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Flags for general relationship stances, alterous relationships, queerplatonic relationships and observing
relationship favorable | relationship indifferent | relationship repulsed
relationship averse | relationship ambivalent | relationship oscillating
Relationship stances are for stances regarding all types of relationships.
alterous relationship favorable | alterous relationship indifferent | alterous relationship repulsed
alterous relationship averse | alterous relationship ambivalent | alterous relationship oscillating
qpr favorable | qpr indifferent | qpr repulsed
qpr averse | qpr ambivalent | qpr oscillating
observing favorable | observing indifferent | observing repulsed
observing averse | observing ambivalent | observing oscillating
Basically a relationship stance regarding observing/looking at people or however one would define a sort of "aesthetic relationship".
#relationship stances#qpr stances#alterous stances#alterous relationship stances#observing stances#aspec#anattractional#anattractionalspec#aqueerplatonic#aqueerplatonicspec#analterous#analterousspec#anaesthetic#anaestheticspec#nonaesthetic#nonaestheticspec#queerplatonic relationship#alterous relationship#mogai coining#mogai flag
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YAUYY}!!! I TOTES AGREE WITH THAT
and good god I was begging that you saw Edgeworth and Irisā relationship as that as well
would it be too much to ask for a little bit more content of those three?? I just love seeing Phoenix being showered with love by two of his favorite people
they mean so much to me
#doctorsiren#ace attorney#phoenix wright#miles edgeworth#iris fey#narumitsu#wrightworth#feenris#ace attorney fanart#digital art#my art#procreate#I think Iris should have glasses idk they just fit her methinks#and yeah Iām firm on that stance for Edgeworth and Irisās relationship#they are buddies who work together to make sure Phoenix rests and puts himself first sometimes because he doesnāt really ever do that
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How is canon Annabeth abusive?
You want a list?
Alright!
1. She constantly hits Percy. Kicking him in the shins, elbowing him in the ribs, punching him in the gut. Not to mention the judo flip scene. Also, this is never said to be done playfully whatsoever. And it's done constantly in EVERY book.
2. She always belittles and calls him stupid. Like his plans never work. Ha, they work more than hers! Also, the parallels of her calling him Seaweed Brain, when Gabe called him Brain Boy! Like how would you feel if you have a nickname constantly degrading your worst insecurities?! All the damn time! Not to mention Thalia, who Percy was the first person who helped her after she stopped being a tree, after spending the school year with Annabeth started calling Percy Kelp Head and viewing him as dumb. Annabeth who ignored Percy all this year, and was overall just selfish and mean when they met again.
3. Annabeth is so possessive of Percy. Even before they are dating (which doesn't make it any better when they are), Annabeth doesn't let Percy be friends with Rachel. Trying to drive a wedge between the two. And Percy, literally only has Grover and Annabeth for friends. He is so alone, he needs more friends! Oh, and then with Jason she interrupts the two of them chatting and trying to get along. Also, just how she doesn't like that Percy seems to like Camp Jupiter, like he can't seem to have his own differing plans from her.
4. Tartarus. Everything about that was so bad. Like in Tartarus, whom Percy fell down to FOR HER, Annabeth brings up Rachel because in her thoughts, she needs to keep her boyfriend on his toes. Like bitch! Then, we get to how she thinks Percy is so manipulative when he talks his way to get Bob to kill his brother. Like that isn't Annabeth's number 1 tactic. She's so fucking judgemental!
And then the scene with Akhlys in Tartarus. Where yes, Percy is being scary torturing this goddess who tried to poison them to death. But she just tried to kill them! He's saving their lives! And then, Annabeth makes Percy promise her to never use those powers again, because "Somethings aren't meant to be controlled." Like do you know how useful poison-bending could be to save lives? What difference does this make from using a sword to kill monsters when all of them are trying to kill and/or eat Demigods! Not to mention, if someone is poisoned, Percy could help heal them!
