#this user is a transmasculine lesbian

[lgbtq-userboxes]

[burntoutuserboxes]

[This user is a transmas lesbian.]

[genderqueerdykes]

honestly as a butch, i just gotta say it: that "chivalrous knight in shining armor" crap is objectifying as hell and it's not fun, cute, or validating to apply to us, it provides a burden for us to bear, it makes us paranoid, tired, weary and feel like we're being reduced to a stereotype, or like we're being forced into a mold.

i'm not a knight just because i'm a transmasculine person who looks tough and can theoretically protect femme queers. i'm literally just standing here, being transsexual. i'm not inherently "chilvarous," i don't have any obligation to protect people just because i adopted the label "butch". what if i'm weak? what if the butch needs to be protected? what if the butch is disabled, traumatized, or just scared? i'm a wheelchair user.

why can't femmes protect their butches? why does it always have to be the butch being the chivalrous knight in our yearning posts and poems? why do we have to weave a performative ass narrative of the masculine partner swooping in to protect their defenseless feminine partner? how the HELL is this progressive or subversive at all? this is literally reinventing the binary.

the way the (white) cis lesbian community treats its butches is alienating as all hell. we are not here just to protect other people. we are not inherently protectors. we are not all strong. we are allowed to be weak. we are allowed to be scared. we are allowed to be hurt. we don't HAVE to protect our femmes, if we like femmes at all. not every butch is attracted to femme people in the first place.

butch isn't a lifestyle, it's not a set personality type. it's not a specific set of actions; it's just queer masculinity, that can be expressed by a multitude of queers for a multitude of reasons. it's not one specific set of traits. masculinity is not just found in protecting others and acting tough, it's also in being soft, vulnerable, weak and tender.

just let butches be people, don't turn us into objects before we even get out of the gates. all of this removes the human element of being butch. if the queer community can't afford that, we can't get it from anywhere, because we sure as hell aren't seen as humans by cisheteronormative society.

don't force me to see myself as a knight when i'm the one who needs help just because i'm masculine, or just because i'm a man.

butches need help, too.

[bahfreak]

haii!!!! can wi request an alter based on a 2020 alt /wierd kid? with luts of transabled ids and some transharmed ids ^^ graphic (emoji) pronouns and word pronouns (like neo / neon, dat is one we'd like ya to include!) faceclaims if you want, but were not sur ya do them :,3 and if ya do, we would prefer ya to put drawn ones (wdk how to explain it) over ones that use real ppls faces!! tyy!!!!!!!! :333333

yep !!! here yu go （＾∇＾） i wasn’t sure what yu meant with the drawn over ones but i found some that may fit ? they’re under the cut , not drawn

room 102 ,, ARSON . . .

names : arson , bot , critter , karl , void , virus

pronouns : he / him , they / them , it / its , shi / hir , ve / vim , xe / xim , zey / zem , ae / aer , bug / bugs , rot / rots , mush / mushroom , rain / rainbow , neo / neon , mew / meow , kit / kits , bun / buns , pup / pups , paw / paws , blood / bleed , drip / drop , beep / beeps , boop , boops , weird / weirds , freak / freaks , fuck / fucks , hoe / hoes , slut / sluts , fag / faggot , nor / mal , fool / fools , joy / joys , silly / sillies , pop / pops , 🦴 , 🐾 , 🌈 , 🍓 , 🍰 , 🐇 , 🎉 , 👾 , 🫀 , 🫁 , 🧠 , 🪱 , 🐛 , 🐌 , 🐞 , 🪰 , 🪲 , 🪳 , 🕷️ , 🕸️ , 🦖 , 🦕 , 🪼 , 🦈 , 🪶 , 🦝 , 🐁 , 🐀 , 🌱 , 🍄 , 🍄‍🟫 , 🌸 , 🌼 , 🌻 , 🌺 , 🪷 , 🪻 , 🌹 , 🌷 , 💐 , 🌾 , 🪐 , 💫 , ⭐️ , ⚡️ , ☀️ , ❄️ , 🍥 , 🍡 , 🛹 , 🎟️ , 🎤 , 🎧 , 🎲 , 🧩 , ⚓️ , 🎠 , 📺 , 🔋 , 🪫 , 🚬 , 🧿 , 🩻 , 🩹 , 💉 , 🪅 , 💌 , 🧷

