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I hate bitcyws 💔💔💔
#tgis 1 'friend'#i hope she dies#i hat her#she told me tgat technically my dad or grandad wont be able to walk me up the aile#lol#tells me to kms for talkinh#its not my fault her face build like a tortilla chip#that friend group is so toxic#ughffghh#they all hate me#except 4 one of my pookies#🤞🤞🤞😜😜😜#also told everyone my sis died without me knowing
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"Why do you care so much about accidentally leaving people out?" Because I've had friend groups where they were the planets and I was their Pluto.
I've had friend groups where our dynamics revolved around a Sun, with everyone vying for their attention if only to bask in their light for a mere moment. Where our thinly strung bonds collapsed the second our Sun left.
I've had friend groups where they bonded as Saturn's rings, finding solace in their shared shortcomings while isolating those more talented than them.
But I've also had friend groups where we bond as Neptune and Uranus—so similar we could be known as twins. Friend groups like Venus and Earth: so awfully different, yet it was those differences that kept us together.
And I would rather create a social system like the latter than the former.
#social system see what i did there (solar system)#idk man i'm sleep deprived this is so half-assed BYE#hayatheauthor#haya sameer#writing community#writer things#writing advice#writer community#haya: writes#friend group#friendship#toxic friends#toxic frienship#poetry#spilled poetry#words words words#short poetry#spilled ink#creative writing#writing stuff#writing inspiration#writeblr#writer stuff#writer
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Basketball bad boys, anyone?
Yeah, so these are my Kirisaki Daiichi redesigns. The uncrowned kings and their respective squads have all the fun potential and I intend to use it.
Kirisaki Daiichi and Hanamiya being the most slept on team for character design of them all because you can’t make a canonical “bad boy” team and not have them be emo, goth, and punk for the funsies. For the visual “pen egg chest qua” (je ne sais quoi). For the fun, stereotypical edgelord flair we all deserve to indulge in every now and then.
Makoto’s og design simply didn’t scream spider enough for me and I was tired of so many key characters having this longish, same shade of black hair (him, Himuro, Mibuchi, etc). Like, I know giving the black and brown a colored tint can subtract from the uniqueness of the GOM, but not even a little? So, yeah, fuck allat, I’m using desaturated colors every now and then.
I also loved drawing Makoto in some casual clothes and much needed drip. Villains are required to serve most. I wanted to draw the rest of them in some casual outfits because trust Kojiro and honestly all of them dress immaculately but life and time restraints. Maybe later.
Story wise, each player and Makoto maybe have their own reasons for turning to hurting others through basketball and I hope you catch some of the story threads I threw in. Whether or not they deserve or have the capacity to change is entirely up to you all with Makoto having the most potential to be entirely complex or cartoonishly evil (I like both). I’m a sucker for a bit of character complexity and things that leave room for interpretation.
Sometimes knb can be very black and white in its themes…
Well, let me know what you all think! Thank you, for everyone’s kind words and support. See ya!
#kuroko no basket#knb#knb fanart#knb kirisaki daiichi#hanamiya makoto#furuhashi kojiro#hara kazuya#seto kentaro#yamazaki hiroshi#matsumoto itsuki#knb redesigns#my tofu art#here ya go guys#hope you enjoy#my coloring got better#maybe?#yeah everyone wanted more redesigns so I postponed the rakuzan extras#theyll be back though#they are the toxic friend group to rakuzan’s found family#last fucking repost#i was too burnt out to be funny and characters like these demand precision#i apologize#I lied now I’m done
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Lrb dear god, this reminded me of that time when Alfred-chan got sooooo mad at my post explaining why fans should respect bisexual headcanons for Maria and Malenia instead of pretending like they're canonically lesbians and that they get oppressed and erased by mxf ships with them. They kept vagueing that post for like a MONTH in their blog including in tags under reblogs of Maria fanart, passively-aggressively changed their url to character+sexuality to "spite" me and then even made a sockpuppet account to start shit with me in the comments.
