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My Main issue with the 2017 Ducktales reboot is that i grew Up with the ltbs so the characters are way to likable. Donald shouldn't hate Scrooge for getting His sister killed or whatever He should hate him for regularly blackmailing him into dragging him on Dangerous adventures for little to No reward by Holding His inheritance hostage
#donald as well tbh#his characterization in the stories i grew up with ranged from endearingly lazy with a bit of a temper#to borderline abusive#ltb is a german anthology series of mostly duck centered comics for those who don't know#i think it was mostly translations of italian stories#ducktales#donald duck#scrooge mcduck
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who up hating pop psychology
#mbti#aspd#npd#bpd#pop psych#trauma#dark empath#myth of 25#love language#male brain#female brain#myers briggs#borderline#narc#narc abuse#narcissism#sociopathy#sociopath#borderline abuse#pop psychology#psychology
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pls donāt flirt with me i want to be nonchalant so bad but i unfortunately crave connection so intensely that i will give you my entire soul and forgive you over and over until iāve lost myself completely and feel like iām drowning
#bpd safe#bpd thoughts#bpd vent#bpd#mentally exhausted#actually bpd#sadgirl#depressing shit#mental health#mental illness#mentally fucked#mentally unstable#disordered eating mention#actually mentally ill#sad thoughts#self h@rm#suic1de#bpd stuff#substance addiction#substance abuse#shitpost#addiction#bpd feels#borderline personality disorder#tw depressing thoughts#girls who do hard drugs#ed culture#eating disoder trigger warning#sadnees#actually borderline
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#actually bpd#bpd feels#bpd problems#bpd#bpd vent#bpd fp#bpd mood#bpd shit#bpd stuff#bpd tag#bpd thoughts#borderline personality disorder#tw abuse#tw drugs#tw disordered eating#trauma#trauma vent
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the thing that gets me the most about ableism against pdās is that ppl will be like āthese disorders make you an ASSHOLE!!!!ā and then turn around and pretend that other disorders canāt and donāt make you act shitty.
depression and anxiety can make you irritable and snappy. they can cause you to refuse to listen to people and to be distant and withdrawn. they can cause you to seem angry, bitchy, rude, uncaring, etc.
ptsd causes an array of difficulties in forming meaningful relationships. it pretty much shakes up your entire worldview and sense of self a lot of the time. ptsd can cause you to get angry often. it can cause you to yell and scream. it can cause you to withdraw from others, run away, or cut them out. it can cause general changes in demeanor and more cynical worldviews. it can make you seem grouchy, negative, explosive, impolite, difficult, needy, controlling, etc.
and yet when people with personality disorders have symptoms of that nature, suddenly we are irredeemable monsters. when itās npd, bpd, hpd, or aspd instead of ptsd or depression and anxiety, people suddenly and magically lose the ability to be understanding.
mental illness is an explanation, not an excuse. i firmly believe that. hurting others is never justified simply because you have any disorder.
but if you can be patient with people who have depression, anxiety, ptsd, ocd, or any other more well understood mental illness, you can be patient with us.
#ableism#ableism mention#ableism tw#cluster b#cluster b positivity#npd#bpd#hpd#aspd#npd positivity#bpd positivity#hpd positivity#aspd positivity#narcissistic abuse#narcissistic abuse awareness#actually cluster b#actually bpd#actually npd#actually borderline#actually narcissistic
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āMouthful of Foreversā, Clementine von Radics
#not mine#dark poetry#dark literature#vent poetry#poetry#tw trauma#trauma vent#emotional abuse#tw abuse#childhood trauma#daddy issues#borderline personality disorder#bpd blog#bpd vent#actually borderline#quiet borderline#deep quotes#dark academia poetry#classic literature
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tired of people on tiktok acting like BPD and HPD are the āgood cluster b disordersā or the āvictim cluster bāsā meanwhile NPD and ASPD are the āevil mean abusive cluster bāsā
stfu.
weāre in the same cluster for a reason, you canāt support some whilst demonising the others.
#actually aspd#actually npd#aspd#npd#clusterb#actually mentally ill#actuallyaspd#actuallynpd#cluster b#actually bpd#actuallybpd#actually narcissistic#actually antisocial#actually borderline#hpd#actually hpd#actually cluster b#cluster b personality disorder#antisocial personality disorder#narcissistic personality disorder#borderline personality disorder#histrionic personality disorder#narc abuse isnt real#narc abuse isn't real#npd positivity#aspd safe#aspd positivity#npd safe#npd vent#bpd safe
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Abuse isn't only physical. Sometimes it is...
Shouting at them until they cry/retaliate.
Humiliating them in front of friends and family.
Refusing to let them see friends and family.
Isolating them from what's outside.
Refusing to let them have control over their own finances / keeping it all for yourself.
Belittling their looks, their personality, their thoughts, etc.
Bullying them in any way.
Purposely pushing boundaries.
Threatening them, either physically, verbally or emotionally.
Controlling what and when they eat.
Locking them in rooms so they can't escape.
Refusing to let them use the toilet/eat/sleep/etc. after or before a certain time.