terms : masculine

genders : transgender , transmasculine , transfeminine , transfemasc , genderfluid , bungender , catgender , pupgender , autigender , rainbowgender , huegender , sweetgender , cutegender , deathcute

orientation : lesboy , lesbian , gay , gaybian , contrasexual , aegosexual , graysexual

paraphilias : 🐾 , 🧸 , 💥 , 🛍️ , 🎎 , 🎵 , 💧

species : trans - shapeshifter

cis - ids : seasonal depression , bullied , generalized anxiety disorder , anxiety tics

tris - ids : short , severi - sh , severi - ed , severi - depression , severi - anxiety , schrödingers - adhd

trans - ids : intersex , ageless , immortal , plural , traumagenic , hc - did , programmed , autistic , schizotypal , npd , hpd , dpd , ppd , tourette’s , non - speaking , aac user , wheelchair user , cane user , paralyzed , chronic pain , harmed , abused , neglected , sexually assaulted , perma - broken arm , perma - bloody nose , perma - bruised

roles : masochist , jokestar , optimist , imposter syndrome holder , persecutor ( to the body )

source : N / A

typing quirk : s = z , a = 4 , o = 0 , e = 3 , i = 1 , f = v , & v = f ( example : “ 1 h4f3 z34z0n4l d3pr3zz10n , n0t m4j0r d3pr3zz1f3 d1z0rd3r “ { i have seasonal depression , not major depressive disorder } )

[velvetvexations]

My apologies if you've already been sent this post, but I came across it a few days ago and haven't been able to stop thinking about how laughable (and frustrating) it is. https://www.tumblr.com/princessefemmelesbian/766811116737363968/maybe-im-just-being-dramatic-but-it-does?source=share "[...] to say nothing of the fact that the largest people in this group (including, but not limited to, its creator!) have misogynistic rape/detrans kinks centered specifically around preying on lesbians and trans women [...]" "[...] defended viciously by every single transandrodork that I’ve ever encountered who argued with me (a lesbian!) that actually there’s nothing wrong with getting off to the corrective rape of women because two consenting adults can do whatever they want in the bedroom (yeah, right!)" Ignoring the fact that half of this is just lies, these people keep contradicting themselves when it comes to transmasculine people and kinks. I have seen several TRFs complain about transmasculine people attacking transgender women over their kinks, including, but not limited to... FTM detransition, forcefeminization, and misgendering. Why is it okay for one side to do, but not another? Are transgender men evil sex puritans or misogynistic porn addicts? Be consistent! (also worth nothing that OP scoffs at the idea that you don't need to justify your kinks when mutual consent is present) Beyond that..."die-hard, raging Zionists?" What? I honestly find it incredibly disgusting how these people will tack on any negative label just to further other and demonize people they disagree with. Tumblr discourse has nothing to do with /genocide,/ and I can't put into words how disrespectful it is to conflate the two, especially when this post seems to be addressed to young teenagers. I don't want to leave a big essay in your inbox, so I'll stop here, but it's nuts to me how these people can write this infantilizing, vilifying, lying nonsense and think they're in the right.

these people will never acknowledge that trans men into dykebreaking from the dom perspective are a vanishingly small demographic that are one or two Tumblr bloggers away from total extinction while there are about a billion transfems into dykebreaking

there is literally a very popular transfem user on this website who has TERFs comparing her selfies to disguised selfies on a trans supremacy kink dykebreaking blog

why do cis people like this think they're safe for transfems

why do transfems think cis people like this are safe

[sirenium]

Do you know what I find funny? The fact that every time I make a positivity post about queerness at its fullest, people only have something bad to say about the lesbian part. They scream at me about how the icky men don't belong in lesbian spaces, because everyone knows all men are predatory (sarcasm).

These people only care about lesbians when it gives them an excuse to hate men. Fuck the fact that the butch community is filled with gender fuckery, and how that involves manhood. Fuck the rich history of transmasculinity and lesbianism. It's all 'lesbians can't be men! They can't like men!'

And when you say 'hey, that's not true. There are historic examples of lesbian identified people who did the very things you say lesbians can't do' you're labeled a lesbian hater. I guess I hate myself then, though since I am to some extent a man who also likes men, I was never a lesbian to begin with according to users on Tumblr dot com (again, sarcasm).