Next, because of how horrible Annabeth made Percy feel for using these powers he attempts suicide. After he gets out and faces Polybotes, who controls poison, he doesn't even try to save himself and says to Jason that he deserves to die by poison for what he did! He tried to kill himself! And Annabeth never talks to Percy about this again, and instead talks to Piper who thinks Percy needs to be restrained like he's some kind of monster when he was saving them! Percy is literally the most selfless and kind person out there. And Annabeth treats him like crap! She doesn't deserve him!
5. Percy isn't allowed to have bad thoughts on Luke. Luke, who's tried to kill him repeatedly since he was twelve! And in general, this ship is so toxic and codependent right now, it's in no way healthy.
Anyways sorry for my rant, but yeah Annabeth is abusive, and it's just so concerning how people possibly in elementary school are being exposed to this being a healthy relationship, where girlfriends can hit their boyfriends, and can stop them making friends with others, because they belong to them like some sort of object.
Yeah, I just relate to Percy so much, and I don't want him to deal with another Gabe.
Edit: Okay, for anyone who likes Annabeth or Percabeth, I don't care - you do you. You can like and dislike all the characters and ships you want, just as I can. So, if you disagree with what is said, that's fine, but don't expect me to change my stance when I have already pointed out several concerning behaviors. So, like good humans, we'll just have to agree to disagree and move on with our days.
#anti annabeth#anti percabeth#anti annabeth chase#annabeth chase bashing#i hate annabeth#pjo percy#personal rant#pjo annabeth#pjo#percy jackson#percy jackson rant#percy jackson defense squad#percy jackson doesn't need annabeth#percy jackson deserves better#Just the parallels between Sally/Gabe and Percy/Annabeth#annabeth chase crit#annabeth chase is abusive#annabeth chase#I don't like her if you cannot tell#percy jackson and the olympians#Annabitch#not changing my stance on this when there are some many facts of her abusive tendencies#like the amount of times she hits him alone#and then combined with the belittling and controlling and possessive behaviors she has#yeah no#percabeth fandom is definition of toxic#percabeths dni#percabeth is the definition of a toxic relationship
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KAISHIN STANS WE EATING GOOD
#kaishin#kidco#kaitou kid#edogawa conan#dcmk#detective conan#YO DETCO STAFF I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE#I KNOW WHAT YOU WANT#WE WANT THE EXACT SAME THING SWEETIE CALL ME UP AND LET'S TALK GAY DETECTIVE AND THIEF CHASING EACH OTHER UNDER THE MOONLIGHT š#the way conan is reaching out in a desperate attenpt to catch kid and kid jumping just an arm's reach away but also having his right hand#near conan as if in a defensive stance but can also be seen as a protective motion just in case conan falls or does something reckless#JUST DEFINITIVE KAISHIN RELATIONSHIP IN ONE FRAME#THE WAY CONAN ONLY HAS HIS EYES ON KID AND NOTHING ELSE AS HE RECKLESSLY REACHES OUT FOR KID AAAAHHHHHHHHH#IM GONNA LOSE MY FUCKIGN MONG OVER ONE GODDAMN FRAME#brain: now imagine if that was shinichi and kaito#me: RAAAAHHHCJIFFJDKJCSKDNCKSNAKXJ FUCK#dc prattles#this is from the new ED song btw lol
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this turned out to be my last project of the semester and got me an amazing grade (thanks teacher for appreciating punk Marceline) (+hence I decided to make her human instead of vampire, which isnt a big of a difference, just the ears lol)
enjoy my most beloved Human Marceline in all her punk glory
#myart#marceline abadeer#adventure time fanart#adventure time#atimers#at fanart#marceline the vampire queen#human marceline#fionna and cake fanart#fionna and cake#f&c fanart#marceline#fanart#my project was about body and material and I decided to talk about our relationship with fashion and how it could reflect out views#and thats why I talked about punks#which are characterized by their leather jackets and pin and so on#and its a political stance
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How to tell if you're developing/having a parasocial relationship, or you just admire the person a lot? I need help, I can't figure it out
Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...
Followers?
