#relationship stances

[jamiieeez]

Flags for general relationship stances, alterous relationships, queerplatonic relationships and observing

relationship favorable | relationship indifferent | relationship repulsed

relationship averse | relationship ambivalent | relationship oscillating

Relationship stances are for stances regarding all types of relationships.

alterous relationship favorable | alterous relationship indifferent | alterous relationship repulsed

alterous relationship averse | alterous relationship ambivalent | alterous relationship oscillating

qpr favorable | qpr indifferent | qpr repulsed

qpr averse | qpr ambivalent | qpr oscillating

observing favorable | observing indifferent | observing repulsed

observing averse | observing ambivalent | observing oscillating

Basically a relationship stance regarding observing/looking at people or however one would define a sort of "aesthetic relationship".

[theflaggerrrr]

" Relationship-Impulsed "

A relationship stance for those who feel impulsive towards relationships of any kind. Those who identify as this may constantly seek out a relationship, look for media that includes that relationship, etc.

Someone may identify as this due to mental/health conditions or addictions that make them seek out that relationship. This, of course, is not exclusive to anybody.

Alt versions (left to right):

Romance-Impulsive / Romo-Impulsive, Sex-Impulsive, Friendship-Impulsive & Touch-Impulsive

This is meant to be the opposite of Relationship-Repulsive and is not the same as Relationship-Favorable.

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[fate-of-the-envious]

How is canon Annabeth abusive?

You want a list?

Alright!

1. She constantly hits Percy. Kicking him in the shins, elbowing him in the ribs, punching him in the gut. Not to mention the judo flip scene. Also, this is never said to be done playfully whatsoever. And it's done constantly in EVERY book.

2. She always belittles and calls him stupid. Like his plans never work. Ha, they work more than hers! Also, the parallels of her calling him Seaweed Brain, when Gabe called him Brain Boy! Like how would you feel if you have a nickname constantly degrading your worst insecurities?! All the damn time! Not to mention Thalia, who Percy was the first person who helped her after she stopped being a tree, after spending the school year with Annabeth started calling Percy Kelp Head and viewing him as dumb. Annabeth who ignored Percy all this year, and was overall just selfish and mean when they met again.

3. Annabeth is so possessive of Percy. Even before they are dating (which doesn't make it any better when they are), Annabeth doesn't let Percy be friends with Rachel. Trying to drive a wedge between the two. And Percy, literally only has Grover and Annabeth for friends. He is so alone, he needs more friends! Oh, and then with Jason she interrupts the two of them chatting and trying to get along. Also, just how she doesn't like that Percy seems to like Camp Jupiter, like he can't seem to have his own differing plans from her.

4. Tartarus. Everything about that was so bad. Like in Tartarus, whom Percy fell down to FOR HER, Annabeth brings up Rachel because in her thoughts, she needs to keep her boyfriend on his toes. Like bitch! Then, we get to how she thinks Percy is so manipulative when he talks his way to get Bob to kill his brother. Like that isn't Annabeth's number 1 tactic. She's so fucking judgemental!

And then the scene with Akhlys in Tartarus. Where yes, Percy is being scary torturing this goddess who tried to poison them to death. But she just tried to kill them! He's saving their lives! And then, Annabeth makes Percy promise her to never use those powers again, because "Somethings aren't meant to be controlled." Like do you know how useful poison-bending could be to save lives? What difference does this make from using a sword to kill monsters when all of them are trying to kill and/or eat Demigods! Not to mention, if someone is poisoned, Percy could help heal them!

Next, because of how horrible Annabeth made Percy feel for using these powers he attempts suicide. After he gets out and faces Polybotes, who controls poison, he doesn't even try to save himself and says to Jason that he deserves to die by poison for what he did! He tried to kill himself! And Annabeth never talks to Percy about this again, and instead talks to Piper who thinks Percy needs to be restrained like he's some kind of monster when he was saving them! Percy is literally the most selfless and kind person out there. And Annabeth treats him like crap! She doesn't deserve him!

5. Percy isn't allowed to have bad thoughts on Luke. Luke, who's tried to kill him repeatedly since he was twelve! And in general, this ship is so toxic and codependent right now, it's in no way healthy.

Anyways sorry for my rant, but yeah Annabeth is abusive, and it's just so concerning how people possibly in elementary school are being exposed to this being a healthy relationship, where girlfriends can hit their boyfriends, and can stop them making friends with others, because they belong to them like some sort of object.

Yeah, I just relate to Percy so much, and I don't want him to deal with another Gabe.

Edit: Okay, for anyone who likes Annabeth or Percabeth, I don't care - you do you. You can like and dislike all the characters and ships you want, just as I can. So, if you disagree with what is said, that's fine, but don't expect me to change my stance when I have already pointed out several concerning behaviors. So, like good humans, we'll just have to agree to disagree and move on with our days.

[tackykachowch]

Idk if I'm gonna get jumped for this but....Iiii don't know if it's really appropriate to call Vander Jinx's dad. He definitely was her guardian, with huge uncle energy for sure, but dad? Like, dad is something really personal and requires a high level of closeness, and they didn't seem to share that bond. Out of all the kids Powder seemed to be the most removed from him and share very little traits/interests with him, and after growing up we don't see Jinx care about him at all. So, idk, to call him her dad seems more like a fanservice to me rather than what can be confirmed by the show.