Give me a break. Stop cloaking your misandry with 'I just care about lesbians!' because you don't care about lesbians. You only care about the man hating gold star lesbians who piss themselves at the deeper queer community as you do. You would throw that elder trans man lesbian under the bus, because his identity is 'invalid' to you. You can't handle multigender people, or genderqueer people in general, sullying your precious label with their manhood. You cannot stand to see another lesbian dating a man, because suddenly they're the ones forcing people to date who they don't want to date.

Queerness is supposed to be an acceptance of who you are, as someone who strays from what is expected by cishetallo society. And yet, expectations follow you into the fucking community itself. And I get it, I'm basically a baby queer myself; I've only been out for like five years, and have barely been involved in my local queer scene. But through the little bit of experience that I have had, at least I can mind my own damn business.

Tumblr has some of the most insufferable baby queers known to man, as do other websites such as TikTok and Twitter, because they honestly think they have authority over someone else's identity. They actively try to enforce their ideas of lesbianism specifically onto other people, people who are just living differently. Nobody gets the right to say what a lesbian is or isn't, nobody gets the right to pull the 'invalid' card, because sweetheart, we're ALL invalid as far as the far right is concerned.

I used to find joy in my lesbian identity once I dusted it off, after thinking I couldn't be one the more masculine my gender got, but the amount of hatred I've personally experienced as well as witnessed dampens said joy. And that fucking sucks. So no, I don't hate lesbians, but I sure do hate the ones that have made the community so hostile towards those like me... and not because of their identity either, though they no doubt think that's the reason regardless of what the truth is.

[vaspider]

Hey! You reblogged a post earlier of a comic about lesbians wanting to have sex with each other, but one of the additions on the post was written by an extreme and proud transandrophobe who hates trans mascs. I don't want to say which person here in case this ask is posted because I'm extremely against callout posts and that sort of discourse. So if you want to know, you can message me. I also understand if this isn't something you want to engage in. I'm only sending this ask because the person is very, very proud about how much they hate trans mascs and regularly posts screenshots making fun of transmasculine people, but I don't blame you if you'd rather not know. I hate when people send asks making claims about who is "secretly a bigot," but the user in question is not secret about their harassment of fellow trans people. Anyways, please don't feel obliged to message me, and have a good day

Yeah, don't do this. I post everything, as it says all over the top of my blog. I'm not going to engage with this, and I'm not DMing someone I don't know for evidence or whatever. Either send me things or don't, but don't do this.

[transbutchblues]

about me

Iphis • he/(she)/(they) & ze/hir (no feminine terms) • transmasculine butch lesbian • white • french • autistic • physically disabled (cane user) • undergraduate classics student • hellenic polytheist (worshipping many deities but especially Artemis and Zeus) • learning ancient greek & latin • beginning to learn akkadian as of october 2024 • occasionally a writer

about this blog

mostly classics stuff or hellenic polytheism things • my religious practice is heavily informed by my studies but i make a difference between my personal beliefs and the way i will discuss myths or cults • sideblogs : @greekchoruslikealawyer : personal sideblog, where i post anything about my life but also about classics || @dancingthroughthewilderness : mostly a religious + literary account, only reblogs || @perditaiuventus : for my interest in roman history, but that also tends to go on my personal sideblog

links

— socials

spotify • transbutchblues on discord/insta/tiktok

— posts

The Locked Tomb analysis document (100+ pages, to be updated with new theories)

Divine transsexuality - trans gods & queer worshippers

Reminder : the Gods are everywhere

[prsk2dmv-transparents]

Headcanons for my Project SEKAI x Danny Phantom crossover fic series

Ichika: Nonbinary, bisexual, they/she/he pronouns (in preference order), anxious and autistic

Saki: Omnisexual, she/her pronouns, (juvenile) multiple sclerosis, chronic pain, auDHD, and mobility aid user (usually forearm crutches when necessary)

Honami: Ply lesbian, multigender, she/her pronouns primarily but also pronounfluid, anxious, depressed, autistic, and PTSD

Shiho: Butch, transmasculine, lesboy, he/they pronouns, autistic and depressed

[mistymeow69]

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I am not transID because it's "fun" or "cute". I genuinely feel debilitating dysphoria that affects me nearly every day. I've felt this way since childhood, my entire life. I am transgender as well, and I can tell you it feels exactly like my gender dysphoria but worse. I respect those who are born with the things I am transitioning to, I am not aestheticizing anything; I am ancestrally mixed. I do not intend to harm anyone in the process of my transitions, but nor will I follow anyone else's rules. My identities are my own. It's not a joke or mockery toward any group of people, this is genuinely who I am. I do not have BIID, I am already disabled and I'm not even transabled. My account is themed cute because it's how I express myself, not because that's all there is to it. This isn't purely online either; I am already out to multiple people, who don't even use Tumblr or interact with the transID community, but support me anyway. (Proof, yes I used the term RCTA at the time ↓)

OPENING FOLDER . . .