#i dont really like#form relationships much like others#so i cant really answer this#proshippers against censorship#jackal barks#proship please interact#proshippers please interact#proship positivity#proship#proshipper safe#proshipping#proshipper#anti anti#ask#asks#no stance
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Hi guys Iām actually feeling too overwhelmed about tomorrowās exam to draw catformer today so I hand you a doodle. (The next one is so good though Iām actually excited to draw it.)
I need to destroy him so bad
#the panel of him clarifying his stance on relationships does not exist#this crazy mech is everything I need#let me at him#oh my god i need him#i love him#transformers#maccadams#maccadam#art#tf fanart#doodle#transformers whirl#idw whirl#whirl#tf whirl#autobots#autobot
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Funniest possible situation I think
#in case anyone's still unsure of where my stance is on the relationship stus of these two#pissa#not maintagging#finnsketches#yeah on main sure
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I donāt get this dichotomy of ādo you see them as platonic or romanticā. Yes. I will read a zillion fics of them platonically. I will read a zillion fics of them fucking nasty and/or in love. I will read a zillion fics of them fucking platonically. Free your mind. Nice dichotomy idiot what lies outside it
#even as iām writing this i know itās because Not Shipping something has become a weird moral stance thing#have you considered that love is fluid and more gradations than our eyes can see???#have you considered that sometimes love Has Nothing To Do With It?????#have you considered a relationship is a disco ball and babey we are dancing all night
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Seto was playing with the children earlier, and now his tie is askew. You follow him as he heads toward the stage and grab his arm. "Let me fix your tie." You pull him off to the side.
The tie hangs loose and part of it has gotten stuck in his jacket. You reach for the knot with one hand and hold the tongue with your other. It only takes a moment to readjust and tighten it. Then you tuck it in properly.
He places his hands over yours, holding them to his chest. When you look up, the expression on his face is serious, hungry.
He would kiss you if you weren't in a crowded room. You can see the desire in his eyes. You drop your eyes down to his chest. It's hard to look directly at him when his gaze is so intense.
"Maybe next year we can spend New Year's Eve alone?" you suggest.
"It would be preferable to this."
You flatten your palms against his chest as releases your hands. Under the guise of pretending to straighten his shirt, you let your hands run over his broad chest, feeling his muscles through his shirt.
You look back up. His desire is still plain to see. It makes your heart beat faster knowing he wants to grab you and kiss you.
His hand cups your cheek. "I want you to be the first thing I see in the new year."
#happy new year!#seto kaiba#kaiba seto#dragonsilk#seto kaiba x reader#seto kaiba reader insert#kaibaxreader#reader insert#I hope it doesn't seem ooc#I was writing from more of an established relationship stance#The picture I reblogged earlier with Yusei kind of inspired me#I'd love to be in that photo with Kaiba omg...
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Relationshipstances for emotional, physical and tertiary relationships
emotional relationship
positive | indifferent | repulsed
averse | ambivalent | oscillating
physical relationship
positive | indifferent | repulsed
averse | ambivalent | oscillating
tertiary relationship
positive | indifferent | repulsed
averse | ambivalent | oscillating
Here are my posts to the aemotional flags[link], aphysical flags[link] and atertiary flags[link].
#relationship stances#tertiary attraction#tertiary relationships#atertiary#atertiaryspec#aspec#tertiary stances#emotional attraction#emotional stances#aemotional#aemotionalspec#physical attraction#aphysical#aphysicalspec#physical relationships#physical stances
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Firefly wedding chapter 42 - 43 : Together - With you forever
How are we feeling broskis. These two chapters were an evil rollercoaster I need to talk about them. Thing are looking upā¦??? But also things are so transparently going to get worse. The outcome is happy in the moment but itās setting up for failure by promising things that are still too up in the air. Will the red string of fate truly keep them together and for how long. The storyās been ramping up both references to her sickness and future death and to their happy ever after, which! Is very thematic and also terrible for my heart.
We go from sad about the backstory to soothed by the kind gesture to euphoric in the dreamlike flower field scene to scared and dreading to tentatively pleasantly surprised to paranoid "how can this go wrong" to indulging in the happiness of the moment to having sadness like a stone in your stomach.