They deactivated when me and Val completely obliterated their "you cultivate lesbiphobic following by telling people why they should respect all sexuality headcanons instead of acting cultish or assuming their experiences and stereotypes equal canon confirmation" garbage with actual facts and logic tho but I screenshotted everything fjthfgfj (I learned to document everything the hard way after they've changed the she/they pronouns to they/they pronouns ONLY to accuse me of misgendering, so thank you for making me wiser I guess 😎). Even more vile, as they, a white person, larped as an Arab in that sockpuppet to hold even MORE "privilege" against me in discussion gjtjfh Because for them race, gender or sexuality are just badges of honor and dishonor, they don't see these as traits of actual human beings. And Dr Eugene X, who worked with them and weaponized her race to accuse everyone who disagreed with her of racism, didn't bat an eye at such a terrible act too?? As usual, rules are not for their friends, lol
It is not even the worst thing Alfred did, and yet all of this just, just, JUST because I wrote a point on why bisexual headcanon people did nothing wrong and there is no ground to claim something is canon when it isn't. 🤦♂️ Like, they were soooo convinced that I hated lesbian headcanons and that I'd feel angry if they called Lady Maria a lesbian, when what I was angry at is this exact toxic behavior in the fandom. No matter how much you like a headcanon, don't be a bitch about it. Maria doesn't """belong""" to any gender or sexuality, she belongs to anyone who likes her and is invested in her complexity as a character!!!
Yet, apparently, common Malenia simps / Finlay shippers are no better than common Maria simps / Mariadeline shippers. Just, wild how after shit like this, many people have the guts to claim that it is "sexist redditbros" who are the biggest problem of creators in the fandom. 🤦♂️ They'd actually blush if they encountered what such self-proclaimed "feminists" do to their own (!!!) over headcanons. 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
#also fuck anna for thinking shit like this and way worse things alfred did is not as evil and toxic as#as me snapping at her for DEFENDING alfred#wiki: I can excuse stalking harassment cultish shunning bullying fantomette lying slander weaponizing identity but-#-I draw the line at katy getting too emotional when I admit as much uwu#granted she did admit that the reason for this is because alfred didnt concern her personally#she is probably the person I'll forgive last in this situation if ever#as much as I hate alfred they clearly have no empathy and compassion and lie for medical reasons#it isn't my assumptions they often reblogged this shit#I know mental illness is not an excuse for so much harassment for variety of reasons but-#-why would someone want to change if they medically can't feel guilt for their actions?#I feel bad for them and they hopefully will get help#as for Eugene idk... they seem to be a typical brainwashed youth#such people either change with age or get strongly bitten in the ass and get reality check#granted people who still follow her did admit she goes head hunting and then plays victim#as well as they only keep in touch because they worry they'll be dragged down if they are not at her good side#rather than because they like her posts (which are so untrue to BB that she can just make OCs anyways)#choir boy is literally just mindless sheep that didnt even have dignity to make it personal#hence is the name#I am sure he is lovely in his own circle it just doesn't concern me or my friend#but anna?#she knew what she was doing and has no excuse#fandomry rambles#it is also funny how they are four cringe failures and us are four based people#best AND worst groups come in four lol#also I know you all are dying to know how I can still hold grudges year later right?#it is hard to explain#I live normally and recover and not think of it but then scar starts to hurt#like you know how physical scars can react to weather or shit? mental can too
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How bad is it that every time Dan and Phil do something incredibly married (joint Instagram posts) I go wait this is such a good idea I should start doing this with my besties. Why was my aquarium post not a joint post??? What am I doing??
#dnp#lou is loud#phan#dan and phil#part of the point of my aquarium Instagram post was to flex to members of an old friend group that my bestie and I still talk#and in fact hang out and have a stronger bond than anyone in that friend group has with each other#we escaped the toxic situation together you feel#anyways#not many ppl who follow me on tumblr also follow me on instagram so no one knows what I’m talking about#all the context you really need is we went to the aquarium together and it was fun
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So I think I'm over my Obey Me Phase or like at least over Nightbringer because it's Season was shit but just you know food for thought...
Aint it funny how MC is now completely isolated from other humans/their friends/family/pets?