NAME(S) 📁 Mist, ミスト (Misuto), 霞 (Kasumi), 曇り (Kumori)

PRONOUNS 📁 he/fae/they, or anything other than she !

GENDER 📁 non-binary trans guy / femboyflux + xenos (autigender)

ORIENTATION 📁 ambiamorous cupiosexual lesbian / lesboy / lesbiflexible (only with trans men) (autisexual)

AGE RANGE 📁 13+ minor (no I'm not 13)

ZODIAC 📁 gemini sun + moon, virgo rising

MBTI 📁 intp (be warned I don't know a lot about typology so don't come for me)

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︎ ︎ ︎Pro ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎♡ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎Neutral ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎♡ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎Anti

Proship/fiction/fandom, radinclus, pro-transid, pro-k1 nk, pro-consent, pro-recovery, pro-endo, irls, pro-choice, pro-MUD, radqueer neutral, neu-para, neu-consang, self diagnosis neutral, complex/anti-contact, anti-no nc0n abuse, anti-harassment, anti-cringe culture, anti-fake claiming/reality checking, mostly anti-transharmful*, anti-censorship

( I doubt neu- is an actual prefix but it's easier than typing "neutral" every time www )

( yes I know I'm a little hypocritical )

﹢₊ ⟡ ⊹﹢ MY IDs ﹢₊ ⟡ ⊹﹢

★♪ヽヽヽ★♪ヽヽヽ★♪ヽヽヽ★♪

CisIDS 🫧 ⊹﹢₊ ⟡ ⊹﹢

🫧 CisauDHD

🫧 Cisdisabled (POTS, hEDS, MS, scoliosis, etc.)

🫧 Soon-to-be cismobilityaid

🫧 Cismyopic

🫧 CisCPTSD

🫧 Cisnative

︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎🧁 TrisIDs** 🧁

︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎🧁 OCD

︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎🧁 Bipolar II

**What I mean is that I'm unsure whether I technically have them or not. So I don't know if those are cisIDs or transIDs, therefore being in-between.

︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ︎ ⊹﹢₊ ⟡ ⊹﹢☂️ TransIDs

☂️ Transmasculine ☂️ (my main

☂️ Transjapanese ☂️ 2 transitions )

☂️ Transintersex

☄️ OTHER IDENTITIES ☄️

☂️ Speciesfluid (mostly transcat)

☄️ I'm an IRL (my characters are pretty fluid, but it's mainly Tsukasa Tenma, and as of now it's Two from BFDI as well, but I likely won't talk about that much on here)

☄️ I'm an otherkin (fae, vampire, along with multiple theriotypes; this kind of blends with my speciesfluid ID)

☄️ I'm a pagan (astrology, helpol, witchcraft, etc.)

Boundaries

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Support needs ! Please provide :

• Translations for most typing quirks + heavy fonts

• Transcription if I ask

• Tone tags***

• Time to respond (I have ADHD plus anxiety plus memory issues)

• Patience in general, I have this weird thing with brain fog making my personality change and sometimes my tone comes off totally different from how I intended and I don't realize until later :(

Please avoid interacting if you :

• Support yahtzees ( *including transn4 z1 and similar identities such as transscho olsh00ter, that's what I mean by transharmful; I don't care if you're conabuse )

• Frequently talk about para discourse ( it makes me uncomfortable )

• Are under 12 or over 22 ( doesn't include short conversations ofc )

• Are fixed-minded, immediately providing aggressive knee-jerk reactions to things that confuse you, and are unwilling to change your mindset

I am happy to answer any questions about anything, but if you aren't respectful I will delete comments and block freely ! Negativity makes my head hurt ^^'

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Why don't I identify as radqueer? (feel free to skip)

1: Paraphilias. They are often a central theme of the radqueer community. I am not a paraphile, so it already wouldn't make a lot of sense for me to speak on such a topic that I haven't experienced myself. I also just generally feel uncomfortable around s3 xual paraphilias, I don't know it feels weird even if it's something non-harmful. I don't care if you identify that way, as long as you're not going to act on any crimes and don't talk about NSFT 24/7. You do you. I just choose not to associate myself with it because I view it as a disorder so I don't really like the way the community treats the topic.