It starts with some more setting up of their upbringings and weaves some pretty explicit parallels and causal links, and so when Shinpei talks about "only seeing Satoko", we know that his reflex to cling onto one thing hard, as if itās the only thing he needs for happiness, was born from never having had anything. Going from having nothing to having one something is enough in his mind, but of course thatās not true, we know that, and that wouldnāt go as well as weād like to think. And this is exactly what the leap between chapter 42 and 43 illustrates, from a high to a low in a blink of an eye, because Satoko couldnāt sate his hunger if he were to only feed on her to fuel his life.
This far heād been fighting for scraps of attention and hints of affection, even illustrated in how he says "being asked so many questions by you makes me happy" even when the questions are about such sad things.
And then it doubles down with the possessivity and oh we see where this is going. Isolation and jealousy and violence. But this is where the supreme yandere writing enters!! They get to healthily confront it and deal with it, they are able to de-escalate!!! THEY DE-ESCALATED!!!
Firefly Wedding is a lot about balance, about hope vs facing reality, about obsession being bad vs care still being good, about running away from things while confronting others, about it being okay even if itās a little bad or dishonorable, living in the past vs overthinking the future, leaving the past behind vs giving up on having a future, about compromising your health if itās for the sake of living fully. About who gets to decide what you should do when and for what, and that counts your family, your lover and yourself too. Who gets to decide if you should die when and how and for what or who, if youāre allowed to cut your own finger for an oath or allowed to marry into a loveless political marriage like shackles, or marry into misery?
Satokoās expressed it before too, sometimes Shinpei scares her, especially when he gets intense like this. But Satokoās also had these very same thoughts, even if she has to abandon everything, maybe living on the island with Shinpei for the rest of her life would be better than to fight to get back home. Maybe a little wonderland of just the two of them, like the flower field, like the firefly lake, those unfiltered moments of the worldās beauty and inner peace, forevermore is what she wants. Maybe Shinpei is saying what she craves inside of her but knows herself is unattainable and based on unhealthy grounds, but what she craves nonetheless. The tension is high, how will she react? Push him away? Fold the knee?
But she sees herself reflected in his eye then. And she loves him. She loves him, and thatās why she knows she canāt let this go on. Because she cares about him.
Satoko refuses and we think itās gonna get even worse. We think oh, the confession plans are so over. Itās gonna become a life or death chase or something now, like the fake-out when Shinpei felt "betrayed" by her and said heād kill her except now the emotional dams are truly burst open.
LADIES GENTS AND PALS, EVERY ROMANCEāS LAST BOSS!!! COMMUNICATION!!! SUCCESS!!
And in her words you can hear how sheās already planning for her death, caring about how heāll live after sheās gone. Weāve already had a very harsh wake up call with the mirror scene and it haunts us while reading just as much as it haunts Satoko, it haunts the whole narrative, it haunts the love. Sheās doing Shinpei an ultimate selfless kindness with this consideration, reflected again and again in dialogue, also worried when she mentions how he has no attachment to life.
This is the beauty of Firefly Wedding as a yandere story, itās about an obsessive lover who canāt handle the thought of their significant other not being there and the inevitability of that happening even in the best case scenario. About not delaying the inevitable but basking in the value of it while itās there regardless, even if flawed even if fleeting. Both of them resigned to their own deaths and finding little worth in their lives, yet still making something out of them and fighting to have them be theirs. Their life, their death.
ITāS! THEM! BOTH!
Living as a zombie vs dying having felt alive.
Itās similar to the "If you donāt have a future then give it to me" -> "Live a good life, if not for yourself then for me" the story has played with before, but reframed once again as we grow one step closer to "if you canāt take care of yourself because you value your life, then maybe take care of yourself because you value your lifeĀ with me".
So she tells him she loves him and everything is so great for a second before we go oh no. Oh no. Of course. How could I have forgotten. The abandonment issues!! The insecurities and paranoia mixing together into the possessivity soup!! The need for something to be material for it to be real, for it to be externalized to be able to trust it, and oh god he wants her pinky finger-
But the worst is avoided once again. Unlike many other stories of the like, this would have been a moment of full character regression for Shinpei, where all progress is lost and he becomes uncontrollably violent again, but no, thereās a key difference between Shinpei and those others, he cares. He has grown, and every turn for the worst was easily countered by openly talking.
