#alterous relationship

[midnightcrisisstuff]

actually no, we're not "dating". we're bound together for infinity. like the stars. so, fuck you, actually.

[tremendously-crazy]

"No guy wants a girl who-" "No guy is gonna want you if-"

original image from @sirompp

[teleportzz]

hey guys do the allos know that they can have qprs too? like do they know that being alloromantic doesn't mean they can't choose to be in a qpr anyway? because qprs aren't "romance-lite" for aros, they're an entirely separate kind of relationship that anyone can have. you can do this with fictional characters too. you can put characters that aren't aroace or are even canonically dating in qprs with each other just because you think that would be a cool way to play with their dynamic. it's actually very cool and you totally should.

[alterouslyinlove]

daydreaming isn’t enough i need it to happen to me in real life

[twigstarpikachutroll22]

Reblog for something aspec to happen to you this summer

[imighthaveadumbcrush]

I am so deeply in love with you. No words will ever do justice to my adoration and affection for you. All I can say is I love you I love you I love you I love you

[youareamiracle]

I don't think jayvik is either strictly romantic or platonic, I see their relationship as an alterous one, a mix of platonic and romantic, with another thing entirely different, beyond these notions but so, so powerful

[dreaming-like-a-girl]

I have a friend who isn't part of my main friend group (most of whom are some flavour of gay/know about qprs/know my partner), and a few weeks ago she asked about my relationship and what a qpr is etc which she did so sweetly and listened so openly. Today when I saw her, she tried to ask how my partner is doing, but not knowing exactly what to call us or remembering his name, said, "how is your... lover that is a friend that you want to live with that has blue hair going?"

[fluidly-polymorphic]

Relationship but we’re both aromantic and tell people we’re “dating” but only we know we aren’t.

[questionable-idea]

the friendships with the level of physical comfort and affection that makes people mistake us for a couple. yeah those. those are the best

[gigglingauspice]

was having a conversation with a friend about what a “normal” amount of partners to have is. This is about any kind of committed partner— not just romantic or queer platonic, but sexual, alterous, wavership, and “undefined but my partner regardless.”

If you have more than nine partners, good god do I respect your time management.

[judas-not-that-one]

i simultaneously want so badly to define this relationship but also i want to keep the ambiguity and just do what we’ve been doing because it’s been so good

[themostfangtastic]

my chemical queerplatonic relationship. my chemical alterous. are you seeing my vision.

[angelasyylum]

Petition to make “queer platonic relationship”/“alterous attraction” a normal tag in fanfiction 😭

[alterouslyinlove]

oh to live with your qpp. oh to be in separate rooms or bunk beds but always join each other if we need to. oh to dance in the kitchen and make meals together. oh to cuddle while watching a movie. oh to have our time to our selves but still be close to each other. oh to be able to say i love you irl and any time you want. oh to own a cat together. oh to go grocery shopping together. oh to sit on the porch and watch the stars together. oh to simply be with one another. wouldn’t that be great.

[jamiieeez]

Flags for general relationship stances, alterous relationships, queerplatonic relationships and observing

relationship favorable | relationship indifferent | relationship repulsed

relationship averse | relationship ambivalent | relationship oscillating

Relationship stances are for stances regarding all types of relationships.

alterous relationship favorable | alterous relationship indifferent | alterous relationship repulsed

alterous relationship averse | alterous relationship ambivalent | alterous relationship oscillating

qpr favorable | qpr indifferent | qpr repulsed

qpr averse | qpr ambivalent | qpr oscillating

observing favorable | observing indifferent | observing repulsed

observing averse | observing ambivalent | observing oscillating

Basically a relationship stance regarding observing/looking at people or however one would define a sort of "aesthetic relationship".