#relationship stances
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jamiieeez Ā· 4 months ago
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Flags for general relationship stances, alterous relationships, queerplatonic relationships and observing
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relationship favorable | relationship indifferent | relationship repulsed
relationship averse | relationship ambivalent | relationship oscillating
Relationship stances are for stances regarding all types of relationships.
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alterous relationship favorable | alterous relationship indifferent | alterous relationship repulsed
alterous relationship averse | alterous relationship ambivalent | alterous relationship oscillating
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qpr favorable | qpr indifferent | qpr repulsed
qpr averse | qpr ambivalent | qpr oscillating
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observing favorable | observing indifferent | observing repulsed
observing averse | observing ambivalent | observing oscillating
Basically a relationship stance regarding observing/looking at people or however one would define a sort of "aesthetic relationship".
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doctorsiren Ā· 8 months ago
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YAUYY}!!! I TOTES AGREE WITH THAT
and good god I was begging that you saw Edgeworth and Irisā€™ relationship as that as well
would it be too much to ask for a little bit more content of those three?? I just love seeing Phoenix being showered with love by two of his favorite people
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they mean so much to me
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fate-of-the-envious Ā· 4 months ago
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How is canon Annabeth abusive?
You want a list?
Alright!
1. She constantly hits Percy. Kicking him in the shins, elbowing him in the ribs, punching him in the gut. Not to mention the judo flip scene. Also, this is never said to be done playfully whatsoever. And it's done constantly in EVERY book.
2. She always belittles and calls him stupid. Like his plans never work. Ha, they work more than hers! Also, the parallels of her calling him Seaweed Brain, when Gabe called him Brain Boy! Like how would you feel if you have a nickname constantly degrading your worst insecurities?! All the damn time! Not to mention Thalia, who Percy was the first person who helped her after she stopped being a tree, after spending the school year with Annabeth started calling Percy Kelp Head and viewing him as dumb. Annabeth who ignored Percy all this year, and was overall just selfish and mean when they met again.
3. Annabeth is so possessive of Percy. Even before they are dating (which doesn't make it any better when they are), Annabeth doesn't let Percy be friends with Rachel. Trying to drive a wedge between the two. And Percy, literally only has Grover and Annabeth for friends. He is so alone, he needs more friends! Oh, and then with Jason she interrupts the two of them chatting and trying to get along. Also, just how she doesn't like that Percy seems to like Camp Jupiter, like he can't seem to have his own differing plans from her.
4. Tartarus. Everything about that was so bad. Like in Tartarus, whom Percy fell down to FOR HER, Annabeth brings up Rachel because in her thoughts, she needs to keep her boyfriend on his toes. Like bitch! Then, we get to how she thinks Percy is so manipulative when he talks his way to get Bob to kill his brother. Like that isn't Annabeth's number 1 tactic. She's so fucking judgemental!
And then the scene with Akhlys in Tartarus. Where yes, Percy is being scary torturing this goddess who tried to poison them to death. But she just tried to kill them! He's saving their lives! And then, Annabeth makes Percy promise her to never use those powers again, because "Somethings aren't meant to be controlled." Like do you know how useful poison-bending could be to save lives? What difference does this make from using a sword to kill monsters when all of them are trying to kill and/or eat Demigods! Not to mention, if someone is poisoned, Percy could help heal them!
Next, because of how horrible Annabeth made Percy feel for using these powers he attempts suicide. After he gets out and faces Polybotes, who controls poison, he doesn't even try to save himself and says to Jason that he deserves to die by poison for what he did! He tried to kill himself! And Annabeth never talks to Percy about this again, and instead talks to Piper who thinks Percy needs to be restrained like he's some kind of monster when he was saving them! Percy is literally the most selfless and kind person out there. And Annabeth treats him like crap! She doesn't deserve him!
5. Percy isn't allowed to have bad thoughts on Luke. Luke, who's tried to kill him repeatedly since he was twelve! And in general, this ship is so toxic and codependent right now, it's in no way healthy.
Anyways sorry for my rant, but yeah Annabeth is abusive, and it's just so concerning how people possibly in elementary school are being exposed to this being a healthy relationship, where girlfriends can hit their boyfriends, and can stop them making friends with others, because they belong to them like some sort of object.
Yeah, I just relate to Percy so much, and I don't want him to deal with another Gabe.
Edit: Okay, for anyone who likes Annabeth or Percabeth, I don't care - you do you. You can like and dislike all the characters and ships you want, just as I can. So, if you disagree with what is said, that's fine, but don't expect me to change my stance when I have already pointed out several concerning behaviors. So, like good humans, we'll just have to agree to disagree and move on with our days.