1.5: Pro-c people. A lot of people seem to think the radqueer community is too anti-c, but I honestly think it's the other way around. I see way too many people normalize relationships with literal gr0 oming and animal ab v$e. Same with people publicly talking about fantasies of doing those things. I know we're all weird here but come on dude . . . it's gone from a safe space for paraphiles to preda t0rs.

2: Certain transIDs. Specifically transharmful and parasoIDs. I don't care about conabuse, what I mean is like I stated before, things like transna z1. Aren't we supposed to be progressive? Why are we looping back around into supporting people transitioning into the very thing that would kiII us? ParasoIDs, well, I just don't get it. I don't see how you can identify for someone else. Does that not go against the whole point of personal identity? You can't force an identity upon someone else, again, it goes against what we're supposed to be. And finally, there isn't a term for this one, but people who just . . . identify as their fantasies. Things that aren't even social constructs. Without even giving the actual experience and victims a second thought, just identifying that way for the purpose of doing it. For fun, a temporary little high from feeling problematic, not serious dysphoria and/or euphoria.

3: Experiences. I've spoken on these issues before, and gotten totally brushed off and compared to a TERF. Because I said you should take the highly marginalized community seriously.

4: Stigma. This may sound silly coming from someone whose account is literally based on stigma, but I get a little sick of seeing "radqueer dni" in my friends' bios even though they don't care about what I support; if most people don't support radqueers but support my views, then there's no reason I should hold myself back with a false label.

Hopefully this makes sense, I still interact with the radqueer community and sometimes crosstag with it, since we still share a lot of views. And I'm totally fine with interacting with radqueers. I just don't vibe with the label anymore, that's why I coined evequeer.

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[mogai-headcanons]

Luz Noceda from The Owl House is a dragonkin autistic partially blind polyamorous bisexual transmasculine catgender boyflux age dreamer with ADHD, depression, PTSD, insomnia, and a self-harm addiction who uses he/him, they/them, hiss/hisses, and mew/mews pronouns, and mew is dating Will and Hunter!

Will Park is a polyamorous pansexual transmasculine nonbinary person with a male preferences who uses they/them pronouns!

Hunter Deamonne is an autistic polyamorous bisexual intersex transgender demiboy age regressor with PTSD, depression, hypermobility, insomnia, schizophrenia, BPD, DID, and albinism who uses he/him pronouns, and he has one alter, the Golden Guard!

They're all friends with Luz's ex-girlfriend Amity Blight, an arospec asexual lesbian who uses she/her pronouns!

Luz's younger brother Vee Noceda is a vincian intersex trans boy cane user with chronic pain who uses he/him pronouns!

Gus Porter is an autistic GNC bisexual middle regressor with anxiety and an undiagnosed schizoaffective disorder who uses any pronouns!

Luz's mentor Edalyn Clawthorne is a polyamorous bisexual trans woman who uses she/her pronouns!

She's in a QPR with Raine Whispers, a transmasculine genderfaun nonbinary vincian!

Raine is dating Darius Deamonne, a gay man!

Darius is good friends with Lou 'Lulu' Clawthorne, an asexual transgender man who uses he/him pronouns and is in a QPR with Hooty!

Eda's child King Clawthorne is an intersex bigender transgender titan who uses he/him and they/them pronouns!

Bo is a nonverbal polyamorous bisexual genderfaun autigender seagender person who uses they/them, he/him, boat/boats, sea/seas, and burn/burns pronouns, and they're in a polyamorous relationship with Eileen and Selene!

Eileen is a demiromantic deathcute liminalgender person with psychosis, depression, social anxiety, and insomnia who uses it/its and bite/bites pronouns!

Selene is a polyamorous xeno4xeno xenofem person with symbrachydactyly and a hoard of space xenogenders!

dni link

[tanjirou-no-au]

Yoichi: Trans Man. Bisexual. He/him.

2nd: Cis Man. Gay. He/Him

3rd: GNC Cis Woman. Aroace. She/They

Shinomori: Bigender Trans Woman. Undefined Sexuality. She/He.

Banjo: Cis Man. Gay (In the closet for most his life). He/Him.