How? Itās all only possible because heās grown to truly value her words. To trust her. These chapters set up several times the conflict of "I donāt trust you saying good things about me", but thatās a him issue, thatās self-sabotage and self-defense jumping out when his trauma makes him hang onto her words like theyāre life or death to him. The conflict is that he doesnāt trust her, but the resolution is that he does tust her.
Heās pitting his faith in her words against his instinctive lifelong fears and worldview beliefs, and her words are winning, because heās allowing them to. Because he loves and trusts and values and cares about her. Having Satoko in his mind was supposed to make up for all the bad that could and would ever happen to him, the one shred of happiness that made it all worth it. Itād make up for all his past pain and fill the void his trauma left, but instead he fights it head on by himself, itās his own strength from loving Satoko that fills that void, for his own sake. Love! Wins!
Itās so beautiful to see them learning how to love moment by moment throughout the story.
Thatās definitely one of Firefly Weddingās biggest strength and appeal I think. You can pinpoint in the characterās reaction the moment something clicks in them, the moment they realize something or when an emotion or fear kicks in, when a lesson is learned, all in just expression, body language and composition framingā¦
And this is our reward.
It is! It is healthier and happier than anything what Shinpei had asked for would have given! Itās getting better, beyond all of our wildest hopes!
Satoko got wet here to protect mere doodles representing her life plans with Shinpei, which isnāt exactly great for her health. Ultimately, on a small scale, risking herself for a very unimportant thing that however symbolizes something very important to her. Iāve had this thought before but itās interesting to think of how Shinpei is literally bad for Satokoās heart.
Besides the general stress of her situation or the time she chased after him out in the rain, I wonder if the jumpscares he regularly gives her by being naturally stealthy are physically bad for herā¦ This might be something that wonāt happen anymore, now that she has confessed and she isnāt as conscious around him anymore, but in the confession arc letās call it, it was a very recurring gag. Stress is a natural part of life and canāt be avoided, and trying to extend your lifespan to the theoretical maximum is a risky unsatisfying game, so Iām wondering if thatās true in some waysā¦ Itād go well with the mangaās themes I mentioned earlier, about how even if it isnāt the safest best bet you should embrace and pursue true love, and you should live your life fully and lively without overthinking. Sometimes knowingly potentially shortening your life for things that matter to you is worth it. He makes her heart beat, and is that truly such a bad thing?
Just before this we saw Shinpei give her his hand to help so her feet wouldnāt get wet. He wants to protect her fully, but weāve seen several times how Satoko is ready to endanger herself for Shinpei, even jumping into the fray to shield him. He wants to protect her, sometimes from himself, because he loves her, but because she loves him sheāll always take the more dangerous path for the chance of him being alive and happy. The both of them lovingly selfless, and their wishes incompatible because of this. To marry or not to marry, how to marry, who to marry, for whose sake? What way to go about it would maximize the otherās happiness and the fullness of their life?
The red string of fate tying their pinkies together forevermoreā¦ Something doomed to be undone sooner or later, by circumstance or inadvertance or accident.
Reality crashes back in. Her health, her health, her health.
Reality crashes back in in ripples through the scene, and then one final wave when other characters walk into the new scene with something serious and ominous to discuss. Satoko and Shinpei are in a little make believe world of euphoria right now but the audience dreads for the reality of things. Satokoās words talk of both living together forever, and of death, of living together forever until the end. Contradictory and irreconcilable you romanticize it into making sense.
The name of the chapter, "with you forever", is an impossible pipe dream of a lie. But thatās what Shinpei is hanging onto, and itās all that Satoko wants.
And so they fantasize about the future and talk their daydreams into reality, making each other promises about eternal love and house plans, children and celebrations and domestic routines, about a life together they very might never get to have.