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hayaku14 Ā· 1 year ago
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KAISHIN STANS WE EATING GOOD
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lonisaiou Ā· 10 months ago
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this turned out to be my last project of the semester and got me an amazing grade (thanks teacher for appreciating punk Marceline) (+hence I decided to make her human instead of vampire, which isnt a big of a difference, just the ears lol)
enjoy my most beloved Human Marceline in all her punk glory
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proshippers-against-censorship Ā· 2 months ago
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How to tell if you're developing/having a parasocial relationship, or you just admire the person a lot? I need help, I can't figure it out
Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...
Followers?
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phoenixisobsessed Ā· 5 months ago
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Hi guys Iā€™m actually feeling too overwhelmed about tomorrowā€™s exam to draw catformer today so I hand you a doodle. (The next one is so good though Iā€™m actually excited to draw it.)
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I need to destroy him so bad
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finnitesimal Ā· 1 year ago
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Funniest possible situation I think
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direquail Ā· 7 months ago
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I donā€™t get this dichotomy of ā€œdo you see them as platonic or romanticā€. Yes. I will read a zillion fics of them platonically. I will read a zillion fics of them fucking nasty and/or in love. I will read a zillion fics of them fucking platonically. Free your mind. Nice dichotomy idiot what lies outside it
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chimerickat Ā· 11 months ago
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Seto was playing with the children earlier, and now his tie is askew. You follow him as he heads toward the stage and grab his arm. "Let me fix your tie." You pull him off to the side.
The tie hangs loose and part of it has gotten stuck in his jacket. You reach for the knot with one hand and hold the tongue with your other. It only takes a moment to readjust and tighten it. Then you tuck it in properly.
He places his hands over yours, holding them to his chest. When you look up, the expression on his face is serious, hungry.
He would kiss you if you weren't in a crowded room. You can see the desire in his eyes. You drop your eyes down to his chest. It's hard to look directly at him when his gaze is so intense.
"Maybe next year we can spend New Year's Eve alone?" you suggest.
"It would be preferable to this."
You flatten your palms against his chest as releases your hands. Under the guise of pretending to straighten his shirt, you let your hands run over his broad chest, feeling his muscles through his shirt.
You look back up. His desire is still plain to see. It makes your heart beat faster knowing he wants to grab you and kiss you.
His hand cups your cheek. "I want you to be the first thing I see in the new year."
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jamiieeez Ā· 3 months ago
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Relationshipstances for emotional, physical and tertiary relationships
emotional relationship
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positive | indifferent | repulsed
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averse | ambivalent | oscillating
physical relationship
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positive | indifferent | repulsed
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averse | ambivalent | oscillating
tertiary relationship
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positive | indifferent | repulsed
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averse | ambivalent | oscillating
Here are my posts to the aemotional flags[link], aphysical flags[link] and atertiary flags[link].
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fumifooms Ā· 3 months ago
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Firefly wedding chapter 42 - 43 : Together - With you forever
How are we feeling broskis. These two chapters were an evil rollercoaster I need to talk about them. Thing are looking upā€¦??? But also things are so transparently going to get worse. The outcome is happy in the moment but itā€™s setting up for failure by promising things that are still too up in the air. Will the red string of fate truly keep them together and for how long. The storyā€™s been ramping up both references to her sickness and future death and to their happy ever after, which! Is very thematic and also terrible for my heart.
We go from sad about the backstory to soothed by the kind gesture to euphoric in the dreamlike flower field scene to scared and dreading to tentatively pleasantly surprised to paranoid "how can this go wrong" to indulging in the happiness of the moment to having sadness like a stone in your stomach.
It starts with some more setting up of their upbringings and weaves some pretty explicit parallels and causal links, and so when Shinpei talks about "only seeing Satoko", we know that his reflex to cling onto one thing hard, as if itā€™s the only thing he needs for happiness, was born from never having had anything. Going from having nothing to having one something is enough in his mind, but of course thatā€™s not true, we know that, and that wouldnā€™t go as well as weā€™d like to think. And this is exactly what the leap between chapter 42 and 43 illustrates, from a high to a low in a blink of an eye, because Satoko couldnā€™t sate his hunger if he were to only feed on her to fuel his life.
This far heā€™d been fighting for scraps of attention and hints of affection, even illustrated in how he says "being asked so many questions by you makes me happy" even when the questions are about such sad things.
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And then it doubles down with the possessivity and oh we see where this is going. Isolation and jealousy and violence. But this is where the supreme yandere writing enters!! They get to healthily confront it and deal with it, they are able to de-escalate!!! THEY DE-ESCALATED!!!