He's defo her dad in the au, tho, because there he would spend a lot more time with her and because of Vi's death pay more attention to her, therefore tightening their bond.

UPD: I mean, Vander isn't even a part of her hallucinations. Now, you could argue that it's too traumatic for her even to remember him as is seen in season 1 ep9, but I think it's the opposite, actually. Knowing Silco he probably yapped about Vander all the time (and he literally does this in ep5), so Jinx definitely remembers him and thinks of him to some extent. But why then his hallucination appeared only once? Well, I think it only happened because Jinx was under extreme pressure already, plus she recently had a shimmer operation, which could've worsened her mental state, hence Vander appearing as a hallucination. Again, this is just how I see it, I may be wrong, but I do think this view of their relationship is rational enough.

[doctorsiren]

YAUYY}!!! I TOTES AGREE WITH THAT

and good god I was begging that you saw Edgeworth and Iris’ relationship as that as well

would it be too much to ask for a little bit more content of those three?? I just love seeing Phoenix being showered with love by two of his favorite people

they mean so much to me

[raayllum]

4x03 / 6x03

[hayaku14]

KAISHIN STANS WE EATING GOOD

[puzzlevision]

the episode didnt broke me, i broke the episode

[lonisaiou]

this turned out to be my last project of the semester and got me an amazing grade (thanks teacher for appreciating punk Marceline) (+hence I decided to make her human instead of vampire, which isnt a big of a difference, just the ears lol)

enjoy my most beloved Human Marceline in all her punk glory

[proshippers-against-censorship]

How to tell if you're developing/having a parasocial relationship, or you just admire the person a lot? I need help, I can't figure it out

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...

Followers?

[chimerickat]

Seto was playing with the children earlier, and now his tie is askew. You follow him as he heads toward the stage and grab his arm. "Let me fix your tie." You pull him off to the side.

The tie hangs loose and part of it has gotten stuck in his jacket. You reach for the knot with one hand and hold the tongue with your other. It only takes a moment to readjust and tighten it. Then you tuck it in properly.

He places his hands over yours, holding them to his chest. When you look up, the expression on his face is serious, hungry.

He would kiss you if you weren't in a crowded room. You can see the desire in his eyes. You drop your eyes down to his chest. It's hard to look directly at him when his gaze is so intense.

"Maybe next year we can spend New Year's Eve alone?" you suggest.

"It would be preferable to this."

You flatten your palms against his chest as releases your hands. Under the guise of pretending to straighten his shirt, you let your hands run over his broad chest, feeling his muscles through his shirt.

You look back up. His desire is still plain to see. It makes your heart beat faster knowing he wants to grab you and kiss you.

His hand cups your cheek. "I want you to be the first thing I see in the new year."

[jamiieeez]

Relationshipstances for emotional, physical and tertiary relationships

emotional relationship

positive | indifferent | repulsed

averse | ambivalent | oscillating

physical relationship

positive | indifferent | repulsed

averse | ambivalent | oscillating

tertiary relationship

positive | indifferent | repulsed

averse | ambivalent | oscillating

Here are my posts to the aemotional flags[link], aphysical flags[link] and atertiary flags[link].

[theflaggerrrr]

" MediaSexStance "

A term for people whose stances on sexual relationships change whenever they interact with or see media that includes those types of relationships.

" MediaSexStance-Fav (top left), MediaSexStance-Rep (top right), MediaSexStance-Ave (middle left), MediaSexStance-Osc (middle right), MediaSexStance-Ind (bottom left) and MediaSexStance-Amb (bottom right) "

A term for people whose stances on sexual relationships change to favorable/repulsed/averse/oscillating/indifferent/ambivalent whenever they interact with or see media that includes those types of relationships.

Note: These can be shortened to MSxS!

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[phoenixisobsessed]

Hi guys I’m actually feeling too overwhelmed about tomorrow’s exam to draw catformer today so I hand you a doodle. (The next one is so good though I’m actually excited to draw it.)

I need to destroy him so bad

[direquail]

I don’t get this dichotomy of “do you see them as platonic or romantic”. Yes. I will read a zillion fics of them platonically. I will read a zillion fics of them fucking nasty and/or in love. I will read a zillion fics of them fucking platonically. Free your mind. Nice dichotomy idiot what lies outside it

[wraith-caller]

blehhhhhhhhhh theres nothing that says Malenia has been betrayed or used. She believed in Miquella's cause and for good reason!! He has ALWAYS dedicated himself to her! He crafted the needle to quell the rot! He rejected Fundamentalism because it couldn't cure her, not himself! He built the Haligtree, partially as a haven to other rejects but partially as a way to cure his curse! And in finding a cure to his own, who is to say he wouldn't find one for hers? She waits for him not because he abandoned her, but because she knows he intends to come back as a god! Just because Miquella has this power to charm others does NOT necessarily mean he was using it on her! He never needed to because she's been faithful to him from the start! She knows she has no hope of becoming a god - one has already laid its claims on her and it is unraveling her very being. So she trusts in Miquella, and he busts his ass to help her. If he's just charming her into submission, what's the point of the statues in the Haligtree evidencing their closeness for everyone? What's the point of him even trying to cure her if he just sees her as a tool? What's the point of cutting himself off from the resources and protection of Leyndell and the royal family?

Her going to fight Radahn is not Miquella throwing her away. It's her believing so deeply in Miquella's plans that she would give everything to see them come to pass.