En: Transmasculine Nonbinary man. Bisexual. He/They

Nana: Trans Woman. Lesbian (lost her wife, not her husband). She/Her

Toshinori: Trans Man. Biromantic Asexual. He/Him

Deku: Enby Cis Man. Biromantic Demisexual. He/They

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(Gestures to Yoichi, En & Toshinori)

AfO: The ‘lovely young girl’ to ‘Bastard Man OFA User’ is a heartbreaking phenoma that affects a third of OFA users by volume.

Toshinori, ex-Quirkless Vigilante: Jokes on you! We were never nice young ladies!

En, assasin turned vigilante, and Yoichi, angry feral man: *nod in agreement*

[eldorr]

Shadowlesbian

Official Flag (left), Original Flag (right)

An orientation term where your lesbian identity is affected by the fact:

One is transmasculine, a trans man, transneutral, nonbinary, or just not a woman (includes multigender and genderfluid/genderflux/fluidflux individuals), as one is either too dysphoric about being called a woman, experience a disconnection from traditional womanhood, and/or simply doesn’t identify as a woman or with womanhood. They may describe their attraction as any of the following: MLW; MLNB; MLX; NBLW; NBLNB; NBLX, etc – but they don’t identify their labels as WLW; WLNB; or WLX due to reasons listed above. With a multigender and/or genderfluid/genderflux/fluidflux identity, one feels not straight when with a woman and/or has a fluctuating level of dysphoria when they sometimes view their attraction as sapphic/lesbian in nature, or as WLW; WLNB; WLX. To express that disconnection, the prefix shadow- is used.

This term also includes those whose orientation is fluid and/or flux, who may not 100% identify with the label of lesbian; due to barely ever experiencing attraction to women (or attraction period), having an attraction to women that feels lesbian but also not, having an attraction to women that’s fluid between being queer and queern’t, and/or experiencing attractions under a lesbian/sapphic lens.

In simpler terms, a shadowlesbian may be defined as the following:

Being multigender and/or genderfluid/genderflux/fluidflux but never WLW, yet feeling like their attraction to women is gai/queer.

Being m-spec and not WLW, yet feeling a connection to the label.

Being too dysphoric about being called a woman/girl/being thought of as one, yet being either NBLW, MLW or XLW with a connection to the lesbian label.

Having a fluid/flux orientation where one’s not 100% a lesbian due to any reason, but retaining a connection to the lesbian label.

Simply feeling as if one’s lesbian, but also not.

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This term was originally reposted on June 27th, 2022.

So years (July 19th 2020) ago I coined the Shadow- terms on my original mogai blog. Since then I’ve deleted that blog and one-half of the Shadow- terms do not have rebloggable posts out there, so I decided I’d repost the terms.

A while after (February 27th 2021) another tumblr user (@/thepokedexisgay) decided to make simpler alternate flags to these terms. I’ll be posting a link to their flags at the bottom of these posts.

I made the original flags based off of my original all inclusive lesbian/gay/vincian/etc. flags, and since I’ve remade those and posted them, I figured I’d remake the Shadow- flags as well, simplifying them and following the color schemes of my new flags. So yeah, some “official” flags for these terms.

That being said, I made the new Shadowlesbian flag based off of my Flowerbed Lesbian flag, so along with that if you ID as Shadowsapphic/ShadowQ4W or whoever else I mentioned could use the Flowerbed Lesbian flag, you can also use this flag if you feel your orientation is Shadow-.

(I’d prefer people use these flags as the official versions versus the originals, however if u personally like the other flags whether it’s Alois’s (thepokedexisgay) or the original ones, or feel like making your own based on an alternate lesbian/veldian/enbian/etc. flag, feel free to go on ahead.)

Yes, most of the definition in this post is ripped directly from the LGBTA wiki, with some changes to it due to my current knowledge of labels.

Here is the link to the Shadowlesbian flag made by @/thepokedexisgay, and here is the [link] to the Shadowlesbian page on the LGBTA wiki.

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About user!