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Firefly Wedding is a lot about balance, about hope vs facing reality, about obsession being bad vs care still being good, about running away from things while confronting others, about it being okay even if itā€™s a little bad or dishonorable, living in the past vs overthinking the future, leaving the past behind vs giving up on having a future, about compromising your health if itā€™s for the sake of living fully. About who gets to decide what you should do when and for what, and that counts your family, your lover and yourself too. Who gets to decide if you should die when and how and for what or who, if youā€™re allowed to cut your own finger for an oath or allowed to marry into a loveless political marriage like shackles, or marry into misery?
Satokoā€™s expressed it before too, sometimes Shinpei scares her, especially when he gets intense like this. But Satokoā€™s also had these very same thoughts, even if she has to abandon everything, maybe living on the island with Shinpei for the rest of her life would be better than to fight to get back home. Maybe a little wonderland of just the two of them, like the flower field, like the firefly lake, those unfiltered moments of the worldā€™s beauty and inner peace, forevermore is what she wants. Maybe Shinpei is saying what she craves inside of her but knows herself is unattainable and based on unhealthy grounds, but what she craves nonetheless. The tension is high, how will she react? Push him away? Fold the knee?
But she sees herself reflected in his eye then. And she loves him. She loves him, and thatā€™s why she knows she canā€™t let this go on. Because she cares about him.
Satoko refuses and we think itā€™s gonna get even worse. We think oh, the confession plans are so over. Itā€™s gonna become a life or death chase or something now, like the fake-out when Shinpei felt "betrayed" by her and said heā€™d kill her except now the emotional dams are truly burst open.
LADIES GENTS AND PALS, EVERY ROMANCEā€™S LAST BOSS!!! COMMUNICATION!!! SUCCESS!!
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And in her words you can hear how sheā€™s already planning for her death, caring about how heā€™ll live after sheā€™s gone. Weā€™ve already had a very harsh wake up call with the mirror scene and it haunts us while reading just as much as it haunts Satoko, it haunts the whole narrative, it haunts the love. Sheā€™s doing Shinpei an ultimate selfless kindness with this consideration, reflected again and again in dialogue, also worried when she mentions how he has no attachment to life.
This is the beauty of Firefly Wedding as a yandere story, itā€™s about an obsessive lover who canā€™t handle the thought of their significant other not being there and the inevitability of that happening even in the best case scenario. About not delaying the inevitable but basking in the value of it while itā€™s there regardless, even if flawed even if fleeting. Both of them resigned to their own deaths and finding little worth in their lives, yet still making something out of them and fighting to have them be theirs. Their life, their death.
ITā€™S! THEM! BOTH!
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Living as a zombie vs dying having felt alive.
Itā€™s similar to the "If you donā€™t have a future then give it to me" -> "Live a good life, if not for yourself then for me" the story has played with before, but reframed once again as we grow one step closer to "if you canā€™t take care of yourself because you value your life, then maybe take care of yourself because you value your lifeĀ with me".
So she tells him she loves him and everything is so great for a second before we go oh no. Oh no. Of course. How could I have forgotten. The abandonment issues!! The insecurities and paranoia mixing together into the possessivity soup!! The need for something to be material for it to be real, for it to be externalized to be able to trust it, and oh god he wants her pinky finger-
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But the worst is avoided once again. Unlike many other stories of the like, this would have been a moment of full character regression for Shinpei, where all progress is lost and he becomes uncontrollably violent again, but no, thereā€™s a key difference between Shinpei and those others, he cares. He has grown, and every turn for the worst was easily countered by openly talking.
How? Itā€™s all only possible because heā€™s grown to truly value her words. To trust her. These chapters set up several times the conflict of "I donā€™t trust you saying good things about me", but thatā€™s a him issue, thatā€™s self-sabotage and self-defense jumping out when his trauma makes him hang onto her words like theyā€™re life or death to him. The conflict is that he doesnā€™t trust her, but the resolution is that he does tust her.
Heā€™s pitting his faith in her words against his instinctive lifelong fears and worldview beliefs, and her words are winning, because heā€™s allowing them to. Because he loves and trusts and values and cares about her. Having Satoko in his mind was supposed to make up for all the bad that could and would ever happen to him, the one shred of happiness that made it all worth it. Itā€™d make up for all his past pain and fill the void his trauma left, but instead he fights it head on by himself, itā€™s his own strength from loving Satoko that fills that void, for his own sake. Love! Wins!
Itā€™s so beautiful to see them learning how to love moment by moment throughout the story.
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Thatā€™s definitely one of Firefly Weddingā€™s biggest strength and appeal I think. You can pinpoint in the characterā€™s reaction the moment something clicks in them, the moment they realize something or when an emotion or fear kicks in, when a lesson is learned, all in just expression, body language and composition framingā€¦
And this is our reward.
