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actually no, we're not "dating". we're bound together for infinity. like the stars. so, fuck you, actually.
#queerplatonic#alterous attraction#asexual#if you find this and youre her no you didnt#aromantic#queerplatonic relationship#acearo#qpp#qpr#lgbtqia#love#transmasc#alterous yearning#alterous relationship#fuck you mum i love my girlfriend and youll have no part in it#fuck you mum#transgender
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"No guy wants a girl who-" "No guy is gonna want you if-"
original image from @sirompp
#common asexuality w#aro#ace#aroace#aroacespec#arospec#acespec#aspec#aspec community#aroace community#aromantic#asexual#aromantic asexual#alterous attraction#alterous relationship
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does anyone want to be best friends that also live together and go on adventures together but like mundane adventures like ikea and target and also wants to lay our heads on each others shoulders when sleepy but also have separate bedrooms but also enjoy spending most of our free time together……. just me? ok
#aroace#qpr#queerplatonic#asexual#ace#aromantic#aro#greyromantic#queerplatonic relationship#alterous aroace#alterous yearning#alterous attraction#best friend#grace is dramatic#someday with someone unknown
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For me being in a qpr lately is like. No we're not dating. Yes this is my boyfriend isn't he great and lovely and handsome aren't I lucky. No I don't want anyone to mistake us for romantic partners. Yes I want to marry him. No we're not "just friends". Yes I don't want people to think our friendship matters less than our love. No I don't care what people think. Yes I want you to know that we're each other's and each other's alone. No I've never had a crush on him. Yes, I love him with all my heart and soul.
#i could go on#i am so in love with this ridiculous boy#alterous attraction#queerplatonic relationship#queerplatonic#<<<this is how i love him but also so much more#aroace#queerplatonic partner#queerplatonic boyfriend#qpr#alterous#lgbtqia+#qpp#love#transgender#boyfriend#acearo#demisexual#asexual#asexuality#aromantic#demiromantic#demialterous#alterous yearning#alterous relationship#platonic marriage#queerplatonic marriage
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Reblog for something aspec to happen to you this summer
#.txt#aro#ace#aroace#asexual#aromantic#arospec#acespec#aspec#grayromantic#graysexual#demiromantic#demisexual#lithosexual#lithoromantic#frayromantic#fraysexual#aroflux#aceflux#queerplatonic#cupioromantic#cupiosexual#aegosexual#aegoromantic#alterous attraction#alterous relationship#non sam ace#non sam aro#relationship anarchy#split attraction model
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Asexual userboxes (Full pack)
#graphics#web graphics#userbox#did alter#plural userboxes#dissociative system#asexual#asexuel#aroacespec#acearo#acespec#lgbt pride#lgbtq community#lgbtq#lgbtqia#lgbtqiia+#lgbtqplus#truamagenic system#sysblr#traumagenic system#osdd system#system things#system stuff#plural system
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queerplatonic attraction is so weird. i wanna friend this man so bad. i wanna put him in my pocket. heck, I wanna play DND with him.
#aro#aromantic#aroallo#arospec#alloaro#aro positivity#aro pride#aroace#aromantic asexual#aromantic allosexual#queerplatonic#queerplatonic attraction#qpr#alterous#alterous attraction
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Being aroace but also feeling a tertiary form of attraction (alterous attraction) was one of the most confusing parts of my identity to figure out. Before I knew what alterous attraction was, I only knew sexual, romantic, platonic, sensual, and aesthetic attraction.
I had a crush on one of my friends (and I still do). It made me kind of scared because at that point, I was 99% certain I was aroace, and I couldn't tell if I was experiencing romantic attraction or not. I didn't like the idea of dating and I didn't like the word "romance," and yet I also felt like I wanted to be more than friends with that person.
It wasn't until months after discovering I had a crush that I learned about alterous attraction. I liked the definition and I thought that if fit me best, so I started to use it to describe my crush. I felt way more confident using aroace again, because it felt right! And I had a way of explaining my feelings for my crush.