We are an Anon System

We are 19 bodily, Transmasculine Queer, Lesbian, Aroaceflux and polyamorous, we are a paraphile (🗺️/⚰️)

Our collective pronouns are : he/him it/its hy/hymn xe/xem rot/rots and 🫀/🫀s

Our stances are: Anti-Contact, Pro-ship, Pro-Fiction, Anti-Censorship Anti-Abuse, Radqueer

Antis will get blocked

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new pinned! pretty similar to the last one just with some added clarification as well as a DNI/BYI.

my name is Ei. i also go by Aoi, Baiyu, and Arabella!

in terms of marginalized identities i'm a bit all over the place. i'm a POC (Black, Falasteeni, Chinese, Japanese + others*). i'm queer as in fuck you and also as in lesbian and grayaroace. i'm intersex and transfeminine. i'm physically disabled and chronically ill. i'm Mad/mentally ill, including schizophrenia, personality disorders, and others. i'm a traumagenic disordered plural system. i'm intellectually disabled, autistic, and adhd.

*others refers to racial identities that i am not as connected to, and therefore am not comfortable listing.

full disclosure that i am also thin, hearing, seeing, non-religious, and usamerican. i only list these so people know what experiences i cannot speak on.

i'm an activist! i'm currently part of @bfpnola's advocacy committee, advocating for intellectually disabled, intersex, and Falasteeni lives.

i'm semiverbal (all the time not "go semiverbal") and a full time TTS user. i have been semiverbal my entire life.

i'm also a cult/OA survivor, although i don't talk about it very often and would prefer to not be asked about it.

DNF/BYF under the cut!

Before You Follow: - i support all plurals including nontraumagenic, nondisordered, median, spiritual, etc. plurals - i support the full decolonization of Falasteen. i do not support israel's existence as a state. - do not ask who is fronting or which alter made a post, even if we are good friends. - i support and love transmascs! i believe in transandrophobia and i firmly believe transmascs face unique oppression/discrimination because of their transmasculine identities. - i do not believe in TME/TMA labels, as nobody is "exempt" from any form of oppression. - i reclaim some slurs but not a lot and not often. if you reclaim a lot of slurs very often i support you! - i use support needs and severity labels for my autism (i have medium support needs/moderate autism).

Do Not Follow: - people who are going to drag me into syscourse. i'm pro endo, but i also don't mind interacting with most anti endos and neutrals and idc if you follow me as an anti as long as you're not going to harass me or try to make me do syscourse with you. - israel supporters, two-state "solution" supporters, anyone who doesn't support the full decolonization of Falasteen. - people who don't believe in transandrophobia - people who use TME/TMA labels - people who think support needs labels for autism are useless or "dividing the community" - anyone who regularly posts about shipcourse or is going to drag me into it - people who say "go semiverbal" or "go nonverbal". this only rly applies if you've been educated and choose to ignore the people educating you, if you genuinely didn't know and are open to education that's different. - people who use the term "theyfab" outside of an educational/reclamation context. even if you think the person deserves to be called it or if you claim it's not a derogatory term.

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Pride Month YCHs (Infinite Slots for now)

I'm currently taking Pride Month YCHs with DA user michifishu's pride flag bases. I wanna start early so I can be sure to have all of them done by/in June

Price: Color: $27 Shading: $32 # of Slots: Unlimited for now

How to order: Email me at real.rockyfuller@gmail.com with a ref sheet of your OC/sona, their species and orientation (if it isn't on the ref) your PayPal email, and how complete you want it (just put "color" or "shading") Note: I will send you an invoice to pay. Please try to pay within 1 week so I don't waste my time making something, only to be snubbed. You will NOT receive the finished piece until the invoice is paid off

About me: I am a transmasculine enby that uses he/him pronouns and I live in a country where anti-trans healthcare and legislation is being passed in several states. I don't think Oregon will be changing anything bc we're a democrat state, and our Governor is a lesbian democrat. But the biggest concern is 2024, where Trump has already threatened to make being transgender illegal across the country. If he or any of his cohorts (DeSantis is running) wins the presidency, the lives of trans POC, trans Jews, and all trans people will be in jeopardy

Most of the profits of these commissions are going towards my livelihood, as I wish to be a full time freelance artist going forward, but I will send a small percentage to pro-trans charities, especially for POC and Jews, who have more at stake than I ever will as a white atheist

Thank you for reading and I hope you will consider buying a pride flag YCH slot. I also have other types of commissions if you want something else instead (I currently do human/anthro reference sheets, headshots/icons, and other YCHs. I do not do full drawings or comics at this time)

Stay safe my fellow LGBTQIA+ family! We can get through these scary times if we stick together and not give up hope

I love you all 🖤🤎❤️🧡💛💚💙💜