Like my friend and I were talking about it and like imagine MC has HUMAN/MORTAL family and friends that they talk to every time they were separated from the brothers. Like whenever the Immortals really tries them or pushes them they can go to their human friends for like a palate cleanser and a clear head/remind themselves and ground them to the reality of their situation/support from NOT blind lemmings. Like sort of remind them that they're still human and not on the same playing field as immortal Demons/Angels/Sorcerers
But now in Nightbringer that's literally stripped from them; MC has NO ONE outside of the Brothers/Immortals they're literally FORCED to bond with their circle of dysfunctionals and its like now you are stuck in that toxic friend circle because literally your circle of support hasn't been born/exist yet. That's fucking horrific.
No wonder MC is far more clingy and annoying in Nightbringer than they are in OG; Every lesson is a chip away at their original personality and sanity to replace it to the codependent creep MC is now lol.
#obey me nightbringer#obey me#obey me MC#obey me nightbringer MC#MC is so fucking annoying this is the only headcanon i can work with#No but like its so creepy because i always imagined MC balanced their human life and their Devildom life to stay rational but now#Well now with no circle of human/mortal supporters like their friends and family theyre literally forced to cling to the brothers#Its so terrifying about Nightbringer thats why Im still so upset we're stuck in the Past#Its shit like this that makes me unable to enjoy Time Travel Shit like I want to go for Boba with my friends but I cant do that#No i cant do that because I got a toxic friend group to babysit#No but like MC seems more stupid and clingy so my guess is theyre mentally unraveling to the point they just dont want to be alone#Like begging for validation and attention from anyone especially the immortals#Pray for MC theyre going into their codependent phase now#Don't worry; just like with real friends theyre not gonna break out of this for years until they get the courage#Which we all know MC doesnt have the balls to drop the brothers/Immortals like bad habits lol#Ima play with this headcanon until MC stops sucking or we go back to the future.#I miss MC's family and friends who have to live with the fact the immortals took them from them again
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I really wish that antis stopped using real life sa victims in their shit especially since they tell real life sa victims that we deserved our assaults cos we all handle our trauma differently.
#sa mention#proship#fandom discourse#fiction is the closest i can feel to normal cos my severe ptsd irl makes me violent if strangers so much as brush up against me#we all handle it differently and yes i write utterly fucked up shit to desensitize myself & somehow managed to stabilized through the years#despite me still having my snappy “scary” moments if people touch me without permission and i punched a dude for standing too close to my#back. he was literally smelling me and i lost my shit and now im banned from that walgreens but meh#now im unloading in the tags but if you're an anti sincerely gfy cos y'all literally attack sa victims on here like its your day job#y'all also don't know the first thing about psychology cos guess who's a psychologist here??? yes this unhinged bitch that covers up like a#gothic church mommy and cusses like a trucker is an actual professional in the field. i studied thinking studying psychology would make me#cope better... it somewhat did help but i should have just gone to a therapist rather than bottling in a going to a freaking university#yes i troll and say fucked up shit on here. this is a social media for my fandom shit so i aint gonna act like the doc i was ages ago and#fiction actually can help some people (especially those like me who are still having violent ptsd eps affecting them) little by little#retake their lives back#there's other forms of therapy but not everything works for everyone and its ridiculous to put all victims under the same umbrella#and its condescending and ignorant af to expect all sa victims to be your perfect little victims of convenience and treat us like crap cos#not all of us fit your toxic narrative of attacking freaking fake people in a nonexistent fictional world.#i have friends that are sa victims that can't handle it in fiction but they know thats my mechanism. since im a now retired professional#i have done everything i can to help them cos yes there's multiple ways to help victims cope with this. even regression exercises help#but that's another thing#and it involves multiple sessions. i no longer practice but can teach people some techniques to regulate their emotions in high stress#situations cos the aftermath of sa is brutal regardless of how you cope with it#you'll need a support group to catch you when you can't handle it sometimes. you're not alone or broken. pls know this