#Theyāve got everything stacked against themmmm i need to see what next#firefly wedding#firefly marriage#hotaru no yomeiri#fumi rambles#Scene analysis#Spoilers#firefly wedding spoilers#Canāt believe we dodged a bullet with the miraculous wonder of: communication. Straight to god honest communication.#Trust in each other to have a talk and consider each otherās stances seriously wow#No wonder that other lady was jealous of their relationship damn
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it does not get easier to break up with friends . by the way. if you were wondering .
#like at this point. i do not have the patience or room in my heart for zionists#except for my grandparents. whose stance i will be nudging slowly toward center forever.#i am not willing any longer to have a relationship with someone who does not believe in a free palestine#nathaniel.txt
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blehhhhhhhhhh theres nothing that says Malenia has been betrayed or used. She believed in Miquella's cause and for good reason!! He has ALWAYS dedicated himself to her! He crafted the needle to quell the rot! He rejected Fundamentalism because it couldn't cure her, not himself! He built the Haligtree, partially as a haven to other rejects but partially as a way to cure his curse! And in finding a cure to his own, who is to say he wouldn't find one for hers? She waits for him not because he abandoned her, but because she knows he intends to come back as a god! Just because Miquella has this power to charm others does NOT necessarily mean he was using it on her! He never needed to because she's been faithful to him from the start! She knows she has no hope of becoming a god - one has already laid its claims on her and it is unraveling her very being. So she trusts in Miquella, and he busts his ass to help her. If he's just charming her into submission, what's the point of the statues in the Haligtree evidencing their closeness for everyone? What's the point of him even trying to cure her if he just sees her as a tool? What's the point of cutting himself off from the resources and protection of Leyndell and the royal family?
Her going to fight Radahn is not Miquella throwing her away. It's her believing so deeply in Miquella's plans that she would give everything to see them come to pass.
#i get ppl are angry about miq and radahn but like#that doesnt make the worst possible reading of the situation feasible#when we have all this evidence in the other direction#sote spoilers#shadow of the erdtree#the dlc didnt destroy their relationship#yall are by taking such an uncharitable stance#if you loved their closeness#nothing in the dlc took that away#elden ring malenia#malenia blade of miquella#miquella the unalloyed#wraith meta
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actually a big problem i have with romantic tacopad is that people don't even get them platonically. people don't really care about them on a platonic aspect and it shows. ouhhhh yeah yeah you like them kissing but do you actually get their thing outside of that???? do you get why mepad wants to help her? why he cares about her? why they actually work? and also do you care about mepad as a character? i think you just want to kiss taco and project onto the guy like no WAY everyone just suddenly likes tacopad because they actually get the ship
#tacopad neg#i am. open to romantic tacopad if it works out somehow on canon#but my stance on every taco ship is that she doesn't need nor want a romantic relationship. she's not on the right mental place to do that#and also genuinely if you have a taco bias just. don't reply to this post. i don't care#i am just thinking on stuff and it is kind of sad that tacopad could've been an complex ship but nope it is just people projecting cause uh#they want to kiss taco š or just like the whole taco is a girlboss thing#if you DO get them platonically this post isn't about you š#genuinely it is awesome that you do and we need more peeps like you however this is about people who don't do that
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saw someone say 'wish he'd tried a little harder' under harry's post.................what if i started shooting people in the head
#harry styles#liam payne#idk why this is the thing that's getting me here. maybe bc i have a lot of respect for harry styles and the way he presents himself#and his stance on feminism and womanhood and equality. he is a stand up guy. he doesn't owe anyone his grief#or his feelings or his thoughts on liam as a person. the liam he knew for the worst years of his life#the liam who was the rock of 1d who held them all up and kept them steady#THAT is who he is mourning. and whatever person liam became and whatever shape their relationship took in recent times#there will always be that bedrock of experience between them that does not go away.#how dare you demand more from this man? he's grieving an enormous loss - one that you as a fan cannot comprehend#one direction#why compare their posts? what good will it do?#yes it's entirely possible he did not write that post. because he has LOST SOMEONE#grow the fuck up and stop demanding a public prostation from people you have no claim on
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