ask-welcomehome

I was removed from the little corner today, with no warning beforehand nor explanation afterwards

I attempted to reach out but was ignored every time and this account is now blocked on all blogs owned by this person/system.

All I wanted/still want is an explanation. If anyone, member or moderator, can give it to me then I'll gladly drop the matter. I have reached out to one other mod who has yet to respond.

I have a hunch this has to do with his numerous conversations about the Cozy Cafe, in which he was venting about them, and I said I disliked the community for theit controversies but was tempted to join to see the drama first hand, which was the last thing I said before this ban.

Again. All I want is for him to explain himself. Nothing more, nothing less.

Thank you.

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i love being a non traditional regressor. sometimes regression can be getting cozy under your blanket in your hello kitty pj bottoms and oversized junji ito graphic tee shirt while watching let’s play videos of horror games

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captured

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Shout out to the littles who...

Cry a lot

Have a hard time understanding their emotions

Are having to relearn how to play

Still have to do big kid stuff while little

Don't use pacifiers

Wear diapers/pull ups

Are chronically ill

Are mentally ill

Have to take care of themselves

You are loved, I love you. There is no one way to heal.

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a reminder 🫧

☀️ your fictional cg loves you

☀️ your fictional cg cares about you so much

☀️ your fictional cg adores spending time with you

☀️ your fictional cg does not judge your regression at all

☀️ your fictional cg understands all your quirks and habits

☀️ your fictional cg feels honored to be able to take care of you

having a fictional cg is not weird or wrong, it is incredibly cool. you see a character that someone has created, and your thought is "i want that character to take care of me." what can be more beautiful than that?

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agere sensories - touchies!

Seeking

Get cuddles! From your friends, caregiver(s), family, stuffed animals, toys! You can wrap yourself in blankets to imitate a hug!

Let your hands explore whenever you travel. Snow, grass, leaves, rain, mud, sand, rocks, maybe dogs you pass by (ask the dog owners first for permission)

Kinetic sand, clay, slime, beads, crinkly plushies, textured books for babies, sensory mats, brushable toys

If you're an older little or even a middle, cooking! especially dough making, but handling food involves a lot of touching

Speaking of, play with your food! Eat with your hands, explore the textures in an approachable way

Toy cars and fidget spinners (anyone remembers these?)! Beyblades! I love when you can feel the spinnies!

Let someone brush you, or get a scalp massager as an alternative! Maybe you brush them, feeling your hands on the hair? Both are good!

Wear thick, warm clothes! Especially since it's already December (!). The heavy blankets and coats always make me feel regressy!

If you're still seeking touchies but not as overwhelming as hugs, hand holding! And its universal, it can be a person, a stuffie, a doll, Or even a hand warmer if you're closeted! something about my hands not being lonely is very comforting

Another subtle touchy are keychains! They don't leave a residue and come in a variety of textures, or can even stimulate other sensories (like holographic for eyes, or be electronic and make sounds for the ears)

Avoidant

Have your baby wipes on you, maybe a hand sanitizer in case a bad touchy appears!

If you're fem leaning, have a small box designated for the jewelry/hair things you're wearing, to have a safe spot to put them in whenever they overwhelm you

Invest in hair detanglers! Bonus points if they're designed for kids! it minimizes the pain of brushing your hair

Make sure your friends and caregiver(s) are aware of your boundaries, and settle on alternatives to display affection. They should want the best for you!

wear something to indicate your limits, ex. "no hugs", "ask before touching", "no touching". It can be a pin, a bracelet, or even a sign on the sunflower lanyard if you have one

be thorough while buying clothes. Sometimes it's one small detail that makes the clothing uncomfortable. Never rush yourself!

As tedious as it is, you may want to consider cutting out clothing tags (i recommend keeping them if they have irregular washing instructions), and tags on your stuffies too!

baby towels, baby blankets! They may be smaller but way less harsher than their adult counterparts

Keep track what textures you like and dislike, with other sensories! It makes looking after yourself easier if you know what to look for

It's okay if something overwhelms you and you retreat. It's your coping mechanism and nobody else's, you get to dictate your tempo

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all i said was that i don't think its a good idea to report a whole community instead of individuals and that making a whole post and tag about reporting a community seems more like harassment and weaponising your community ?

deleting my comments felt like silencing other's opinions/views/advice which isn't the best thing to do

i understand not liking what i said and im sorry if i came off as harsh but you very much are making an immature decision

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Blues clues + kidcore stimboard

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This was a request!

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fidget spinner at flying tiger | my video, link back here if using

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another self indulgent laika (laika’s comet) stimboard… (for me, ofc.. (¯▿¯) )

mobile / kirby shaker / trans tangle

cinnamoroll omurice / 🌟 / blueberry pancakes

motorcycle / super star / starry blanket