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i made so much rae/animatronic related art lately and i don't even bother posting it because it seems like the fandom on here is either dead or has me blocked for some reason [i literally don't even know why] like what's the point in posting if no ones even gonna see it
#ive found at least 4 people i dont even remember ever interacting with has me blocked#and it makes me scared that people from my old toxic 'friend' group from 2-3 years ago were spreading lies about me or something#and it genuinely keeps me up at night or gives me nightmares about it sometimes#and its not good for my mental health#so idk i guess thats why i havent posted as much
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more oc stuff 🎉 i love divorce
#duck ocs#duck scribbles#doodles#i love toxic yuri 👍#suddenly wanted a last min addition to my art fight chara list so i scrambled to put these together some time ago jkdsjkgdhsgd#its a mess but. its legible i hope#anyways theyre in their what. mid/late 30s. theyre in love they hate each other they know each other better than anyone else they tried to#kill each other several times theyre childhood friends they both want to fix things they both cant forgive the other theyve been in and#still are in love with the other theyd rather die than say it out loud. the usual#nikolai on the left is a questionable mentor figure !! olivia on the right one of the guys trying to take the main 5's powers for this#evil (?) group shes part of and joining it being the cause of how the two drifted apart in the first place#well their relationship is irreparable. probably. who knows i havent thoguht that far (lie) (i have) (theyre fine now. no theyre not)
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also there was this smart gay girl who came to my school for a levels and became friends with the friend group I used to be in in year ten (comparatively way less toxic than another group I hung out with (I was a group hopper I was disloyal but really I didn't fit in anywhere so I'm the victim and I've never done anything wrong. never forget this) but still kind of shitty and just NOT conducive to being gay in that group at all that was not the vibe) and all I could think about was how we'd probably be so close if we got the chance to talk and also I needed to save her from that group. but anyway it never happened. maybe she absolutely loved those guys it's not my business. but let me sound like a cunt for a second. she was better than them. sorry. low-key if I just initiated a conversation with her it could've changed the trajectory of my life. or maybe it would have fizzled out in a week idk. anyway there's a little backstory drop that basically tells you nothing at all except that I was and am kind of a bitch. heart!
#they were just so. fake and perfect and fake and talking to them i felt like a completely different person#and they just would not have been cool with me being gay they wouldn't have they would on the surface but#it would be painful... especially this one girl who frankly we had a WEIRD ass relationship I won't delve into#which is why i haddddd to hop to a friendship group full of the most toxic gay people you've ever met in your life....#and that's how i became real close friends with my current best friend who I've been thru it allllll with#and now we'll often reminisce on how evil that group was. so it all worked out 🧘#goodbye for real now 🛌🛌🛌🛌🛌
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Thoughts on Grima in FEH? I personally am a big enjoyer of this horrible little guy getting picked up by the scruff and dragged kicking and screaming into therapy by the summoner.
OOF... UNFORTUNATELY... I have zero complex thoughts about Grima 😅 I do think it's interesting, from the many Grima and Robin interactions in FEH, that there's almost this self-fulfilling prophecy to it, like Grima believes no matter what they Have to be this way. That all roads lead to this, and there's no changing it. And in believing that, they make it their reality.
HOWEVER. I do get really stuck on just. How they talk. Top Ten Least Effective Insults: Worm.
They are like middle school bullies to me...... at least in FEH specifically where they will just harass Robin to no end LMFAOOO (and anyone else they have a bone to pick with)
I do think they can have a little therapy. As a treat :) (they could use it.)