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It is! It is healthier and happier than anything what Shinpei had asked for would have given! Itā€™s getting better, beyond all of our wildest hopes!
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Satoko got wet here to protect mere doodles representing her life plans with Shinpei, which isnā€™t exactly great for her health. Ultimately, on a small scale, risking herself for a very unimportant thing that however symbolizes something very important to her. Iā€™ve had this thought before but itā€™s interesting to think of how Shinpei is literally bad for Satokoā€™s heart.
Besides the general stress of her situation or the time she chased after him out in the rain, I wonder if the jumpscares he regularly gives her by being naturally stealthy are physically bad for herā€¦ This might be something that wonā€™t happen anymore, now that she has confessed and she isnā€™t as conscious around him anymore, but in the confession arc letā€™s call it, it was a very recurring gag. Stress is a natural part of life and canā€™t be avoided, and trying to extend your lifespan to the theoretical maximum is a risky unsatisfying game, so Iā€™m wondering if thatā€™s true in some waysā€¦ Itā€™d go well with the mangaā€™s themes I mentioned earlier, about how even if it isnā€™t the safest best bet you should embrace and pursue true love, and you should live your life fully and lively without overthinking. Sometimes knowingly potentially shortening your life for things that matter to you is worth it. He makes her heart beat, and is that truly such a bad thing?
Just before this we saw Shinpei give her his hand to help so her feet wouldnā€™t get wet. He wants to protect her fully, but weā€™ve seen several times how Satoko is ready to endanger herself for Shinpei, even jumping into the fray to shield him. He wants to protect her, sometimes from himself, because he loves her, but because she loves him sheā€™ll always take the more dangerous path for the chance of him being alive and happy. The both of them lovingly selfless, and their wishes incompatible because of this. To marry or not to marry, how to marry, who to marry, for whose sake? What way to go about it would maximize the otherā€™s happiness and the fullness of their life?
The red string of fate tying their pinkies together forevermoreā€¦ Something doomed to be undone sooner or later, by circumstance or inadvertance or accident.
Reality crashes back in. Her health, her health, her health.
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Reality crashes back in in ripples through the scene, and then one final wave when other characters walk into the new scene with something serious and ominous to discuss. Satoko and Shinpei are in a little make believe world of euphoria right now but the audience dreads for the reality of things. Satokoā€™s words talk of both living together forever, and of death, of living together forever until the end. Contradictory and irreconcilable you romanticize it into making sense.
The name of the chapter, "with you forever", is an impossible pipe dream of a lie. But thatā€™s what Shinpei is hanging onto, and itā€™s all that Satoko wants.
And so they fantasize about the future and talk their daydreams into reality, making each other promises about eternal love and house plans, children and celebrations and domestic routines, about a life together they very might never get to have.
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amnesiaguy Ā· 8 months ago
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it does not get easier to break up with friends . by the way. if you were wondering .
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wraith-caller Ā· 5 months ago
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blehhhhhhhhhh theres nothing that says Malenia has been betrayed or used. She believed in Miquella's cause and for good reason!! He has ALWAYS dedicated himself to her! He crafted the needle to quell the rot! He rejected Fundamentalism because it couldn't cure her, not himself! He built the Haligtree, partially as a haven to other rejects but partially as a way to cure his curse! And in finding a cure to his own, who is to say he wouldn't find one for hers? She waits for him not because he abandoned her, but because she knows he intends to come back as a god! Just because Miquella has this power to charm others does NOT necessarily mean he was using it on her! He never needed to because she's been faithful to him from the start! She knows she has no hope of becoming a god - one has already laid its claims on her and it is unraveling her very being. So she trusts in Miquella, and he busts his ass to help her. If he's just charming her into submission, what's the point of the statues in the Haligtree evidencing their closeness for everyone? What's the point of him even trying to cure her if he just sees her as a tool? What's the point of cutting himself off from the resources and protection of Leyndell and the royal family?
Her going to fight Radahn is not Miquella throwing her away. It's her believing so deeply in Miquella's plans that she would give everything to see them come to pass.
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maxphilippa Ā· 2 months ago
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actually a big problem i have with romantic tacopad is that people don't even get them platonically. people don't really care about them on a platonic aspect and it shows. ouhhhh yeah yeah you like them kissing but do you actually get their thing outside of that???? do you get why mepad wants to help her? why he cares about her? why they actually work? and also do you care about mepad as a character? i think you just want to kiss taco and project onto the guy like no WAY everyone just suddenly likes tacopad because they actually get the ship
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jerys Ā· 26 days ago
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saw someone say 'wish he'd tried a little harder' under harry's post.................what if i started shooting people in the head
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