Gaslighting them into questioning their own reality.
Lying to or manipulating the people around them so they look like the abuser.
Purposely breaking their belongings, especially in front of them.
Ignoring safewords/"stop"/anything that indicates they're not okay with what's happening (in general, not just in the bedroom)
Giving them zero privacy. That means going through their diaries, tracking them, attending their therapy/doctors appointments when they don't want you to.
Setting them up to fail for the sole purpose of getting to punish them.
Obvious favoritism of one child over another/the others.
All of these are things that I have personally been through. They contributed heavily to my eating disorder, my BPD, my anxiety and my depression.
#cluster b safe#cluster b#bpd#borderline#borderline personality disorder#actually bpd#actually borderline#npd safe#aspd safe#hpd safe#tw.abuse#bpd safe#emotional abuse#childhood trauma#ptsd#actually ptsd#ptsd recovery
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me, with both:...
#borderline personality disorder#bpd splitting#actually bpd#bpd thoughts#bpd problems#bpd#bpd vent#actually borderline#borderline pd#ptsd#complex ptsd#actually ptsd#ptsd recovery#tw ptsd#tw abuse#tw abuse mention#calico hisses
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#bpd safe#bpd thoughts#bpd vent#bpd#mentally exhausted#actually bpd#sadgirl#depressing shit#mental health#mental illness#mentally fucked#mentally unstable#actually mentally ill#disordered eating mention#self h@rm#suic1de#bpd stuff#substance addiction#sad thoughts#substance abuse#anxienty#addiction#actually borderline#shitpost#trauma#eating disoder trigger warning#ed culture#bpd feels#tw depressing thoughts#tw drugs
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#bpd feels#actually bpd#bpd#bpd problems#bpd vent#bpd fp#bpd mood#bpd shit#bpd stuff#bpd tag#bpd thoughts#borderline personality disorder#substance abuse disorder#tw abuse#tw drugs#trauma#trauma vent
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Reminder for people with Personality Disorders:
You can be in therapy for years to be able to cope.
You can mask the difficulties you have.
You can cope well with your disorders.
You can function in daily life.
But the day you have a bad day, the day you're so overwhelmed that the mask slips and you simply say one thing, the neurotypicals will use it against you and use it to abuse you.
Abuse is a choice. Abusers make the choice to abuse someone. Not every abuser has a personality disorder. There are plenty of abusers that are Neurotypical. Plenty of neurotypicals will abuse those with PDs due to the stigma and misinformation around them.
Quit using terms like "Narcissistic/Histrionic/Borderline/Anti-Social Abuse"
Quit using "Narcissist" and "Anti-Social" as insults.
Quit justifying abuse towards people with PDs.
Quit armchair diagnosing abusers and assholes with Personality Disorders when you don't know the lived experience of people with them.
Stop fucking appealing to Neurotypicals.
#npd#actually narcissistic#actually npd#narcissism#narcissistic personality disorder#pwnpd#narc abuse#narcissistic abuse#actually bpd#bpd#borderline personality disorder#actually cluster b#cluster b disorders#actually hpd#hpd#actually aspd#aspd#aspd safe#hpd safe#npd safw#bpd safe
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anonymous ; found on pinterest
#not mine#growing up#vent poetry#dark poetry#borderline personality disorder#bpd blog#bpd thoughts#relatable posts#bpd vent#actually borderline#quiet borderline#living with borderline#tw substance abuse#dark academia poetry#beautiful poetry#deep quotes
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you traumatized me for a lifetime, but it was just another sunday afternoon for you.
#bpd tag#actually borderline#borderline#therapy#actually bpd#tw depressing stuff#trauma#csa victim#tw abuse#childhood trauma#borderline personality disorder#cluster b
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āhow do i get to know you better?ā
donāt. iām fucking insane.
#actually aspd#actually npd#aspd#npd#actuallyaspd#actuallynpd#clusterb#actually bpd#actually mentally ill#cluster b#actuallybpd#actually narcissistic#actually antisocial#actually borderline#mental illness#narcissistic personality disorder#antisocial personality disorder#borderline personality disorder#borderline pd#actually schizophrenic#paranoid schizophrenic#cluster b personality disorder#actually cluster b#im mentally ill#im mentally unwell#mental health#donāt talk to me#narc abuse isnt real#narc abuse isn't real#im going insane
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I have no empathy, remorse, guilt or compassion.
That is how I experience things, as a result of my personality disorders.
If you are going to support personality disorders then you also must include people with these symptoms as well and not just the glorified version the media attempts to convey.
#actually antisocial#actually aspd#actually borderline#actually bpd#actually mentally ill#actually narcissistic#actually npd#actuallyaspd#actuallybpd#actuallynpd#npd#bpd#aspd#actually cluster b#clusterb#cluster b#cluster b personality disorder#aspd culture is#no empathy#no guilt#no remorse#narcissistic sociopath#narcissistic personality disorder#narc abuse isn't real#antisocial personality disorder#borderline personality disorder#mental illness#stigma#sociopath#psychopathy
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