#ask answered!#feh#ksjskjsks i am so sorry... this has been sitting for a little while. i've been a bit distracted 🫡#i def recommend going to the local grima experts. my head is so empty when it comes to them LMFAOOO#group therapy session for all the feh characters who are from/survived/are the direct cause of the apocalypse#i think they could benefit from that.#maybe split off into various groups though. the gen 2 awakening kids would hunt them for sport#i just want an excuse to bring lif into this scenario LMFAOOOOO i cannot help myself 😅🫡#actually... i do feel like there's potential here. for shenanigans.#one thing about me is all of the special interest is stored in the alfonse fire emblem.#nightmare therapy session. put grima timeskip dimitri (doesn't fit the prev criteria BUT fits the vibe) and lif together.#i think they all should hunt each other for sport. and end up in the most toxic self-destructive friend group ever.#grima#moe tag#summoner oc#my art
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I just think it would be funny if we called troy x britta/tritta or whatever they're called michael jackson² 😞
#im so creative/j#okay okay I think this is kind of an unpopular opinion but#I didn't mind tritta in s3...#don't get me wrong trobed for life but at the same time#I think it made sense for them to get together at that point#troy was the only one who appreciated her at times where everyone else was like “britta's the worst!”#britta also played a part in helping troy get over his toxic masculinity#and it was cool to see her have this arc of realizing she deserves better than the douchebags she usually dates#also it's literally the dumb and dumber dynamic#they're the biggest sweethearts of the study group imo💔#I don't think they were meant to end up together but I wish we got some development and atleast a few good moments of them as a couple#to be honest these things don't have to be romantic though I like them as friends too!!#I just realized I went on a whole ass rant sorry yall#michael jackson² yayyy#troy barnes#britta perry#tritta#troy x britta#community tv#community nbc
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we'll grow out of it, surely
#edward nashton#fanart#doodles#au enseñanza media#i apologize for my handwriting#i think joker would write like i do#the first one i did bc i love those relationship charts they do in manga sometimes#i had trouble bc i underestimated the space id need lol#the second one is just a few moments#i like thinking that ed easily fights with jon but has trouble fighting the other two#he puts bruce too much on a pedestal and joker is his first friend#so he sees jon enough as his equal to be able to bicker and nag him#the third one is because in my head the only one who has virgin hair is ed#bruce and jon are box-dyed and joker has his lovely green toxic sludge hair#so i drew the first time ed asked them to dye his hair#theyre in bruce's bathroom#and they gave ed a cool forest green streak#and i imagine theyre sticking out their tongues bc they saw bruce do it involuntarily and wanted to make fun of him#jon started it#i dont have any more sketches for this au right now#if i ever make more i'll slowly post them instead of grouping a bunch together like this#thank you for making it this far¡¡ have a wonderful day¡¡<3
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OMG OMG I HAVE A NEW FRIEND!!!💛💛💛💛
#pennie for your thoughts☀️#i didnt think this would happen so soon!!#TAKE THAT old TOXIC friend group!!#this is healing!!
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there is a certain type of niigo fan that NEEDS to have everything be about n25. and they almost exclusively express that when people are talking about l/n or mmj
#rbs off for this one it just pisses me off so bad that i need to talk abt it#three separate times now i've been talking about JUST leo/need. and someone has come in like “omg but nightcord”#GIRL IDGAF!!! THIS AIN'T ABOUT THEM!!!!!!!#like. i was talking about my favorite leo/need cards in a discord server with some friends and some guy butted in and started talking-#-abt the bug set like. are mafuyu and mizuki in l/n? no? then WHY DID YOU BRING IT UP??!???#and then just now i was talking about how if they do wedding next year it has to be l/n#and someone goes “haha yeah shiho5 wedding where they're just bridesmaids for the mizuena wedding event of the century”#and it's like. every time i literally just roll my eyes so far back into my head. LIKE CAN YOU NOT.#that second one extra pisses me off because i know it was BARELY a joke. n25 wedding is off the table bc wl is right after#so instead of just letting l/n fans hope for wedding they HAD to be like “lol what if it was nightcord” STOP!!!! JESUS FUCKING CHRIST#ok im done being toxic. i am just so tired of people constantly shutting down any conversations about l/n#and it sucks worse from niigo fans bc like. that's not even a group with guys in it.#like most of the vbs and wxs “fans” that do that are just straight misogynists that can't hold a conversation about any girls#but like with niigo im just???? what is driving this decision. what is happening here.
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"The longer we can keep building, the longer we can keep creating, the longer we can tolerate being incomplete."
- Chuck Palahniuk, Choke
#chuck palahniuk#choke#quote#this continues my theory that choke is the reprise to fight club#the idea that love and community is the answer above all#these social ills and megative feelings that people have is due to the lack of love and community that we (americans#/men) have today#a theme of fight club often forgotten#its a real problem that men struggle to forge deep meaningful connections with other people#so they do things like find a gf asap and then treat her terribly#or forge the most toxic and evil friend group (project mayhem#) and only get worse through each other#(project mayhem/alt-right pipelines#common areas#for men to find support from other men#the answer to these social problems is creating more healthy outlets for young men#building more loving environments and communities for them to feel safe in
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