But oh my God, it was so hard to figure out.
Shoutout to people who are confused about their identity right now! Gender and sexuality is tough to figure out, but it's okay to question.
#lgbtq#lgbtqia#lgbtq+#sexuality#aroace#aromantic#asexual#romantic attraction#aromanticism#asexuality#alterous attraction#demialterous#questioning#queer#unsure#confused
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Just a reminder that even if you know like, all the labels, you can still discover things about yourself. I figured out yesterday I'm oriented aroace (alterous attraction) when I've known the term oriented aroace probably since 2020 and have been dating my partner since 2022. Anyways, hello oriented aroaces!
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Relationship but we’re both aromantic and tell people we’re “dating” but only we know we aren’t.
#alterous relationship#alterous attraction#alterous yearning#oaa#oriented aroace#aroace#aromantic#asexual
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PRIDE MONTH'S NOT OVER JUST YET, FOLKS!
2 top and 2 bottom rows are granny squares with pride flag colors with solid color rows of the rainbow pride flag in the middle <3
#lgbt#lgbtqia#lgbtqia+#lgbtq#gay#lesbian#bisexual#transgender#intersex#asexual#aromantic#aroace#greysexual#greyromantic#abrosexual#pansexual#nonbinary#agender#neutrois#genderqueer#genderfluid#demiboy#demigirl#bigender#alterous attraction#queer#crochet#granny square#no but seriously I'm glad I managed to finish this thing before pride month ends
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Pov: You've never had a good, proper friendship before, so the moment you have one with a boy, you convince yourself that you like him, and then you do all the things people do when they like someone, (complimenting them, trying to spend time with them, talking to them, thinking about them 24/7), only for things to get stressful and anxiety enducing when you both confess to each other because you don't REALLY know what its like to love/like someone romantically and everything he does grosses you out and now you're just texting him for hours but he won't even look at you in real life and LOOK NEW HYPERFIXATION!! GOODBYE KID MY NEW LOVE IS SHERLOCK HOLMES
#aromantic#asexual#aromantic asexual#aromanticism#aroace#romance#asexuality#alterous attraction#platonic crushes#squishes#platonic attraction#arospec#acespec#aroacespec#aspec community#aspec#sherlock holmes#acd sherlock holmes#acd holmes#acd canon#sherlock and co#holmes & watson#hyperfixations#new hyperfixation#(not really new anymore it started in april)#sorry if this makes no sense
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Need a one-night stand but with cuddling instead of sex
#girlblogging#girlblog#this is a girlblog#aromantic#aromanticism#aspec#arospec#asexual#acespec#asexuality#aroace#aroacespec#oriented aroace#relationship anarchy#alterous attraction#alterous yearning
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Let's go to the aquarium together and I can draw the sharks while you tell me facts like how sharks keep swimming even when they're asleep and you've got that excited look on your face and then we can go home to our house and cuddle on our couch while we watch our favourite shows and play video games and cook each other dinner and go to coles together and spend every moment of our lives together because the look on your face when you see me is infinitely more beautiful than all the sunrises we'll watch together
#alterous attraction#qpr#queerplatonic#alterous#lgbtqia+#qpp#queerplatonic partner#queerplatonic relationship#love#transgender#aroace#aromantic#aromanticism#asexual#asexuality#demiromantic#demisexual#demialterous
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Let’s normalise no types of attraction or love to be more important than any other!
#aspec#queer and valid#lgbtqia#queer#aspec tumblr#aromantic#asexual#aroace#acearo#aroacespec#platonic attraction#romantic attraction#alterous attraction#tertiary attraction#self love#polyamory#family love#lgbt pride#pride month#pride 2024#pride month 2024#aspec pride
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Aroace (sunset) userboxes! (Full pack)
#graphics#web graphics#userbox#alterhuman#did alter#plural userboxes#dissociative system#aroace#aroacespec#aromantic#asexual#pro mogai#mogai friendly#lgbt pride#pride month#queer pride#pride flag#acearo#aromantism#arospec#acespec#asexuality
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