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It Gets Better (paraphile edition)

A bit of para positivity today!

It's been like, 15? 16 years? since I realized that my attraction wasn't aging up with me. I went through a lot of feelings of shame and guilt over the years. I felt like I was a monster. I tried to ignore it or make it go away.

Slowly but surely though, internal acceptance came. I found labels that helped. I realized I'm not hurting anyone, now or in the future. I haven't felt like a bad person for my attraction for so long now.

It still hurts of course. Society shames us. It threatens us with incarceration or violence just by existing. We have to caveat this topic constantly for fear of reprisal.

But even if society hates me, I don't hate myself. I enjoy my fantasies and fiction. I know that those things don't make me a bad person.

So if you're struggling with guilt and shame. If you worry that you're a bad person. Know that you are loved. Know that you aren't hurting anyone because of what's in your head or in fiction.

And know that it gets better.

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About user!

We are an Anon System

We are 19 bodily, Transmasculine Queer, Lesbian, Aroaceflux and polyamorous, we are a paraphile (🗺️/⚰️)

Our collective pronouns are : he/him it/its hy/hymn xe/xem rot/rots and 🫀/🫀s

Our stances are: Anti-Contact, Pro-ship, Pro-Fiction, Anti-Censorship Anti-Abuse, Radqueer

Antis will get blocked

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